emperorshaokahn:
lol,the tin pain you sha.las las na still you go carry belle for nine months,mother nature was very kind/biased towards men,i mean women lose their most priced asset(their sexual value)after 40 years,a 70 year old man can still get a 26 years old woman pregnant.so yes all women should decide to go all out and cheat,na still men e go benifit,gosh i am so proud to be a male,say it loud.i am proud to be a man.

This topic isn’t about who gets pregnant and who can get who pregnant. I hope you don’t struggle with erèctions like you are struggling with basic comprehension. This topic is about cheating and anyone can cheat. I hope you get a hold of the point this time.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

so sorry about your sister's pain... I pray God gives her the will to bounce back

ePoster:
Reasons for cheating? What about a woman, can she have 'reasons' as well?

It's your choice...
You catch me cheating you go.
I catch you cheating you go..
Marriage no be must, you either find many reasons to go or a single reason to stay.

Your choice!!

emperorshaokahn:
lol,the tin pain you sha.las las na still you go carry belle for nine months,mother nature was very kind/biased towards men,i mean women lose their most priced asset(their sexual value)after 40 years,a 70 year old man can still get a 26 years old woman pregnant.so yes all women should decide to go all out and cheat,na still men e go benifit,gosh i am so proud to be a male,say it loud.i am proud to be a man.

Abeg leave am alone make she dey daydream for there

angelfallz:


What if the wife was denying him sex?

He has the option of walking out of the marriage if sex is so important to him.

The adulterer/adulteress might have a 'good' reason: 'he/she is nor good in bed, not attentive to me, we are in a long distance marriage, I am doing revenge cheating' etc.

However, they want to eat their cake and have it. They want to have the value the other spouse still brings to the table (home management, money, prestige, societal acceptance, security, secular and religious standing, child care etc.) and 'have their fill outside'.

peacettw:


I am female and I see where you are going with this. Many may not see the sense in this but I do. We need not look far as well as the men of old in the bible did same and were loved by God regardless.

I do strongly believe that in the future, the institution called marriage will be scrapped in favour of something that makes some bit of sense with regards to our evolving dynamics as a society.

And when that day comes, it is my hope that the same sexual freedom will be practiced by both gender to ensure harmony and balance.

Exactly. Myself, I'm all for sexual freedom and expression. That's why I can't subject myself to the trappings of monogamous relationships. I'd be deceiving myself if I were to do such. Unfortunately most people choose to live in that deception and as a result get into fights with their partners.

Jim99:


True.

Some mornings we just wake up and we wanna fvck a light skinned chick so bad, the next day we want a dark chick with a big ass.

For us Men, a new day comes with a new desire for a different woman.

Exactly

BigJoe19:
Chai . She be real bitch, I just checked her posts, she dey even beg for iPhone on Nairaland

She go tae

15ssDRIVE:



Our Old men dem,also do it..... so no be here he starts. But taking a lady to your matrimonial Bedroom,dem suppose talk to the bro’s...

When you can play away,why play Home ?

Marriage be like acceptance letter, U greeee or U no Greee... if you no gree JappaaaaaA

The ones that agree and accept us... Na dem be the real ones,the beautiful ones wey dem say,are not yet born.
I swear PMB get crush !

Jdbrasco2:
Madam, not that I support cheating but if she continue to abandon her home cos of cheating or perceived cheating, she is gona marry a dozen times if possible. Let her manage her home well, respect the man and stay out of bad third party advisers. The man will definetly come around. I know that very well.

It is her choice!!! Spend more time advising yourselves to be faithful!! She mustn’t marry a dozen times. She mustn’t marry again!! It is even you men that will marry 1mth after the death of a wife. Yet to respect the tenets of marriage, hard una pass.

Of course he will come around. Like the prodigal son, they always come back to the virtuous woman, when they are old and worn-out.

pocohantas:


This topic isn’t about who gets pregnant and who can get who pregnant. I hope you don’t struggle with erèctions like you are struggling with basic comprehension. This topic is about cheating and anyone can cheat. I hope you get a hold of the point this time.

even if i have a weak erection(according to you) it still would be enough to get you pregnant,and no women are not allowed to cheat(at least dont get caught). We cant pay bride price finish and you expect us to tolerate a cheating woman?.

ZIINI:

Wasn't talking to you BITCH

You. Are. The. Bitch.

ZIINI:

She go tae

Na all this kind girls dey sweet to fvck ooo, just promise dem iPhone and they will try to fvck you real good but just keep on bringing different excuses why you were not able to get the iPhone at the promised time, when you are tired of the pussy you dump them, still you didn't get them the iPhone.

emperorshaokahn:
even if i have a weak erection(according to you) it still would be enough to get you pregnant,and no women are not allowed to cheat(at least dont get caught). We cant pay bride price finish and you expect us to tolerate a cheating woman?.

You don’t have to ALLOW them. They are cheating and doing well to bring those pregnancies from weak erèctions like yours, home. What you gonna do? Cry on Nairaland as usual?

bukatyne:


He has the option of walking out of the marriage if sex is so important to him.

The adulterer/adulteress might have a 'good' reason: 'he/she is nor good in bed, not attentive to me, we are in a long distance marriage, I am doing revenge cheating' etc.

However, they want to eat their cake and have it. They want to have the value the other spouse still brings to the table (home management, money, prestige, societal acceptance, security, secular and religious standing, child care etc.) and 'have their fill outside'.

i agree with you. however, some men don't see it like that.
for the bolded it would be hard to find a man that sex is not important to.

baralatie:

there is no relationship between testosterone levels and promiscuity in the animal kingdom.the testosterone levels in the blood stream is to fight or flight.that is why the big cats can fight but yet the females with less testosterone are the more successful hunters because of the instinct to keep the pride alive.

Olodo.

Chii59:

You. Are. The. Bitch.

Don't beg here if you want an iPhone so bad go and work for it.
You fuçking panhandler

angelfallz:


i agree with you. however, some men don't see it like that.
for the bolded it would be hard to find a man that sex is not important to.

I never said sex was not important to men

Kekereekun123:
cheating is not new. you cant be complaining of heat inside kitchen. As your sister don leave over 10 ladies will be fighting to replace her

She don't know what's going on i keep saying this women na dem enemy

thesicilian:
Why do you people keep emphasizing this matrimonial bed issue as if the ones they do outside is better? Cheating is cheating no matter where it is done and I condemn it in all ramifications.

Accepted, but bringing it to the home the couple share is another level of embarrassment and hurt.

BigJoe19:
Na all this kind girls dey sweet to fvck ooo, just promise dem iPhone and they will try to Bleep you real good but just keep on bringing different excuses why you were not able to get the iPhone at the promised time, when you are tired of the pussy you dump them, still you didn't get them the iPhone.

Can you imagine begging for an iPhone on public forum and she will be among those girls calling some guys broke

pocohantas:


It is her choice!!! Spend more time advising yourselves to be faithful!! She mustn’t marry a dozen times. She mustn’t marry again!! It is even you men that will marry 1mth after the death of a wife. Yet to respect the tenets of marriage, hard una pass.

Of course he will come around. Like the prodigal son, they always come back to the virtuous woman, when they are old and worn-out.

lol@virtuous woman.even the famous bible verse/chapter that talked about virtuous women was more theoritical,it was just solomon(or whoever wrote it) playing with his head.if you can read well(which i doubt) you will notice the beging of that chapter started with a question and i quote ''who can find a virtuous woman?''.which implied that even thousands of years ago women were hoeing and whoring around.

MRosario:


Yes it isn't. I never said it was.

That is why I said in my previous post that orgasm is nature's way of rewarding us for voluntarily releasing sperm...

...which by the way is a foolish thing to do if we consider man as an individual, but if we consider man as a specie, it is the right thing to do.

Nature sees man as a species, not as individuals, that's why males are cursed with high testosterone, ejaculation and libido and in the same vein are rewarded with orgasm.

Mother nature didn't waste so much time fine tuning the sexuality of males in a specie, for the male to be celibate or monogamous.

But we can't have randy males roaming the world with erect organs looking for the nearest female to impregnate, that's why we invented marriage.

Marriage is totally a social construct, so you can't bring it up when discussing biology, you will never win.

Nairaland too has some very intelligent fellows. Tell me more. How does nature see females and why do you think marriage and biology are polar opposites?

pocohantas:


It is her choice!!! Spend more time advising yourselves to be faithful!! She mustn’t marry a dozen times. She mustn’t marry again!! It is even you men that will marry 1mth after the death of a wife. Yet to respect the tenets of marriage, hard una pass.

Of course he will come around. Like the prodigal son, they always come back to the virtuous woman, when they are old and worn-out.

Haha old and worn-out? And she is gona stay young forever? What ever works for you. I hope you are married cos its better to analyse this from experience. Just staying. Good luck with your newly found feminism ideology.

There is a man that normally packs his car in front of my gate due to the road is lonely, Everytime he will be receiving Mouth Gig inside the car. Anytime I see the wife driving the car in the estate I always feel sad for the woman.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Cheating is never justifiable.

Mature couples should resolve things or even file for divorce - instead of sleeping with another person out of the blues.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

Lol, women actually cheat more than men in marriages.



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Report 1: 30% of Nigerian men aren't the biological father of their children.

Report 2: Nigeria has the 2nd highest rate of paternity fraud in the world after Jamaica.

Report 3: Most first borns in Nigeria are bastards – DNA expert Abiodun Salami.



It's so sad that your sister ended up with a sick man as husband. Don't forget, he's just 1 out of millions.

ZIINI:

Can you imagine begging for an iPhone on public forum and she will be among those girls calling some guys broke

Don't listen to all those fools, many of them haven't had 100,000 naira in their whole lives

emperorshaokahn:
lol@virtuous woman.even the famous bible verse/chapter that talked about virtuous women was more theoritical,it was just solomon(or whoever wrote it) playing with his head.if you can read well(which i doubt) you will notice the beging of that chapter started with a question and i quote ''who can find a virtuous woman?''.which implied that even thousands of years ago women were hoeing and whoring around.

Hahahaha. Why are you in pains already?

You are doubting if I can read? You should have asked if I am a BIBLE believing christian. That is what a sensible person should do first, before jumping into the assumption that I can’t read one. Virtuous is an English word the last time I checked.

Abouwaza:
The question is not about why are men like this
The thing is common with both sexes (ladies cheat too) and don't generalise, not all men cheat
Now ask your sister to reconcile with her hubby and pack back cos if she doesn't she will regret for the rest of her life
She will still get bleeped and before you know it, she will loose count of how many guys pounding her if she remains separated

PS who knows if your sister is also cheating, she just managed to catch the husband

Almost everybody don mad now oo

Everyone is a saint, na person wey dem catch be sinner.

pocohantas:


You don’t have to ALLOW them. They are cheating and doing well to bring those pregnancies from weak erèctions like yours, home. What you gonna do? Cry on Nairaland as usual?

and some men dont mind training those bastard kids,the ones with money now do dna test to curtail the excesses of cheating whores.well bringing an illegitimate kid seems to be the worst women can do to men,tough cookies you ladies are right?. las las the cheated man still have the very easy option of banging another easily available pussy who will painstakingly carry the pregnancy for nine months for him and get a propper child of his own.

Eating same thing everyday is bad

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

It is not only married men (some) that are cheating, some married women are also good in the game, but with your sis husband he is an asshole for bringing another woman to his matrimonial bed.