Tango123:


How often have u dated who earns less than u.

Check urself. U and ur current boyfriend, or husband, who spends more on the other?

The answer to this question will tell u all u need to know about the parasitic nature of the love of many women in Nigeria.

OH well, I don't date because of what he has in his pockets though.

LINTUNE:
shut the Bleep up too, do u think the boy parents are financially ok too, what if he is the one currently providing for the family right now, due to harship, why u gals so selfish in ur perception , why do gals weaponise sex all the time, can u marry an impotent man, or a man with no dick, every time u place so much value on sex..just Bleep off, im sure the OP is even better than u, cos atleast she feels kinda guilty for even conceieving the taught of extorting from her bf, yes i call its extortion cos of the hard time we are in...i am a final year student(500l) and also working, so i understand how hard it is to make money this period ....anyways ill be expecting ya broke shaming , as usual, no be nairaland gals again?..

It's a simple something. She asks, if him get, he'll give. If he doesn't, she'll look for other means. Simple. Chikena. Instead una dey foam for mouth. Abeg swerve

IMAMofPEACE:



I laugh at your foolery
You had to go use your second account to counter people

It seems you missed the part that they are both students, and she said the guy do give her in the past.

I also saw the part you said they are both in a relationship so they should ask each other for money, but why is it when you date in Nigeria, most times it is the ladies asking for money? Why?

Why is it in Nigeria, relationship has become a poverty alleviation scheme to some? Why?


See forget all those things OP is saying above, if the thing she really need the money for is tangible and makes sense, trust me she would have found a way to tell her boo.


All what I can see from your comment is entitlement mentality. People like you, if you date a man, the man must be the one to buy you soap, cream, sanitary pad and so on. Because all what you have been saying since morning, it is all written all over it.


Please go get a life and earn a living and stop depending on people for menial things, that way "see finish" can be reduced to the nearest minimum.

Guy abeg no pour me spit via nairaland abeg.. Shuooooooo. How much is d lady asking for skill acquisition sef. Mtcheeeew.

IMAMofPEACE:



Your last sentence, reasonable mature males full there.. I just can't laughing

Last last na your type go sleep with married man to get what you want.

You can't even say reasonable matured females they there. Na male first come your head..


This your prove my earlier point which state you have a very big entitlement mentality, and is ready to drain anyone who manages to date you

You talk as if all married men are rich... Mtcheeeew. That thing that's paining u should paining u well. And no, no man has ever bought sanitary pad for me apart from my dad. Highest I'll give him the money to assist me. Financial independence in Bae and cannot b downplayed. Personally I pity ladies going into relationships without having up to 20k to their name... Quite pathetic.

emmaodet:



Watching zeeworld and surfing Instagram

Chairman. ...


Now they won't let son of man to rest.

Tango123:


Sir, u may be correct

But put it this way, because i am not shouldering all famiky responsibility while she is saving her money. Instead family bills are shared equitably

Because i have a lot of savings and investments in my name, and i encourage her to do same in her name

Because our joint investment is in our 2 names

So, if she wants to leave, i wave her goodbye. I am not d looser. Neither is she. We wave goodbye to each other

I think men get angry and upset if they were tricked to carry all financial burdens, and omce the woman leaves hem they feel cheated. To avoid that, be wise from day 1

Well, I get the angle you coming from, you trying to balance the equation whereby no party av the feelings of being used.

SweetCunt97:
It's a simple something. She asks, if him get, he'll give. If he doesn't, she'll look for other means. Simple. Chikena. Instead una dey foam for mouth. Abeg swerve

why should she ask, is he is fatger, or dont she have relatives ..u gals are so entitled to a mans money, yet u want to be equal with men..how many times have u seen guys begging gals for money? .taught u would broke shame me as usual, im really surpised u didn't, anyways change ya mentality, its ur type that wont be able to leave an abusive marriage, even when it threatens ur life, simply because ur husband is ur all and all(without him, u will go back to square of being wretched financially)..dont quote me again..

LINTUNE:
why should she ask, is he is fatger, or dont she have relatives ..u gals are so entitled to a mans money, yet u want to be equal with men..how many times have u seen guys begging gals for money? .taught u would broke shame me as usual, im really surpised u didn't, anyways change ya mentality, its ur type that wont be able to leave an abusive marriage, even when it threatens ur life, simply because ur husband is ur all and all(without him, u will go back to square of being wretched financially)..dont quote me again..

Pls shut it. If he can beg for pvssy, she can beg for money. Finito

SweetCunt97:
Pls shut it. If he can beg for pvssy, she can beg for money. Finito

since u value ya oussy so much, why not die single as a virgin ..

SweetCunt97:
Shut up! You think if her parents are OK, she'll be having such thoughts? As long as they in a relationship, it's perfectly fine for her to share her worries with him. Abi is a relationship about sex and groovy freaky?

You'll be here asking her why she no work yen yen yen, If e Easy We wouldn't Have OLD GRADUATES AND FAMILY PEOPLE LITTERED ON NAIRALAND ASKING FOR MONEY naaa.

Una go just dey type rubbish... Frustrated souls. I'm even disappointed at ednut1, upon say u don jand you still never polish ur sense.

Am not surprised by what exuded from ur vocal cavity via ur small fingers cause this the precedence u have set for your self going through your profile. When they go low I have chosen to go high always, would not condicent so low to make us equals.....
As long as it is, though bitter no man owe you NO MONEY in a relationship, it's symbiotic and not a parasitic relationship... Go get a life and stop this madness on public fora.

WonderWoman5775:
Hello everyone, this is my first time seeking advice here on nairaland and this is something I just can't get my mind around..
My relationship with my boyfriend will be 2yrs next month and our relationship have only come this far as a result of understanding and love we have for each other... He's a student just like me and all this while I never asked him for money unless he gives me himself, but he doesn't always do so
We are in our finals and he has been working throughout the corona period and I think he has been able to save money... I need money right now and I don't know how to ask him..
I never asked all this while when school was in
session because I don't want to put pressure on him... I don't know how to tell him that I need money because he won't give me voluntarily..

If it's for something really important and not something uneccasary then just talk to him be honest.

idahme:




Am not surprised by what exuded from ur vocal cavity via ur small fingers cause this the precedence u have set for your self going through your profile. When they go low I have chosen to go high always, would not condicent so low to make us equals.....
As long as it is, though bitter no man owe you NO MONEY in a relationship, it's symbiotic and not a parasitic relationship... Go get a life and stop this madness on public fora.

Definitely. Symbiotic relationship. My man giving me money doesn't make it non symbiotic Mr Man. Stop thinking one way jor. There's more to a relationship than money

proclinician:
Hmmm God forbid evil spirit. Through out corona he is working, risking it all while you're doing what? Fixing lashes? Now the money he made throughout the period u want him to give them to u is that it? Nawaoo. Go and make ur own money na... Are u disabled? Like no arm or no leg sort of?

chai no chill at all

please don't ask him to avoid soiling your image. don't try to do something because every girl does it. safeguard your purity and good morals.

Preshieben:
you are a disgrace

Preshio!

It's been a while you posted on NL.I hope you're fine.

Albertone:
Preshio!

It's been a while you posted on NL.I hope you're fine.

yeah i'm fine dear...just on da low

SweetCunt97:
Guy abeg no pour me spit via nairaland abeg.. Shuooooooo. How much is d lady asking for skill acquisition sef. Mtcheeeew.

just shut up already woman and stop disgracing your family here

what do you mean how much is she asking for?? is that the issue here?? that money you call little, do you have it and ur asking for it?? it's just like giving a sick person say 1k to buy drugs maybe for malaria and save his life then when he gets well he is like " how much did you give me sef" forgetting you just saved his life.

that statement alone summarises everything wrong with your brain, even if it's 1naira but you need it so it's valuable, value of a thing is measured by it's need, that's why if you remove 1 naira from 1 million ur no more a millionaire.

Preshieben:
yeah i'm fine dear...just on da low

Glad you're fine.

Care to tell why you're on the low?

klenton:


just shut up already woman and stop disgracing your family here

what do you mean how much is she asking for?? is that the issue here?? that money you call little, do you have it and ur asking for it?? it's just like giving a sick person say 1k to buy drugs maybe for malaria and save his life then when he gets well he is like " how much did you give me sef" forgetting you just saved his life.

that statement alone summarises everything wrong with your brain, even if it's 1naira but you need it so it's valuable, value of a thing is measured by it's need, that's why if you remove 1 naira from 1 million ur no more a millionaire.

You don't understand that when you support your partner, you indirectly supporting yourself cos if she becomes successful and u fall in bad times or things ain't as they are, she can support. That's d angle una dull brain no dey assimilate. Una go carry load like tortoise, when things bad, everybody go suffer join. Support ur women, empower them.

Albertone:
Glad you're fine.
Care to tell why you're on the low?

nothing tho

Preshieben:
nothing tho

Okay If you say so.I just miss your liveliness and your playfulness

Let's talk on whatsapp.

Albertone:
Okay If you say so.I just miss your liveliness and your playfulness

Let's talk on whatsapp.

oh no
Not here
Can't drop my number here

Wonderwoman, you don't sound entitled. For you to find it difficult to ask, as other girls easily do, it means you're smart and you love him.

I have the line to get anything from any man — even stingy men like us, but I won't tell you.

Anyway, all the best.

WonderWoman5775:
Hello everyone, this is my first time seeking advice here on nairaland and this is something I just can't get my mind around..
My relationship with my boyfriend will be 2yrs next month and our relationship have only come this far as a result of understanding and love we have for each other... He's a student just like me and all this while I never asked him for money unless he gives me himself, but he doesn't always do so
We are in our finals and he has been working throughout the corona period and I think he has been able to save money... I need money right now and I don't know how to ask him..
I never asked all this while when school was in
session because I don't want to put pressure on him... I don't know how to tell him that I need money because he won't give me voluntarily..

feel free to ask from him because if he is in a tight position too, he will have to ask from u. The problem is he may not actually have

Preshieben:
oh no
Not here
Can't drop my number here

Okay.How about dropping it in DM?

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
feel free to ask from him because if he is in a tight position too, he will have to ask from u. The problem is he may not actually have

I have no problem with your advice.The only problem here is how you get to type your moniker whenever you want to login to NL

iLegendd:
Wonderwoman, you don't sound entitled. For you to find it difficult to ask, as other girls easily do, it means you're smart and you love him.

I have the line to get anything from any man — even stingy men like us, but I won't tell you.

Anyway, all the best.

Did you study psychology?

WonderWoman5775:
Hello everyone, this is my first time seeking advice here on nairaland and this is something I just can't get my mind around..
My relationship with my boyfriend will be 2yrs next month and our relationship have only come this far as a result of understanding and love we have for each other... He's a student just like me and all this while I never asked him for money unless he gives me himself, but he doesn't always do so
We are in our finals and he has been working throughout the corona period and I think he has been able to save money... I need money right now and I don't know how to ask him..
I never asked all this while when school was in
session because I don't want to put pressure on him... I don't know how to tell him that I need money because he won't give me voluntarily..

Api Sunday to u/ur family.Give us update about ur thread make we shot haters up

Stop arguing with poor/unfortunate pipu dat wear one boxer for 1 week.Pipu like dat like free thing.Ask that one to drop his Bank acc for jara.He’ll smile like a typical thief and drop number like it is hot.Somebody like dat that insulted d OP was caught codely begging Nairalanders here.Useless set of pipu

SweetCunt97:
You don't understand that when you support your partner, you indirectly supporting yourself cos if she becomes successful and u fall in bad times or things ain't as they are, she can support. That's d angle una dull brain no dey assimilate. Una go carry load like tortoise, when things bad, everybody go suffer join. Support ur women, empower them.

Albertone:
Okay.How about dropping it in DM?

cool

WonderWoman5775:
Hello everyone, this is my first time seeking advice here on nairaland and this is something I just can't get my mind around..
My relationship with my boyfriend will be 2yrs next month and our relationship have only come this far as a result of understanding and love we have for each other... He's a student just like me and all this while I never asked him for money unless he gives me himself, but he doesn't always do so
We are in our finals and he has been working throughout the corona period and I think he has been able to save money... I need money right now and I don't know how to ask him..
I never asked all this while when school was in
session because I don't want to put pressure on him... I don't know how to tell him that I need money because he won't give me voluntarily..

Op, Go Work, Don't Fold Ur Arms & Legs & Expect Manna Money To Fall.

Truvel:
Op, Go Work, Don't Fold Ur Arms & Legs & Expect Manna Money To Fall.

okay