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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by KAM3KAZI: 1:33pm On Oct 31, 2020
WoundedLamb:


That one is more like marriage. In marriage, papers are signed and two parties must agree before divorce is approved.

Makes sense, Britain was the matchmaker and the priest in the wedding, bah
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by FlordFlorez(m): 1:36pm On Oct 31, 2020
TheSERAPH:

    

What she needed was a simple deliverance and

she would be free, but alas you were not

thoughtful about that.                

Guy, have u heard about Ilaje people in Ondo State?

She pass me abeg. I couldn't cope any longer.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by WoundedLamb: 1:45pm On Oct 31, 2020
KAM3KAZI:


Makes sense, Britain was the matchmaker and the priest in the wedding, bah

Yup!

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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Bunsenbun(m): 2:56pm On Oct 31, 2020
Youngpo413:
'par amour' is she French?
paramour=love Interest.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by TheSERAPH: 3:22pm On Oct 31, 2020
FlordFlorez:

Guy, have u heard about Ilaje people in Ondo State?
She pass me abeg. I couldn't cope any longer.
   I am from ondo state myself.
I understand how most women from the riverine
ilaje area behaves.
            
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by officialbeffinb(m): 3:31pm On Oct 31, 2020
CoderX:


I liked your post, but there are certain times when one partner refuses to let go. It happens very often!

currently happening to me.
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Nobody: 3:34pm On Oct 31, 2020
officialbeffinb:


currently happening to me.

Why are u leaving her?

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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by officialbeffinb(m): 3:37pm On Oct 31, 2020
Eva165:
I have had such an experience....that particular day, I told babe am done, although our relationship was 2 years nd. After I quit taking her calls I was like finally am out oo. The next 3 days i received a call from one man who referred himself as a doctor. He said a lady is dieing in my hospital now, her BP is 180 high,we have been trying to save her life but no changes. Imidietly another call came in,it was her father.This man beged me to forgive her duather that she is about to die.Although I refused to listen to any of them. In one hour latta the doctor called again that if I can see her through video calls,then I will understand why they all calling me.I accepted for the video calls, Everything about her changed both her color and she became so thin.She said that she will never accept the breakup and even the doctor and her parents was beging me to forgive her if ever she did anything wrong. Finally we are getting married very soon.

congrats in advance. do invite us ooo
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by officialbeffinb(m): 3:40pm On Oct 31, 2020
Bahamas95:
It has never happened to me before. I have broken up with several girls and we all moved on.....One of them tried to act funny sha thinking I wasn't serious when I told her I was no longer interested. Las Las she had to accept it after sending me numerous messages which I didn't reply. It wasn't a big deal.




But in some relationship it won't be easy like that o. After investing so much in a partner the person can't just wake up one-day and tell you it's over. Some people won't take it lightly........Na dat kinda relationship bring the slogan " WE DIE HERE"

After investing so much in a partner the person can't just wake up one-day and tell you it's over.[color=#990000][/color] same thing i'm going through currently. after investing so much in her for the past five yrs. she wanna break up nuh that i'm obsessed or something else but if she try it? she should be ready to pay me back all i invested in her... i cum in peace
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by officialbeffinb(m): 3:51pm On Oct 31, 2020
CoderX:


Why are u leaving her?
I'm not leaving her. she wanna leave me after investing in her for 5yrs. some ladies are wicked as fck. like ds na like we die here relationship ooo .
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Oct 31, 2020
officialbeffinb:
I'm not leaving her. she wanna leave me after investing in her for 5yrs. some ladies are wicked as fck. like ds na like we die here relationship ooo .

Eyaa... sorry to read about this. Either ways, you must evaluate her reasons for wanting to leave you, if you're not to blame, then you might have been played. But never force anyone to stay in a relationship cos it usually doesn't end well. That's why some brides or grooms fail to show up on wedding day!

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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by zyzxx(m): 5:16pm On Oct 31, 2020
LovesickG:

He isn't testing nothing. He swore that if it was a test, his parents, his sister should die. He was certainly very serious. It past now tho, he has blocked me on all social media platforms we are connected, shows how much of a test it was.
he is devilish, thank God it's past
If you try to complies with such, he will use it against you at the long run, so it is better he Fu*ck-away
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by EmmaNuella77(f): 5:32pm On Oct 31, 2020
Abeg if you're single, gather here lets weep
sad
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Oct 31, 2020
EmmaNuella77:
Abeg if you're single, gather here lets weep
sad
lol, who relationship help... I could use a friend though... hit me up on telegram @faozio
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by EmmaNuella77(f): 6:08pm On Oct 31, 2020
Fadioz2020:
lol, who relationship help... I could use a friend though... hit me up on telegram @faozio


Relationship EPP all of us o
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by LovesickG(f): 6:41pm On Oct 31, 2020
zyzxx:
he is devilish, thank God it's past
If you try to complies with such, he will use it against you at the long run, so it is better he Fu*ck-away
My thoughts exactly, thanks friend.

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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Sawzer(m): 6:47pm On Oct 31, 2020
EmmaNuella77:
Abeg if you're single, gather here lets weep
sad

Can I take a seat with you? cry wink
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by FlordFlorez(m): 8:22pm On Oct 31, 2020
TheSERAPH:
   I am from ondo state myself.
I understand how most women from the riverine
ilaje area behaves.
            
Really??
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Kriss216: 8:24pm On Oct 31, 2020
99thEnemy:
Kriss216 come and hear your boo grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Lol
Denique love, how have you been?
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by EmmaNuella77(f): 8:35pm On Oct 31, 2020
Sawzer:


Can I take a seat with you? cry wink

With Jesus joy I welcome you grin
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Sawzer(m): 9:07pm On Oct 31, 2020
EmmaNuella77:


With Jesus joy I welcome you grin
kiss
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Denique(f): 9:15pm On Oct 31, 2020
Kriss216:

Lol
Deniq.ue love, how have you been?

I'm very well, Kriss. Glad to hear from you!

Cheers!
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Kriss216: 9:20pm On Oct 31, 2020
Denique:

I'm very well, Kriss. Glad to hear from you!
Cheers!
You welcome. My regards to 99thEnemy.

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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by cobby14(m): 9:43am On Nov 01, 2020
When I see signs, I run as fast but got to admit single life sucks
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by peppermint7(m): 10:54am On Nov 01, 2020
SolexxBarry:
In this case i was the one that couldn't let go easily grin i begged, cried for 3 months did all i could yet she refused

Then i let her go got another babe and things were moving fine for 8 months, then out of the blues last month she came back begging, till now i don't know what to do cause i really do love her and my current babe is also an amazing person
You don’t know what to do. If u like mumu
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by peppermint7(m): 11:00am On Nov 01, 2020
atmy1:
She brought out a knife and locked the door after calling my new gf that she would kill her if she ever set her eyes on her. She threatened to kill herself if I leave her alone. When I didn't answer she brought out sniper and poured in her mouth. I became scared and started begging her to spit it out. One of our neighbors helped me in taking her to the hospital and she fell sick for two months and I was the one paying the bills. After she got well I prepared to bail out and just leave her with everything in the house but she discovered and went to seize my laptop. I paid cult boys on the street who threatened to kill her before she revealed where she kept it. I left her in the morning crying her hearts out. I came back to pick something in the evening and still saw her crying in front of the house
This ur story interesting oo. She bin fine !!
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by peppermint7(m): 11:04am On Nov 01, 2020
Eva165:
I have had such an experience....that particular day, I told babe am done, although our relationship was 2 years nd. After I quit taking her calls I was like finally am out oo. The next 3 days i received a call from one man who referred himself as a doctor. He said a lady is dieing in my hospital now, her BP is 180 high,we have been trying to save her life but no changes. Imidietly another call came in,it was her father.This man beged me to forgive her duather that she is about to die.Although I refused to listen to any of them. In one hour latta the doctor called again that if I can see her through video calls,then I will understand why they all calling me.I accepted for the video calls, Everything about her changed both her color and she became so thin.She said that she will never accept the breakup and even the doctor and her parents was beging me to forgive her if ever she did anything wrong. Finally we are getting married very soon.
Omo e get as this matter. For better for worst grin

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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by peppermint7(m): 11:31am On Nov 01, 2020
justscorchone:
We were friends before anything happened, we were cool,gisting konji talk hanging out and all, although I had the hot for her and she knew this , during our friendship she has been with 4 guys and they all left her for same reason. I never thought the reason was a big deal because I always thought clingy girls was sexy and I never experienced that type of love before. First month into the relationship the sex was the best I ever had, every encounter felt like something new. Until the real beast in her sprung its ugly head, whenever my phone rings she dives to pick it , whenever we go out she’s always monitoring and cautioning me on how I stare at people male/female, we always argued about bullshit things like why is your female friend calling you around 9pm or why do you have more female followers on Instagram or some other bullshit. I couldn’t deal man, before her I was celibate for years and I hated myself for breaking my vows for something that didn’t have a future. I told her it was over she held my trouser and said never, she followed me home locked the door and threw the keys out the window. All through this I was just laughing because I still thought it was cute a lady was this madly into me. When she started making calls and weeping over the phone I knew I had to put my foot down , I didn’t beat her but drag her out of the back door. I felt embarrassed when my neighbors came out because for years I have been living peacefully without any incident like this. She eventually left but later returned with her female friends to beg I didn’t let them in because there’s no telling what they might do, told them in the most kindest voice that they can’t force me to love someone my heart doesn’t have an atom of affection for anymore, she cried they rained insults but still left. After that incident I have PTSD when a lady shows too much affection towards me or use the L word, I run off before it gets out of hand. I keep them at arms length, if I could just have a baby mama I will be fine. Relationship gives me the hibijibis
Guy U de vex me gon
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by harrwix(m): 10:09am On Nov 02, 2020
LovesickG:

Hmm. Well he was the one doing the begging. I literally begged mine over faults I didn't commit. He thinks I sleep with any guy I talk to, he checks my Facebook messages and questions me on every guy I've chatted with. I have never cheated nor thought of cheating on him.
He told me that he'll forgive my alleged cheating if I sleep with any guy while he watches via WhatsApp video call, and that's the only condition to continue our relationship. I seriously considered it but I just couldn't, the very thought makes me sick. I told him I couldn't and he broke up with me and blocked me on Whatsapp. He said I'll come begging and crying back to him and by then, he'll insist I sleep with two guys while he watches.

Talk about a demon, and that guy could pass for one. Thank goodness it is over between both of you

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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by officialbeffinb(m): 4:51pm On Nov 02, 2020
CoderX:


Eyaa... sorry to read about this. Either ways, you must evaluate her reasons for wanting to leave you, if you're not to blame, then you might have been played. But never force anyone to stay in a relationship cos it usually doesn't end well. That's why some brides or grooms fail to show up on wedding day!

thanks
Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by Uncle93(m): 6:58pm On Nov 02, 2020
AfroKnight:
Lol. I can’t relate. Imagine one babe telling me I can’t break up with her. WTF grin That sh!t is scary.

It happened to me when I was in University of ilorin, in 400l.. so I was just trying to smash but then she turned it into something super serious..then later I was like sorry I'm not longer interested after a week of dating , I notice she was obsessed. She was like nah babe , we are stuck together for life.. I was like ehnn. She said that and just walked away .. she tormented my life for 1 good month.. 20 calls everyday, unlimited SMS. I use to have headache daily

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Re: Ever Tried Breaking Up With Someone And The Person Refused? How Did It Go? by AfroKnight: 7:09pm On Nov 02, 2020
Uncle93:


It happened to me when I was in University of ilorin, in 400l.. so I was just trying to smash but then she turned it into something super serious..then later I was like sorry I'm not longer interested after a week of dating , I notice she was obsessed. She was like nah babe , we are stuck together for life.. I was like ehnn. She said that and just walked away .. she tormented my life for 1 good month.. 20 calls everyday, unlimited SMS. I use to have headache daily

Stuck together for life kee? Ah! cheesy I will start begging her before she lock person destiny.

Bro, you try. I’m sure you were like “who send me message o?” grin

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