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Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:35pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
EaglesEyes1: The fact is that the guy loves her ooo, she shouldn't leave him, they should have continuous mutual understanding...no relationship is perfect. The fact is that the guy loves her for not letting go of her |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Austinosconst: 3:36pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
One word for you "Run" |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:37pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
CORRECTMAN78: The guy loves her, but they should seek understanding...The guy don't want to let her go because he loves her!..no dating is perfect..no one is perfect |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:38pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Austinosconst:You are wrong...she should stick with him because he loves and that's why he doesn't want to let her go !..They should have dialogue! |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:39pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
richieray: Is a lie, change is constant... people do change..the fact is that the guy loves her and that's why he doesn't want to let her go!! |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Anaerobi(m): 3:41pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Different opinions. I pray the op make the right decision. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:43pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Bbliss24: 5 years still counting ,yet no sight for the day he will walk you down isle .I biliv you knw woman use to reach menopause sha. Everybody is blaming the guy, but no one asked you what you do that warranted beating, in as much I blame the guy for beating you. If a woman stays with a guy for 5 years and the guy not yet get his direction of life and she is approaching 28 or he doesn't make tangible action to tie knot with the woman, even if the guy is romantic I will advice the girl run as fast as lion. Meanwhile one antitode that work almost perfectly for health relationship is for the 2 partners involved to be overlooking minor offences. When guy and girl meet newly its always rosy and beautiful but after sometimes it become boring, when you overcome that stage, you will now see each other like twins |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Seyzcham91(m): 3:44pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
na only you get sense here honestly! i thought i was the only one that noticed that part all naija girls be olosho walahi. na the best bidder dem dey go with and by best bidder i mean person with more and more money See how she said it without remorse that she left her Ex and Move to the new guy without telling us the new guy is kind of richer a little she now lying that one helping her academically and intelligent. Intelligent my foot. she think we be mumu all these girls no dey after intelligence or fine bobo anymore or six packs na money sure pass and more reason some Mumu Low self esteem, myopic naija guys dey resort to Money Ritual so as to Get girls attention I keep saying all naija girls are blood sucking mosquitoes And back to that girl that says the guy keep beating her or something and others here saying the guy is tired of her pussy, yes thats right the guy don dey get free pussy for too long but do you guys also ask her why she never wants to leave the guy? its more like an abusive relationship and yet she doesn't want to leave and she shouldn't be giving us shits of CUZ OF LOVE FOR HIM cuz thats a big lie. that guy get small money for hand and the girl no won let go of that benefits is the only reason she's sticking with him and don't wanna let go despite the abuse well. i rest my case! odinson1: 2 Likes |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:44pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Aimerosa25: The relationship isn't toxic..The guy can change, The main thing in a relationship is love, the guy doesn't want to let her leave because he loves her.. no relationship is perfect..there is no perfect being, we all aim at being good. The guy loves her ,that's the main thing, he should give him another chance oh..... |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Patiks: 3:47pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
odinson1: Thank God your advice is for the mumu guys who date the 'hoes'. Wetin consign me? Shebi na who see the thing go chop and clean mouth? 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:47pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Seyzcham91: The guy loves her that's why he doesn't want to let her go...she shouldn't leave the guy, let them have dialogue and agreement in the relationship..the guy loves her, that's why he doesn't want to to leave. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:49pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Fussion1000:The guy loves her and that's why he isn't letting her go...he is very likely to marry her, because guys like this do end up marrying that lady that they don't want to go. That's love! |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:50pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Patiks:The guy loves her and that's why he doesn't want her to go, she isn't an how! |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by odinson1(m): 3:51pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Patiks: All nigerian Ladies are hoes |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:53pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Bbliss24: For the fact he doesn't want to let you go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Patiks: 3:53pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Europeanian: I wasn't referring to the original poster. I was referring to the advice: ''chop Nigerian girls and clean mouth.'' Na who no value her thing go offer to anybody who comes along. 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by toye440: 3:53pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
First u dated or accepted him for the wrong reasons, considering his recent demeanor, i think he's going true some pyschological trauma and he tends to carryout his frustration on u. My 2 Cents albeit i dont know if it would suffice, pls walk away its already toxic. Walk while u still can or God forbide it may be ur demise, cos the guy who is maiming u emotionally and punching softly now would place no value on u when u r married to him. Pls run and never look back, but if him prick still dey sweet u, oya carry on, We shall meet at the golden gate. A living dog is better than a dead lion. 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:54pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
odinson1:She isn't an hoe, the guy loves her that's why he doesn't want to let her go |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Patiks: 3:54pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
odinson1: No wonder the Queen LovePeddler gave birth to you. I feel your pain. Sowi you hear? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:56pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
I[quote author=toye440 post=96965748][/quote] WRONG ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Change is constant.. people do change oh. For the fact he doesn't want to let her go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 3:58pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Patiks:Alright, but the guy really loves her, that's why he doesn't want to give up on her..he isn't letting her go..he loves her! |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by simplesearch: 3:59pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Bbliss24: Real sensible ladies and gents listen to and obey God's command....Flee fornication is God's command! Real sensible ladies and gents listen to and obey God's command....Marriage is honorable in all things and the bed must be undefiled is God's command! Real sensible ladies and gents listen to and obey God's command....Can a man/woman put fire in his bosoms and not be burnt? Is God's rhetorical question, by co-habiting with a strange flesh in a relationship that has neither being certified by your parents nor sanctified by God, you break God's command. A lot of modern day smart people are actually daft, Co-habiting with a guy is a license for uninhibited random sex-capades experiment, for which you are the guinea pig.. You may probably have taken in once or twice for him and that translate to abortion..This are effect of co-habiting that cannot be avoided or over ruled. What you need now is not a relationship but genuine repentance borne out of sincerity, if you want God's mercy and your glory restored do this as fast as possible today. Wait on the Lord he will give you the desire of your heart, not a shocker or playboy! If you refuse this admonition and think to continue, be rest assure the signs are there for you to see and you cannot change it once you've finally submitted your crown to him. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by boxer022(m): 3:59pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
You said you find it difficult to leave the relationship and you are asking again if you should leave the relationship. From what I can see, at first the relationship was lovely, rosy and sweet, but now it has changed to bitter, painful and regretful. As I always say, it is bad for a guy to hit the girl he said he loves no matter the reason. How can you stay in a relationship that turned from lovely to abusive? You have to make up your mind and decide what you want for yourself after all you are an adult. If you feel that staying in an abusive relationship is good for your health, who am I to advice against it? If you feel otherwise then do the needful. The ball is in your court. 1 Like |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Fussion1000:WRONG ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Change is constant.. people do change oh. For the fact he doesn't want to let her go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
boxer022:WRONG ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Change is constant.. people do change oh. For the fact he doesn't want to let her go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him. 5 |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by humilitypays(m): 4:02pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Vyolet:life has no simple working laws and rules to success, everything is time and luck. Some date 8 years and end up happy together, some just few months and one kill the other lol |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by bluefilm: 4:02pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
ModsStopBanning: Thank you for telling her the truth she already knows but is afraid to admit to herself. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 4:03pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
toye440:WRONG ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Change is constant.. people do change oh. For the fact he doesn't want to let her go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 4:04pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
JERRY1925:WRONG ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Change is constant.. people do change oh. For the fact he doesn't want to let her go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Patiks: 4:04pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
Europeanian: If you say so. I think five years is long enough for a man to learn to cherish his partner if he truly loves her despite challenges. |
Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Nobody: 4:05pm On Dec 11, 2020 |
rollybest: WRONG ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Change is constant.. people do change oh. For the fact he doesn't want to let her go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him. |
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