condralbedez:
And which state in Igbo land did this happen

olarent:
Can someone please enlighten me on how to create a topic on this forum,i have alot of thins to talk about.

okpalaAnambra:

Is your husband from there??

NoToPile:



So you are saying they killed their father?

How did you know how much they are giving to wife and children

Is it culturally wrong to bury someone at the back of his house as long as its the same compound

PowerGlory:
I was in the said burial a d witnessed everything that happened.
1. The man died mysteriously in the house with wound on his head and the wife and children never told the man's brothers after 24hours but hurried him to the mortuary.
2. The man was a retiree of CBN a d pays the wife N100k and children N50k each every month but they starved him of food. It's his brothers that feeds him.
3. This same daughter asked his out of their house when he came to ask them why they beat up their father.
4. The said girl is in Law School and still behaves stupidly.
5. The man built a house but the wife a d children insisted that he'll be buried behind the house which his immediate brothers and kinsmen object that he be buried in front of his house.
6. Despite the money given to the woman she cooks with firewood upstairs.
7. The woman and children were asking the man's Will to be read while the corpse was still in the mortuary.
8. Anyone that cares should come to Oguta, Imo State to verify for himself or herself.

Sonnobax15:
Very similar to their marriage rites......Dem dey almost sell like 7 acres of land first before someone can be laid to rest..
anything about igbo, especially imo state dey always annoy me

okpalaAnambra:

That's why they're many single ladies in their 40s still doing prostitution there

Verysmart101:
Look Op!!!! Am a core igbo man and i must confess,igbo traditions arent bad as u paint it.I recently buried my uncle and no complains whatsoever.You were just unfortunate that you have wicked uncles thats all.And wicked uncles exist in all parts of the world. So pls letsbe guided. Wat u should say is that "ur hubby's family is wicked" and stop saying igbo culture is sick.You disappointed ur late hubby by not standing your ground.Wat u will do is to prevent them from trying to sell ur hubbys land and thats wat you should focus on.

Mindlog:
They want to sell the land, being buried there would have messed up their plans.

Sagefromtheeast:

I'm sure you don't know what you're talking about.
If you're right about that,no one would own even a plot of land.

okpalaAnambra:

The cursed imo state of course

humilitypays:
This lady is writing complete nonsense!

It is not Igbo culture or tradition, it is your father's family tradition and wickedness. It is about your family, your father, his siblings, the kindred your father came from.


It's about your father's community not about Igbo culture or tradition.


You are a foolish girl, a wild girl who think because you are putting on fake lashes, fake wig and trouser qualified you to be rude and unruly to your father's kinsmen, and they have taught you a big lesson.


If you like marry a Fulani man or Idoma or Ibira or Yoruba, or white man, we all will be here to read your rants of how they have treated you illy too, so go and sit down, you are as evil and bad as your father's kinsmen, foolish girl

Hushpuppies:



Thanks for bringing an insight to what happened but can you tell us why three graves were dug instead of one?

condralbedez:
I guessed as much,and they will come here and be generalising the whole tribe!!

Verysmart101:
Look Op!!!! Am a core igbo man and i must confess,igbo traditions arent bad as u paint it.I recently buried my uncle and no complains whatsoever.You were just unfortunate that you have wicked uncles thats all.And wicked uncles exist in all parts of the world. So pls letsbe guided. Wat u should say is that "ur hubby's family is wicked" and stop saying igbo culture is sick.You disappointed ur late hubby by not standing your ground.Wat u will do is to prevent them from trying to sell ur hubbys land and thats wat you should focus on.

LadySarah:
The danger of a single story. It isn't an igbo thing, it's the wickedness of your family.

When my pops died, my bro was just 18.My fathers elder bro made sure to carry him along.He showed my brother their ancestral lands and how they will share it. my bro wasn't even aware of these lands cos my dad was a very private person. My Uncle was a father to us until his death last yr. He even visited me in the boarding school. He let my bro as young as he was sign for the family.

16 yrs later, my bro gifted him a massive duplex, set up his children. Unfortunately he died last year and we all consponspored his burial.

We felt his death more than the death of our father. There's nothing you say that can separate us and his children.

R0kstarr8:
this is serious.. Nigerians with their superstitious acts, what's there to bury a dead person, the way some people take life seriously as if they are immortal themselves they had forgotten they will die some day don't worry my sister karma will certainly get hold of them.. May he be buried in peace
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Sonnobax15:
How many young imo state men doing legitimate businesses can boast of having a plot of land after paying their wives dowry ?

Sonnobax15:
How many young imo state men doing legitimate businesses can boast of having a plot of land after paying their wives dowry ?

LadySarah:
The danger of a single story. It isn't an igbo thing, it's the wickedness of your family.

When my pops died, my bro was just 18.My fathers elder bro made sure to carry him along.He showed my brother their ancestral lands and how they will share it. my bro wasn't even aware of these lands cos my dad was a very private person. My Uncle was a father to us until his death last yr. He even visited me in the boarding school. He let my bro as young as he was sign for the family.

16 yrs later, my bro gifted him a massive duplex, set up his children. Unfortunately he died last year and we all consponspored his burial.

We felt his death more than the death of our father. There's nothing you say that can separate us and his children.

Mindlog:
They want to sell the land, being buried there would have messed up their plans.

LadySarah:
The danger of a single story. It isn't an igbo thing, it's the wickedness of your family.

When my pops died, my bro was just 18.My fathers elder bro made sure to carry him along.He showed my brother their ancestral lands and how they will share it. my bro wasn't even aware of these lands cos my dad was a very private person. My Uncle was a father to us until his death last yr. He even visited me in the boarding school. He let my bro as young as he was sign for the family.

16 yrs later, my bro gifted him a massive duplex, set up his children. Unfortunately he died last year and we all consponspored his burial.

We felt his death more than the death of our father. There's nothing you say that can separate us and his children.

okpalaAnambra:

No one even goes to imo state to marry these days.. How they made marriage rite a business there is my surprise