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Lucyspa:
Am not joking ooo. Nonsense stingy guy

Rockyfancino:
I don't know my IQ. What point you aiming at?

purples25:
Wahala.....

Girls are looking for the guys that will button up their shirts and respect them.....Love and pamper them....

The guys they are looking for are also looking for girls to play female romeo and super porn star all in one for them....also want a girl that will be obsessed, love and pamper them. .

Both jam each other, none like the other. Everyone separates.

Sixfeetbelle:
You can't be sure she's getting boned by another guy though.

But why did you leave? You don't want a virgin wife again?

Samsimple:
She deleted my luno app to free space for candy crush

FashionCookie:
Some Niraland men sha...after una go dey form alpha male. See tears...shior. By the way women, una no dey break up?

AlphaMajestic:
Some of these girls can see tru guys..if they notice that they can toil with u mentally they will do that without wasting time...

but if if they notice that ur reasoning is high..they wont have any choice than to respect themselves without being told..

thats the difference between alpha males and simps..

most times we just jump into relationships cos the persons physical appearance...we dnt measure how mentally compatible we are with them

Momoreoluwa90:
The country where Donald Trump is president.

Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.

I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.

Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.

It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.

I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.

So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.

Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.

I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.

I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.

I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.

Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.

I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.

As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.

Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.

So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.

You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.

She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.

Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.

Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.

Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.

omooba969:
Trust me bro, there are many lovely and decent ladies on NL.

Just open your eyes!

Rockyfancino:
I sometimes chip it in when we're playing. Nothing works, it's not as if she doesn't see it herself. Her sense of reasoning is illogical. Someone that I was trying to save from all these scam investment and she replied me with I'm making her sad.

I get that no one likes it when it becomes nagging. But she always does it and is always aware of what she does. She just doesn't care because she's selfish.

I have tried getting her from all angles. Telling her I'm not happy, scolding her, laughing at it, chipping it in conversations, getting distant, silent treatment etc. Just name it all. The truth is when you love someone, you'd want to bend the rules to please that person.

I can't stand it anymore, it's irritating to me. She knows it's bad. She's very arrogant and rude. You're talking with sense right now, she doesn't talk with sense at all. At least common sense should tell her that her actions is creating mess.

When she does this thing, it leaves the person feeling like a worthless human being. She lacks a teachable spirit. Someone that will say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way. I should just continue taking whatever she throws at me. You don't really understand.

When she complains and I listen, there's no problem. But when I complain, there is a problem and I'm turning it against her right? Nah... No one does that. It just pained me that I should have just dropped her a long time ago.

luminouz:
Lmaoooooo....


I told you

AlphaMajestic:
maybe ur right abt d guy being stingy..i know some of my guys dat wont even give a girl T-fare after she visits them..its bad o

but if the guy no get and u demand everything knowing that he doesn't have then ur the problem

Tobiloba2407:
Say no to your brokenness, and save your pussy, from high mileage.

Since any man with little change can have you

Fussion1000:
Many of them are audio alpha male, when they meet lady physically they chicken out, the way guys beg women for ordinary attentions on Facebook, is amazing. Most especially alpha male, they are the product of sex and relationships starved niggard

purples25:
Wahala.....

Girls are looking for the guys that will button up their shirts and respect them.....Love and pamper them....

The guys they are looking for are also looking for girls to play female romeo and super porn star all in one for them....also want a girl that will be obsessed, love and pamper them. .

Both jam each other, none like the other. Everyone separates.

positivevibez:
When she stopped getting wet for me I new shii was over

JastSiryin:
Madam speak for yourself abeg. If that's all you ladies want, there wouldn't be too many issues. Guys could also be unreasonable too. So stop making it look like only us has got problems.

AlphaMajestic:
maybe ur right abt d guy being stingy..i know some of my guys dat wont even give a girl T-fare after she visits them..its bad though

luminouz:
Alaye, you dey fall hands naaaaa

Why kain rubbish talk is this now?

AlphaMajestic:
u dey craze...some of u guys too stingy for real..

infact na it mke i fight my guy yesterday ..dis guy fo control small girl fvck them finish..to gve them transport go dey hard am..u dey mad inshort ...u dnt hve to be a maga but atleast be responsible...if na ur sis wey dem fvck for 4 hours dem no gve am tfare shey u go like am

we fight better fight o..cos na my huz him dey carry dem come..i ended dat shit yesterday

luminouz:
Such a pussy ass nigga.
So you fought your own friend over pussy payment?
Alphamajestic indeed.
I hope that friend stays clear of you.for life.

AlphaMajestic:
so when u carry woman come dey disturb d peace of my neighborhood over pussy payment..i shd keep mute..
thunder fire u and dat hoodlum wey be my friend...i dnt reason like tout..
na ur type dey fight with ashawo

luminouz:
K

AlphaMajestic:
k kill u there...hooligan

Meliann:
Are you saying you never gave your gf money? Even if you didn't, I'm sure you sometimes buy her little gifts or provisions, right?

AlphaMajestic:
so when u carry woman come dey disturb d peace of my neighborhood over pussy payment..i shd keep mute..
[/b]thunder fire u and dat hoodlum wey be my friend...i dnt reason like tout..[b]
na ur type dey fight with ashawo

stubbornman:
When for no reason she told me " Babe reduce the way you love me, I think I love someone else"....It was painful and embarrassing at the same time , Someone I went through so much for .... Mehn I just called off the relationship the next week.

No relationship is worth my SELF-ESTEEM!!!

JohnspeakU:
Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before �. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share mine. I was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was in her house on this particular day and we were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. I’m an unapologetic alpha male and I support my gender with all I have but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed me so I told her I was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God”�‍♀️ As if that wasn’t enough she pushed me out of her apartment and told me “get out of my house and go and die�‍♀️“.

As a gentleman I didn’t say anything but deep down I knew the relationship was over but I didn’t end it that day or week or month.

So when did you know that the relationship was over?