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| Marrying An Older Lady? by sKeetz(m): 11:12am On Nov 29, 2020 |
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of. She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally. Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ? Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me. 56 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by fati2001(m): 11:14am On Nov 29, 2020 |
CONGRATULATIONS 145 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by sKeetz(m): 11:16am On Nov 29, 2020 |
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| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Sameazy15: 11:20am On Nov 29, 2020 |
I comment my reserve 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nukilia: 11:22am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Nothing to worry about. Invite us for your wedding. Congratulations  246 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Twenty8: 11:23am On Nov 29, 2020 |
My I comment reserve 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Quality20(m): 11:23am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Technically u are age mates, two years, n u talking of older lady? I tot u talking of 15years age difference and I would have said cool. Look for a lady older than u by 13 to 20 years or even more and marry her, that way u gonna enjoy paradise on earth. Cheers 214 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Kobicove(m): 11:27am On Nov 29, 2020 |
sKeetz: The major con is that in the next 10 years she will likely be looking far older than you and you may be embarrassed to introduce her as your wife  180 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Ferrocene: 11:27am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Personally I have no issues with it buh what will your family think it, Relatives?? Her family?? Are you ready to fight your way through it 20 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Donmoscojaja(m): 11:29am On Nov 29, 2020 |
marry but remember say any day you mess up...you are as good as bye bye Modified: Nairaland bot and auto correct won't kill me, na them auto correct what i didn't even say...what am i saying self  Good luck bro, she go love you well 9 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Thattallgirl(f): 11:35am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Two years older than you isn't bad. Thought I'd see 20 years difference  66 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by SILENTandSMART2: 11:37am On Nov 29, 2020 |
OP nothing wrong with dat, provided that you guys love each other, That type of love is always full of respect   54 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by paul100(m): 11:42am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Donmoscojaja:I have thought of this before.Imagine you guys are quarelling and out of anger,she just say"Don't forget,we are not agemate" and her next words will be "sorry honey,I didn't mean that" ,I am so sorry,pls forgive me. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Kestolove(m): 11:44am On Nov 29, 2020 |
God4bid, I can't marry a man that am older than...guy beta leave that girl for somebody better 5 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by real691(m): 11:49am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Age is just a number. Your self image is the key to balancing age differences. Although somethings are not sustainable on the long run. Men grow more attractive with time because of stability, unfortunately, the same cannot be said for the female folks. sylve11: 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by doggedfighter(f): 12:25pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Does she tick some of the boxes in what you want in a woman? Does she give you peace? Does she support your dreams and visions? Is there mutual respect? Very salient questions. If her age is stressing you out go marry a younger woman And flaunt and bask in her age 26 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by sweetrace(f): 1:21pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Op, age is not the issue here. You’re too immature for her. Please do her a world of good and let her go. She needs to be free to meet a mature and compassionate man who will treat her well and not seek seek approval from Nairaland or others. 130 Likes 18 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by hakeem4(m): 1:30pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Actually there’s nothing to worry about. But the problem is that the lady would quickly reach the wall and she would not be sexually appealing to you, and you’d have to go out to keep looking for ladies in their 20’s You can see the graph I uploaded below to see the age preferences of men and women respectively 29 Likes 6 Shares
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| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 1:32pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
I hope her toto is still tight 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 1:36pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
2 years age difference is in my opinion minimal to cause any worry. Relax sKeetz: 4 Likes |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Poseidon000: 1:37pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Well, life is such an ironic circle. look at what gives you cold feet when I'm personally looking for a lady 10 to 15 years older. I really can't deal with all these immature with utopian conception of life. 36 Likes |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Uniquekriss(m): 1:38pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
paul100:Something to worry about. With time her respect for you as her husband will fade considering many factors other than her seniority, she's independent too. Bros u no go get say, u also may at some point lose courage to confront certain issues around her. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Uniquekriss(m): 1:46pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
This is Africa and Nigeria, firstly, both families won't take it lightly, your self esteem won't remain intact, the man in you would always force itself to prove superiority which is supposed to happen naturally, her respect for you as the head would come with question marks, she'd wear out in your eyes shortly into the marriage, even younger girls do after few conceptions, you won't be bold enough to say it out that your wife is older than you're. There are so many ladies who are younger than you with such qualities as she possesses and so many men older than she is who could match her preferences in a man. Just let her be, except you both were born and bred abroad where such factors aren't considered. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by gray5(m): 2:10pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Am having that challenge too..we are age mate as well,her family are welcoming, but my parents mostly mum have been the issue, she want me to get someone am older than.... she's well doing, a working class,so do i....both federal workers 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
sKeetz:Oga, If U Love Her Marry Her. No Problem. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Don't worry when you marry her, she will mummy you about, na you go run. Dont marry her, marry your junior, she has already seen who she will oppress. This independent woman won't follow your lead and you will regret. Dont listen to motivational speakers. marriage is a long time go, it can make or break you. The advice i have for you, if you want her are these Study her history, how was her last relationship like was she promiscuous, was she living a healthy lifestyle, i am sure, you want kids, this is very important. Does she have a good relationship with her father...a woman that has a very good relationship with her father will likely be a good woman to her husband. Baggage baggage, her silence must just be a pretense to get you into marriage, past baggage is very important or na trouble you go enter. Try to do things together, does she know how to control her emotions? is she impulsive? Is she the one that want to create a scene after a litte fight, these are all red flags. I have never seen a woman that does not give trouble, no matter how gentle she is. Na from trouble dem dey know personality not from being silence. 54 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
How a guy decides to marry a lady older than him beats my imagination. Do you Know women age way faster than men? Why don't you look for fresh juice to drink than settling for stale milk. Use your head. 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
sKeetz:Omo tó tii stupid No mind her jare Follow your mind I don dey with a girl wey be say she senior me with 5 yrs nothing do me and nothing do her. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 3:24pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Quality20:Smoking is very injurious to health It also affect the brain and some other useful organ's in the body - Emilliano Zapata 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Keketu(m): 3:24pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Thattallgirl:hi please pm me thank |
| Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Keketu(m): 3:25pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
sweetrace:wow  please pm me thank2 Likes |
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