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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 6:41pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Thanks to everyone that advised me |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 6:49pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 6:53pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 7:49pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Klass99: Aunty I nor talk say I nor wan live together oo, but the devil is winning here. Circumstances drew us apartment and I worked hard to bridge the gap. Maybe I didn’t do enough or she wasn’t carried along but I did my best and I have accept my fate 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:39pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Broken2020: #ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv If all you said here is true then you deserve all she is doing to you.. I pray you catch her red-handed with a man on top of her.. Well, from your narration .. you are a so called rich boy.. throwing money to an ungrateful idiot.. Spending money on her like no tomorrow.. She is really good in manipulation and mind game.. You don't want your son to be raised in a broke. Home bla bla bla.. she would ruin you and you would end up dying before your time, then she would go ahead and enjoy your wealth while spreading her legs for another man like rumour while he bleeps her silly .. Weaklings like you disgust me.. You are a WeakAss Sissy Betamale .. People dey abandon their wives and Son without any reason and go ahead and live their lives to the fullest .. here this idiot is suicidal over a lady that different dudes are fucking her silly.. the 200k you gave her is remaining just 10k coz she settled her lover boy that is fucking her silly in your absence.. but because she has a son for you , you can't e en reason proper to understand this.. Once a wife or girlfriend becomes unecessary rude, toxic and stubborn to you.. then know another man is fucking her.. that is how she would communicate it .. You are a useless slowpoke and deserves to be poisoned by her for being idiotic.. Gosh.. can't believe the nonsense I just read.. feels like a stupid movie script.. You are a disgusting asshole.. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:51pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Shortyy: Babe .. this guy is no where Near being an Alpha male.. he is a weak Ass and sissy nigga .. A beta male.. An alpha male don't take shit.. One of Wizkid babymama tried some shit with him, he withdrew his spending on her and the child and ceased communication.. In one of the leaked chat... Wizkid sister even told the baby mama to send the child to their mom if she is tired of taking care of the child.. the refused to give her shishi.. This guy is a Weakling.. only a stupid man would entrust a property of 70million on his babymama.. even Wizkid no fit try am despite his riches.. And I can bet Buhari's Balls that the babymama is sucking and fucking different dicks in Nigeria while the idiotic Op works his Ass off over there and still cry and beg her not to end things.. The OP is very low on self esteem and self worth.. a Weakling and a disgrace to men 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by pretydiva(f): 1:55am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Klass99:Read op's write up again, but this time slowly. Shalom 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by GboyegaD(m): 2:03am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: In all these, I'm more concerned about your real moniker as that would help give more details to the story and guide in giving advice. |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 2:40am On Oct 31, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI: Lol! I pity you, wait till you know how it feels to have a child. My guy don’t insult me money or properties don’t mean anything to me. I don’t care if she end things or not my concern is my son not even the properties. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 2:54am On Oct 31, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI: If you think I wasn’t expecting trash from an idiot like you then you must be stupid. Whatever kind of male you are I don’t want to be your type. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by faithugo64(f): 6:53am On Oct 31, 2020 |
You obviously value your son more than this lady and your words and actions must have made that fact glaring to her. She feels worthless to you. She probably thinks you are still with her because of your son. Again, better not listen to the persons here telling you she has a game plan. You will end up hurting yourself and the relationship more if you start to act on that. Stop being emotional about all this. Come home and set things in motion Phone conversations sometimes are misleading. You need to look her in the eye and talk about all these. Trust me, you will get a clearer picture of the whole thing once you are home. If after having that face to face talk with her and meeting some relevant persons, she is still bent on leaving, then let her go However, if the case is insecurity, try to push things with her people, ensure you give her some form of security before leaving, even if it is a court wedding. Goodluck! 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by ABANGWABOI(m): 6:54am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: You are a Weakling, Me and you who is an idiot ?? Only a useless fool cries over a woman.. You can't even be my type... You would keep on crying over a woman till eternity.. I do hope she ends up ruining your crying life.. More tears wait you.. Daft and bereft fellow with zero balls and confidence.. You go cry tire.. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by cococandy(f): 7:04am On Oct 31, 2020 |
You’re more hurt by this than the OP. What’s up? ABANGWABOI: 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 7:05am On Oct 31, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI: Well I don’t blame you, I blame your N100 bundle. You shall get more pain than I have ever gotten and you will not live to own a property worth 7 million. You will only be free from these prayers only if I had anything personal with you. Don’t compare me with wizkid compare me with anyone from your family let’s start verification. From your grandfather to your children’s children no one will ever be as financially okay as I am. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 7:06am On Oct 31, 2020 |
cococandy: I tire for this guy oo, poverty makes some people hate on people they think are better than them. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:14am On Oct 31, 2020 |
cococandy: Babe... I am disgusted not hurt.. If it was your brother that is this idiotic, what would have been your view ?? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:16am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: And you think I am from a poor family ?? Anyone that disagree with you is poor ?? You are not just Idiotic , you are also daft and Moronic .. You can afford more than 100Naira bundle but you can't fix your miserable life .. You would continue crying over a woman till eternity.. Dumb kid. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 7:33am On Oct 31, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI: Talk about yourself not your family which I already know is below average. Come with proof let's take it from there. Why do you perceive every success person as your enemy? Change your thinking so that God will change your destiny. Poverty will not depart from your life if you don’t change how you view successful people. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:39am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: I perceive you as enemy ?? Oh... I now know why you babymama treats you like trash.. You lack basic common sense .. Oya post evidence of your wealth and riches let's see.. Clowns like you lives Audio life and yet loud.. You don't know me one on one but can sense that I am living in poverty ?? You are a demented coyote, a dimwit and an imp. You claim to be rich but the most treasured wealth in life which is Wisdom.. you don't have it .. You are a Scum.. On a lighter note : Have you cried today, and pls don't bathe nor eat like you said you haven't done since yesterday.. continue with the tears Kid. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 7:43am On Oct 31, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI: I’ll only mention my moniker and people will testify. I don’t have time for you, you are far from being my headache. Take your poverty frustrated life a step further. |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:57am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: Yet you hid your Moniker and created a new account yesterday.. just to pour your tears and frustration in a faceless forum You lack balls and guts that is why you can't use your main account to post this.. You lack ability to make decisions and be in charge.. yet claim to be a man.. You can't even put your woman incheck but baring all your fangs here.. The truth hurts.. you are a weakling and would remain so.. and Weaklings are always miserable.. Deal with it.. Quote me whenever you have the confidence to unveil your real Moniker if you got balls.. till then continue crying kid. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Nobody: 8:03am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Carchoice: More stressful, because if she decides to re-marry, that's where the real headache starts at least if you're married. The law usually helps shape things. I feel for the OP I swear. Its a tough situation, OP probably losing sleepless nights 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 8:06am On Oct 31, 2020 |
pcguru1: Am getting better bro |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 8:11am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Carchoice: Hahahahahahahaha! |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Nobody: 8:17am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: My step brother too is in that situation , he has three kids but I admit he treated the wife terribly , really terribly. Right now she has re-married so that's that and on the flip side. I had a very good colleague who impregnated someone and left abroad, he married her , never came back to Nigeria, never sent cash and all. So its why your case is interesting, you guys might need to have to talk. God will see you through. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 8:23am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: Is your concern lack of access to your son and fear of repeating same cycle you had or your dying relationship? @bold: the hunter has become the hunted. After years of threats, she has learnt and perfected the act. Maybe if this works out, you will learn a lesson on effective communication. You are a very good monetary provider, well done sir. Apart from money, what else did you provide in the relationship? There are no emotional security with the constant threats of 'I am no longer interested'. Reach out to your girl's father if his influence on his daughter is greater than that of the friend's. And Oga, when all is well, ensure you provide emotional security so your woman doesn't have to run around confiding in friends that are faster to destroy than build. Goodluck 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 8:25am On Oct 31, 2020 |
GboyegaD: Hahahahahahaha |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 8:26am On Oct 31, 2020 |
pcguru1: Her advisers are winning, not sure I want to spend my life with a woman that dug a hole around me with her friends. I didn’t notice till I fell into it. Boss you need to hear how her friend snatched the phone from her and boldly told me “i advised her to leave you” That statement still resound in my ears. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 8:29am On Oct 31, 2020 |
bukatyne: Thanks for the advice |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by bukatyne(f): 8:29am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Broken2020: How is a document in your name & son's name supposed to provide assurance to a woman you have not married? How does such a document provide any assurance to a woman at all? 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 8:31am On Oct 31, 2020 |
bukatyne: If that was not assuring enough, documents in her name wouldn’t have. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by crackhaus: 8:52am On Oct 31, 2020 |
bukatyne:Kai, wahala for who go land inside relationship with a needy woman. Provide emotional security, provide financial security, provide sexual satisfaction, provide orgasm, be a comedian, make her happy all the time, support her inside kitchen, massage her body and feet... Jesu The guy's ONLY concern should be his son, there's nothing to salvage between him and that woman. All that talk I've been reading on the thread about him trying to make amends with her na just fabu. You can't keep a person who does not want to stay, it NEVER works... and even if it does, she would have gained more power to misbehave in the future knowing that he will always come crawling and begging her not to leave. @OP, please find a way to retain connection with your son however way you can. He's your son, you follow born am and you don't need to beg her to have access to him...you simply DON'T. Her only grace here is the distance between both of you and the fact that she knows all you care about is your son (which is not a bad thing at all), so she will use all this to torment you – it's what they usually do, but don't let it get to you. If you have family in Nigeria, let them hold the fort for you and keep in touch with your child on your behalf. Anything that makes you still go ahead to marry this particular lady after all this, then it will be clear that village people are really on your case. Broken2020:Ohh wonderful, your brain is still in form... 5 Likes |
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