khingTony:


First, you have to free yourself of the memory of your ex, but you've tried to do so for years and you still can't, maybe because there is no body else to replace her, so you need to replace her before you can get free



this is your undoing, masturbation gives you that sense that you don't need any lady in your life, because, why should you settle for an average Nigerian girl while you can pull up a video or photo of your favorite celebrity and have her be in your bed, in your mind.

So you should learn to stop masturbating, It's not easy, but you can. Avoid being alone, Avoid porn, avoid erotic images, read books, watch YouTube videos, do anything to keep you from it

Here is where you should work on your confidence and discard fear

What can possibly go wrong if you walk up to a lady and start talking to her? she will ignore you? Maybe. But there are so many things that can go right, you know

A wise man once said, "To deal with fear, you have to place yourself in the situation that triggers and arises anxiety every time "


Smoking is a hard addiction to deal with, Reduce your smoking, go out, to anywhere you can think of, meet people, have fun.


You can still have a bright future which you never expected if you act now. You can't continue doing the same thing and expect a different outcome

But you have to know that you can be a good conversationalist, talk to girls all you like, know new people and still won't have a fulfilled life, that's why you need the Redpill, go to Google search for redpilled an self development books, books written by Rollo Tomasi, Robert greene, etc download them, read them and act immediately.



Peace

meobizy:
I wish the courage to approach women was my only problem in life. OP is here complaining over a luxury.

martius101:








bro you don't know my story......lemme tell you a little about me.


I started doing Yahoo 2005 and till now...no way forward....I am saying this because I can stay anonymous....I have been to places...I have had obstacles,but still no way forward...chop this and that.

Dreyton36:


You don't need jazz , na update you need
Men still they cash out big daily no cap

martius101:






no be lie...bros abeg...link me....real matters...shey make I drop my number for here abi how

AuntRose:

But you'll be the first to call a lady 'olosho' if she shows interest in you. Typical Nigerian Man.

Dreyton36:


Naah for security reasons
Firstly I go just ask you three questions before we can roll

1. Do you weed?

2. What do you think about psychology

3. If you're given $500k what will you do with it ?




Morning bro. How I fit take contact you
Am keen about the street . Alarm too much
Thanks

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Uyi168:
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Not everyone will end up like u.
All these nonsense about starting small seff

martius101:
I have been trying to get my life back since I left my ex in 2007/08.i have been stucked with the memories.....I masturbate all the time.i have been doing this for at least 15 years.i can't even talk to any woman and I always have the feeling that they can't date me.i don't even have a life,I smoke all the time.....I don't have a friend,I don't know what my problem is exactly....I dress well ,no job tho...I'm scared AF and don't know what my future looks like.

martius101:
I have been trying to get my life back since I left my ex in 2007/08.i have been stucked with the memories.....I masturbate all the time.i have been doing this for at least 15 years.i can't even talk to any woman and I always have the feeling that they can't date me.i don't even have a life,I smoke all the time.....I don't have a friend,I don't know what my problem is exactly....I dress well ,no job tho...I'm scared AF and don't know what my future looks like.

martius101:
I have been trying to get my life back since I left my ex in 2007/08.i have been stucked with the memories.....I masturbate all the time.i have been doing this for at least 15 years.i can't even talk to any woman and I always have the feeling that they can't date me.i don't even have a life,I smoke all the time.....I don't have a friend,I don't know what my problem is exactly....I dress well ,no job tho...I'm scared AF and don't know what my future looks like.

Truvel:
How Will U Know What Ur Future Looks Like? U Are 31yrs Of Age, U Smoke All D Time, U Don't Av A Job & U Want A Lady. U Are Not Serious At All. I Think, U Need Think Well & Plan Ur Life Well, If U Don't Want To End Up Miserable.

LINTUNE:
u no get any means of livelihood at the age of 32 yrs, and u are still thinking of how to toast women? , person wey do u this thing,no try at all..

martius101:







the fact that you are where u are today is not your making...plus you don't even know what I have done or what I have been through

martius101:








bro you don't know my story......lemme tell you a little about me.


I started doing Yahoo 2005 and till now...no way forward....I am saying this because I can stay anonymous....I have been to places...I have had obstacles,but still no way forward...chop this and that.

martius101:





Don't come here and start talking shit....like I designed myself....plus if you just wanna talk shit,...see hypo for table

ojun50:


No Vex

martius101:








bro you don't know my story......lemme tell you a little about me.


I started doing Yahoo 2005 and till now...no way forward....I am saying this because I can stay anonymous....I have been to places...I have had obstacles,but still no way forward...chop this and that.

Davash222:
Your utmost concern should be how to get a job and limit your weed consumption not how to ask a woman out.

Acjohn:


Make a good pastor your friend and follow everything he says, then watch your life for three months