₦airaland Forum

bluskyee:
loooooollll you are cunningly defending the ladies. Every guy is an olosho. We are not arguing that we accept! But no guy wants to marry an olosho. That is the problem.

bluskyee:
Every guy cheats or will cheat as long as he can afford it and the opportunity is there. Let me explain this. I walk into a lounge on the mainland and I order for a bottle of Hennessey, I paid 30k. Opposite my sit a lovely lady is seated willing to spend the night with me for half the price of my drink. If I can buy a bottle of drink for 30k, why don't I just add 15k and leave with a drink and a babe for 45k?

BRATISLAVA:
You've nailed it.

They don't want emotional strings or family life (they will tell you how they want to have relationships with their children in their comical fashion). They hate to be told anything contrary to their opinion. How dare a woman try to control any aspect of their lives, how dare she? The thrill of gratituous sex anytime they want it is the secret behind all men who want to stay single.

Typical of the lawless ones who think they're driven. They lack control and so many other things when you look microscopically at their cases. They are the male prostitutes at heart.

It's best they undergo vasectomies or become gay, because anyone who has children for them, and the children themselves, are doomed.

Afterwards they convince themselves it's about money. But even the ones with money have the same issues. Damaged men with unhealthy egos.

pocohantas:
Every guy is not an olosho. I take GOD beg you, speak for yourself and your circle.

DrFunmisticGlow:
where did she lie in her statement.

Only conquered men prefer to be deadbeat babydaddies

Sixfeetbelle:
Say Amen you wayward child. Is something wrong with you? Do I look like your age mate?

Say Amen osiso before thunder will start locating you now.

Lucrativress:
Some have to be strict in their decisions due to "keeping up with standards"
Some situations that popped up
"Being Indecisive"
Confusion of a future unknown
For different reasons not just cause of indecency
Some cause they couldn't get what they really wanted,so the future seems bleak till they can succumb or get them at least
Different reasons mehnn

omooba969:
Sometimes I feel humane words could be used to describe this category of men y'all tryna tag but I guess it's satisfying for women to give a warm smile as dead is being used in this term.

It explains the state of mind of our black queens.

Brandonx:

I'm not ready to get married because no lady has been able to prove to me beyond reasonable doubt the benefits of marriage.
I think men should only think about marriage when they are above 50 years you know close to retirement so you don't feel lonely later.

NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins

DrFunmisticGlow:
i applaud your ability to say much without saying anything

omooba969:
It's understandable that you don't gerrit.

It's normal to not find comfort in what doesn't suit our narrative.

sirjamesjnr:
Pocohantas, I am surprised you throw abusive words on me. I always hold you on high esteem. I want to assume you make a mistake. If you actually did, please note I do not belong to those circle of men you takedown. Don't bother to quote me because I will not stoop low to give you a respond.

DrFunmisticGlow:
my world, my reality.

Queenserah26:
I concur

OB7Foreva:
There's alot of dumb girls this days, who doesn't know what they want.

bluskyee:
loooooollll you are cunningly defending the ladies. Every guy is an olosho. We are not arguing that we accept! But no guy wants to marry an olosho. That is the problem.

Gerrard59:
You don't believe in statistics which were researched and published in reputable journals by respected professionals, but we should believe one Liposure on Nairaland who says baby daddies are more responsible than husbands because they pay child support?

pocohantas:
Every guy is not an olosho. I take GOD beg you, speak for yourself and your circle.



This is why people are tasked with living a responsible life. I am not talking abstinence here, but a conscious effort to guide your space and your circle. Oloshos are not the only problems, broloshos are a different kind of problem. Their mindset is dangerous for themselves and the women they end up with.

bluskyee:
Every guy cheats or will cheat as long as he can afford it and the opportunity is there. Let me explain this. I walk into a lounge on the mainland and I order for a bottle of Hennessey, I paid 30k. Opposite my sit a lovely lady is seated willing to spend the night with me for half the price of my drink. If I can buy a bottle of drink for 30k, why don't I just add 15k and leave with a drink and a babe for 45k?

misterme:
All I can say is that if I knew what I now know I wouldn't have married. I would have stayed single or wait a bit longer before taking that plunge.

The plenty pains, stress, depression, hurts, burdens, bitterness, disappointments, insults, physical and psychological abuse and many more negatives far far outweigh the very little joy and pleasure in marriage.

Now I must say this may not be the experience of all but it is the experience of many, myself inclusive.

If you really can find a good partner and you are absolutely sure of it, then please go ahead and marry. If you have the slightest doubt, fear, apprehension, or negative intuition about the person, please stay away. You are better off single than experiencing hell here on Earth in a bad marriage. Trust me. You don't want it

NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins

Krystalzkris:
Who hurt you, dear?

sirjamesjnr:
My fiancee is a known Nairaland. DrFunmisticGlow.

omooba969:
It's all about 'the control' and just when you can't have your way y'all get nasty with your attacks.

I can see through the lines.

vanvino:
Is that a reason to get Married?

pocohantas:
Well said. It is okay if they don’t want to marry, it is a personal decision I will always respect- but stay your lane, do not bring innocent kids into your drama! You don’t want to marry, but you are looking for women to make babymamas. If you want kids so much, get a surrogate to have them for you. Save us all the babydady/babymama squabbles.

A lot of these guys are not richer than Davido, Tuface and Wizkid, yet we all know the drama they had with their babymamas. Tuface is now very calm, I am sure he would have done a lot differently. Wizkid and Davido will soon reach their own ages of realization. These kids do not deserve the drama their parents bring upon them.

BRATISLAVA:
Only you know what you're talking about and making bold.
If you didn't get it, it probably is an "attack" on you, so you don't want to get it.

Next.

NoFucksToGive:
Simple

Most ladies out there are damaged goods

Over used , emotionally battered , low self-esteem, mentally poor, no ambition, addicted to instagram relationship coaches.

These set of over aged used up females are saddits, wake up singing gospel songs but yet she can nag to high heaven .

They accuse me of being lazy because I don't want to date a lady struggling financially just because I too don't struggle financially so I want a balance then they call me lazy for wanting this ?

All the 30 plus ladies are lying they are 24 years old .

They never look like the picture on their WhatsApp profile, when you see them in real life they look like the mother of the lady in the picture with too much make up

They speak good English but are dumb , the smart ones look like my uncle

When the smart ones are fine they have aggressive tendencies

Most Nigerian ladies sound like a confused mess of past opinions of their Exs

It's so much simpler not to deal with their shît and be single

Nigerian ladies are just tummy driven over arbortionized sperm waste bins

BRATISLAVA:
They will never do the bolded because, scared as they are to admit it, their world revolves around the 'vagina people'.
We're still yet to understand why they want the drama and relationship status of baby somebody.


Anyway, it's all drama. See them sending out wedding invitations every weekend? Online is their macho fantasy where they are libidinous males whose pockets the creme de belles are after . Most are pussy whipped. The rest are poor scumbags of no renown. Dick measuring has a new dimension here.