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Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by PowerGlory: 7:09am On Oct 24, 2020 |
I was in the said burial a d witnessed everything that happened. 1. The man died mysteriously in the house with wound on his head and the wife and children never told the man's brothers after 24hours but hurried him to the mortuary. 2. The man was a retiree of CBN a d pays the wife N100k and children N50k each every month but they starved him of food. It's his brothers that feeds him. 3. This same daughter asked his out of their house when he came to ask them why they beat up their father. 4. The said girl is in Law School and still behaves stupidly. 5. The man built a house but the wife a d children insisted that he'll be buried behind the house which his immediate brothers and kinsmen object that he be buried in front of his house. 6. Despite the money given to the woman she cooks with firewood upstairs. 7. The woman and children were asking the man's Will to be read while the corpse was still in the mortuary. 8. Anyone that cares should come to Oguta, Imo State to verify for himself or herself. 45 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by humilitypays(m): 7:09am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Heavensent01:I am Igbo, 3 of my siblings are married to Yoruba ladies, one to a white lady....and the Yoruba ladies have been thanking their God for making them meet my brothers, so you see, bush man from Ilaro 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by condralbedez: 7:10am On Oct 24, 2020 |
And which state in Igbo land did this happen |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sagefromtheeast: 7:10am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Abdulazeez99: While I sincerely simpathize with you, you left us with little or nothing to run with. I have a feeling you're serving us half truth. 9 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by zoghys: 7:10am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Incognito403: You are such a lunatic. Am sure your dumbass is among the many Nigerians who advocated for our common interest tagged #EndSARS #Endpolicebrutality among other tags of choice, and virtually all state especially in the west and eastern part of the country partook in the struggle. If olodo like you continue with your low IQ of dividing us at very slight opportunity then I wonder why people like you complain when bad people rule. Igbos are fantastic people, and that's won't change with your senseless opinion. And back to the real matter, pretty sister I feel your pain but let God judge the unjust. He will definitely fight your battle. 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Nobody: 7:10am On Oct 24, 2020 |
pwettyme: Lolz fear electrocuted you.. Curiousity to know the tradition of your husband-to-be? 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by yommen: 7:11am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Angrykidd:. You need a mental assessment. 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Back2Daura(m): 7:12am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Chai NNE better go and keep that your fathers land documents safe with a lawyer that you trust and they don't know. They want to grab that virgin land.[b][/b] 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Heavensent01(m): 7:12am On Oct 24, 2020 |
humilitypays: disaster that's waiting for them when the husband had gone is in current account waiting for them the maltreatment of women that marry Igbo is not about their husband but post demise of their husband 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Pharaohny: 7:12am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Oracleforce: God bless you they even value berial more than wedding place much premium on the dead than the leaving. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by dapbims: 7:12am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Please let us call a spade a spade. They would not speak out to abhor this devilish tradition of theirs. mrkings84: |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by humilitypays(m): 7:12am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory:I said it. I don't need to be told that the girl is a very foolish slay queen trying to trend with bad mouthing Igbos, knowing that Yorubas and others will rush to cheer her since she is condemning Igbos, very useless girl!! Me I am Igbo, full blood, 3 of my siblings are married to Yoruba ladies, one to white woman, and all these ladies are so happy they came into our great Igbo family 14 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Donspicey: 7:12am On Oct 24, 2020 |
The man was born 7 years before Nigeria got independence......... And he died 2months before Nigeria 60yrs anniversary...... That is to say dat He did not live to witness wat happened during all dis protests....... And He did not Live to see the End of Vision2020 palava.......bt d palava still continued even after he died..... Village people no wan make he even rest in peace.... Bt dat girl fine oooooooo...... Make she kukuma go buy anoda land bury d man nah...... Abi wetin she want mk we do now wen d matter na family affair??
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Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by ojaysam25(m): 7:14am On Oct 24, 2020 |
olarent:Go to any of the section you wish to create the topic on...if it entails politics,go to the politics section...you will find create topics. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Ghostmode2two(m): 7:15am On Oct 24, 2020 |
My advice, let your late father's kinsmen bury him in whatever location they want, don't argue with them and if they want the virgin land let them have it and move on with your life. Those kinsmen are very wicked people. After the burial of my father I almost got killed too and I know what I suffered from. Your life and the lives of your mother and other siblings are precious. 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Pharaoh4rin(m): 7:15am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Angrykidd: Aasuweh, u are a clown |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Commentor: 7:16am On Oct 24, 2020 |
In the east abi? |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Akaegwu(m): 7:17am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Someone just woke up and typed trash. Idiotic narrative. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by ipobarecriminals: 7:17am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Oracleforce:in a virgin land,his own land and sweat.Talk about land grabbers. IPOBARECRIMINALS |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Tatashi: 7:17am On Oct 24, 2020 |
humilitypays:YOU SOUND BITTER AND LIKE A MAN WHO WASNT RAISED BY HUMANS BUT ANIMALS. you had a chance to give your wise input on the issue but ended up disgracing the farm you originated from. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by bennynaza(m): 7:18am On Oct 24, 2020 |
I hate it when people who don't understand how stuff works complain if it doesn't go their way. Possibly, her uncle's were greedy and tried to twist the custom for their selfish interest. Possibly she was being hotheaded and "feminist" and refused to listen so that things could be properly explained to her. Possibly, both parties (her uncles and herself) messed it all up. But that doesn't give her the right to vilify the entire tribe. The Igbo tradition much like almost evry other tribe in Africa does not accord preeminence or headship to women (even the Bible and Qouran doesn't), neither does it thrash women. In fact, some parts Igboland, the importance of motherhood is so expressed, that bride price of a lady is paid to her maternal home and not her father's! Her uncles may have messed up due to their own greed or whatever motive, but that shouldn't make her generalize. People shouldn't just blurt out their opinions on what they don't understand because some one or something hurt them and try to pass of such opinions as facts. That is very unintelligent! THE IGBO CULTURE DOES NOT OPPRESS WOMEN 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Pharaoh4rin(m): 7:18am On Oct 24, 2020 |
olarent: Me too. I've tried but post a thread |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by humilitypays(m): 7:18am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Heavensent01:let me shock you again, one of my brothers that married a Yoruba lady is late, he died few years back and the wife confessed she never knew Igbos are this wonderful. She still take her kids to our village every Xmas on her own cos she enjoy the place. It all boils down to family not tribe. Your sisters will be so lucky to marry an Igbo guy, their future is secured 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by YoungDaNaval(m): 7:18am On Oct 24, 2020 |
anastasius:Kill who spiritually? Its all in the mind bro |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by SirVintageCock: 7:18am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory:Quite likely. Imagine the generalisation. Her father is yet to rest peacefully and she is already out castigating and blackmailing her uncles on social media to cover-up the above. Something is inherently wrong with her story. 12 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sammyblack87: 7:19am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Angrykidd:u be big fool, ur mate na head of family for some area... People like u dey among the mumu youth wet spoil the Endsars protest |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Orpe7(m): 7:19am On Oct 24, 2020 |
That's why igbo ladies prefer to marry yoruba men We no get stress 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by dandollaz: 7:19am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Don't generalize issue.your father's family are greedy people and I believe weird things happen everywhere.they wanted to sell the land and burial him there will cast there plan.Take heart and move on. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Hushpuppies(m): 7:20am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory: Thanks for bringing an insight to what happened but can you tell us why three graves were dug instead of one? |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Heavensent01(m): 7:20am On Oct 24, 2020 |
humilitypays: indeed! of course a marketer won't say is product is bad, it is people that make use of the product will justify 7 Likes 1 Share |
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