I'll tell you a story about my generation.
We lost powers to control our desires
We can no longer control our appetites so we feed our bodies to obesity or we feed our bodies to diseases that kill us, we die even while alive.
We lost control over our sexual urges and disease continue to spread. Marriages are being dissolved because trust and discipline that should have been built during courtship was never given a chance.

If you have chosen abstinence from sex until you get married whether you are a man or woman you have done the right thing congratulations, just make sure you put your terms on the table when entering a relationship so that nobody feels short-changed later.

Finally I speak from a religious perspective be it Christianity, Islamic or African indigenous religions
Chastity or celibacy before marriage is preached and valued.

SmellySperm:
na so one Igbo amaka tell me yesterday say no sex wen she visits me to stay for 1 week,she said if i love her I'll wait till i marry her,lol i intend blocking her
me wey like kpekus

Block her jorr. Na Mumu she dey look for.

Debra911:

Alright no p

still expecting your reply through mail

dingbang:
still expecting your reply through mail

I already did,

Zzor:
how are you doing,good morning lol.Dont insult me ooo,i come in peace

where did you go since all these while? I told you I was just trying to be funny in the thread you quoted.

Debra911:

Thank God you said, 90%

The remaining 10% are nowhere to be found.

What will 10% do for us? A whooping 90% having double standards is quite bad.

If u agree on a no sex relationship with a guy and still end up making out steadily with another guy don't you think that's quite hypocritical? That's what most girls do.

So when a girl come with all those no sex relationship, I bluntly point it out I am not impotent Miss and I don't want to be one now.

If she is not a pure virgin which I will still like to confirm to be sure, I won't give in to such no sex till marriage scam.

Stay away from fornication lest it ruins you.

Debra911:

I already did,

ok yet to receive. Ok can I have your contact through here? I'll mention you in another thread then you can modify once gotten

dingbang:
stories that touch....

do not mind her.. After he's deflowered her

poiunt:
Sex isn't a must in a relationship, sex before marriage actually create distrust and lot of fear.

I can go on a no sex relationship with a girl as a guy that is practicing semen retention it will be very easy for me.

But where the issue lies is that, that same girl that tells u no sex till marriage will still be banging hell out of another guy behind u. I believe if u get to know u will be so disappointed right?

That's why I said ladies have double standards. They don't keep to their words. They are hypocrites.

tobechi74:
You made sense.
Celibacy, or Marriage Marriage is an individual choice and not a collective one. The government has no business regulating how I use my genital.  It is mine and mine alone.  I decide who I choose to get married to . I can decide to share it with a single person or a married person.  It is  my freedom to choose to be a celibate or be married.   While married, I decide with my partner whether to make it open relationship or monogamy.

Marriage is not for everyone. There are people who are happier single. I mean those who are do introverted that they cannot tolerate a very long time without feeling drained. There are people who prefer long distance relationship with few visits and frequent absence rather than continued presence.  those whose high attention sexual urge cannot be satisfied by any one individual. There are others who dislike the boredom of sticking to one  partner scares the hell out of them. Variety is the spice of life.The fun of experimenting with various sizes and  types thrills them. There are yet another group whose need for independence and freedom makes them dislike the idea of  consulting with another before making decision.  There is another group that  love to be in motion. They wake up one morning and decide to relocate to another state only to explore another culture the next year. Traveling is their hobby and getting married with kids hinders that . Settling down is like a death trap. Flowing water is cleaner. Stagnant water attracts mosquitoes and other microorganism.


https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/04/sex-and-marriage-are-not-government-buissness/

You just jumped off course!

fati2001:

what you offer is what you get, and how you set your basic statics .

You're not making any sense young lady.

shamsin6300:

Thanks

SIMP

SirMichael1:
You're not making any sense young lady.

pls SIR UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF MY SIGNATURE.... THANKS.

Mcslize:


I can go on a no sex relationship with a girl as a guy that is practicing semen retention it will be very easy for me.

But where the issue lies is that, that same girl that tells u no sex til marriage will still be banging hell out of another guy behind u. I believe if u get to know u will be so disappointed right?

That's why I said ladies have double standards. They don't keep to their words. They are hypocrites.

That is the problem, nobody wants to be played.

Kingbenn:
Mini importation have turned many Nigerians into millionaires.
Imagine buying women's designer bags for 5000 naira and selling for 25000 naira.
That's pure 20k profit on one product
Just selling 5 of that bag will give you 100k.
Some products are very easy to sell compared to others
Things around weight loss, health, women's beauty, fashion, electronics, gadgets sells very well in Nigeria
I remember selling a 100 naira pink lips balm for 500 naira.
I don't need to tell you how hot this product is �
The profits in this business is too much mehn.


Join the best team by sending IMPORT to


ZERO EIGHT ZERO 6:3:3:5:6:6:0:0. On WhatsApp

all those things can only happen in your imagination

Wanagera:
I'll tell you a story about my generation.
We lost powers to control our desires
We can no longer control our appetites so we feed our bodies to obesity or we feed our bodies to diseases that kill us, we die even while alive.
We lost control over our sexual urges and disease continue to spread. Marriages are being dissolved because trust and discipline that should have been built during courtship was never given a chance.

If you have chosen abstinence from sex until you get married whether you are a man or woman you have done the right thing congratulations, just make sure you put your terms on the table when entering a relationship so that nobody feels short-changed later.

Finally I speak from a religious perspective be it Christianity, Islamic or African indigenous religions
Chastity or celibacy before marriage is preached and valued.

You're a wise man. I've made up my mind to stay a virgin for my wife.

Alexaonfleek:
So in other words,this thread is saying that guys have no self control.
Noted.

Guys have self control but ladies should not always try to play smart. If u agree on a no sex relationship with a guy and the guy accepts, pls and pls do not try to play smart by cheating on the guy with another guy. It is a no sex relationship that means non of u will be making out either with each other or with a third party outside the relationship.

But we have heard of many stories where the ladies always reneged on the contract by bleeping with a secret lover while the innocent guy is waiting patiently till marriage.

That's quite bad. Ladies should learn to stick to their words.

fati2001:

pls SIR UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF MY SIGNATURE.... THANKS.

Added to the fact that you did not make any sense, you're also rude. Where are your manners young girl?

SirMichael1:
Added to the fact that you did not make any sense, you're also rude. Where are your manners young girl?

pls I respect you because of your name and ur comment... lik I said it not by force" just know the meaning of my signature "... at least go through my comments and understand before quoting.
I will First study ur approaching before I can give you respect.... I don't wanna waste it.
in this era animals are sensitive and worthy than some so called human being(so i rather give that respect to the animal) .
don't bother to mention I wouldn't reply.
thanks again!
bye

Munachisom95:

wider what?

your well na.

Alexaonfleek:
So in other words,this thread is saying that guys have no self control.
Noted.

we are talking mutual understanding here. Not whether you have selfcontrol or not. You are missing the point

Debra911:
Accepted

hello cutie can I drink from your water

Kwara1stson:
hello cutie
can I drink from your water

Hmmm

ShakurMY:
A friend of mine told me last week that his relationship of 5years with his babe no sex, i was like wtf!!! I just dey pity him for my mind. I no trust babe reach that one. Hin go shock him on wedding night when he realize she is not a virgin.

Did she say she is a virgin . Must one be a virgin to decline .

argent412:
your well na.

Flee from my mention biko.

Nuttella:
Stay away from fornication lest it ruins you.

body no be firewood

Kwara1stson:
hello cutie
can I drink from your water

Yea she says.. If you bring your bottle, cup or fetcher

Debra911:

Hmmm

I see u as a prodigy, can I get to know u better? on a professional level tho

Debra911:

You don see am now, all man for himself

you are real. relationship is not a do or die affair. You either remain in it or you walk out