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Re: Relationships are Overrated by prince2pac(m): 12:38pm On Dec 14, 2020
cool
Re: Relationships are Overrated by sanity12(m): 12:39pm On Dec 14, 2020
Who broke your heart, Talk to me bro grin

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by sanmtiago(m): 12:40pm On Dec 14, 2020
Women are worthless in this present day society

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Akinbahm(m): 12:40pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

At the bolded, that alone can give one stroke.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman

Those American men needed to be castrated sincerely.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by JoeEeL(m): 12:41pm On Dec 14, 2020
Truth on my screen.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by lightwind(m): 12:42pm On Dec 14, 2020
a lot of women are just after what they will get from you, no real love anymore

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Camelot65: 12:42pm On Dec 14, 2020
What's the use of relationships?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Martinez39s(m): 12:43pm On Dec 14, 2020
Silentgroper:
Stop saying that. Getting married is worse except she agrees to sign a prenup
MJBOLT never said getting a babymama is worse than marriage. He simply discouraged it over there. Believe me, you really don't want to get entangled in the child support system over there.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by JoeEeL(m): 12:43pm On Dec 14, 2020
MJBOLT:
it's better you remain single than trying that baby mama stuff in europe or america,child support will milk you dry and if you fail to pay,na jail straight for you.


So men no go born ni i?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by MyGeneration(m): 12:43pm On Dec 14, 2020
Relationships are source of free sex for guys

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by ojuu4u(m): 12:44pm On Dec 14, 2020
The moderators will be pushing irrelevances to the front page leaving so many informative and educative posts back page.


You guys should start leaving up to expectations, before nairaland completely hijack by urchins & nuisance.

The posts where we can't get real and positive opinions to make us understand one another, going into related are languishing off page, but you guys keep sending posts that make us go negative more about relationships and marriages, yet we want united community. How is it possible if man and women from same society are not in good term with one another

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by ecclize: 12:44pm On Dec 14, 2020
God help us

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by JoeEeL(m): 12:44pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do sad

Sounds true o.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Silentgroper(m): 12:45pm On Dec 14, 2020
Martinez39s:
MJBOLT never said getting a babymama is worse than marriage. He simply discouraged it over there. Believe me, you really don't want to get entangled in the child support system over there.
I heard u man.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Liposure: 12:46pm On Dec 14, 2020
All hope is not lost altho i'm still searching for my missing rib
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Alexaonfleek: 12:46pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:
sad [s][/s]Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do[s][/s]sad
No one is forcing you to remain a christian

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by dalass(f): 12:46pm On Dec 14, 2020
grin
Re: Relationships are Overrated by babakbb: 12:47pm On Dec 14, 2020
The female bashers are here again....

These women didn't beg you to propose marriage or relationship to them so leave them alone.

Everyday you guys come online and bash women but go behind and beg women for relationship and marriage, some sissy azz niggaz even go on their knees and propose to this women and post pre wedding pics online with their teeth wide open.

You are the one toasting and begging theses women and not the other way round, so they are the ones doing you a favor.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by GOTVee: 12:47pm On Dec 14, 2020
JoeEeL:


Sounds true o.


Yes my brother. You're saved in Jesus name
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Toks2008(m): 12:47pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need womu8en, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman

I. Totally agree with you but I think it has been engraved in a man's nature to be with a specific woman.

I don't know but there is always that subliminal cravings that a man has to have a lady he can call his own even if he has a chain of chics.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 12:47pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do sad
You're not born again. You're a Christian IN NAME ONLY.

@op,wailing Wailer, your mates keep getting married every weekend. Keep wailing grin

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by teemy(m): 12:48pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do sad

Would you be willing to try out islam?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by ayobade15094: 12:49pm On Dec 14, 2020
a lot of women are just after what they will get from you, no real love anymore

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Silentgroper(m): 12:50pm On Dec 14, 2020
JoeEeL:

Sounds true o.
Hw do u fair 4 d kids if u dnt earn enough?
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Toks2008(m): 12:50pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, this is one of the reasons I think islamic marriage is better than Christianity. In Islam you are allowed to marry as many as you want which makes the importance attached to women drastically reduced. We Christians need to stage a protest against marrying one wife. Marrying one wife is parasitic while polygamy breeds competition among women with each and every wife trying to outdo each other in pleasing their husband. Majority of the stupid laws protecting women are from Christian countries, you can never find such in Muslim nations yet they have a more prosperous marriage than we Christians do sad
Guy nothing bad in a Christian marrying many wives...go and get your facts right.

Be you a Christian or a Muslim, Polygamy is a matter of choice... The only time it becomes a crime is when you do a court wedding that prohibits Polygamy.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by GOTVee: 12:51pm On Dec 14, 2020
Chii59:

You're not born again. You're a Christian IN NAME ONLY.

@op,wailing Wailer, your mates keep getting married every weekend. Keep wailing grin


I have been born again for two decades. Your opinion doesn't count

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by TemmyT002(m): 12:52pm On Dec 14, 2020
Some women actually add value to some men's lives. They help them with business, advice, protection, welfare, and so on.
The problem is that they are not many.
You are ranting because you haven't met ladies like that.
Pele my dear.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by pretteemee(f): 12:52pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman



It really has to do with the kind of ladies/women you have been meeting.
Change your circle of women Sir.
Trust me, nothing can be compared to finding a good woman as a lifetime companion.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by GOTVee: 12:52pm On Dec 14, 2020
teemy:


Would you be willing to try out islam?



I would have done that when I was in the world. I'm presently enjoying my life in christ as a born again Christian. Peace out
Re: Relationships are Overrated by TemmyT002(m): 12:53pm On Dec 14, 2020
ayobade15094:
a lot of women are just after what they will get from you, no real love anymore

A lot of men just want sex. No real love.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by dalass(f): 12:53pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman

I wonder who's forcing you to be in a relationship

If you feel you don't need a woman in your life, dey like that now. No be by force oh. Enjoy your life, money assets all by yourself...

No qualms bro.. grin cheesy cheesy

P.S. Get yourself a sex doll and you're good to go.. For sex. No hassles

Mtchewwwe

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by GeneralPula: 12:54pm On Dec 14, 2020
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