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TheCork:
dont rest..please delete the dumb thread. ..thanks!!

Nazgul:
True.

It's so annoying that's why most guys have become wise. I have a colleague who told me that the highest money he can give to any girl he's dating is 2k if she feels it's too small she can leave. Cos if a guy choose to foolishly give her the money she's asking for, more request would come sooner or later.

Their problem no de finish

stacyadams:
Some toto I Bleep for free ,na some other guys dey pay d house rent...

Na boys no wan wise up...u can decide to be paying there bills,while some others RE doing d bleeping...na guys go decide which role suit them

BrokeNhustling:
not entirely true boss...one way or the other you must pay oo..thing be say nor go dey do pass your sef..except say na just hit and run you one do..but some toto you need hold am for some time oo..that one you must collect billing one way or the other sir..money for hand back for ground...just get money..aside women sef..everything lately money dey involved..

stacyadams:


I got my selling point

Nazgul:
For your mind you've made sense ko?

Cerebellum:
Guy I didn't create the post nah Eleribu you be??!

TheCork:
u didnt?...they why are u posting dumb replies?....if u dont have moiney to chase women then stay on yor lane and watch us...Quit naggin sir!! (real talk)

Cerebellum:
Shut ur mouth bro
Was my reply directed to your dirty ass?!

Tot I told you before you are an Arindin, why can't you then change ur dumb lifestyle

BrokeNhustling:
no no no..you got it wrong boss...it is greed...them dey chop 3 or 4 times a day oo..roof over their head..papa and mama dey work and still give you money once once...the main problem is social media..they go on Instagram and Facebook and see things..say fake lifestyle and real people balling..women are moved by what they see..they are easily deceived reason the devil went to Eve and not Adam..social media is the main problem..influence and friends too get hand..na just to find one old aunty to born for you o..put am for house..take care of am..that one you know say she done waka all the waka she want..if she like sef make she continue the waka..me nor send.. just born for me and care for me and my kids..me too go waka my own..just don't kill me or stress me with your waka..this life nor too hard..

TheCork:
...Brother being a man means being alpha mame...u either a man or man dressed as women...meaning u either a man or u choose to be gay. Women are supoose to be treated like queeens....
Sir, if u can afford women than u are free to wear womens cloths so guys can spend on u...QUIT MOANING I BEG!!!!!(no oofense)

anochuko01:
I'm a very introverted person so I've not really met alot of girls in my life. But I've recently decided to go on a spree and I've got about ten of them I'm currently chatting with.

It's very funny how they expect you to start dashing them money just like that without bothering to even create any form of friendship.

I however have two outstanding ones who have never asked me for a dime, one of them being a student and the other one losing her job due to coro.

It'll also be fair to also condemn guys who are only interested in entering ladies pants as soon as they meet them.

Aileexa1:
Same way some men will see a lady for the first time and the first thing they will say if you snub them is ''I can take care of you...''

FahBuLous:
Thats how i meant this my old classmate on facebook, we started chatting so well, funny thing is that I had her on my list for over 6 years but we never chatted, immediately i sent her "HI" .. She was like, oh long time, the next line was asking me for urgent 4k... Not like I didnt have the money but i couldn't send it... As in we didn't even chat up to 3 lines...

Nazgul:


I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

Nazgul:


I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

Aileexa1:
Same way some men will see a lady for the first time and the first thing they will say if you snub them is ''I can take care of you...''

fati2001:
BECAUSE THEY ARE SO LAZY.....

ONLY TO WEAR LATEST FASHIONABLE STUFFS FORMIN BIG GIRLS..


We rush any ladies as far say she set well

Even if she wear dirty clothes but make she get attraction we will go for her
















BUT NAH THEIR TYPE MEN DEY RUSH PASS.

fati2001:
BECAUSE THEY ARE SO LAZY.....

ONLY TO WEAR LATEST FASHIONABLE STUFFS FORMIN BIG GIRLS..
















BUT NAH THEIR TYPE MEN DEY RUSH PASS.

TheCork:
brother.. I have moiney...u dont. U need moiney..u ask nicely!!(,real talk)

Thereddevil:
Queens don't beg, slaves do... Queens run a palace, slaves run errands.. A King showers his Queen with gifts which she needn't ask for..

Cerebellum:
Wetin I do this mofo o

Nah how much u get self

Nazgul:


I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

TheCork:
^^^^^^STORY
.....errmm bro..i dont meannnto sound rude but ONLY broke guys that say women are gold digger.........Quit nagging & juss find a job, i beg!!!(no oofeinse)

BrokeNhustling:
no no no..you got it wrong boss...it is greed...them dey chop 3 or 4 times a day oo..roof over their head..papa and mama dey work and still give you money once once...the main problem is social media..they go on Instagram and Facebook and see things..say fake lifestyle and real people balling..women are moved by what they see..they are easily deceived reason the devil went to Eve and not Adam..social media is the main problem..influence and friends too get hand..na just to find one old aunty to born for you o..put am for house..take care of am..that one you know say she done waka all the waka she want..if she like sef make she continue the waka..me nor send.. just born for me and care for me and my kids..me too go waka my own..just don't kill me or stress me with your waka..this life nor too hard..

Nazgul:
I learned when I was a student never to live above my means. And it has really helped me till date. Girls should learn it too.

So girls are jobless yet they want to maintain a cream of 10k, wig of 20k, expensive clothes like you mentioned. It's madness.

Warri people would say...."make I chop him money small, make I chop him money small, na so ashawo de take start"

Nazgul:


I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male