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Re: The Red Truth by Joskiro50: 8:43am On Oct 08, 2020

Guys I have a question oh undecided

There's a tendency for the red pill to affect your relationship negatively if moderation is not applied. Take for instance, to keep the spark in your relationship going, you have to meet the love language of your partner especially the crave for attention and to be listened to.

Most times, you cannot help but stop giving your woman attention when you discover the red pill and to be honest, this affects the relationship negatively. She starts looking for the attention somewhere and with time, you lose whatever you had on her.

How can one BALANCE the knowledge of red pill with meeting your woman's love language?

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Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 8:45am On Oct 08, 2020

Dpsychologist:
Can you explain again cos i don't get what you mean

I mean I thought there was a theory or some red pill quotes that supported women love competitions e.g a women love when they know other girls are chasing her man. This gives her the feeling that the man can always leave her since there are many options and thereby the woman will do anything to have him all by herself.

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Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 8:51am On Oct 08, 2020

Joskiro50:
Guys I have a question oh

There's a tendency for the red pill to affect your relationship negatively if moderation is not applied. Take for instance, to keep the spark in your relationship going, you have to meet the love language of your partner especially the crave for attention and to be listened to.

Most times, you cannot help but stop giving your woman attention when you discover the red pill and to be honest, this affects the relationship negatively. She starts looking for the attention somewhere and with time, you lose whatever you had on her.

How can one BALANCE the knowledge of red pill with meeting your woman's love language?

This is where so many people got the message of red pill wrong.

If you continue to show a woman a harsh side just because of the theory which says "women tend to fall for who treat them bad" then you'll be making a big mistake.

Sometimes you have to let your guard down not because you're stupid, but its because you have to be unpredictable! Sometimes you have to behave like a simp (in a good way). If you keep showing her the same pattern she will get used to it and what you do next won't amuse her anymore. You have to play your cards wisely.

Let her keep finding you amazing and mysterious. You can just do things out of the blue for her just to surprise her. Sometimes she just needs you to listen to her. Only apply the red pill philosophy when needed. Don't be too harsh and egoistic. #Peace

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Re: The Red Truth by Asekhamid: 8:57am On Oct 08, 2020

the moment a girl notices that you need her,she doesn't need you anymore.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:02am On Oct 08, 2020

Joskiro50:
Guys I have a question oh

There's a tendency for the red pill to affect your relationship negatively if moderation is not applied. Take for instance, to keep the spark in your relationship going, you have to meet the love language of your partner especially the crave for attention and to be listened to.

Most times, you cannot help but stop giving your woman attention when you discover the red pill and to be honest, this affects the relationship negatively. She starts looking for the attention somewhere and with time, you lose whatever you had on her.

How can one BALANCE the knowledge of red pill with meeting your woman's love language?

Bro don't get it wrong.

Because the red pill says put yourself first before women does not mean you totally ignore them. If you give them too much attention its wrong if you don’t give them attention at all it also wrong. Too much of every thing is bad.

There is what i call the alpha - beta spectrum.

If you are 100% Alpha in due time you will fail. If you are 100% beta you will also fail.

Then what should you do?

Using the pareto principle, You Should be 80% alpha and 20% beta. Yes there are some importance of being a little bit beta. You can't always be Alpha all the time.

If you read my post on Alpha-Beta you will understand that an Alpha can get away with Beta moves.

Remember i said 80% Alpha and 20% beta not 80% beta anf 20% Alpha.

Cheers

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:03am On Oct 08, 2020

TheUndercover:
This is where so many people got the message of red pill wrong.

If you continue to show a woman a harsh side just because of the theory which says "women tend to fall for who treat them bad" then you'll be making a big mistake.

Sometimes you have to let your guard down not because you're stupid, but its because you have to be unpredictable! Sometimes you have to behave like a simp (in a good way). If you keep showing her the same pattern she will get used to it and what you do next won't amuse her anymore. You have to play your cards wisely.

Let her keep finding you amazing and mysterious. You can just do things out of the blue for her just to surprise her. Sometimes she just needs you to listen to her. Only apply the red pill philosophy when needed. Don't be too harsh and egoistic. #Peace

✔

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:05am On Oct 08, 2020

TheUndercover:
I mean I thought there was a theory or some red pill quotes that supported women love competitions e.g a women love when they know other girls are chasing her man. This gives her the feeling that the man can always leave her since there are many options and thereby the woman will do anything to have him all by herself.

I guess you are referring to dread game

Re: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 9:11am On Oct 08, 2020*

Joskiro50:
Guys I have a question oh

Most times, you cannot help but stop giving your woman attention when you discover the red pill and to be honest, this affects the relationship negatively. She starts looking for the attention somewhere and with time, you lose whatever you had on her.

How can one BALANCE the knowledge of red pill with meeting your woman's love language?

At the emboldened, people tend to substitute the word redpill for hatred, harshness, bitterness, suffering and many more.

Lemme illustrate an example for u to aid u better in ur dealing with women.

Have you seen a girl/woman gives out s3x to his man freely everytime he requested for it NO they did that to be a mystery to such man cause they dont wanna lose the monopoly of their greatest asset the pvssy that's why a girl can bill the hell out of you b4 giving u the pot soup...

Same apply to guys/man the moment you loose guard of ur attention and/or money towards ur lady/woman u lost the game i.e uve parted with your greatest assets named attention and/or money that's why u hardly see an Alpha Male gives out his money/attention freely to women without such women earning it with her greatest asset pvssy

Note: not that you wont ditch out your attention/money some times but you gonna do that seldomly to change the tactics of ur game from being get caught nd played.

You've to be dynamic in nature with ur dealings not static.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:14am On Oct 08, 2020

Akinbahm:
At the emboldened, people tend to substitute the word redpill for hatred, harshness, bitterness, suffering and many more.

Lemme illustrate an example for u to aid u better in ur dealing with women.

Have you seen a girl/woman gives out s3x to his man freely everytime he requested for it NO they did that to be a mystery to such man cause they dont wanna loose the monopoly of their greatest asset the pvssy that's why a girl can bill the hell out of you b4 giving u the pot soup...

Same apply to guys/man the moment you loose guard of ur attention and/or money towards ur lady/woman u lost the game i.e uve parted with your greatest assets name attention and/or money that's why u hardly see an Alpha Male gives out his money/attention freely to women without such women earning it with her greatest asset pvssy

Note: not that you wont ditch out your attention/money some times but you gonna do that seldomly to change the tactics of ur game from being get caught nd played.

Good, very good.

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Re: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 9:24am On Oct 08, 2020

Dpsychologist:
Bro don't get it wrong.

Because the red pill says put yourself first before women does not mean you totally ignore them. If you give them too much attention its wrong if you don’t give them attention at all it also wrong. Too much of every thing is bad.

If you read my post on Alpha-Beta you will understand that an Alpha can get away with Beta moves.

Remember i said 80% Alpha and 20% beta not 80% beta anf 20% Alpha.

Cheers

I once use beta tactics to get a street lady laid cool

Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 9:26am On Oct 08, 2020

Dpsychologist:
I guess you are referring to dread game

Well, I don't know what's called Sir.

Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 9:26am On Oct 08, 2020

Dpsychologist:
Reality

And the circle continues...

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:13am On Oct 08, 2020

TheUndercover:
Well, I don't know what's called Sir.

Dread Game is making a lady know you have options (abundance mentality) as such seeing yourself as the price, this will make her not want to lose you.

However, if you are taking about pre-selection... A woman getting attracted to a man when she knows other girls are chasing after him. Then brace on we will about that later.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:22am On Oct 08, 2020*

GhostderGeist:
And the circle continues...

Yea bro

Relating it to TRP

Decades ago after world war 2, there was great effort to maintain peace and comfort. However, the generation that came after as a result of comfort brought about weak men. This weak men pass all those simp laws that are unfair to men thus bringing us back to hard times.

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Re: The Red Truth by Joskiro50: 10:37am On Oct 08, 2020

Thanks a lot for your inputs @ Psychologist, TheUndercover and Akinbahm.

I have gained clarity now.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:09pm On Oct 08, 2020

Joskiro50:
Thanks a lot for your inputs @ Psychologist, TheUndercover and Akinbahm.

I have gained clarity now.

You are welcome

Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:11pm On Oct 08, 2020

Dpsychologist:
Yea bro

Relating it to TRP

Decades ago after world war 2, there was great effort to maintain peace and comfort. However, the generation that came after as a result of comfort brought about weak men. This weak men pass all those simp laws that are unfair to men thus bringing us back to hard times.

It is now time for strong men to fight the hard times.
History will forever continue to repeat itself. Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat them.

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Re: The Red Truth by Joker09(m): 12:31pm On Oct 08, 2020*

Dpsychologist:
In contrast, men age like wine. So use the best of your life (30s) to marry a lady in the best part of her life ( 20s).

...

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:53pm On Oct 08, 2020

We taking over, one day at a time.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:44pm On Oct 08, 2020

[color=maroon]56.) HOW WOMEN ARGUE

An argument is usually an exchange of information between one person and another To a woman, an argument is a battleground for pushing an agenda nothing more and nothing less. — Dpsychologist

Most women have extremely weak reasoning, you’ll notice in arguments with them that they will try to attack the credibility of your logic to try to make themselves look better, this is the classic “I can’t beat the competition so I’ll try to make the competition less effective” strategy that women employ (e.g fat acceptance).

If you remember when i was talking about female Psychology i talked in dept about solipsism.
To a woman, being right is using whatever underhanded tactic is required to get her own way and come out of the conflict favourably, being right is not obeying the laws of logical objectivism but spinning other people’s logic to make her look better than them whilst offering up some weak arguments herself just to get the ball rolling.[/color]

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:45pm On Oct 08, 2020

[color=maroon]FALLACIES IN WOMEN ARGUMENTS

“No sensible man ever engages, unprepared, in a fencing match of words with a woman.” – Wilkie Collins

Outlier effect
The outlier effect is the propensity to argue that because a particular deduction does not apply to you, that makes it false.

When Redpill says women are hypergamous or branch swing, the next thing you will hear is is not true. I don't do tbat or I know ladies around who don't do it.

What they need to understand is that not all women exhibit the said characters exactly thesame way. Another factor is that women come from different homes, bqckground or culture as such they are brought up differently. You can’t expect a woman who is brought up in Saudi Arabia to behave thesame way as someone born in USA.
It is worthy of note that because there are few exceptions dies not cancel out the rule. The outlier is just an exception not the rule.

In Economics, the law of demand states " the higher the price the lower the demand and the lower the price the Higher the demand". Despite it being a law, there are exceptions (abnormal demands) in which the higher the price the higher the demand such as during scarcity or festive period. However, these exceptions does not invalidate the law.
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:54pm On Oct 08, 2020

[color=maroon]
Double standards

Many ladies are clamouring for fight against body shaming calling fat women, BBW. Saying they are only just big and should not be body shamed thus fuelling the fat acceptance movement.

But what about fat men, even fat women do not actually accept fat men, you will rarely see a fat woman who says she is attracted to fat men.

Another issue is women clamouring for equal pay in football. Football is a male dominated sport, as such audience for male players are more than the female as such it is normal for men to be paid more. Instead women like in Germany requested they must be paid equally.

But what about men in fashion, there are also male models and there is huge disparity in their income. I see no woman fighting for them for equal pay. Double standards.[/color]

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:55pm On Oct 08, 2020

[color=maroon] Ad hominem

This is a major tactics women use when arguing. Have you ever argue with a woman and i the hit of the argument, she insults you? Or say bad things about you for holding a particular view. This is what is called Ad hominem.

She does not try to counter your arguments but rather attacks your personality. The statement, "The square of root of 4 is 2" is correct irrespective of whoever said it whether a criminal, a banker, a clergy or a small child.

A woman will utter the statement "All men are dogs or scum", "All men are potential rapists". And you will see many women agreeing to that but when a man says "All women are sluts". The next thing you will hear is that he is a misogynist, bitter or toxic.

A Lady even open a thread some days ago to bash a guy a dishing out red pill truths.[/color]

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:55pm On Oct 08, 2020

[color=maroon] Shaming
This is another way that they can spin the argumentation at hand, the tactic is to shame you.

When a man makes a post that, "most women are only interested in what they can get from him not love especially Nigerian women" the next thing you will hear is " this guy is a broke guy" or "he is small boy still in his mother's house eating her food".

Her interest is to shame him for his statement.

By shaming you they can make you react emotionally, once you react emotionally you have lost – they will then make a theatrical example out of your show of emotion and use it to condemn you.[/color]

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:55pm On Oct 08, 2020

[color=maroon] Citation needed fallacy
Here argument is made that there is no evidence for Red Pill truths thus everything red pill says is false. This is called Citation needed fallacy( this will be discussed later) [/color]

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:56pm On Oct 08, 2020*

[color=maroon] Credibility argument

Questioning a man’s logic and credibility is a way a woman essentially “brings a man down to her level of absurdity.”

The questioning are so invasive, so interrogative and so unreasonable, that a man, feels a sense of frustration, and then the woman who deliberately imposed this form of mental torture in her sense of outrage will then use this frustration as a weapon against the man to further reduce his credibility by pointing out quite proudly that he is in fact no more logical than she!

This gives her an edge. Due to you being emotionally provoked, she can then exploit this momentary weakness to dominate the agenda.

I have observed in my arguments with women over time is a tendency for them to say that “you claim women are illogical, but you’ve just been illogical yourself!”.

Again as mentioned earlier, this is a device used to try to bring you down whilst they bring themselves up. [/color]

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:57pm On Oct 08, 2020*

[color=maroon] Victim card
Another way they put spin on things, one they favour greatly, is to play the victim.

All of a sudden all the verbosity of being equal turns into “I’m just a girl and you’re being mean!”(appeal to pity) , crocodile tears get down from her eyes and everyone looks at you like you’re the asshole.

The bleeped thing is you will probably even feel like an asshole even though you’re right.
Voila, she gets her own way and that’s all she wanted to begin with. [/color]

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:19pm On Oct 08, 2020*

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:43pm On Oct 08, 2020

[color=maroon] Conclusion
Next time you argue with a woman, remember the agenda at hand is to appear the most credible and maintain a superior reputation in Comparison to your own.

If she tries to bait you into reacting emotionally (and she will, she is dependent on your anger to have a chance at beating you to a pulp with your own words) do not take her seriously and just laugh off her words, because really, they are nothing more than baseless Machiavellian tactic that will drive you to insanity should you take such words seriously and attempt to engage them at face value.
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Re: The Red Truth by fcdgrand(m): 6:00pm On Oct 08, 2020

Joskiro50:
Guys I have a question oh

There's a tendency for the red pill to affect your relationship negatively if moderation is not applied. Take for instance, to keep the spark in your relationship going, you have to meet the love language of your partner especially the crave for attention and to be listened to.

Most times, you cannot help but stop giving your woman attention when you discover the red pill and to be honest, this affects the relationship negatively. She starts looking for the attention somewhere and with time, you lose whatever you had on her.

How can one BALANCE the knowledge of red pill with meeting your woman's love language?

romance is not for you if you are true redpiller because romance bring love in you and love bring weakness and weakness bring you down. no attension for over used pussy, make her a baby mama and take the child but if she is a virgin i mean hymen intact virgin marry her

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Re: The Red Truth by fcdgrand(m): 6:10pm On Oct 08, 2020

Dpsychologist:
Yea bro

Relating it to TRP

Decades ago after world war 2, there was great effort to maintain peace and comfort. However, the generation that came after as a result of comfort brought about weak men. This weak men pass all those simp laws that are unfair to men thus bringing us back to hard times.

bad time create strong men, strong men create good time, good time create weak men, weak men create bad time

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Re: The Red Truth by purpinkx(m): 7:26pm On Oct 08, 2020

Dpsychologist:
It seems more people have convincingly proposed that the WhatsApp group is unnecessary.

I suggest a blog

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