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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Stainlezzking: 12:34am On Dec 13, 2020
Snowkel:

I'm not sure they will

I just want to outright state/ask that if it's possible for mtvbaseng or anyone to get me the complete story..
I'd be very grateful, I don't want me creating this acc to be a waste

And note that I already know how yahoo works so it's not like I want to learn or something... I just want to know how the jazz ends (something like that) ..

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ogbuu101: 9:26am On Dec 13, 2020
KosiGee:



Sorry to disagree bro. The only simp here is you.

That girl wanted companionship and trusted you. She was the hustler and provider. You gave her NOTHING. Of all the times you guys were together, she gave her all to and even wished and prayed for you to be s better man. You reciprocated with betrayal and contempt.

Why did you have to mention the name of the hotel here, it’s location and the name of ‘your’ girl??

Was that necessary? Your type can’t be trusted. You are narcissist, selfish and greedy.

As much as I despise that type of lifestyle, I pray that girl find a much better life that wouldn’t remind her of her dark past and people like you.

You don’t deserve her.
I don't know how the Mofo thought he'd be OK in life without a job, just living off a woman who doesn't have much going for her too.
The guy na idiot

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Uzland: 9:18pm On Dec 21, 2020
mightyhazel:
Where is Righteousness89 in all these? I'm sure the sin on this thread has suffocated him..



Too much sins and sinners on this thread.

#puke
What do you expect him to say when he and you know he's a sinner too? He's probably busy with an... shockedlipsrsealed
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by RodgersAkpafu: 10:59am On Nov 01, 2021
ReluctantAdult:
Well, prostitution in whatever form will continue to be lucrative till eternity. Men generally, will always want sex, so a good percentage of our income will go to satisfying that. Whether that'd be with wives, brothel
hookers, runs website hookers, porn, girlfriends, FWBs, escorts etc.

It is so tempting and easy for women to fvck for money. It's just a matter of morality and that doesn't mean anything for some people especially in the face of poverty, greed and laziness.

Who knows, maybe I'd have fvcked for money too, if I were a woman undecided grin
Very interesting post

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by QuinModah(f): 5:55am On Mar 31, 2022
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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:03am On Mar 31, 2022


I was feeding well and living fine...
Sex takes alot from you . Look at the life of king blakhoc for instance ..
Sex with a cheap prostitute takes a lot from you, everyone have sex, get sense...stop fcking dirty olosho living in 4k motels, this is dirty, hence you will look hagard.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Dashlish12: 6:01am On Oct 16, 2022
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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Benjamin4388(m): 8:10am On Jan 21, 2023
LagosInter:


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You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"


Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Sangre: 9:04am On Aug 11, 2023
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there but all to no avail,I was broke at this point and decided to go to ikorodu to stay with my friends there ( Gee boys ) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch football .the Hotel was located at itamaga and it's popularly called " BE HAPPY" ...for those familiar with the area .

As we were about to go in I saw a vacancy board looking for supervisor and bar man..I decided I would come the next day with my c.v and apply for the post of a supervisor,on getting there I was told they already got a supervisor but still in need of a bar man.i asked how much and they said 20k .I was desperate so I took the job .
I started working ,I was posted to the V.I.P section as the bar man there ,I was honest with my transactions and I quickly made friends with balling guys ( Gee Boys).. My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily.. guys would come and drink ,and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too,I would skip the drink and keep the money,some would tip me sometimes 2k,I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night everyday and doing account of the bar the next morning there wasn't Anything strenuous I was doing .


But the hotel was a LovePeddler house too.. ladies work there as runs girls .I found out that they pay rent everyday to the hotel owner.. the cheapest room there is 2k while the most expensive is 4k..(the 4k room comes with A.C.) There were at least up to 25 girls living there permanently ,other girls come and go .men would come around ,choose thier spec and go in with them..I learnt that some ladies have been there for more than 10 years ,they all have nicknames ,you will hear names like Angel , Naomi ,. Tiepor ( means it's plenty ) e.t.c..paying rent of at least 2k everyday.. short time with these ladies ranges from 1k to 5k depending on how Hawt she is while overnight is 10k - 20k

On a bad day these ladies get at least 10 short time and one overnight whuch means they make thousands of naira everyday . They spend thier money on designer clothes and latest wears competing With each other .

What I also Got to find out is that this prostitute have boyfriend's too.the one they allow to penetrate them without the use of condom,and the funny thing is that the man/guy is aware that they are runs girls ..they spend on thier boyfriend and he dare not cheat on them..have seen scenarios where guys marry some or have a baby with her..

Just 2 months after I got there I started getting visit from this particular prostitute ,she would come to my bar during the day when there are less customers and buy coca cola drink,she would drop 1k and asked me to keep change, the hotel has a restaurant too.,she would order food and asked them to bring it to me.. The gullible me thought I have found my destiny helper as I no longer spend on food not knowing that I was being pulled into the traps of the devil..my co workers then were telling me she likes me ,the truth is all the babes there actually liked me.cos i was naturally blessed with Good looks .

There were lots of pretty young girls in that Hotel ,girls from 19 years upward .this babe that kept buying me stuff wasn't the prettiest but she was my spec plus she was a big girl ,she uses the latest iPhone ,dresses classy and trendy ,if you met her on a normal day outside the hotel block u would have mistaken her for an otedola daughter ,with her dress and style

We Got close over time ,and one day I asked her " But babe pls tell me why do u choose to do runs ?..

According to her she claimed she grew up in a poor family and things were very tough back then,she tried learning a skill or trade but her boss were always wicked to her and she would end up leaving there , things got so tough that she couldnt afford pad during menstruation..she later had to run to a friend who was doing well at that time.. the friend promised her she would take her to Lagos to work. When they arrived Lagos she brought her to the hotel instead and the babe confessed that she's into runs ..and urge her to do it too.

"No one will know ,make small money and go and start a business In Benin". Her friend urged ..and that was how she started ,she said sometimes dirty mechanic or even tout boys will sleep with her and she had no choice but to allow them,she said sometimes some of them will use drug and almost tear her vagina..but that later she got used to it ..I felt bad for her ..... What do you think ?






Comment if u would like to hear the remaining story .....

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At the hotel u work every day and you only get a day off . During my off days she will beg me not to go home that I should rest there, she would then book a room for me to spend my break... (Pls understand the owner of the hotel is one difficult man and he must not find out you are dating any runs babe because he will believe you are giving her his money , so we kept it on the low but all her friends and my friends know.. )


I would be in that room and she will come and check on me time to time ,with food and drinks,she was really taking care of me.sh would buy me milk saying I need to regain my strength,this babe was not asking for sex ,she was actually taking her time with me ..

Then one day I had issues with my supervisor and I was suspended ( the Supervisor was jealous of our relationship And was always looking for fault in everything I do ).

I was suspended for 3 days and that means they will deduct a week money ..this babe lodged me in another hotel , gave me 10k saying I should use it to replace the money they will deduct,she then left her hotel to come spend the three days suspension with me..and sex happened..

Somehow i'mmediately after that I lost total interest in the job ,she was buying me everything from clothes to boxers to designer shoes ,she even bought me a gold chain (real Gold) ...I started feeling too big for the job that use to be my everything..


She told me that I should quit the job and look for a better one as the one I'm doing is below my standards, I believed her and quitted , then she told me she's quitting prostitution too.. she had like 300k in her account and there is a house in Benin belonging to her .. that was how me and olosho relocated to Benin to start living as couples... I was having sex everyday....


I just wake up and have sex then sleep .. life was sweet not knowing I was killing my destiny... After bout 3 months we finished spending the money in her account. and we were becoming broke ..that was when I realized I need a job again.. then one day during my job hunt I came back and she wasn't around, when she came back she brought food , provisions and stuff and even gave me 5k to get something for myself. I asked her where she got the money from and she confessed that she went to sleep with one rich man like that in Benin...

She begged me to please allow her to continue going to see the man that the man promised to fund her business plans which I agreed ....

After a while we started having issues I realized she did not like me as she use to she will say words like " You were not like this when you were in Lagos ". ... I did not understand what she meant until I saw myself in a mirror one day .. omo I was looking old and ugly all my beauty was gone .. I almost cried .. I i'mmediately left for Lagos the next week... And after years of fasting and praying and deliveenca I started looking better ...... To those that do say sex has no consequences I hope you learn. A Thing or two ....
Most women are fetish,because men are saling up to the realization of things, if a woman understands that you really see her behaviour clearly as she is, and not all those whining she will act normal towards you and even try to make you her bestie in order to keep her real self a secret Talk to her as you see her not the way she Wants you to see her. and dont always put them in your kinds as valuable, that way even if they use the most borrowed expensive make up you won't even notice. Once most of them see that you dont have time for their feeling alll self important, ignore them, their only weapon is to call you 'HOMO' or Goat just move on. Women were made to please men that is a fact,at all level.When the men discover this and they themselves know their tiles and act as it was made while heartedly then the world will be a better place.

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