Jdbrasco2:
Is that why she left her home instead finding out what went wrong. So where will your sister find a man that won't cheat on her, she probably have to give birth to one. Your sister is risking her marriage she better go back while there is time and sort out the issue with him.

Oga, there are men and women who do not cheat. If men, despite calling women oloshos, have refused to make peace with cheating wives- I don’t know why you guys want women to do same.

Why do you people love the idea of marriage so much, you don’t want your wives to leave, but you won’t do the things that makes them stay? Isn’t this WIZARDRY?? ?

It is our nature, we need to go back to how our fore fathers lived, with a harem of women, that way no cheating, this religious style of monogamy is forced on us.

Chii59:

"reasons for cheating"
Very stupid talk.

Men will always cheat, get that into your skull. You can't change it.

dancewith:
Biologically men are at a disadvantage in maintaining fidelity. A man's testosterone level ranges from 270 nanogram per deciliter of blood to 1070 ng/dl, whereas a woman's is a mere 15 to 70 ng/DL

A man's sex drive is a raging bull of hormonal disadvantage. That said, self control is what it is, self control.

A woman biologically is wired to be in control sexually. She is not pushed beyond a certain level by hormones unlike men. For this reason a wise woman must protect her man from danger and make the home hospitable for him while keeping the bedroom really lively

Do not foolishly assume that since you are not "doing" he took wont be doing. You may easily control these urges or dont even have them, he often have to deal with these

A woman leaving her marriage cos the man cheated, well, I cant be the judge of that. However if you leave him for someone else, is the new man going to be any better? The new person may just be better at hiding it. There is a saying that it is only those that are caught are the thieves

Sometimes the grass is not greener at the other side

Makes sense.

I understand the biological differences all too well to know that women and men can't be grouped as same when it comes to sexual needs.

Females are biologically made to be sexually repressed. That is the simple truth. As for men who can't help but sleep around, that will be okay if women were also given the freedom to express their sexual needs and fantasies with any man of their own choosing.

But you know how that goes. We need to sit down and think about reforming marriage in its entirety. The old methods and ideals arent working anymore. Something needs to give

At time's situation like this, Karma might have hand inside, after following people husband when you are young, gbam u got married and ur husband start sleeping around �‍♂

BigJoe19:
Men will always cheat, get that into your skull. You can't change it.

A fo.ol will always be a fo.ol. No matter how many certificates he has.

BigJoe19:
Total bullshit say it without crying. You women are the ones going about doing gender base violence and exposed sexuality of the girl child, in the end na still una go feel am for body. Men can always reject a pregnancy if they don't want it, in the end you either commit abortion or you keep the pregnancy.

What is the correlation? Let me even assume it is true and that is why men occupy most prisons. You can only reject a pregnancy that she keeps. I think you need some comprehension pills.

ReluctantAdult:
I wasn't talking about cheating in particular. What I'm saying is, our nature as men encourages polygamy. By nature I mean our testosterone and our general attraction to females. This is also prevalent in the animal kingdom so it isn't out of place.

That doesn't suddenly disappear when men get married. Therefore staying loyal is a fight against our urges and longings and since they are inherent in us, we will always be defeated from time to time.

Are you aware that some animals stay with one mate for life

Chii59:

My father is a fool will always be a fool. No matter how many certificates he has.

I am so sorry for your father

Ombudsdabomb:

Are you aware that some animals stay with one mate for life

He can’t be one of those animals, he chose to be the animal that fcks all around. Convenient examples...

pocohantas:


What is the correlation? Let me even assume it is true and that is why men occupy most prisons. You can only reject a pregnancy that she keeps. I think you need some comprehension pills.

Seriously women should understand that men have to cheat, the way nature has designed it we can't help it. Make una just dey manage us

BigJoe19:
I am so sorry for your father

This one shock me

Sixfeetbelle:


You would never advise the man to stay if the case was reversed. So stop being a hypocrite

You are obviously a child for calling me a hypocrite it shows how immature and emotionally unstable you are....

BigJoe19:
Seriously women should understand that men have to cheat, the way nature has designed it we can't help it. Make una just dey manage us

Seriously, men should understand that men have to cheat with women. Women who happen to be other men’s girlfriends and wives. Make una manage us too. It is nature o!! Let’s blame it all on nature and devil...!

BigJoe19:
I am so sorry for your father

I won't play dirty games with you.
You might be an adult, but mentally you're still crawling and that's on you . That's on you.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

We reap what we sow. There is possibility your sister while single dated and slept with married men.

fattprince:


Well I felt she cheated because she was so angry to pack her loads out. She would try to work it out if she loves that man. Well most female that gets overboard when a partner cheats there's 80% chances she had cheated at least once. Well its just a conspiracy theory I decided to follow.

aiit it's just a theory u follow tho, I see, yet what if she didn't cheat how does this theory apply ?

Btw u said if she loves the man she would have tried to work it out, why so when she feels she was cheated on tho, can we apply that to a man been cheated on too ?

Looking forward to ur response buddy

pocohantas:


Seriously, men should understand that men have to cheat with women. Women who happen to be other men’s girlfriends and wives. Make una manage us too. It is nature o!! Let’s blame it all on nature and devil...!

No, how can we manage what we paid bride price for? A married woman is not allowed to cheat maybe a single lady, women are our property just like our cars, watches and pets.

ZIINI:

This one shock me

What's shocking there, boy?

Chii59:

I won't play dirty games with you.
You might be an adult, but mentally you're still crawling and that's on you . That's on you.

Why are you angry Chii59, is there any problem ?

Chii59:

I won't play dirty games with you.
You might be an adult, but mentally you're still crawling and that's on you . That's on you.

I congratulate you for being an adult, do you want an award?

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

Cheating in Africa?! What's that?! Hanti grow up, monogamy doesn't work here.

BigJoe19:
No how can we manage what we paid bride price for, a married woman is not allowed to cheat maybe a single lady, you women are our property just like our cars, watches and pets.

It doesn’t matter if you paid bride price. Women in India pay dowries and get inhumane treatment. Anyone can cheat, the only deterrent is if they choose not to. Pay BP 10x and it won’t change anything.

joyandfaith:


We reap what we sow. There is possibility your sister while single dated and slept with married men.

I have never seen this analogy when a wife cheats. You know, something like “there is a possibility he slept with married women when he was single”

Seems imaginary karma is reserved for women.

MrJibana:
Hmmm....The truth is that some of this men don't actually have the intentions of cheating but when some thing free comes they have low resistance to the pressure... Men generally are friendly to pretty women, so if it happens that out of friendliness the ladies unlocks for him the pressure of resisting porting is low at that moment.. so my advice is they should see a therapist and sort their issues out..

you are the one close to the point on infidelity

bukatyne:


Sorry to your sister about the betrayal and I wish her strength to carry on irrespective of her final decision.

@question: men cheat with women.

@Reason: the root reason of adultery is selfishness.

What if the wife was denying him sex?

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

What if the wife(your sis) was denying him sex?

Chii59:

What's shocking there, boy?

Wasn't talking to you BITCH

Shes a fool for leaving her husband he can decide to marry her as a second wife, women are the worst in cheating they are just very good in hiding it, is only a woman that will cheat and still blame her husband for cheating all because they are very good in hiding their own

nwaezeemmanuel:
There are successful monogamous homes.

Cheating is not in any man's gene, it is borne from a lack of self control and is just infidelity at its finest.

Forget this your holier than thou preaching and tell yourself the truth. It is fear of God, lack of money or fear of breaking your lover's heart that makes a lot of men like us faithful. The other population of faithful men are impotent.

pocohantas:


When you guys get hit with fact, you start claiming the woman is pained, whereas it is you guys filling NL with tears of cheating gfs. No, it isn’t more supplies of pussy, don’t try to flip it.

A cheating female partner drives men crazy. They do not have the mental strength to handle it. If this thread was on a cheating wife, we would be on page 20 of premium tears and none of those comments would be about supply of pussy or polygamous nature of women. A woman is pregnant by choice, not chance. Same pregnancy they transfer to other men? Dude stop deceiving yourself abeg.



That is what some of your brothers thought, till they got hit. Shebi you will still come to cry again on how men are endangered species? E go shock una.

lol,the tin pain you sha.las las na still you go carry belle for nine months,mother nature was very kind/biased towards men,i mean women lose their most priced asset(their sexual value)after 40 years,a 70 year old man can still get a 26 years old woman pregnant.so yes all women should decide to go all out and cheat,na still men e go benifit,gosh i am so proud to be a male,say it loud.i am proud to be a man.

pocohantas:


Oga, there are men and women who do not cheat. If men, despite calling women oloshos, have refused to make peace with cheating wives- I don’t know why you guys want women to do same.

Why do you people love the idea of marriage so much, you don’t want your wives to leave, but you won’t do the things that makes them stay? Isn’t this WIZARDRY?? ?

Madam, not that I support cheating but if she continue to abandon her home cos of cheating or perceived cheating, she is gona marry a dozen times if possible. Let her manage her home well, respect the man and stay out of bad third party advisers. The man will definetly come around. I know that very well.

ZIINI:

Wasn't talking to you BITCH

Chai . She be real bitch, I just checked her posts, she dey even beg for iPhone on Nairaland