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| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by mmyfarmsltd(m): 9:37am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Unlawful sex has consequences. When i started unlawful sex was when i misplaced 2.9m in a business transaction. I still hoping & praying i get my money back. Stay away from sexual sin. Mtvbaseng: |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ZooOga: 10:01am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Youngzedd:Stop saving these hoes, let'em die!! ![]() https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fx49UgzHlxY |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Cvwriter1(m): 10:11am On Dec 08, 2020 |
GayPontiff:He even made her lose her good paying job damn. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Asadujames202(m): 10:14am On Dec 08, 2020 |
LagosInter:What is Bj? |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by OChimex: 10:16am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng:You were making 5k daily from tips and 20k monthly from salary, which amounts to 50k monthly. Why you no cool down and work harder and saved for like 2years? You would have saved enough to go into a good business and walk on the part to success. Instead you chose to elope with a professional prostitute whom you saw being used on hourly basis? What are kids of this generation turning into? After wasting opportunities like this, Tomorrow now if you become poor you go begin turn village people they do juju or hating on successful people. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by RioCarputo(m): 10:21am On Dec 08, 2020 |
hmmmmm very similar to my own story ooooo. 2015 I used to go to popular brothel in ogbomosho to chill and hang out with some friends. though we do not bang ashewo, at times we just managed to buy some satchet hot drinks and enjoy ourselves there. gradually we started getting acquainted to some of this girls there and they do sends us errands owning to the fact that they had gained our trust as e be say them dey see us everyday for there. they will cook and give us food. At that time I was about gaining admission into University of Ibadan. So one faithful day like that there was this girl , that should be in her mid 20s then while I was 23, she asked me to help her buy food around 3pm that Tuesday afternoon, that was the very first time we talk. I agreed and asked her to give me money and plate but she insisted that we go together, I was like "no problem ". as soon as we get to tger restaurant she told me that she forgot her money at her rented apartment, which is different from room she had in the brothel. she then requested I should accompany her to her apartment to get the money and as we get there. I was thinking she she would pick up her money and we go get the food asap but to my she locked the door and sat on the bed and pull her trouser. lo and behold she didn't wear panties and spread her leg wide opened. I was dumbfounded, I wanted to tell her that did she tricked me or what but I was stammering she told me her eyes has been on me ever since she set her eyes on me in that brothel, that this is perfect time for her to get close to me. Brethren, we had s*x that day and we didn't come out until 7pm that day. she told me not to let anybody know about our relationship that she might got evicted from the brothel or pay a large sum of money as fine.but everybody got know that we were in relationship, exept the owner of the brothel,most of the times I do sleep there with her overnight and had countless of s*x . I was getting all the goodies from her ,ranging from clothes, different types of footwears and lot of money. Fast forward I resumed 100level February 13 2016,she paid for my acceptance fees,tuition fees and hostel fees and do send me money regularly for upkeep. at times she would pay me visit in UI, and we do lodge and had s*x for days . She started making plans for us to get married and promises to leave prostitution to start up her own business. I was a big boy in school and thought I was leaving the dream of a lucky boy.during holidays I'm always in ogbomosho with her . fast forward towards the of my 300level days in November 2018 things has started changed ooo.my physical appearance had diminished a lot, that innocent fine looking boy has turned to an ugly duckling. my strength and energy has gone. I was now feeling like an old man with my dim eyes. oh my God, look at what too much s*x has landed me to.her behavior towards me changed drastically as she felt that I was no longer attracted to her anymore, the Prince charming had gone. and that's how we gone on our separate ways. I was devastated, but thanks God I was able to get myself back to life after 2months. Around may this year, when I graduated and decided to come stay for some time pending the time I will go for NYSC, I met some of those guys that we do usually hangout together and guess what he told me. he told Beyonce as we do normally call her, is leaving with one tout now with a 1year old kid and now she's selling satchet hot drinks by the roadside now. he told me that her skin tone has really change and she looking like an old cargo.wowww. But since then I have a really good lesson. as I don't fancy stares from women any longer, I do not even reciprocate to any attention given to me again, because I sees them as dangerous. Yea guys get used too,so many of them are roaming the street dead. as for now my future is the most important thing to me and when its the time to get married, that's when I will get someone. Guys and ladies out there ,hope you can all learn from us.do not waste your time and destiny with just anybody,look before you leap .remember not all that is glitters are gold. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by perryy(m): 10:25am On Dec 08, 2020 |
OP , you are the problem I see here. . That lady is not the problem. You are a gold digger without brain. You came here to be talking tapa Topo without being able to tell us the contribution you made to the relationship other than you were having free regular sex. Look, it is not because of your good look that made the girl fell in love with you , the girl thought you were a human being whom she can build with without knowing you are a mere gold digger without brain. She saw the way you behave , being a graduate, the way you speak, and the way you work and believed she her met her dream man with the mental capacity to change her story. That was her attraction. When the lady presented her 300k as her contribution to the planned business, how much did you contribute? When you got to Benin, which business did you suggest you do which the lady declined ? You said you were making extra 5k at least everyday, what was your saving for the period you worked ? No saving ? If yes, that shows you are a wastrel and if you had saving but refused to bring it to the table and bring idea on how to invest the money , it means you are a wasted gold digger who would suffer untold hardship later in life. . That lady played all her part, fed you , housed you , gave you her body etc, but you failed to also make any positive contribution. As that 2016, POS was still very scanty in Benin and if you have contributed yuur savings to what she had then, you guys could have opened a restaurant and bar and ads pos business. That would have fetched you millions within a year then. . I started my pos business then with a lesser amount of money , but today, I have built house , bought cars for myself from the proceeds. Mind you , I never saw anyone who gave me money to start the business like u had , I borrowed the money from a lady, yet I was able to make good use of it and made something good myself. Just go and beg for forgiveness lest you will be permanently ruined as the lord lives. Beg her , change your mindset, stop being lazy and stop looking for free food lest you end up under oshodi bridge as a vagabond. You posted her name and number online to humiliate her for doing no wrong to you . Yes, you guys later had issues. But what do you expect ? That she should praise you for not being able to live up to expectations? She expected you to bring idea to turn things around , but you ended up being a lazy ass without idea . A spoilt child you are ! A lady that left prostitution and went to Benin to build with you who was later forced into prostitution because of your laziness is supposed to even poison you and get rid of you. She didn't poison you, she only tell you to be a man she though you were . That was only offence and you are here to tarnish her image. I just pity your life. 4uck off boy. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by stonecoldcafe: 10:36am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng:What a tale. I hope you have bounced back fully |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by sharpwriter(m): 10:43am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Dreyton36:You are always lighting up kpoli.... Abeg show love to ya boy for this Christmas jor... Make I PM you? ![]() |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Seyzcham91(m): 11:26am On Dec 08, 2020 |
you are right! The guy na foolish guy GayPontiff: |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Seyzcham91(m): 11:33am On Dec 08, 2020 |
you are right! 100percent LagosInter: |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Talkingoil(m): 11:49am On Dec 08, 2020 |
LagosInter:You know the game |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Monben: 11:49am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Get ready to be a father because this is how virgin births happen. Congratulations rowland545: |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by eze31362(m): 11:53am On Dec 08, 2020 |
woww be happy my area when i was living at ijede |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by sharpwriter(m): 11:55am On Dec 08, 2020 |
RioCarputo:Kai.... Na God save you o |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by JIREN01: 12:02pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Preshieben:Nice clapback |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by MisterKennedy(m): 12:17pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng .... I love your story bro... Thanks a lot from sharing your experience... But please do not leave the prostitute alone keep being with her until she turns a new leaf... For her to be this nice to you, that's unlike the character of a prostitute... Because most of them don't know what love even is... Yes she's a sex worker but I really respect her... And if bringing her closer to God and giving her a better life is all I'm going to do in life then so be it... I don't really care that she's a sex worker, I care more about her Spirit... She's really a nice lady that maybe... The thing with sex is just as bad as a magician... Devil never allows the money being made to amount to anything.... Mtvbaseng please I learnt that you posted her number her and then took it off, that wasn't very cool because she will be stigmatized and stereotyped... Some people might want to poke fun at her.... Please can you send me her phone number privately but please not on nairaland... I want to have a one on one talk with her... Please Mtvbaseng please don't ignore me bro |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by rowland545(m): 1:12pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Monben:uhmmm she is on her period as we speak....so the joke is on u |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Yoighaman(m): 1:13pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
LagosInter:Prof. Prof....I hail o... |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Yoighaman(m): 1:21pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
LagosInter:Professor....wait o, did you graduate from UBUNJA University? |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Webb107: 1:35pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng:You my friend, are a colossal ungrateful ass*ole. Typical low life humans, going around blaming others for their own mistakes and undoing. For a fact, free things killed you half... And if you are still the same way you are with that lady, free thing is what will kill you dead in the end. "You made her quit prostitution" hence you have become her Messiah, hence you can just seat down and relax and be eating are labour. If you were not a damn worthless guy that you certainly were, how can a lady you claim to have saved from prostitution ask you to just seat home and not work, that she will sort you out and you and your egomaniac sense feel that is OK. It doesn't matter if she had 1million hectare of land... A true man, a worthy man will still strive to fend for himself and her. Self centered, gold digging, ungrateful, spineless prick. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by generationz(f): 1:57pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Bornsinner7:There is a spirit attached to that thing and its the spirit of greed. I know many do it because of poverty but it's not something they should plan their lives around. It's easy money but not a good profession. Many who have the charisma to attract men don't have the foresight to plan a way out. Even Cardi B is still ashamed about her stripping past after making a ton of money and getting out of it. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by generationz(f): 2:01pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
LagosInter:So why didn't you end up marrying the first girl? ![]() |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ORIAYO70(m): 2:20pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
GayPontiff:You r very correct. The lady might have felt miserable spending much on him and later put such attitude. The guy is nothing but a lazy wack |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Mineisgrace(f): 3:02pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
This is quite a story but I think she wanted the best for you. No woman wants a sit at home hubby. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 3:24pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Hmmmmmmmmm I think op is an ingrate He wasn't complaining while they were spending the money in her account If he really was wise as he paint himself to be He would have advised her to jointly use her savings in starting a business Or op does not really love her There's nothing wrong with A man marrying an Ashawo, most of our decent girls even worse pass some Ashawos sef Everybody has their past Op is simply a gold digger and he's probably cheating on her sef Is he not a Man Woo let me comot hand for this matter
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| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
generationz:Genotype and small ish bro. We still talk, i still send her money sef |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:18pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Decimus:E concern u ohh
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| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Pls does anyone know ashawo joint in Adamawa yola |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by PS712: 4:38pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
perryy:Aptly written, except that poisoning part I beg to differ. But you really captured all I wanted writing the OP. After reading his story (which happens to be his version) I can't but see that lady as an angel, one that can be a true support if given chance to. It really got me wondering if the OP made the story up just to send home message against premarital sex or sex with those with multiple partners (cause I didn't read it when the girl's details were still on display). Or could it still be another ploy to drive calls to that line? Otherwise, it beats every imagination why someone who makes average N120k monthly (5k times 6 = 30k weekly) and who does not have to spend on food, clothing and most times accommodation, abuse opportunity he got to better his life despite having suffered unemployment post graduation... ?You made money lots of graduates in state and even some FG agencies don't make in a month (and in your case your expenses are even covered by someone who loves you), yet you are here spewing all these and seeking to blame one who meant you good. That OP really needs to change orientation and also approach that lady for forgiveness, cause her only sin in this case was she had faith and fell in love with the wrong person! |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by PS712: 4:49pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
GayPontiff:Thank you. To think all we read is the OP's version of the story and knowing how well people tend to paint themselves good with their own version of the story I bet that lady did more graciously to him and probably saw ills (don't want to use word hell here) from him. Lazy guy making what government workers (FG) at level 8 and above make yet unable to plan his life, despite having expenses covered by a girl in love! Some guys are the reason some women decide never to be supportive in relationship. |
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