₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Feminism = A woman not wanting a cheating Nigerian-used penis. She won’t stay young forever. Take Nollywood for example, it is most times men down with one illness or the other. Most women know when to stop, men do not. They delude themselves into thinking they will always win. Look around, you will see lots of elderly men living alone. Their kids have pulled out their mothers. They are stuck to reading newspapers and listening to news. Give your wife your youth!!! Else, she dey wait you for front.

ePoster:
You don't think certain circumstances can push a wife to cheat also.
Women aren't perfect either. The op brought an issue, one so many wives endure and you tried to justify the man's actions.
Again, would you accept your woman's reasons for cheating?

MLTR:
the problem with most modern ladies is they keep comparing themselves with men, whereas we don't suffer the same thing.
A man that cheat has nothing to lose, he gets to keep his house and above all is ego remain intact. buh do you know a woman that cheat and a womam that got cheated on stand the chance of losing there home & pride. wisdom as to be applied. beyonce is was not stupid n cardi B as realized it,
It is sensible to advice a gurl to leave are cheating bf buh no woman shuld leave her home except its life threaten or domestic violence.

Mekenz:
no.. you don't understand the nature of men, they can compartmentalize their feelings and attitude, a man can be a cheater yet a darling in the affairs of his family, he knows his onus.

unlike a woman that you will discover her cheating nature immediately, because she can't handle her emotional affairs without things going out of proportion hence weigh her down.

secondly you hardly see a woman that cheat, that still respects and submit to their husbands. all these things are not rocket science, it's just the nature of a man. that's why our mothers adviced the newly married once thus. feed your husband and while at it, empty his balls.

think about that.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

folks4luv:
And you think women don't have this nature too? You think women don't feel very attracted to other men when they get married? You think women don't wanna sample other men and cheat? It all boils down to culture that has suppressed women and place a demand of chastity while the opposite is for men. Women were and still are forced to learn discipline and self control to survive in the society. Reason a women will protect a cheating scandal with her life cause the society won't forgive her like it will a man

Shortyy:
I hope it'd be OK if the wife starts seeing other men as well. Since they're practicing an open marriage.

Liposure:
men and women are not equal.

SegFault:
You get time to dey argue with zombie, this kind threads nowadays na to jump and pass, most of these Nigerian men you see walking around are nothing but walking joysticks, no wonder Nigeria is backward the same goes for Africa, tueh what a place to be born in.

Shortyy:
Says who? You better give your life to Christ. By the time you cheat around and carry a deadly disease, that's when you'll calm down.

ePoster:
Reasons for cheating? What about a woman, can she have 'reasons' as well?

ePoster:
Same as corruption, ritual killings, kidnapping...doesn't make them right though.
Cheating might be common, but it's not an aspect of marriage. Your 'if you can't handle the heat, leave the kitchen' ideology is quack.
Few men would tolerate a cheating woman.

ePoster:
Same as corruption, ritual killings, kidnapping...doesn't make them right though.
Cheating might be common, but it's not an aspect of marriage. Your 'if you can't handle the heat, leave the kitchen' ideology is quack.
Few men would tolerate a cheating woman.

ReluctantAdult:
I wasn't talking about cheating in particular. What I'm saying is, our nature as men encourages polygamy. By nature I mean our testosterone and our general attraction to females. This is also prevalent in the animal kingdom so it isn't out of place.

That doesn't suddenly disappear when men get married. Therefore staying loyal is a fight against our urges and longings and since they are inherent in us, we will always be defeated from time to time.

Shortyy:
OK o. If you say so

Shortyy:
Says who? You better give your life to Christ. By the time you cheat around and carry a deadly disease, that's when you'll calm down.

pocohantas:
The weaker vessel is tasked with activating the responsibility of the superior gender. Such a cruel world.

Gwin2020:
Any man that tolerate a cheating woman is a Simp!!!
l will rather drink and eat my urine and faeces respectively than to welcome back & forgive her, not to talk to tolerating her.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

folks4luv:
And how many will a man marry? Solomon had 700 wives and was not satisfied. Let the man marry the one he is cheating with, he will get a new one to cheat with. The circle continues till self control and discipline is learned

Liposure:
the same weaker vessel that have led to the downfall of the superior gender

folks4luv:
And you think women don't have this nature too? You think women don't feel very attracted to other men when they get married? You think women don't wanna sample other men and cheat? It all boils down to culture that has suppressed women and place a demand of chastity while the opposite is for men. Women were and still are forced to learn discipline and self control to survive in the society. Reason a women will protect a cheating scandal with her life cause the society won't forgive her like it will a man

lilmonarch:
since the men are not doing anything to better Africa, what are the women who are so full of innovations and ideas doing? Or that responsibility lies solely on the shoulder of men? Oh i forgot they're on Instagram and other platforms dancing naked and stripping to men's delight

SegFault:
You get time to dey argue with zombie, this kind threads nowadays na to jump and pass, most of these Nigerian men you see walking around are nothing but walking joysticks, no wonder Nigeria is backward the same goes for Africa, tueh what a place to be born in.

Mekenz:
if I may ask are you married?

pocohantas:
Lol. I am forced to agree with the zombie thing.



The whites are not complaining too. Aside childbirth, populating the world and fighting for extra toto in 2020, what has the black man contributed to the world? Add that to your weird reasonings.

Poloyanabo2:
You're wise!
....and rational in thinking!

pocohantas:
Men are polygamous in nature

Abeg, don’t come wailing when you find out a POLYGAMOUS man is dicking your wife or girlfriend. Or when your wife carry another man pikin, come house. It is all for the brotherhood and we can all live as one.

The world population is not enough to guarantee one man, multiple women. So, it has to be someone’s LOML.

As we are so understanding with cheating men, let’s be understanding with women who help these men maintain a balance. Keep up this energy, I no wan see “these hoes ain’t loyal”.

demmymoney:
Men and women can and will never be equal. Even in the Bible I didn't see any female discipline of Christ and I didn't see up to 5 female prophets.

Even in marriage the man and the woman are not equal at all, they both play different roles in the marriage.

I don't expect the man to b carrying pregnancy and neither do I expect the woman to b the breadwinner of the family

Jim99:
You ladies enjoy all the attention you get from men daily thinking you're trophies to be won. Until you get married and discover, you weren't.

Then all of a sudden you're trying to shield your man from seeing more attractive and younger women out there. Not gonna happen!

Shortyy:
Is there anywhere in the bible that says you should cheat on your wife?

ePoster:
...From the guy who can't answer a simple question. Just eight words...next time, tell me to dumb it off to your level.
Can a woman cheat with the right reasons?