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| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Zyzman: 10:52am On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230:That's a first step to your awakening. Bro for real she's not the right one for you. She's the type of girl that sticks with you because of benefits and when there's no benefits man she go japa. Shine your eyes. There are lots of girls out there don't limit yourself. No be by force make you become dangote before you get babe. Just find the one that truly loves you. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by mikecino(m): 11:24am On Oct 10, 2020 |
And you said they assured you this girl is good wife in church, brother na bomb be this one oo. The day you don't give her money for feeding just be rest assured the neighbors will gather in your apartment. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Nobody: 11:55am On Oct 10, 2020 |
flokii:you say?. Can't you see she's ready to bounce off but want to collect the 15k before leaving? A girl becomes more rude than ever when she has options. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Nobody: 12:03pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230:never forgive that girl, it's paining you because you have invested in the relationship more. Let go and see her as failed business. Even if you give her the 15k she will still leave because no be today she don get option, and your pocket is the only thing holding her still. She don get pesin, free her. And again, a girl becomes more rude than ever when she have options. She can never respect you again. My baby girl.. my love.. lol I hate advising niggarr like this because girls like that understand your psychology. You will still collect her back with an excuse. But when she's done. You will see 3rd mainland water as the only option. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by MrCork: 1:36pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230: ![]() |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by MrCork: 1:38pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230:. .bro. ..sumary..please!! ![]() |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by shegunmessi(m): 2:33pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230:@OP,I'm sorry to say,u are complete simps,just imagined wot u are saying,u ve gone to different places just because of one hoe,just because u are unable to meet up to her demand,she abused u in such manners,buckle up ur shoes � and face ur challenges ok,u don't need any bitches for now |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by shegunmessi(m): 2:34pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
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| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Nwaotu10(m): 3:05pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Bro, you need to man up and forget about this girl. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Liposure: 3:42pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
When a girl sees you as a means to an end. She will never love and respect you. Dude been living in fool's paradise all this while |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by noCAP(m): 4:18pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
I would have blocked this bitch the next second..the fvck? Always put women in their place bro. Don't take shit!! |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by chukzyfcbb: 5:20pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
I dont know why but this story just dey make me vex. lif you give her that 15k after the insults, then you have no self esteem. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Skepticus: 5:21pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI:I love your sarcasm. Most times, it's letting them see their foolishness stare in their face. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Skepticus: 5:25pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230:And lastly change that church where you were told that she is the one. The girl is a solid proof that most of all these predictions are fake. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Go and hustle... Your girlfriend isn't your mom.. She's someone's daughter and needs to be taken care of... I don't see why a broke struggling guy should think of a relationship talk more of dating |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by stanliwise(m): 5:31pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230:You caused your own doom. How did you borrow money from them without paying... Please explain it to me Sincerely I am not understanding. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Monchadam: 6:26pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Guuuuyyy this girl no like you at all, shes really vile, and those words she used or still uses on you are really hurtful. Understand one thing bro. You're a price. And she's very much undeserving of a guy like you, so you better move your ass on, get something going with your life abeg. You year ?? ![]() |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:17pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Skepticus:My Gee... Everybody dey give am better advice .. but las las .. na wetin dey em mind em go do.. Sometimes if you dey give this kids better advice..e go be like say you dey beg am make em do the right thing.. make we dey give them anyhow advice.. na when suffer tire them for relationship Dem go run by their self.. Dem no go even wait for advice again.. Boys of this generation are just Weaklings that cower and bow at the whimp and caprices of a woman.. such a shame. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by frozen70(f): 11:37pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230:I will like you to apply some sense of maturity when dealing with women Blocking her line is as good as staying away from your own world, next time don't block, it hurts you more than the person you are blocking If you can be man enough, while dating her, don't give her money and don't ask her for sex let's see how this formula will work for the next 2/3 months |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by frozen70(f): 11:42pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
Lekside230:I will like you to apply some sense of maturity when dealing with women Blocking her line is as good as staying away from your own world, next time don't block, it hurts you more than the person you are blocking If you can be man enough, while dating her, don't give her money and don't ask her for sex let's see how this formula will work for the next 2/3 months |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by VicM6: 11:48pm On Oct 10, 2020 |
send her the 15k, no need coming here seeking for a dead advice because laslas u will still borrow the 15k nd send it to her..... God, if i have a friend like you, i would have placed you on a dead zone...... Fish brain. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Sixfeetbelle: 3:54am On Oct 11, 2020 |
My advice will be different cause unlike the men that commented earlier, bandwagon isn't something women do and relationships is always a two way thing. No one gets all the blame. First off, you were wrong. From your whatsapp chats and your narrative, I picked out something most jumped over. You made a promise to deliver a good, or in this case, money and if you hadn't been scammed, you'd have delivered it but you couldn't hence this issue. Also, she said you borrowed money at one point which you didn't pay back which unfortunately may have branded you with the title: "unreliable guy when it comes to money". So invariably I understand why she flipped on you when you failed to act on your promise. This was not a new thing and you probably didn't handle it well judging by your outburst when you told her you didn't have the money. Promise and fail hits different people differently depending on who it is coming from. That's the main point here. Second, she is wrong for flipping out and insulting you. It shouldn't have gotten to the point of calling you names and whatnot cause you renegaded on a promise. Although your reasons were genuine and even if you have shown you're someone that hardly has cash on him, she should have been more understanding. Even if she was disappointed by your news and upset, she could have just ended the call and tried to source for the cash elsewhere. Now that the blame game is over, let's get to the moving on part. First, restitute every outstanding fee you may have tied yourself with to her or her family or her friends. Even if her dead uncle loaned you money for your business, try to cut yourself free from her. That's how you get closure and consequently learn how to not put yourself in that kind of situation again. Second, air your mind to her. I know this sounds like a bad idea but you move on faster when you let go of past hurts. Tell her how her words made you feel, tell her how rude she was, how ungrateful and insensitive she was to your plight, let her know her words has made a new man out of you and how it will push out the best in you. Then delete her contacts and allow yourself time to heal and get up again. Get that closure and move on. It prepares you emotionally for your next relationship when that comes knocking. Like I pointed out earlier, while you eagerly point out the stick in your partner's eyes, have a time to pluck out the log in yours. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by BabbanBura(m): 8:13am On Oct 11, 2020 |
Fussion1000: |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by luvyaself95(m): 8:24am On Oct 11, 2020 |
dingbang:Is this an advice or a suicide mission ![]() |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by dingbang(m): 8:32am On Oct 11, 2020 |
luvyaself95:advise your own brother man. Leave my advice alone. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Freelane33(m): 8:34am On Oct 11, 2020 |
This girl is using you . Leave her |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by BabbanBura(m): 10:43am On Oct 11, 2020 |
Mrscarter:Good bless you madam. My regards to Mr. Carter, please. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by Mrscarter(f): 1:04pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
BabbanBura:Thanks same ta you. I'm sure Mr carter will see this anyway ![]() |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by LINTUNE(m): 2:30pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
oga sorry to say this, but u a coward, dont u have self bride, or are u too wretched and ugly, such that its has affected ur self esteem?..why haven't u blocked her completely,why should u allow her to communicate with u in the first place, christ, so men are pure disgrace to manhood, pukes!...oga if u send any money to her, 600 years awaits u, wht rubbish.. |
| Re: I Need Your Advice About My Relationship by LINTUNE(m): 2:38pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
Lekside230:but oga, u de Bleep up o..i know say that gal no sabi talk, na her way, but on this matter i support her..u no get any fucking self pride..u still get mind to de reason send the gal money..maybe true true, u be small boy... |
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