The Love wasn't getting reciprocated back.

Olatlaccon:
she wan open buka for ur head

Asin bro she just this girl That you thought she be different from every other you meet but she not and top of it ...... like I give her 500h every day for feeding.

Relationship way never start proper ooooo

Fussion1000:


Is it because she dating mechanic boss?

A girl cannot be generous with pussssy and same time forming hard to get oo.

Maybe her structure threatened in first instance.

person dey fúck 5 friends and she knew they're friends, is either she's distributing diseases or she's a destiny destroyer or under a spell


those free sex are danger and red flag to me

Most men are assholes, falling in love with them is like falling in love with the Nigerian government...

TinubuGoQuench:
After I knack Rukeme big yansh finish I come tire. I see say nothing dey inside the yansh
Na so I lost interest

Hahahahahahahahaha...

He can lie for Africa and reckless spending

MMXX:
The bolded is somewhat true

Back in school, there's this very beautiful girl in my dept, she was arguably the most beautiful girl in the dept.Nobody was able to talk to this girl,the farthest they could go was exchanging pleasantries with her.(partially her fault cos she carried herself so high).I don't really give her the attention that the other guys do give,infact I always wonder why they are all trilled by her person(other than she's extremely beautiful I didn't see anything fascinating bout her)

One day I decided to talk to her,I called her to come over to where I sat,I noticed she was reluctant abit but eventually came,I asked why she was alone(like I don't know why),why she isn't with one of her friend(the very one she's always with) she said it seems like that one isn't coming today.we talked alittle more and I asked her to go that that's all I called her for but she can stay if she like since she's sitting alone where she was earlier.She stood up to go and after few seconds sat back and that was it.

From that very day she started talking to me every now n then, asking me to see her off here and there that the entire class was hailing me thinking we were dating, people stare at us every where we go,it was funny and wierd at the same time.Even my ex was jealous and teasing me with playful remarks of her.

Soon this extremely beautiful girl everybody would give anything to talk long with or even touch her was beginning to appear ugly each time I look or hang out with her.

Summary: Women are not necessarily high and mighty as some guys perceive them to be,they may look and dress nice which is highly necessary cos a man is attracted to the physical first before anything.But this doesn't put them above you,they are as shy and timid as you are,they don't have an answer to every question you ask when you approach them and they at that very moment are shy and fidgeting as you..

Never be intimidated by any female,dress well,act polite and you good to go

Lol. A guy will call me to where he is sitting, instead of coming to where I’m sitting. Very funny. The girl didn’t have a high self esteem. Don’t use her as a yardstick for other girls.

Happy2020:
HE started asking me for money. When I gave it a few
Times to help him out, HE started expecting it. Just like a Bitxh does. I didn’t know who was the man and who was the woman. Lots of Fuxx boys in Nigeria who walk
Around with their head held high.

Hi?

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

1. I don't know weather I would date any girl who is in a relationship. The moment I heard you have a boo i easily lose interest like 2 days is OK for me to change towards you. Am this kind of person that easily talk and vibe with. I vibe well on chat and physical but the moment you have a boo, our proximity become infinite. I don't know weather am normal oo?

2. Anger problem.
3. I don care attitude .
4. Can't be able to adapt fast.
5. You are not intellectually smart. I don't mean book, atleast be logically sound.
6. Lack sense of building a nice and interesting conversation be it chat or physical .

I think when I discover the above, I easily lose interest ASAP.

Exactly

papermill:
I failed to give my girlfriend the attention she needed and she became aggressive with me and I had to move out to rent a new apartment for my peace. Now she’s happy with a guy..

I learned my lesson from my mistakes. I promise to give my next girl time and attention which every woman value so much.

l love your guts. You hardly see ex take responsibility.

May you find one who will love you are you work on your weaknesses

Thattallgirl:
I haven't fallen in love before...I'll get there

thats because you are very tall, tall people dont fall in love, they just step in love

She turned mad and was literally barking at me anytime we talked on phone (Long distance relationship), so I had to leave for my own peace of mind. A lot of girls are mad people in normal clothing sha, just don't step on their toes at all.

I pray I love my future wife more than I loved my ex.... Actually travelled from adamawa to port Harcourt to see her, only for her to b telling me stories..... I actually forgave her, but at a point, I began to let go.

Calmblaze:
My take as a motivational speaker:

Love at first sight is very dangerous. Many who fell in love did that as a result of the physical attractions.

Imagine you asking a lady out just seeing her back side for the first time. It really shows that you want her body. If she refuses, then you'd say that you're breaking up with her because she doesn't want to sell her body to you and vice versa.

Well, to the question asked by the OP, she started cheating on me. I had no option than to break up with her though we still talk till date.

The bolded isn't correct.

No one falls truly in love without seeing the person either in pictures or real life or feeling the presence of the person in case of the blind.

The correct human instinct is to love what you see with your eyes then later fall in love with the personality after discovering it.

When you meet a girl for the first time, you have never seen her personality so it means without falling for her physical attributes, the possibility of falling truly in love is not there.

Naturally, we are supposed to be attracted physically before anything else.

ceaser:
This was more than a decade ago. She said she was no longer interested in the relationship. When she tried coming back 2 years after, it was already late because guyman has found the real lady that was ready to go all da way with three wonderful kids to show for it.

As for her, as at 6 months ago, she is yet unmarried. I still wonder why.amd I never bother to ask anyways as it's nona my bidness.

Why is that always the moral of your story? You act as if once people leave you they must stay unmarried, and it is always something to tell the world.

Why is that always the petty gleeful point Nigerian men must point out when they don't get the girl they wanted?

Is marriage the only think she came to this world to do, that if she doesn't get married you must mock her? So all the people you left must rejoice if you happened not to be married today?

Is your marriage everything that you act like it's a punishment because your ex left you, that she isn't married? So petty.

So what if you are married for years and she was not married 6 months ago? You want her to die because it's funny to you?

Grow up.

There are other things and reasons in life.

Imagine how many people must be rejoicing and mocking everything they feel is wrong with your life, if they are like you. Petty things.

So disgusted to see the "she's not married today" tag. As if you are her God. If you're so happy married you won't be looking out for her.

Thattallgirl:
I think 5'11ft for a lady is too short for basketball

Lol, i have no idea what 5'11ft looks like.

deardevil:



Asin bro she just this girl That you thought she be different from every other you meet but she not and top of it ...... like I give her 500h every day for feeding.

Relationship way never start proper ooooo

5H errday? you taking responsibility as her father already.....lol...e good as u japa..they all d same brother

MMXX:
The bolded is somewhat true

Back in school, there's this very beautiful girl in my dept, she was arguably the most beautiful girl in the dept.Nobody was able to talk to this girl,the farthest they could go was exchanging pleasantries with her.(partially her fault cos she carried herself so high).I don't really give her the attention that the other guys do give,infact I always wonder why they are all trilled by her person(other than she's extremely beautiful I didn't see anything fascinating bout her)

One day I decided to talk to her,I called her to come over to where I sat,I noticed she was reluctant abit but eventually came,I asked why she was alone(like I don't know why),why she isn't with one of her friend(the very one she's always with) she said it seems like that one isn't coming today.we talked alittle more and I asked her to go that that's all I called her for but she can stay if she like since she's sitting alone where she was earlier.She stood up to go and after few seconds sat back and that was it.

From that very day she started talking to me every now n then, asking me to see her off here and there that the entire class was hailing me thinking we were dating, people stare at us every where we go,it was funny and wierd at the same time.Even my ex was jealous and teasing me with playful remarks of her.

Soon this extremely beautiful girl everybody would give anything to talk long with or even touch her was beginning to appear ugly each time I look or hang out with her.

Summary: Women are not necessarily high and mighty as some guys perceive them to be,they may look and dress nice which is highly necessary cos a man is attracted to the physical first before anything.But this doesn't put them above you,they are as shy and timid as you are,they don't have an answer to every question you ask when you approach them and they at that very moment are shy and fidgeting as you..

Never be intimidated by any female,dress well,act polite and you good to go

It’s all about perception most times... and these perceptions crystallize once you get to know the person .

Hence the popular Benin/Delta Phrase “avoid see finish”

Thattallgirl:
Huh?

It's one series I watched back in the days jare. The title is 'Everybody Hates Chris' by Chris Rock, where the character that played 'Chris' started dating Kelly, a tall girl in his class who has been nicknamed 'Big Bird' by others at school. No one in school wanted to date Kelly because of her tall frame but Chris did. Even at that, Chris tried to make their relationship a secret. He didn't want other students to know he was dating her, so they won't make fun of him. Las las some of them got to know but Chris denied Kelly right at her presence, which broke Kelly's heart and then she broke up with him. Not too long after that Kelly signed a modelling deal, she come over fine because those ones really tushed her up. And then the girl that was once a reject in school became the most admired. Chris come dey regret on wetin he lose

At a point I wasn't getting the same energy I was given back. So I moved on even though I love her so much. she blocked me on all platform, saw her wedding pics last month on a WhatsApp group we both belongs, I was heartbroken.


LARA, may God almighty bless your home.

She lies a lot even when you caught her red handed and the worst is dating married men even while im still with her and also her love for money and materials things is nothing to write home about ... Off I zoom.

Jeffyblaq:

I get turned on with natural n quirky ladies.. .

I lyk yuh type

Mucho Gracias

Did u save the video as evidence?

Charlieluvboy:
I operate two Whatsapp account, the girl I'm in love with excluded my active account from viewing her status, wanted to send a message from the non active one then I saw her status she was twerking between four guys late in the night I was shocked, just lost everything I felt for her that very moment. Me self go bleep her take am catch cruise when I get her time. She think say she wise.

SweetCunt97:
Ur actions shows u wanted only sex. Know this, if a woman loves you and is attracted to you, she won't have issues getting down with u.

madam,not all,o...some women have been in so many sexual relationship that they feel, sex in relationship is stale o ..

Pls don't believe this fallacy words full of illusion. It's a trick of the devil.

Mescana22:



Dude you Fu**k your pastors wife? Jesus Christ!!! You Christians are so Bad Is she still married to the pastor? How does she stand and lead praise ? Preach to people? How do you sleep at night knowing that you committed a crime before God and Man?

Meanwhile what kind of jazz do you use, Tell me I want to learn,

She is a feminist with no sense and a heart less person who don't understand her self

Tellemall:


Why is that always the moral of your story? You act as if once people leave you they must stay unmarried, and it is always something to tell the world.

Why is that always the petty gleeful point Nigerian men must point out when they don't get the girl they wanted?

Is marriage the only think she came to this world to do, that if she doesn't get married you must mock her? So all the people you left must rejoice if you happened not to be married today?

Is your marriage everything that you act like it's a punishment because your ex left you, that she isn't married? So petty.

So what if you are married for years and she was not married 6 months ago? You want her to die because it's funny to you?

Grow up.

There are other things and reasons in life.

Imagine how many people must be rejoicing and mocking everything they feel is wrong with your life, if they are like you. Petty things.

So disgusted to see the "she's not married today" tag. As if you are her God. If you're so happy married you won't be looking out for her.

I agree with you.. marriage is something you take your time to do. Some relationships leave you with desiring more time to heal your soul.

There’s someone I really love but every time this guy gets into a relationship he will throw it in my face...sleeping with someone new I must know about it. Then I realized that’s what some guys do when they’re not quite over you. To pepper dem you are peppered in the first place.

They almost traumatize you with their lifestyle especially when they owe you something they can never pay you in this lifetime ....the aim is to gauge your reaction once they do they know their position. Sometimes it’s their new partner competing with you. What service do you offer? They will want to do the same thing I never knew gaslighting existed like that but I doubt if its real happiness. Sometimes the women will call you as well they’ve heard so much about you.

Thats when you know the guy loves you....he tries too hard to form happily ever after it’s natural you can see it in the eyes

If someone stayed single after you...they needed to heal which we should all do after falling in deep love. That’s how you know when someone loves or loved you. They take their time after you. It’s not a rushing thing but the downside is once those feelings are gone with time and they are healed they are gone forever.

Met this DJ would always be there at his set was totally a fan / groupie of his work we never had sex so they guy even started postin me and dodging I traveled took time detangled feelings met someone new came back and it was like nothing even happened. I even greeted him with permission from my love but it was different all those sparkles had turned to dust.

What attracts me to men the most is their heart how sensitive are they to emotional, financial and physical needs in relationship and after. Men ....cannot be friends with you if they still have feelings for you... they would be torn between loving you and doing their best to prove their doing better without you....we are just banging is not a relationship it avoids to need for learning the true value of partnership.

I love you always champ

TinubuGoQuench:
After I knack Rukeme big yansh finish I come tire. I see say nothing dey inside the yansh
Na so I lost interest

Baba weyrey

Tellemall:


Why is that always the moral of your story? You act as if once people leave you they must stay unmarried, and it is always something to tell the world.

Why is that always the petty gleeful point Nigerian men must point out when they don't get the girl they wanted?

Is marriage the only think she came to this world to do, that if she doesn't get married you must mock her? So all the people you left must rejoice if you happened not to be married today?

Is your marriage everything that you act like it's a punishment because your ex left you, that she isn't married? So petty.

So what if you are married for years and she was not married 6 months ago? You want her to die because it's funny to you?

Grow up.

There are other things and reasons in life.

Imagine how many people must be rejoicing and mocking everything they feel is wrong with your life, if they are like you. Petty things.

So disgusted to see the "she's not married today" tag. As if you are her God. If you're so happy married you won't be looking out for her.

you've written very intelligently, and I agree with you entirely.

Ok i learnt something

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyRZ1bLuRFo

Banter1:
At a point I wasn't getting the same energy I was given back. So I moved on even though I love her so much. she blocked me on all platform, saw her wedding pics last month on a WhatsApp group we both belongs, I was heartbroken.


LARA, may God almighty bless your home.

lmao...nwanne, stop sounding like a loser.