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I'll say not all pastor are like what you mentioned many pastors are the opposite.

Guy you dey lie, na them dey for. K pass, them go tell there woman make he spread leg

Some pastor wey dey chop plates ....

Which pastors are you talking of? Nigerian pastors? Abia!

I lost every respect I have for any pastor when I caught our pastor then trying to molest my elder sis. That was when I was about 11 yrs. If na now, I for kill am on the spot

tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting

Very big lie.What you could have wrote is challenges marrying a religious man.Sorry to say this but some people in this group are the deeper life members.Most of them find fault in other people lifes and most of them are too holy.
My pastor is the opposite of everything you wrote.Happy Sunday to you all.

tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting

Who wrote this crap?

Well...

Those who know me know that my husband must have a PhD in Romance and Kissing

I made it clear to my mom from when I began to have feelings for the other gender that I'll never marry from the church(SU).

I love love
Just be a good kisser and you got me

In light of the above, I could never marry a Sabinus Christian even though he topped the Forbes list

Be a Christian as it should and a Romeo when with me.

If I need to read the Bible, I know where to look

What about a strict Christian lady?

lol strict Christian man na scam

Dont... Anyone who doesnt recognise love and humanity comes before religion isnt worth being with, no one should be strict anything if they understand its only a lifetime they have to spend with you

SweetBrownBuns:
All lies. You have it in the reverse. Pastors are the reverse of everything you mentioned here 100%.

What are you even on about??! Where did Op mention pastors??!

You think pastors are the 'strictest of Christians'??! Please, don't be naive!!!

Some pastors even pray and study less than their assistants or workers... Lol.

tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting

Hmm....
Anal sex is not for normal people.
Wait till you start wearing diapers.
Plus other consequences.

tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting

Can u kindly share how u came to these conclusions?

Op, you are short of ideas about strict Christian men.
Some benefits of marrying them are: spiritually alert and protected family, assured peace of mind, no fear of promiscuity, what else do u need. Although, they have their weaknesses too

tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting

please minimize how you blame men and blame those ladies,who,out of desperation to marry, becomes blind to his being unromantic during relationship stage.

I don't think it has anything to do with Christianity or spirituality! It's more of a foundational flaw in personality!!!

I know first hand of heathens and atheists who have those qualities you listed up there, and they are not restricted to the male gender as you tried to paint, though they surely carry the slight majority.

Anyone raised in a household of extreme strictness or environment where show of affections is culled or restricted, will grow up with such traits... It comes down to question of exposure and orientation.

I shall reluctantly concede that religion plays a huge part in this too... This is why I frown upon extremism whether in Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, etc... After all, animals show affection to their loved ones, even openly.

I think this is wrong. You cannot generalize based on one experience. Another mistake here is mistaking correlation with causation.

tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting

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Joshmodest:
I would have said you were lying if not that we had one like that in my former compound ....
This man has literally become a burden to his wife and 3 sons... He doesn't work as a full time minister , his wife does all the work and if she complains a little he'll tell her she's not the only one ...she pays the kids school fees one of them is in the higher institution , she takes care of their clothing , every expenses , even food the day Mr pastor go drop 500 the whole compound would know ....
His kids must not sing any genre music except "Gospel" , if they do na curse , they must not have girlfriends a child of 19, they can't even watch film in peace , they barb stylish cut problem, even football watching na yawa , keeping friends is an issue except na deacon son or Sunday school teacher son , he even said they must marry from that his church or he'll reject the wife ...so bad that the senior son once told him that hope he remembers it was him God called ?..he doesn't gist with the kids and blames the mother for doing so instead of reading bible ....one time dey once he sees then laughing , he'll bring bible and hold prayer....
Ladies stay away from strict pastors ,.they'll ruin your life and your kids life with their sententious mindset !!!

sir, didn't the wife see all these before marrying him?

tobechi74:
They can be boring. No room for fun Always serious face. Hardly play with family

They do not know how to handle women . Most strict pastors spent their youthful days avoiding dating and friendships with ladies in general so as not to commit adultery.

They are fault finders . They go about looking for offence. Every thing is a sin.

They are not romantic They grew up avoiding ladies. They are not used to giving hugs and kisses. They only know one position. Anal sex is a sin. Only accepts style is missionary. The mouth is for praising God name and not oral.

They can be routinal .. They have a structured life style. Easily predictable. Wife feel bored.

Lack of emotional intimacy. Wife is emotionally starved. His priorities are in the things of the lord. Time for heart to heart discussion and he is quoting

I am a pastor.

But I am also very liberal, and also adventurous. So, not all pastors are strict.

Strict Christians can only be found in the Bible. What we have everywhere today, especially in Africa, are pretenders

Joshmodest:
I would have said you were lying if not that we had one like that in my former compound ....
This man has literally become a burden to his wife and 3 sons... He doesn't work as a full time minister , his wife does all the work and if she complains a little he'll tell her she's not the only one ...she pays the kids school fees one of them is in the higher institution , she takes care of their clothing , every expenses , even food the day Mr pastor go drop 500 the whole compound would know ....
His kids must not sing any genre music except "Gospel" , if they do na curse , they must not have girlfriends a child of 19, they can't even watch film in peace , they barb stylish cut problem, even football watching na yawa , keeping friends is an issue except na deacon son or Sunday school teacher son , he even said they must marry from that his church or he'll reject the wife ...so bad that the senior son once told him that hope he remembers it was him God called ?..he doesn't gist with the kids and blames the mother for doing so instead of reading bible ....one time dey once he sees then laughing , he'll bring bible and hold prayer....
Ladies stay away from strict pastors ,.they'll ruin your life and your kids life with their sententious mindset !!!

Religion is like a drug. Very dangerous

The keyword here is 'strict pastor' not playboy pastor, always read well and understand before commenting.

SweetBrownBuns:
All lies. You have it in the reverse. Pastors are the reverse of everything you mentioned here 100%.

AntiChristian:
Pastors are human.

Humans are not the same everywhere.

Seriously..... for an antichrist... u have sense....

I stay married to Gulder the ultimate......

Informative...i naturally dont like pastors

Joshmodest:
I would have said you were lying if not that we had one like that in my former compound ....
This man has literally become a burden to his wife and 3 sons... He doesn't work as a full time minister , his wife does all the work and if she complains a little he'll tell her she's not the only one ...she pays the kids school fees one of them is in the higher institution , she takes care of their clothing , every expenses , even food the day Mr pastor go drop 500 the whole compound would know ....
His kids must not sing any genre music except "Gospel" , if they do na curse , they must not have girlfriends a child of 19, they can't even watch film in peace , they barb stylish cut problem, even football watching na yawa , keeping friends is an issue except na deacon son or Sunday school teacher son , he even said they must marry from that his church or he'll reject the wife ...so bad that the senior son once told him that hope he remembers it was him God called ?..he doesn't gist with the kids and blames the mother for doing so instead of reading bible ....one time dey once he sees then laughing , he'll bring bible and hold prayer....
Ladies stay away from strict pastors ,.they'll ruin your life and your kids life with their sententious mindset !!!

Some people just read post to argue. The post is about 'strict pastors' and their behavior was also described. Not the playboy pastors, everybody knows the playboy pastors. Even you do not know the kind of strict pastors being talked about pay attention and listen. Ladies do NOT marry any of these strict pastors, you will regret it. Its better to marry a playboy pastor.

tobechi74:
Jesus was not always strict. He had sence of humor

Being Strict with the true practices of Christianity and not being a hypocrite is different from having a sense of humor.

You can be both.

jmoore:
Anal sex is a gateway to homosexuality. Stop using your wife to fulfill your homosexual fantasies.

Nah. I think it's too much of watching porn