HalpyBee:

Okay

just sent a pm, pls reply with your phone number so I can call you

This is my life,and I enjoy it so much, I don't know why you have problem with that. I wish I could delete people from even talking to me,its emotionally draining when I'm constantly forcing self on a useless conversation
I'm an animator and graphics designer

ModestGal:
This is my life,and I enjoy it so much, I don't know why you have problem with that. I wish I could delete people from even talking to me,its emotionally draining when I'm constantly forcing self on a useless conversation
I'm an animator and graphics designer

I don't actually have any problem with it. I can say working from home is much more convenient but sometimes you might just need to interact with the outside world.
Hmmm....you know you can't totally delete people from talking to you. Nothing beats having a real conversation with people.

HalpyBee:

I don't actually have any problem with it. I can say working from home is much more convenient but sometimes you might just need to interact with the outside world.
Hmmm....you know you can't totally delete people from talking to you. Nothing beats having a real conversation with people.

Yes ma'am, maybe thats because I'm an introvert, I just don't enjoy conversations with people or maybe because majority of the people are too dumb for me to have interesting conversation with
After 2minutes of talking I feel so exhausted and wish the person could just leave

HalpyBee:

is your mailbox active?

ModestGal:

Yes ma'am, maybe thats because I'm an introvert, I just don't enjoy conversations with people or maybe because majority of the people are too dumb for me to have interesting conversation with
After 2minutes of talking I feel so exhausted and wish the person could just leave

Okay, I think I can understand.

ebenezer202l:
is your mailbox active?

Yeah

HalpyBee:

Yeah

the one attached to this account isn't active.
Can you kindly drop your mail address so we could communicate.
Thanks

HalpyBee:
Hi friends, I need your suggestions and advice.
So this is my story.

I'm Olayemi(not real name) and I'm in my mid-twenties. While growing up, I wasn't the type that had so many friends.While in the University, weI made an handful of friends but after we were done, we couldn't keep up with the friendship as before due to many reasons.. choice(some kept their distance) and physical distance. Just a Hi-Hello conversations once in a while.

Straight to the point. Now I work from home and I don't have the opportunity to go out and interact with people because most time, I work till evening. Sometimes, the only time I step out of my house is on Sundays, when I go to Church.
On Saturdays, it's either I go visiting a friend, mall, market or I stay back at home doing chores and relaxing.

I'm bored with this lifestyle, sometimes, I crave for human interaction. You know that feeling when you've been on the pc for hours and you just need to clear your head.
I strongly believe in interacting with people and building great relationships.

I know gym is an option but...for now, I can't keep up with gym.

Online… tried initiating conversations with new people but not that encouraging…
Some are just disinterested… we all have our choices and preferences.
I have a lot to talk about but let me stop here.

If you are working from home or have once worked from home, share your experiences.
How did/do you cope? How do you meet people to interact with?

Well online work demands alone time indoors, you just have to find people in your kind of work... I work online too and stay alone but I get to interact in viewing centers cause I watch football

ebenezer202l:
the one attached to this account isn't active.
Can you kindly drop your mail address so we could communicate.
Thanks

Hi, It's very much active.

Xavie:
Well online work demands alone time indoors, you just have to find people in your kind of work... I work online too and stay alone but I get to interact in viewing centers cause I watch football

True! Alone time indoors can't be taken away

Hehehe....

Your problem....

But let me just tell you something

Maybe you are interacting too intelligently......
Nobody likes listening to their professor after school..
Reduce hand interact normal instead, money, Sars, dreams etc

Go to the beach.... Most fvck boys are found in church and malls....but the beach....the beach is for free spirits..


Lower your standards when it comes to friends...
Without chaff there is no beans...
Just be careful make them no influence you

HalpyBee:

Hi, It's very much active.

the mail in this account isn't active cos my main moniker was deactivated.
I can't message you or read your message directly unless I either drop my mail address directly to you or you type yours so I could send a message

LikeAking:
The problem is from the way you wai brought up.

The did has been done sis,

Just make sure you dont bring up your children, the way your parents brought you up.

Theere is no cure for your sickness,just manage it.

Women like you will enjoy loads of sex in marriage,at least thats something.


Nigerian parents are the number destroyers of their children's happiness.

LikeAking:


What that babe need is real sex.

Kindly help her out,


Bye,

chai
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ebenezer202l:
the mail in this account isn't active cos my main moniker was deactivated.
I can't message you or read your message directly unless I either drop my mail address directly to you or you type yours so I could send a message

You can drop your email

Jessepaid:
Hehehe....

Your problem....

But let me just tell you something

Maybe you are interacting too intelligently......
Nobody likes listening to their professor after school..
Reduce hand interact normal instead, money, Sars, dreams etc

Go to the beach.... Most fvck boys are found in church and malls....but the beach....the beach is for free spirits..


Lower your standards when it comes to friends...
Without chaff there is no beans...
Just be careful make them no influence you

Interact too intelligently... Lol...not at all
Thanks for your input

LikeAking:
The problem is from the way you wai brought up.

The did has been done sis,

Just make sure you dont bring up your children, the way your parents brought you up.

Theere is no cure for your sickness,just manage it.

Women like you will enjoy loads of sex in marriage,at least thats something.


Nigerian parents are the number destroyers of their children's happiness.

Ahh ahh, bro......what are you saying? Lol......anyway you are hilarious


So back to your point well I think ypur point about parental upbringing is true because I am exactly like she said she is although I am a student but in school I don't have friends which some people think is strange in a typical Nigerian campus (and I don't think my parent mean harm).

Now I am not comfortable with the way I keep to myself but I have always loved it not until now that my parents have issues in their marriage and everything centers on me........the heat is just too much.


Now I wish I had friends because in school I feel lonely and I sometimes look forward to the holiday but on the other hand home is always hot and because I have always been neutral unlike my younger sibling who supports dad and dad wants undiluted support so he keeps threatening not sponsoring my education anymore after waiting 7+ years to gain admission (not that I didn't use to pass o, I was just being denied admission every year) so he knows it will be painful.


So now he extends the fight he has for mum to me.

I just wish I have friends to talk to nowadays

So sometimes I ask myself "what exactly do you want?" To be in school? Or to go home? Because there's loneliness in both places.

In school I am alone, at home I am not alone physically but I am practically alone with a yearning for peace.



About women like that enjoying sex a lot in marriage.........hmmm do you think so? but seriously how did you connect it together?
Sounds funny.

So do you mean there's no cure really and all I can do is manage it? Well I think you are right but it is not a sickness.

gym is a viable option even though u said u dont like it.u would meet more interesting and focused young guys there who are gainfully employed.on the other hand u can try church if u like the ol boring brother in the church kine of tin with shirt and tie 24/7 and holding bible all the time . the choice is urs.sitting on the computer all day is not even good for ur health.u need to make out time and interract with ppl and i am mentioning the gym again .

gloniks:




Ahh ahh, bro......what are you saying? Lol......anyway you are hilarious


So back to your point well I think ypur point about parental upbringing is true because I am exactly like she said she is although I am a student but in school I don't have friends which some people think is strange in a typical Nigerian campus (and I don't think my parent mean harm).

Now I am not comfortable with the way I keep to myself but I have always loved it not until now that my parents have issues in their marriage and everything centers on me........the heat is just too much.


Now I wish I had friends because in school I feel lonely and I sometimes look forward to the holiday but on the other hand home is always hot and because I have always been neutral unlike my younger sibling who supports dad and dad wants undiluted support so he keeps threatening not sponsoring my education anymore after waiting 7+ years to gain admission (not that I didn't use to pass o, I was just being denied admission every year) so he knows it will be painful.


So now he extends the fight he has for mum to me.

I just wish I have friends to talk to nowadays

So sometimes I ask myself "what exactly do you want?" To be in school? Or to go home? Because there's loneliness in both places.

In school I am alone, at home I am not alone physically but I am practically alone with a yearning for peace.



About women like that enjoying sex a lot in marriage.........hmmm do you think so? but seriously how did you connect it together?
Sounds funny.

So do you mean there's no cure really and all I can do is manage it? Well I think you are right but it is not a sickness.

Have u heard about harmless destroyers? Thats the role many Nigerian parents play. They make harmful laws/upbringing that destroy the lives of their children in the future. All the problems we face in life comes from our home.

Only few Nigerian parents actually know watsup. Only few Nigerian parents have actually brought up their kids to be the best. Most Nigerian parents/educational sys encourage self destructive attitudes like keeping no friends, shyness,been timid and settling for less.


Let me give a big advice that will save your from poverty, frustration,loneliness,lack and unemployment in the future.

Its a simple advice: Now that you are young and in school make millions of good friends, thats the only way to have a bright future in this generation. Their is no future for the shy/timid man. Make friends now, they will link you up later in the future. Make friends with all your lectures too. If you have lots of friends even your huby will fear you, He wont Bleep wit you any how. But, the opposite is a big disaster. . Your neighbors will also fear and respect you. The list is endless

The youthful vices, except some few harmful ones like cultism and violence are part of a learning process.

I know many parents are been over protective

Every thing na connection.

Pick your friends, your friends should not pick you.

Every thing for Nigeria na friend, friend.

.Having lots of friends = connects.

LikeAking:


Have u heard about harmless destroyers? Thats the role many Nigerian parents play. They make harmful laws/upbringing that destroy the lives of their children in the future. All the problems we face in life comes from our home.

Only few Nigerian parents actually know watsup. Only few Nigerian parents have actually brought up their kids to be the best. Most Nigerian parents/educational sys encourage self destructive attitudes like keeping no friends, shyness,been timid and settling for less.


Let me give a big advice that will save your from poverty, frustration,loneliness,lack and unemployment in the future.

Its a simple advice: Now that you are young and in school make millions of good friends, thats the only way to have a bright future in this generation. Their is no future for the shy/timid man. Make friends now, they will link you up later in the future. Make friends with all your lectures too. If you have lots of friends even your huby will fear you, He wont Bleep wit you any how. But, the opposite is a big disaster. . Your neighbors will also fear and respect you. The list is endless

The youthful vices, except some few harmful ones like cultism and violence are part of a learning process.

I know many parents are been over protective

Every thing na connection.

Pick your friends, your friends should not pick you.

Every thing for Nigeria na friend, friend.

.Having lots of friends = connects.

Thanks.........although I pray to have a hubby that will be my companion and not take advantage of the number of people I can call my own or class of people I roll with socially ...............still I think you are right.



But the problem is how do I make friends.........I just don't know how to

gloniks:



Thanks.........although I pray to have a hubby that will be my companion and not take advantage of the number of people I can call my own or class of people I roll with socially ...............still I think you are right.



But the problem is how do I make friends.........I just don't know how to

U have too learn how to make friends gradually.

Start by showing love to few hand picked offline/online friends. Like their pics, call dem etc.

Have u seen the footage wia Beyonces younger sister attacked her husband? Jazzy knows Beyonce gat a pit bull, so he must behave himself. Your hubby will not be your companion like that.. Its very rare to find such a rare man. Certain factors must compel him to do so. There nothing wrong with a little fear... People will respect you the more when they know you have a stand by army.... Na so life be. Humans love to take advantage of people they perceive to be weak or harmless.

LikeAking:


U have too learn how to make friends gradually.

Start by showing love to few hand picked offline/online friends. Like their pics, call dem etc.

Have u seen the footage wia Beyonces younger sister attacked her husband? Jazzy knows Beyonce gat a pit bull, so he must behave himself. Your hubby will not be your companion like that.. Its very rare to find such a rare man. Certain factors must compel him to do so. There nothing wrong with a little fear... People will respect you the more when they know you have a stand by army.... Na so life be. Humans love to take advantage of people they perceive to be weak or harmless.

Hmmm I think you are right.......story of my mum now.......she's no7 out of 7 children but all her siblings her faraway so dad behaves somehow most times like she doesn't have anybody.

.

HalpyBee:

Finally found someone who can relate. I can understand the part where friends think you are intentionally snubbing them.
I agree with you. A balanced life is very important. You should know how to separate work from your normal life although it's not easy when you work from home.
Technically, your home is your workplace.

Have you found a solution? My problem is that am too focused on making money. So I tend to ignore people and totally focus on my hustle. Now everyone is doing the same. I feel so lonely

Jannuxajj:

Have you found a solution? My problem is that am too focused on making money. So I tend to ignore people and totally focus on my hustle. Now everyone is doing the same. I feel so lonely

Well, I'm holding up fine. What goes around, comes around. Don't ignore people so you won't be ignored.

HalpyBee:

Well, I'm holding up fine. What goes around, comes around. Don't ignore people so you won't be ignored.

I learnt that lesson in a bitter way

Jannuxajj:

I learnt that lesson in a bitter way

Sorry to hear that. Not too late to amend tho.

There are so many people out there that wish they could have that life where they could just work from home but that is not always possible for most people. If you want such a life then you need to have started way before you even thought about it. It is all about how you set your mind.

HalpyBee:
Hi

Hi, can u pm me pls??

Rockrunner:
There are so many people out there that wish they could have that life where they could just work from home but that is not always possible for most people. If you want such a life then you need to have started way before you even thought about it. It is all about how you set your mind.

You are absolutely right.

Now I know what it means to be a single lady working from home. The one thing that most of these single ladies tend to lose out on is a partner because they focus so much on themselves that they forget that their independence will not last them a lifetime. It's a good life only if you take it the right way,

HalpyBee:
Hi

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