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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by tobechi74: 3:26pm On Nov 29, 2020

I prefer older girls, more experienced, less demanding, you will learn a lot
I dread younger girls

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Thattallgirl(f): 4:09pm On Nov 29, 2020

Keketu:
hi please pm me thank

Why?

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Keketu(m): 4:21pm On Nov 29, 2020

Thattallgirl:
Why?

hi, please the pm is strictly confidential from nairalander okay?

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Quality20(m): 4:28pm On Nov 29, 2020

ZIINI:
Smoking is very injurious to health
It also affect the brain and some other useful organ's in the body
- Emilliano Zapata

we here in our crib we don't smoke n neither do we drink. I guess ur advise is for yaself

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Donspicey: 4:29pm On Nov 29, 2020

paul100:
I have thought of this before.Imagine you guys are quarelling and out of anger,she just say"Don't forget,we are not agemate" and her next words will be "sorry honey,I didn't mean that" ,I am so sorry,pls forgive me.

Bro as a guy dat have dated older ladies bfr......

I will advice you to settledown with some one you can control......

She maybe supportive bt to be honest,she is only doing dos tinz so dat ur mind will be relaxed and u will tink dat she is a wife material.....

Bro if u marry dat girl e don be for u be dat cos las las na she go get upper hand pass u for ur home......

And bfr u do anytin u must consult her first.....

Be Wise.........

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by paul100(m): 4:35pm On Nov 29, 2020

Donspicey:
Bro as a guy dat have dated older ladies bfr......

I will advice you to settledown with some one you can control......

She maybe supportive bt to be honest,she is only doing dos tinz so dat ur mind will be relaxed and u will tink dat she is a wife material.....

Bro if u marry dat girl e don be for u be dat cos las las na she go get upper hand pass u for ur home......

And bfr u do anytin u must consult her first.....

Be Wise.........

True talk bro

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by UKBobo(m): 5:21pm On Nov 29, 2020

Kestolove:
God4bid, I can't marry a man that am older than...guy beta leave that girl for somebody better

Who wants to marry someone hateful like u when your puna is like this?

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nazgul: 5:22pm On Nov 29, 2020

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman... the difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.. she's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and lets me do my thing.. she doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. she's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and its quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Age is just a number... follow your heart.

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by GodWrites: 6:40pm On Nov 29, 2020*

sweetrace:
Op, age is not the issue here. You’re too immature for her. Please do her a world of good and let her go. She needs to be free to meet a mature and compassionate man who will treat her well and not seek seek approval from Nairaland or others.

Exactly! OP seems to have this childish, immature mindset. Seems his small stature and baby face also affected his reasoning.

How can one date someone for 4 years, only to wake up and start looking for excuse to dump the lady?

I mean, was he blind when he first approached her?

Children!

Smh!

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by chinonyinye: 8:23pm On Nov 29, 2020

Op, pls lemme ask you a question. Pls is it just now you discovered that she's 2 years older than you or you've known all along?. So you've been dating her and possibly sleeping with her for four years knowing she's two years older than you. Now its time for marriage and you suddenly remembered that she's two years older than you and you want to dump her right? Just remember that karma is real!!!. Abeg go and sit down joor

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by fdigital(m): 10:07pm On Nov 29, 2020*

age is just a number as long as d both of you love
and respect each other

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Dayoebe(m): 10:08pm On Nov 29, 2020

I don't like that

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by naijadrivablog: 10:09pm On Nov 29, 2020

My only advice: Is she willing to submit to you?

Are you willing to swallow your ego/insecurities and be a man huh

Do you like her because she has her own money/other ulterior reasons huh

Do you love her? And does she "check the boxes" in who you want as a wife huh

Have you prayed about it huh

I can marry an older lady by 1-3yrs.

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 10:09pm On Nov 29, 2020

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

She will never BOTHER you until she enters your family constitutionally & settles like Groundnut Oil.
She knows what she's doing.
Don't ever conclude.
..a woman can only be rated when the proper marriage has commenced.
They never forget the advantage they have over their men in any argument.
U are doing her a FAVOUR and not the other way round.
So Look very well. Be warned.
I wish you well.

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by AwesomeStormy00(m): 10:09pm On Nov 29, 2020

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Bros congratulations to you both. What counts is your happiness ask God to direct you bro.

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by seunmohmoh(f): 10:09pm On Nov 29, 2020

Na only for 9ja age be problem. Mtcheew.

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 10:09pm On Nov 29, 2020

You are a betrayer. So after 4 years you are just waking up. Mukpas

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by naijadrivablog: 10:10pm On Nov 29, 2020

Kestolove:
God4bid, I can't marry a man that am older than...guy beta leave that girl for somebody better

Says a gworo chewing BOY parading as a girl.

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by 99thEnemy(m): 10:10pm On Nov 29, 2020

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

2 years older is ok. very ok for me.

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Uyi168: 10:11pm On Nov 29, 2020

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 10:11pm On Nov 29, 2020

Trayceey:
You are a betrayer. So after 4 years you are just waking up. Mukpas

Must he MARRY her...?
Are there no Ladies dumping Men..?

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by clockwisereport: 10:11pm On Nov 29, 2020

Age is a matter of the mind.

If you don't mind, it does not matter.

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by PastorandMentor(m): 10:11pm On Nov 29, 2020

Don't. I repeat don't. I'm suffering from such now. Don't Mr. Unless she is rich.
Don't marry a broke older woman.

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Nov 29, 2020*

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

No disadvantage Bro except for perceived societal norm which in my opinion, you should care less about. The most important thing is you both love each other and nobody who criticizes your decision will build your home but you and your wife.

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Brownpeanut(f): 10:12pm On Nov 29, 2020

Please, go ahead. You have my blessings. There's absolutely nothing wrong. I mean, you guys have been dating for 4yrs.

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by ipobarethieves: 10:12pm On Nov 29, 2020

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Hybkay(m): 10:12pm On Nov 29, 2020

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

hmmm, I'm sure she's in her late 30's. That's when they act normal

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by DexterousOne(m): 10:13pm On Nov 29, 2020

Interesting comments I'm reading here

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by MrStylish(m): 10:13pm On Nov 29, 2020

Abobi
Is d best
No stress
No misunderstanding

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by generationz(f): 10:13pm On Nov 29, 2020

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So I know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

So you didn't know her age for 4 years?

It is well.

Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by bdon123(m): 10:14pm On Nov 29, 2020

how is two yrs an older lady. does she look older than u? my own wife is almost 2 yrs older than me n we have a kid. bro do wat makes u happy as long as she doesnt physically look older than u its ok. even if she did n u ok wit it... its still alright.

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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by GeneralPula: 10:14pm On Nov 29, 2020

God go deliver you!

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