I don't believe you jhor. Oya if na true give me the number

AnonymousRebec:


It was before I didn't use to give guys my number. Now, I give every Tom, Dick and Harry who askes for my number, my number. Later, I block the once I already know don't have sense. The once that have sense, I leave them there and pick their calls whenever they call.

Sixfeetbelle:


Isn't it better you lay it out there and be rejected than to portray yourself as a nigga who's that desperate for sex he has to 'entice' a lady to get it?

Do you guys even reason what ladies can do to you if a supposedly harmless visit turns into sex she wasn't prepared for?

well you have your point,for girls you are already use to it's easy to be blunt,but for new catch how many will accept such bluntness considering the pretence of Nigerian girls, perhaps we should adopt the system of simply making sex a precondition for financial assistance for girlfriends.

Silentgroper:
I'll call riele on your scrawny ass nw.

riele is dead !!!!

gimakon:


When i see naija girls and the Hard to get they form, I laugh. My travel to one of these East african Nations proved to me that, Naija girls (82% of them) No get level.
Bro go Tanzania see babe. They speak their Swahili to you, You just need understand small Swahili na you get them, they would care for you.. You fit no even remember house. Or the Tutsi ones from Rwanda. I no sure say u go remember house.

For me, I sha no get Time to worry for Naija babes again. Make them day their day

They sound like prostitutes. Or fetish for Nigerian men. Or very poor, those countries aren't all that. Nothing to it.

pocohantas:


Every time, Naija girls this, Naija girls that.

Naija girls are perfect for Naija men.

Do you judge the foreign babes the same way you are judging Naija girls? See how you are so proud to say the foreign girls have level because they are sexually liberated. If it is a Naija girl, she is an olosho with borehole pussy and no man should pay her brideprice.

You Nigerian men are fucking hypocrites!!! Stop comparing us to foreign girls, their men don’t insult them for having sex like you guys do!!

In fact, go fck them, make our toto rest small!

Looool.

They only like foreign women because they don't bring their cultural patriarchal bullshit to the table when they are with them. Nobody will follow them home if they behave like the judgemental, entitled chimps they are in Nigeria.

Just look at how he sounds so entitled to easy sex in Rwanda.Maybe it's even prostitutes. Nigerian men will lieeeeee to suit their ego that they are all that. Must be low level girls who will just fall at the thought of dollars from a foreigner. If it's a Nigerian girl, he will say she's gold digging.

Powerfly:


Well.. I wish the guy who's hand i am to fall victim well. Because heaven knows.. I make no empty threats.
Nigerian men can never be trusted.. Who i wan trust laidis?
U guys are like the devil.. White today but black tomorrow.

Lmaooo@yoir last sentence.

You ladies ain't no saints either... Green today...red tomorrow

Deepthoughts:
well you have your point,for girls you are already use to it's easy to be blunt,but for new catch how many will accept such bluntness considering the pretence of Nigerian girls, perhaps we should adopt the system of simply making sex a precondition for financial assistance for girlfriends.

Asking your girlfriend to visit you is different. She suppose know scope as per you know...

Asking a random girl you just befriended on social media to visit you shows how much of a pvssy-whipped nigga you are. A smart girl can use it to ruin you.

perhaps we should adopt the system of simply making sex a precondition for financial assistance for girlfriends

Aren't you guys already doing this even now?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
These days when you tell a guy you can't come, he start calling you names. They actually think any girl they rapour with very well owe them a visit. Me no visit am make him no visit me. If you want us to see we can see outside anywhere and don't mind buying you a drink. If you take what I can afford. I once told a guy who asked us to meet that I can't come to his house that we could meet in any open place. He asked me where I would prefer I told him where and he started abusing me that I was hungry looking for who to feed me. This was a place where I spend my leasure time when I want to spend it outside my house. I go there once a while alone buy want I want stay as long as I want to and go early enough to get home before dark. I even have a particular table where I seat cos I get a nice view from there. The was no abuse he didn't rain on me I've the phone. What he didn't know was that I was a hardened lady when it comes to guys. If you are not hard enough as a single lady, guys will think cos you are single you are available for every meeting with every dickhead.

@ the bold. My sentiments exactly.

Once you're chummy with any guy, they automatically assume you're down for anything and so they drop the annoying "come visit me" phrase.

Tufiakwa.

Sixfeetbelle:


@ the bold. My sentiments exactly.

Once you're chummy with any guy, they automatically assume you're down for anything and so they drop the annoying "come visit me" phrase.

Tufiakwa.

It doesn't annoy anymore.

Before nkor.. wetin she wan com do before 'epp me fry beans or wat' ?
It's what it is, but just that guys should learn to take the word NO for an answer ..if she doesn't want it cos it should be a mutual thing

BigDick70inch:



Lol..
U right but then u wrong too bro..

See..the last girl I treated right and protected ended up telling me she was smarter..

Never had intention of ever dating her..

And..if u see did girl ehn??

She look so calm and innocent Oo

Bro i cab relate, all you gotta do is let them be and focus on your life , those who are good and meant for you will surely locate you and they will love you so genuinely that you'll forget about the bad days

SILENTandSMART2:
That shows who you are


I can never tell a girl to come to my house and think otherwise because they know who i am,


They know dat i don't do shit,

In life try to make sure dat the view dat people use to see you is positive,


OP work on yourself

It's not always like that, most of them just have that belief that you're after sex especially the ones that have known you for a span of weeks. No matter how good your character or personality is they'll always have that belief. I met a girl during our schools matric earlier this year though she's not a student, callected her number calling and chatting with her for 2weeks then I told her that I'd like to meet with her in SCHOOL cos I've got something to tell (I like her) but she told me that she'll only be coming during next years matric, bro it took me some months before I realized that she actually thought I wanted having sex with her jeez. Though I don't blame her but blame other guys for instilling such beliefs into them

lefulefu:
its risky just visiting a random stranger at home that u just met on facebook or any social site.at least if its a guy u have known for some time i doubt he would try the strangulation stunt on u just cos u refused his advance..u tell him stop he will stop but for a random stranger u can never tell.u are lucky sha cos he could easily invite another of his paddy and when u enter the room and u resist they can easily lock the door and have their way.Remember the story of cynthia years back who murdered by strangulation by a facebook boyfriend.the facebook boyfriend strangled her to death and both the guy and his friend made away with her phones and atm cards.u ladies should be careful in the type of guys u hook up with on social media.my own advice is before u want to meet someone u hooked up with on the internet go through his pictures very to check weda he looks like an igbo smoker or there is any hint of ruggedity in his appearance.if he has no pixs on his profile insist he shows u his pictures.if he refuses then dont go to see him cos such an individual might have something to hide and u could be putting urself in harm"s way going to see such an individual.

My dear, it was not a facebook invitation. Known this guy for years though nothing between us. Travelled for Xmas and ran into him around my town, and as per being a long time client, decided to visit him upon his request. And he had no decorum at all. Just went straight to asking me to go down with him and of course, I refused. Come and see Mike Tyson competition.

Briller:


My dear, it was not a facebook invitation. Known this guy for years though nothing between us. Travelled for Xmas and ran into him around my town, and as per being a long time client, decided to visit him upon his request. And he had no decorum at all. Just went straight to asking me to go down with him and of course, I refused. Come and see Mike Tyson competition.

na wao a guy that u knew had to stoop to such level as that
aint cool

luminouz:


Mtchewwww!!!
All those catchy phrases are for boys!!!
A real nigga would tell the babe say he wants to fuq. Thats what I do. I tell them straight up that I'm Hot and I want some pussy. But these are girls that I like o and we dey on relationship level. I have very few female friends and I never initiate anything sexual at all with those I call friends or sisters. We know our boundaries.

Their Reactions(Relationship babes):

Bukky : God forbid!! You don spoil, Lumi!! Bad boy!!

Chioma: You and who? Abeg,I want to coman watch Netflix!!! I'm not in the mood!!

Rukevwe: Fuq kee u dia!!! Thats the only thing you know!! Is there food? Cuz I know you no sabi cook? Lemme buy some tomatoes when coming sha.

Bimbo: You no fit!!! I dey come your house for the first time and you go fuq me? Haba, its my first visit na. Respect my body!!!



CONCLUSION:

I FUQED ALL OF THEM, WITHOUT STRESS!!!

Lai Mohamed. Are you the same guy that was disgraced on ashewo thread for being broke and wearing faded jeans and all? Truly you can be anything online. #UselessChurchRat

IpobAreFools:


Lai Mohamed. Are you the same guy that was disgraced on ashewo thread for being broke and wearing faded jeans and all? Truly you can be anything online. #UselessChurchRat

Lmaoooo....

Freebettingtips:


It's not always like that, most of them just have that belief that you're after sex especially the ones that have known you for a span of weeks. No matter how good your character or personality is they'll always have that belief. I met a girl during our schools matric earlier this year though she's not a student, callected her number calling and chatting with her for 2weeks then I told her that I'd like to meet with her in SCHOOL cos I've got something to tell (I like her) but she told me that she'll only be coming during next years matric, bro it took me some months before I realized that she actually thought I wanted having sex with her jeez. Though I don't blame her but blame other guys for instilling such beliefs into them

You're right with dat


what I'm referring to is those that are my friends,


Normally no normal girl will not think dat you wanna forkkk her ,as of your case because you met each other recently , only prostitute and unserios girl will follow you, though you don't have bad intention



Despite the fact that some get a close friend which is a girl and they have been together for years, she can't still trust him,


I'm talking about close friends not a new girl at all

SILENTandSMART2:


You're right with dat


what I'm referring to is those that are my friends,


Normally no normal girl will not think dat you wanna forkkk her ,as of your case because you met each other recently , only prostitute and unserios girl will follow you, though you don't have bad intention



Despite the fact that some get a close friend which is a girl and they have been together for years, she can't still trust him,


I'm talking about close friends not a new girl at all

Yeah my female friends won't think of that should I ever ask them to visit me. Like you said should a girl who is ur friend think that you're trying to screw her by inviting her over, it only means that she knows you're that type of guy

21cents:


First time a lady came to my crib after I passed the wooing stage she initiated sex by trying to seduce me and kissing me but I didn't yield, and I felt disgusted of her. in my mind I was like- if she could do that to me then she's been doing it with guys before we met. this one na fine girl o.

she came off too cheap because i expected the initiation should be ignited by me.

Onye mgbu �

WoundedLamb:
You are here to shout at girls and not the opportunistic boys who think a girl coming to their houses is an invite to fvck. I really feel bad when some men defend assault by saying things like "if she didn't want to do it, then why did she go to his house?". Now, the same men are here to still scold girls for being cautious. Will girls leave this planet for you people?!

Mbok ask dem o!

21cents:
ladies love prick. all the babes wey don visit me came with a shaved kpekus. what do think they came for??

WORD.
THEY CAME FOR DEEP FEEL BRO.

Freebettingtips:


Yeah my female friends won't think of that should I ever ask them to visit me. Like you said should a girl who is ur friend think that you're trying to screw her by inviting her over, it only means that she knows you're that type of guy

Straight up ✌️

True talk


That's how the thing be

Powerfly:
If he says 'come and visit me.' baby re-strategise and visit when you're on the second day of your menstrual period.
That's what i do to ensure nothing will happen.
don't announce that you're on your period.. Just surprise him.. Guys love surprises.

Some men have sex with women on periods without minding

Sixfeetbelle:


Asking your girlfriend to visit you is different. She suppose know scope as per you know...

Asking a random girl you just befriended on social media to visit you shows how much of a pvssy-whipped nigga you are. A smart girl can use it to ruin you.

perhaps we should adopt the system of simply making sex a precondition for financial assistance for girlfriends

Aren't you guys already doing this even now?

Oh no!, certainly I can't ask a random girl I just met to visit me,I have got to size her first,but the initial point wasn't about some random girl, as for your last question I suppose you are a lady,how should it be then?.

Deepthoughts:
Oh no!, certainly I can't ask a random girl I just met to visit me,I have got to size her first,but the initial point wasn't about some random girl, as for your last question I suppose you are a lady,how should it be then?.

Define "random girl" so I'm sure we're on the same page? Cause guys I didn't even go on one single date with told me to come visit them. As in guys I only knew for like three weeks.

My last line was answering your initial thoughts on whether guys should adopt "sex for financial assistance" on women. And I pointed out that it's a normal for guys nowadays. No nigga is dating a girl he ain't bleeping right now. If he can't bleep her, he can't help her financially.

greypencils:
So if you invite her to your house and she comes, if you offer her sex and she refuses, will you rape her?

I won't rape her nor force her but I will make a move. If she does not give in, I will leave her alone, block her number and never talk to her again...then count my lost (If she don chop me before) and move on

Sixfeetbelle:


Define "random girl" so I'm sure we're on the same page? Cause guys I didn't even go on one single date with told me to come visit them. As in guys I only knew for like three weeks.

My last line was answering your initial thoughts on whether guys should adopt "sex for financial assistance" on women. And I pointed out that it's a normal for guys nowadays. No nigga is dating a girl he ain't bleeping right now. If he can't bleep her, he can't help her financially.

Those guys you hadn't even gone on a date with asking you to visit them,did they toasted you for a relationship or they were guys chance just brought you together,i mean if they hadn't toasted you n define their feelings n intent towards you then it's really bad but if they had toasted you n you had consented n perhaps chatting then they should be bold enough explain to you the purpose of the visit whether it's just for you to know their abode for future visits or it's for visit with the happy ending,guys render financial help to ladies they are not dating it's nothing new but for a girl that a guy had toasted n they are dating it's only when the girl begins to play the guy that most guys would switch to the bleep for cash mode.A random girl is a girl you just met n hasn't been quite familiar with.

Deepthoughts:
Those guys you hadn't even gone on a date with asking you to visit them,did they toasted you for a relationship or they were guys chance just brought you together,i mean if they hadn't toasted you n define their feelings n intent towards you then it's really bad but if they had toasted you n you had consented n perhaps chatting then they should be bold enough explain to you the purpose of the visit whether it's just for you to know their abode for future visits or it's for visit with the happy ending,guys render financial help to ladies they are not dating it's nothing new but for a girl that a guy had toasted n they are dating it's only when the girl begins to play the guy that most guys would switch to the bleep for cash mode.A random girl is a girl you just met n hasn't been quite familiar with.

We were at talking stage as per friends when they dropped their come visit me. No toasting, no dates, nothing. Twice sef so it's not as if I'm not confused. And you know the funny thing: once I didn't give in to the sex, they just slowly but surely ghosted me. Clear evidence just how randy they were.

Now that I think back at it, na overfriendliness led to those encounters. I was open-minded and so we talked about sexuality with such freedom, you know? Anyway as based on say I don gather experience, if you no be my fiancée, come visit me na impossicant where I dey.

As for the money issue, gone are the days when men rendered financial help without wanting anything in return. I remember having random men pay for my cab fare when I was growing up without them even asking for my name. Na early 2000s I dey refer to ooh. The minute we enter 2010, men dem stopped and one guy in a midst of 100 men isn't enough to convince me otherwise.

Sixfeetbelle:


We were at talking stage as per friends when they dropped their come visit me. No toasting, no dates, nothing. Twice sef so it's not as if I'm not confused. And you know the funny thing: once I didn't give in to the sex, they just slowly but surely ghosted me. Clear evidence just how randy they were.

Now that I think back at it, na overfriendliness led to those encounters. I was open-minded and so we talked about sexuality with such freedom, you know? Anyway as based on say I don gather experience, if you no be my fiancée, come visit me na impossicant where I dey.

As for the money issue, gone are the days when men rendered financial help without wanting anything in return. I remember having random men pay for my cab fare when I was growing up without them even asking for my name. Na early 2000s I dey refer to ooh. The minute we enter 2010, men dem stopped and one guy in a midst of 100 men isn't enough to convince me otherwise.

That was bad of those guys, that's why I don't support the idea of keeping opposite the sex with the possibility of sexual attraction as just friends it most likely lead to issues,we can relate with each other but on strict levels with boundaries in our actions and discussions,if I'm romantically attracted to you then I have to quickly let you know but some guys may be for lack of confidence will just be infatuating n foolishly try to take advantage of a visit situation which mostly end in disaster but again if such a guy ask you over you should asked him what for.As for the helping, guys still do but be I must say it's difficult for such help to go the way of matured ladies looking well turnout due to doubts n avoidance of embarrassment,I have been denied help too even as a man from my fellow man simply because I was well turnout but asking for help, this is common when the intending helper doesn't know you well n I don't really blame them.

Sixfeetbelle:


Please ooh. I don't know where you learnt your grammar but "Come visit me" and "Come have sex" are not the same thing and don't mean the same thing. Nigerian guys have abused the come visit me such that they now believe it to mean bleeping, same way Nigerian ladies have abused the "Will you be my girlfriend?" to mean money bank is here.

In saner climates, if you invite someone you hardly know to come visit you, they are not expecting you to throw out sex. The intention behind the invite is to come hang out. If sex drop, showers of blessings; and if it didn't, they remain cool.

The American movies you mentioned only occurs after they have dated, not before and not for random ladies that they're not familiar with. Nigerian men throw out come visit me to just about any lady that acknowledges their greeting and is friendly with them.

Nothing bad if "come visit me" mean "come have sex" with me. As long as the babe get choice, it's all good. Forget about abuse, from time immemorial, if you ask girl make she come your house, you dey expect say something go sup. If not, why not take her out, why must it be your house? Let's stop deceiving ourselves abeg. And I'd have you know that no one does random sex like Americans. A girl who agrees to go visit a single guy don dey plan say dey guy go make move

Sixfeetbelle:


We were at talking stage as per friends when they dropped their come visit me. No toasting, no dates, nothing. Twice sef so it's not as if I'm not confused. And you know the funny thing: once I didn't give in to the sex, they just slowly but surely ghosted me. Clear evidence just how randy they were.

Now that I think back at it, na overfriendliness led to those encounters. I was open-minded and so we talked about sexuality with such freedom, you know? Anyway as based on say I don gather experience, if you no be my fiancée, come visit me na impossicant where I dey.

As for the money issue, gone are the days when men rendered financial help without wanting anything in return. I remember having random men pay for my cab fare when I was growing up without them even asking for my name. Na early 2000s I dey refer to ooh. The minute we enter 2010, men dem stopped and one guy in a midst of 100 men isn't enough to convince me otherwise.

I see nothing wrong here. There's no reason why I'd stay put at an ATM that isn't dispensing cash. The earlier you realize that virtually all guys care about na to knack; except that guy wey don dey plan to marry. Even that particular one that is forming good boy, inviting you to his house and not attempting sex wants to knack you. He isn't confident enough to ask

Sixfeetbelle:


We were at talking stage as per friends when they dropped their come visit me. No toasting, no dates, nothing. Twice sef so it's not as if I'm not confused. And you know the funny thing: once I didn't give in to the sex, they just slowly but surely ghosted me. Clear evidence just how randy they were.

Now that I think back at it, na overfriendliness led to those encounters. I was open-minded and so we talked about sexuality with such freedom, you know? Anyway as based on say I don gather experience, if you no be my fiancée, come visit me na impossicant where I dey.

As for the money issue, gone are the days when men rendered financial help without wanting anything in return. I remember having random men pay for my cab fare when I was growing up without them even asking for my name. Na early 2000s I dey refer to ooh. The minute we enter 2010, men dem stopped and one guy in a midst of 100 men isn't enough to convince me otherwise.

This is what I'm expecting every girl to understand. If guy no be your boyfriend or fiancé and he invites you to his house, except you sef want to have sex, don't honour his invite. More often than not, the said dude would ghost you and that's a good thing. He isn't serious about you