Good morning nairalanders. I'm sharing this here because I feel restless with this urgent need to end my relationship. I'll make the story as short as possible.

I started dating my girlfriend this time 2 years ago. The experience hasn't been bad because she's all I could wish for in a woman. Very pretty both facially and in physique. Respectful. Been there for me during my down times. Encourages me when things don't go my way. At some point, I thought she was gonna leave because of my financial state but no. She still stuck by me. Even helping me financially to bring me up to my feet.

However, Despite every attempts at steadying my financial imbalance, there was never any progress. We went for a crusade mid last year and the prophet called her out, was praying for her and she was falling under anointing. She was oblivious of what was happening then the man of God delivered a big prophesy that shocked me. He said she is possessed by a spirit which is out to ruin every man she's had something to do with in the past. That a lot of men have been destroyed. My heart raced faster and I couldn't figure out what to do at that point. When she finally got herself, she cleaned up and went home. Came to my house the following morning and asked me what happened. I told her everything the prophet said and she begged me not to leave her. Of course I didn't leave her. We still continued with the relationship. Don't blame me here guys. My belief was that no man or woman has the power to influence what happens to you. That success or financial breakthrough is the end product of hardwork and perseverance. That was why I took that prophesy with a pinch of salt.

Our lives continued. I kept encountering frustrations in my live goals and ambitions. Depts hanging round my neck with no hope in sight. Rents expiring with no plan for renewal. To the point that I had to borrow to feed. These were much that I decided to go see another prophet yesterday. This prophet is different from the first one that hosted a crusade we went for. I decided to go alone this time around and it's located in a different state. In the course of the ministration. The prophet called me out. He told me I should limit things I say to THAT GIRL (my girlfriend). He mentioned to me that my girlfriend is good and it's not her fault. That she is possessed by a spirit that is out to ruin. Responsible for restricting any favor that looks like it's coming my way. Every thing he told me was in tandem with my real life experiences. He prayed for me afterwards and I still went further to meet him. I needed some clarity on whether or not to continue with my relationship. He didn't urge that I breakup. But he advised I should just leave her and focus on my hustle.

My girlfriend has been calling me since yesterday but I've not been picking. I'm confused guys. I know I will eventually pick and talk to her but how do I breakup? Where do I start from? I don't want to tell her what the prophet said about her. My mind is mess rn. Please advice me guys

When you start listening to “prophets” is when you start designing your doom.




They all are fake, self-centered, and ambitious entrepreneurs.



Their deliverance packages are where they build the customer relationship and database.




The u-turn in your life wasn't because of their prophecies marketing talks, it is because everyone must be flooded with life anxieties. It is nobody's fault. That is what sin begot.


Stop projecting your failures to others. You only need to work harder to punch that rendition.

What have we discussed so far? Avoid prophets and prayer warriors. In the least, remember none of them saw Covid-19. What they all similarly see is evil spirits in people; people bewitching people etc.




Live a simple life bro. You can communicate with God directly. You need no human intermediary.



Don't let the so-called prophet DEMONstrate who is evil to you or not. Use your discernment and don't forget to pray.


I can share with you an ebook on knowing true friends.


You are welcome.

It is not the first we are seeing this type of prophecy. As an Atheist I tell you those prophecies na scam.

chatinent:
When you start listening to “prophets” is when you start designing your doom.

bro. I used to have this mindset but some things are out of the ordinary.

This is super story

The trend now is my girlfriend is the cause of my problem.. WTF!! do you know that premarital sex on it's own has its spiritual implications?

Your girl is now the cause of you not paying your rent, or you running into debt.. bro don't put the blame on the poor girl.. 90% of Nigerians are frustrated due to the harsh economy and poor governance of this regime, don't transfer your frustrations to the poor girl

I see you moving from one prophet to another instead of you looking for a job inorder to sort your bills. How much per visit did you pay those prophets of doom??

Don't leave your girlfriend rather fight and win the battle together.

My brother, your girlfriend is not your the cause of your problem but Nigeria. Many problems we Nigerians are seeing as spiritual problem are problems caused due to bad economy and bad leadership.

I don't want to say the prophecy are fake because spiritual controls the physical but at times we need to use our head.

If you're a Muslim I would have suggest some Quran verses for you and your girl friend to add to your daily prayers.

If you want to s even God in truth and in Spirit, run away from Nigerian pastors and prophets, most of them will make you serve them, and you will think you are serving God.

Op, your allocation in life depends on your location.

I am going to take and unusual stand. Do you know that setbacks do happen based on the sexual relationships you indulge in?

Why don't you give yourself a breather on this relationship thing?

It's brutal breaking up with her. But you have to think about yourself here. If you had married her, you take her for deliverance.

You don't pamper matters that pertains to your wellbeing

My guy, run for your life. That prophet would use you shine.


If he's who he claimed to be, he would have told you to stay away from fornication.

Use your head nigga.

SeunWedsLinda:
Good morning nairalanders. I'm sharing this here because I feel restless with this urgent need to end my relationship. I'll make the story as short as possible.

I started dating my girlfriend this time 2 years ago. The experience hasn't been bad because she's all I could wish for in a woman. Very pretty both facially and in physique. Respectful. Been there for me during my down times. Encourages me when things don't go my way. At some point, I thought she was gonna leave because of my financial state but no. She still stuck by me. Even helping me financially to bring me up to my feet.

However. Despite every attempts at steadying my financial imbalance, there was never any progress. We went for a crusade mid last year and the prophet called her out, was praying for her and she was falling under anointing. She was oblivious of what was happening then the man of God delivered a big prophesy that shocked me. He said she is possessed by a spirit which is out to ruin every man she's had something to do with in the past. That a lot of men have been destroyed. My heart raced faster and I couldn't figure out what to do at that point. When she finally got herself, she cleaned up and went home. Came to my house the following morning and asked me what happened. I told her everything the prophet said and she begged me not to leave her. Of course I didn't leave her. We still continued with the relationship. Don't blame me here guys. My belief was that no man or woman has the power to influence what happens to you. That success or financial breakthrough is the end product of hardwork and perseverance. That was why I took that prophesy with a pinch of salt.

Our lives continued. I kept encountering frustrations in my live goals and ambitions. Depts hanging round my neck with no hope in sight. Rents expiring with no plan for renewal. To the point that I had to borrow to feed. These were much that I decided to go see another prophet yesterday. This prophet is different from the first one that hosted a crusade we went for. I decided to go alone this time around and it's located in a different state. In the course of the ministration. The prophet called me out. He told me I should limit things I say to THAT GIRL (my girlfriend). He mentioned to me that my girlfriend is good and it's not her fault. That she is possessed by a spirit that is out to ruin. Responsible for restricting any favor that looks like it's coming my way. Every thing he told me was in tandem with my real life experiences. He prayed for me afterwards and I still went further to meet him. I needed some clarity on whether or not to continue with my relationship. He didn't urge that I breakup. But he advised I should just leave her and focus on my hustle. My girlfriend has been calling me since yesterday but I've not been picking. I'm confused guys. I know I will eventually pick and talk to her but how do I breakup? Where do I start from? I don't want to tell her what the prophet said about her. My mind is mess rn. Please advice me guys

I am going to be brutally honest with you!

Dump Her!

if you can't, stop having sex with her and avoid telling her anything about your financial issues, future plans or business deals (as advised by the pastor/prophet).


I have learnt from the experience of men older than I am, men that have been ruined simply because of the women they entangled themselves with.

it is important for men to be observant about how the women in their lives affect their fortunes in life. Be very careful and be ready to ditch any babe that does not bring good things into your life.

SeunWedsLinda:
bro. I used to have this mindset but some things are out of the ordinary.

That's what they want you to believe.

The two Prophets told you same thing and should be considered true.

She was there for you, it's time to be there for her and not dumping her cos she has a problem. She need help. But both of you must turn a new leaf, turn to Christ in truth. Shun ungodly kind of relationship. All she need is proper deliverance.

this isn't tricky at all, I think you need to sit down and pray for yourself because this prophets ehn.....
seek the face of the lord, abstain from sex and the almighty will give you his own direction for your life

SeunWedsLinda:
bro. I used to have this mindset but some things are out of the ordinary.

Do you engage in premarital sex?
Just put a pause to the sex part, don't break up yet.
See how things will go.

Take a look at this man, his mind has been tampered with and will never remain the same until he lets go of the lady assumed to be the source of his misfortune.
I can not advise him to remain with the supposed lady, not because I lend credence to the prophecy but because his adulterated subconscious mind will never be happy with the lady although his consciousness may try to trick him to overlook the prophecy but that will be to his detriment.
And you know, we attract what we think, at such, he will keep on attracting negativity because his mind has been programmed to think and suspect a source of negativity lurking around him.

The prophecy may be true, the prophecy may be false. But either way, he has to let go of the lady to put his tampered mind at rest and save the lady some troubles.
However he is going to go about that, I do not know, he should device a means...after all he knows the lady more than I do.

My observation.

Any self proclaimed prophet that prophecies without solution — is powerless and empty!!!

Naturally...

Some girls bring good luck while some bring bad luck...

Go an ask

I will advice the OP this...

Since you want to believe the prophet, also believe that "it wasn't her fault" and also take note of the part of not telling her your ambitions and put more effort on your hustle...

She stood by you when things are hard, also stand for her at this very moment

From the look of things, it looks like her people worshipped deity and is like disadvantage of that deity...

Be yourself man

Wetin come,go go!!

Take her to SCOAN, and thank me later!!!
I only trust and listens to few pastors, but you can trust Prophet TB Joshua!!!

Godada:
Op, your allocation in life depends on your location.

I am going to take and unusual stand. Do you know that setbacks do happen based on the sexual relationships you indulge in?

Why don't you give yourself a breather on this relationship thing?

It's brutal breaking up with her. But you have to think about yourself here. If you had married her, you take her for deliverance.

You don't pamper matters that pertains to your wellbeing

This is exactly it, you are fornicating, and expect things to be in your favour? Going to crusades and meeting pastors won't help you, stay completely away from sin and watch things turn around for you.

Op take her to meet the prophet to be delivered of the evil spirit. There's nothing God cannot do. From your write up, she seems to be a good girl

Godada:
Op, your allocation in life depends on your location.

I am going to take and unusual stand. Do you know that setbacks do happen based on the sexual relationships you indulge in?

Why don't you give yourself a breather on this relationship thing?

It's brutal breaking up with her. But you have to think about yourself here. If you had married her, you take her for deliverance.

You don't pamper matters that pertains to your wellbeing

I concur with you...
Op all I can say is that from every NONSENSE, there is a SENSE.
BIBLE said love your neighbor as yourself AND NOT love your neighbor MORE THAN YOURSELF..
so far as I am concerned, the lady is your neighbor since she is not yet your wife..
SUMMARY OF IT ALL IS CONSIDER YOUR WELL BEING FIRST ABOVE OTHER THINGS

Bro, I will advice u not break up with her for now. Just sit her down and take a break from the relationship for like 4 to 5months and see how things will turn around in ur life. If within that 5months u see a positive change in ur life, u know what that mean.. �

benjanjo1:



I am going to be brutally honest with you!

Dump Her!

if you can't, stop having sex with her and avoid telling her anything about your financial issues, future plans or business deals (as advised by the pastor/prophet).


I have learnt from the experience of men older than I am, men that have been ruined simply because of the women they entangled themselves with.

it is important for men to be observant about how the women in their lives affect their fortunes in life. Be very careful and be ready to ditch any babe that does not bring good things into your life.

I'm looking at this. Thank you

collinsfhk:
The two Prophets told you same thing and should be considered true.

She was there for you, it's time to be there for her and not dumping her cos she has a problem. She need help. But both of you must turn a new leaf, turn to Christ in truth. Shun ungodly kind of relationship. All she need is proper deliverance.

how can the proper deliverance be done and where

emperorAY:
this isn't tricky at all, I think you need to sit down and pray for yourself because this prophets ehn.....
seek the face of the lord, abstain from sex and the almighty will give you his own direction for your life

I'm abstaining from sex forthwith

CulverBerry:
Take her to SCOAN, and thank me later!!!
I only trust and listens to few pastors, but you can trust Prophet TB Joshua!!!

scoan when I don't have money?

SeunWedsLinda:
scoan when I don't have money?

They no dey collect money — it's a free service!!

deewhydoski:
Bro, I will advice u not break up with her for now. Just sit her down and take a break from the relationship for like 4 to 5months and see how things will turn around in ur life. If within that 5months u see a positive change in ur life, u know what that mean.. �

going on 4-5 months break is just as good as breaking up

Blabbermouth:

Do you engage in premarital sex?
Just put a pause to the sex part, don't break up yet.
See how things will go.

I'll be abstaining forthwith

CulverBerry:

They no dey collect money — it's a free service!!

please how do I go about it?

SeunWedsLinda:
how can the proper deliverance be done and where

DM

chatinent:
When you start listening to “prophets” is when you start designing your doom.




They all are fake, self-centered, and ambitious entrepreneurs.



Their deliverance packages are where they build the customer relationship and database.




The u-turn in your life wasn't because of their prophecies marketing talks, it is because everyone must be flooded with life anxieties. It is nobody's fault. That is what sin begot.


Stop projecting your failures to others. You only need to work harder to punch that rendition.

What have we discussed so far? Avoid prophets and prayer warriors. In the least, remember none of them saw Covid-19. What they all similarly see is evil spirits in people; people bewitching people etc.




Live a simple life bro. You can communicate with God directly. You need no human intermediary.



Don't let the so-called prophet DEMONstrate who is evil to you or not. Use your discernment and don't forget to pray.


I can share with you an ebook on knowing true friends.


You are welcome.

I feel sorry for you.