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Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by tbest0213(m): 7:56am On Oct 24, 2020 |
You wanted to spoil there plan of selling the land by burying someone on it wch won't enable them sell it again, if he has not built the land then that's why they are behaving that way, don't worry if u have money buy your own land and transfer the body, I don't think he bought that land with his money, it's probably the one he claimed when he was alive and didn't built on it, he would have even drop a foundation to show he have put money on the land... Just saying, out of experience 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Ayotemide(f): 7:56am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Angrykidd: You are irredeemably mad. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by okpalaAnambra: 7:59am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Sunsets:Truth is bitter.. Greedy good for nothing families who will afterall be a burden to the man will want to milk him dry just bc he wants to marry one of their daughters who would have been doing prostitution in owerri before remembering to settle down.. I know what goes on there so chill |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by humilitypays(m): 8:02am On Oct 24, 2020 |
ipobarecriminals:in fact we have already dash her to Fulani herdsmen for free Her father's siblings are all well to do, richer than her father, so you see The foolish girl and her evil mom don't want their late father buried in his family house in the village. They want to bury the man very far away in a land he bought because they have intention to sell the man's house and run away from Igbo land but her uncles are smarter than her, they are profs and medics, some living abroad , which is not in Igbo tradition....Igbos don't bury their son far away from home except the man committed a sacrilege in the community. In Igbo culture and tradition, only the first son can decide how his father is buried, and in absense of a son, the male siblings of the late man liaises with his wife or married daughter to make burial arrangements. A single girl have no traditional right in Igbo culture to single handedly carry her father's corpse and go bury or decide where to bury him. These things were put in place to avoid foolish daughters messing up their late father like this foolish girl is doing now 6 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by LadySarah: 8:02am On Oct 24, 2020 |
21stDecember: He had a pure heart. Even though his children who were older than us weren't behaving and doing well, it didn't spring up jealousy in him and the wife. Now they are reaping the fruit of their kindness. These stories mostly come up where only one person rose up from a family. Maybe he didn't help anybody even though I know he doesn't owe them but I pray he left a will cos his family is so gonna cry and even the courts will not help him. Its them against 6 greedy mofos |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sonnobax15(m): 8:03am On Oct 24, 2020 |
okpalaAnambra:Still wondering why they haven't amend some of those marriage rites na their daughters the thing dey affect pass. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by capitalzero: 8:04am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Abdulazeez99: Radarada culture, court wedding is the best especially for intertribal marriage!! |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Sonnobax15(m): 8:06am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Sagefromtheeast:Bro, your dad was a lucky man...your maternal grandfather must had made everything easy for him...if he had wanted to play his cards according to the imo tradition, your dad wouldn't have only run but also disappeared.. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by ABANGWABOI(m): 8:06am On Oct 24, 2020 |
#ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv This one is ranting and cussing all Igbo men.. It shows how your mother raised you.. The Igbo men wey you no value na em other tribes and Africans especially East Africans dey queue to marry.. You igbo women claim to be good but Nigeria has the second highest fake paternity in the world.. and You lots are the most promiscuous in the country.. Go and sit down.. The fact that your Uncles are stupid doesn't make every igbo man same.. Go and borrow sense.. or turn to butte feminist.. 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by mechanics(m): 8:07am On Oct 24, 2020 |
It's well, God will fight for her. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by okpalaAnambra: 8:07am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Sonnobax15:Just go to owerri and see lots of their ladies in their 40s still doing ashawo work |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by idahme(m): 8:09am On Oct 24, 2020 |
stag: I agree with you, she was seen as a baby who hasn't got the right to make decisions. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Nobody: 8:10am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Tatashi:U people just talk anyhow ..who told u woman don't inherit property in igbo land Woman don't inherit ancestry land .. because it doesn't belong to the father but the village he is just a custodian ....only people in that village can hold it Will your personal property to your female child no body cares 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by idahme(m): 8:11am On Oct 24, 2020 |
sammirano3: The hate is all over ur write-up, please open up. You think an ethnic group has monopoly of foolishness? Ur answer is as good as mine. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Nobody: 8:12am On Oct 24, 2020 |
humilitypays:I'm sure she is not stating the whole facts 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by EagleNest(m): 8:12am On Oct 24, 2020 |
zachanalysis: Always trying to demonise Igbos and pontificate your own tribe and culture is very unfair. Forming opinion on hearsay is bad. How many of you have crossed the Niger Bridge to Igbo hinterland even just to pass thru. Igbos this, Igbo that everyday without resting is annoying. Yes, you don't like Igbos but you still won't let them go. Stop all these lame stereotypes. Every culture has its good and bad sides. You work on yours and I work on mine, but don't tell me you holy pass. 5 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Beremx(f): 8:20am On Oct 24, 2020 |
pwettyme:there's nothing to be scared about. My maternal home is Ihioma. All depends on the family you're from. No need to generalize |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by 9icetoo(m): 8:21am On Oct 24, 2020 |
1. According to igbo tradition, are you allowed to bury your dad on an empty land when he has an obi (house in the village)? 2. Did your dad specifically say where ,(location, exact point) on the land that you wish to bury him? Did he tell your mum or your brother? 3. How old is your brother? If he is of age, why are you the one planning your dad's burial 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Benite: 8:22am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory: I suggest you open a thread on this so everyone will read this part of the story. cc Lalasticlala 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by popsyleo1: 8:24am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Rip to the dead. We should not judge from only her own story. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Akorkor(f): 8:25am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Why am I seeing burial as buhari? Hey God see what this government has done to my eyes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by lonlytroy(m): 8:25am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Hmmm.. life goes on sis.. stay stronge, God will fight your unforeseen battle |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by onez: 8:28am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory:Thank you for the clarification. Some girls are so wide. Imagine this little girl causing aspersions on people. No man should go close this type. 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by LadySarah: 8:29am On Oct 24, 2020 |
pwettyme: Have no fear. I'm all for women rights but this is a one sided story. It probably is a family land and the inputs of the siblings is crucial. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by UjuJoan2: 8:30am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Na wah ooh! |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by 9icetoo(m): 8:31am On Oct 24, 2020 |
NoToPile:You do not bury someone at the back of his house in igbo tradition. 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Mariangeles(f): 8:33am On Oct 24, 2020 |
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Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by banio: 8:34am On Oct 24, 2020 |
My community also buries indiscriminately. Having a burial ground is best for all communities. It would help the water table and prevention of other sicknesses. But greed, African greed, won't let us have burial grounds. But using corpses as a way of stating and claiming lands. I just wish we could be humans. Sorry for your loss and all that tradition bequeathed on you. |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by 9icetoo(m): 8:36am On Oct 24, 2020 |
PowerGlory:I have friends from oguta. I will ask. If your statements are true, then the OP needs to tender an apology. People should train their children well to avoid things like these. 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Graves To Bury One Man: How My Late Father's Kinsmen Hijacked Burial — Lady by Mariangeles(f): 8:38am On Oct 24, 2020 |
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