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When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Nov 10, 2020
Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before �. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share mine. I was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was in her house on this particular day and we were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. I’m an unapologetic alpha male and I support my gender with all I have but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed me so I told her I was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God”�‍♀️ As if that wasn’t enough she pushed me out of her apartment and told me “get out of my house and go and die�‍♀️“.

As a gentleman I didn’t say anything but deep down I knew the relationship was over but I didn’t end it that day or week or month.

So when did you know that the relationship was over?

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by LisaAnneMia: 3:56pm On Nov 10, 2020
It was infatuation at first sight. Nothing in common, arguments over every little thing as we couldn't come to a common ground.

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by nuelsam: 3:58pm On Nov 10, 2020
JohnspeakU:
Good day everyone!!
Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before �. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share mine. I was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was in her house on this particular day and we were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. I’m an unapologetic alpha male and I support my gender with all I have but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed me so I told her I was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God”�‍♀️ As if that wasn’t enough she pushed me out of her apartment and told me “get out of my house and go and die�‍♀️“.

As a gentleman I didn’t say anything but deep down I knew the relationship was over but I didn’t end it that day or week or month.

So when did you know that the relationship was over?

Lalasticlala mynd44 seun
did she apologize for her actions ?

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by SkyRicks: 4:10pm On Nov 10, 2020
JohnspeakU:
Good day everyone!!
Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before �. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share mine. I was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was in her house on this particular day and we were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. I’m an unapologetic alpha male and I support my gender with all I have but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed me so I told her I was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God”�‍♀️ As if that wasn’t enough she pushed me out of her apartment and told me “get out of my house and go and die�‍♀️“.

As a gentleman I didn’t say anything but deep down I knew the relationship was over but I didn’t end it that day or week or month.

So when did you know that the relationship was over?

Lalasticlala mynd44 seun

The bae was dam demanding Financially after months I have to make love bro she declined that am always after sex it ended that day but I kept quiet for months when she was serious about me I told her I don't want her anymore she cried and called for weeks bro my mind was made up.. I was hurt by her words because I knew she was cheating but the guy was a player and a sch (uni) boyfriend and I was the dream husband so I played her, her own card waited for what I wanted and moved on. My love for her died the day she told me she can't have sex with me

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by SkyRicks: 4:15pm On Nov 10, 2020
SkyRicks:


The bae was dam demanding Financially after months I have to make love bro she declined that am always after sex it ended that day but I kept quiet for months when she was serious about me I told her I don't want her anymore she cried and called for weeks bro my mind was made up.. I was hurt by her words because I knew she was cheating but the guy was a player and a sch (uni) boyfriend and I was the dream husband so I played her, her own card waited for what I wanted and moved on. My love for her died the day she told me she can't have sex with me

Frankly speaking ladies are funny, you offer you sch boy sex but you man you want to keep till marriage.... And you think in your reasoning you can play a man.. unless his the anger type and a taker

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by SILENTandSMART2: 4:17pm On Nov 10, 2020
Karamon which one is as an unapologetic alpha male, that doesn't necessarily at all,


That's what I said that lead to slapping


I was like "as an alpha male i can't beg for your love yunno money isn't the problem at all"

The next thing I heard is paaa paa paaa paaa paaaa paaaa!! She gave me apha female slap, lemme just end dat story,


Back to yaa question,


She always like to touch me always, like touching my face chest, dat thing disturb my thomass and irritate me sometimes smiley

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Kiddogarcia(m): 4:36pm On Nov 10, 2020
Mine was the day she told me she give no hoot about the happenings in the society during the endsars protest,as long as she and her family was safe,others were not part of her business. I knew we had to end whatever we thought we had,how can someone I call my girl, could be that insensitive towards the cause of humanity

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Godada(m): 4:42pm On Nov 10, 2020
Being in quite a lot of relationships if you would call them that. But to me it's more of the hit and run variety. I can't put my heart on the line for slippery leeches.

So let me pick a certain point I decided to have a go at a relationship. But the lady wanted to walk over me. It's easier for hell to freeze over than me to subscribe to be made a freaking doormat.

The relationship has gotten to the point she would just give me a piece of her mind. She would give me hair dryer treatment. So I knew that I couldn't stand a toxic relationship with her. But ending it immediately would be merciful. Besides she had this thing about her. She befriends everyone in my area who in turn monitors my movement.

To cut a pretty long story short. I set it up she ran into her replacement. Her face fell and I am cøck sure it hit the floor.

Babe groped and begged for months before she moved on. But I enjoyed screwing her over.

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Huxlebeast77: 5:21pm On Nov 10, 2020
Smiles.
My brother any girl when one give headaches na ghosting sure pass.
Ghost her like you've never met her all your life, in most cases she nor dey add anything for your life in the first place

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Auladimeji(m): 5:44pm On Nov 10, 2020
The relationship I'm in now,my mind no dey the relationship, na sex be my own,when I'm done,I'll dispatch her

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Uyi168: 10:05pm On Nov 10, 2020
...
Leeme just drop this.

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Jaynom(m): 10:05pm On Nov 10, 2020
I called her around 10pm and heard a man Whispering in the background. We were both in Uni. I had to stop loving her. I stopped caring and started treating her like a Sexxual object, a piece of Meat!

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 10:06pm On Nov 10, 2020
When she farted into my bowl of rice!!! undecided undecided


I no dey do love reach that side...

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by slawormiir: 10:06pm On Nov 10, 2020
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright...we real niggarr ain't got no story concerning this topic because we real niggarrs don't do relationships.
We just see women as swimming pool..our own na to swim shaperly and move on

We don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
We don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before we started swimming
We don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after we are done swimming our own
And we don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with us as we are swimming
We just swim our own sharpely and move on.
Real niggarrrz bang pussy and move on.

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by smartval(m): 10:07pm On Nov 10, 2020
make money first, that bitch will be royal

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Jeje600: 10:07pm On Nov 10, 2020
From Day 1

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by ipobarecriminals: 10:07pm On Nov 10, 2020
sad D very day u enter/eat the snail,smile inward,chop clean mouth sad. That's EOD

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by omooba969(m): 10:08pm On Nov 10, 2020
When she started lying, especially on flimsy stuff.

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Amspecial: 10:08pm On Nov 10, 2020
sad
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by IamWonderful: 10:08pm On Nov 10, 2020
ok

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Olarewaju89: 10:08pm On Nov 10, 2020
The day I received my spiritual calling grin

I have to end everything immediately because she's not spiritual grin

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by stubbornman(m): 10:08pm On Nov 10, 2020
When for no reason she told me " Babe reduce the way you love me, I think I love someone else"....It was painful and embarrassing at the same time , Someone I went through so much for .... Mehn I just called off the relationship the next week.

No relationship is worth my SELF-ESTEEM!!!

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by omooba969(m): 10:08pm On Nov 10, 2020
smartval:
make money first, that bitch will be loyal

Lol cheesy you're a learner. grin

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by DennisEche(m): 10:08pm On Nov 10, 2020
When Buhari shifted from change to next level, I knew that the relationship has come to an end. Weeps and drags my kpoli..

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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Blackmoran(m): 10:09pm On Nov 10, 2020
when she started threaten me with suicide note and message... i can not become victim of he kill her wife , he kill is wife, in conclusion no media will acuse me of molestation or asult

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