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Re: Relationships are Overrated by jericco1(m): 1:22pm On Dec 14, 2020
I'll still get married at least when the time comes.


All these things are unnecessary.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 1:22pm On Dec 14, 2020
Men and women need each other.
Although OP hit some valid points. i don't disagree with him entirely.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Asianjollof007: 1:27pm On Dec 14, 2020
MJBOLT:
do not make the mistake of doing baby mama in europe or america,you will regret it.


Read to the end, he knows what's going on in U.S.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by odinson1(m): 1:29pm On Dec 14, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So who will be legally entitled to yiur properties?

My children
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Asianjollof007: 1:30pm On Dec 14, 2020
At least, i'm not alone. Been thinking about this too.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Melst: 1:30pm On Dec 14, 2020
odinson1:
Men don't really need women, infact we are actually doing them a huge favor by marrying them.

Imagine a bachelor doing well financially:has a nice house, decent job, drama free life,can cook etc.

Then all of a sudden he decides to take on a woman who he thinks will add value into life.

Which kine value?



The relationship between a man and woman in modern times is never symbiotic ---its parasitic in nature.

One benefits(the woman) at the expense of the man.



As sides sex--which can be gotten with money, I don't see an atom of value all these girls add to a mans life. All they do is make Stupid monetary demands,lie,nag and Give someone Headache. Like how can you expect your boyfriend to Be the one Paying for your Toiletries,pants,Hair,Fake nails,house rent etc

Infact, they actually make an otherwise decent and peaceful life worse!

Now Take Away the Sex(which includes child bearing) and ask yourself what your Girlfriend Or actually Adds to your life? I'll rather just have a baby mama who will birth my kids,but won't be Legally entitled to my Properties.

A lot of men Are suffering in the Americas and Europe because of Divorce courts,Child support and Restraining orders. But I still wonder why Those Simp leaders Gave out laws that Favours only women at the Expense of men,yet some Men knowing full well the dangers they face in marriage,still gets married all in the name of "Not all women are like that" And " Being a real man "who Will sarcrifice his sanity,Assets,freedom and Life for A woman
Let me ask you, what do you have to offer a woman in marriage that is on the same financial level as you? Because you can boil rice and fry tomatoes, you now feel that is what marriage is all about. You attract what you are. Guys are busy enjoying their relationships and begging good and decent girls to walk that road with them, you are here disturbing us with your bad choice and taste in women. Take tissue......

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 1:30pm On Dec 14, 2020
ojuu4u:



Something which is burden to them , yet they don't let go of it.

If women are problems for you leave them for us who appreciate them.

The ways these guys believe they wise than God who created males and females to [b]complement [/b]each, is sickened

Perverted everywhere.

Much of the angst is due to the fact that relationships are no longer complimentary.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by dermmy(m): 1:31pm On Dec 14, 2020
dalass:


I wonder who's forcing you to be in a relationship

If you feel you don't need a woman in your life, dey like that now. No be by force oh. Enjoy your life, money assets all by yourself...

No qualms bro.. grin cheesy cheesy

P.S. Get yourself a sex doll and you're good to go.. For sex. No hassles

Mtchewwwe

Lols grin

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 1:34pm On Dec 14, 2020
Chii59:

Title doesn't equal relationship.
Eden is the blueprint of the plan God had in mind for marriage. One man, one wife till death do them part.

Lol. You shouldn't have used the garden of Eden as an example. God did not intend for man to die. So nothing like till death do them part.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by EXLOVER(m): 1:35pm On Dec 14, 2020
Ishilove:

You speak from a place of maturity. These chewing gum boys here don't know what they are doing.
Some people are just capping for capping sake, even people that call themselves alpha male online, girls are this girl's are that. I can't be in a relationship, baby mama all the way crew, this are just write up. Many live in one room, like me i don't do relationship for now, even when the girls want it, I prefer fwb, that is what i can afford for now, I don't want to waste any girls time, when the time comes, and i'm financially okay, I know i will need a woman that i will want to spend the rest of my life with.

Who wouldn't like being welcomed with a kiss, or going to vacations, buying gift, or having someone by your side? We just have to work for the good life we want, for now, we don't need anyone to suffer with us.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 1:36pm On Dec 14, 2020
Ginaz:
I pity the unfortunate woman who ends up marrying the op. With the mentality he's already having , it won't take a blind man to know he won't treat his wife with dignity and esteem.

Ladies should seriously pray that God give you the man with the right frame of mind and has a sound mind. Its very important cos the mentality of the average Nigerian male is appalling.

You begin to wonder if they ever have mothers or sisters. Why don't you get your fine house , money and cars pregnant then? Why need this same women who add nothing to your lives to get pregnant for you?

Na wa.


What's your opinion about the mentality of the average Nigerian female?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 14, 2020
benji93:
Initial plan, yes. But is it a sin to marry more than one wife, even in Christianity, No. But it is ideal to follow the original plan.
Matthew 19vs 8 showed that every other addition to God's plan for marriage was due to their HARDNESS OF HEART.
Mat 19:4 "God made them male and female"
Note the singular description. Male and female.
And in vs 5, "This explains why a MAN, leaves his father and mother and is joined to his WIFE, and the two are united into one"
Don't harden your heart. This is exactly how God wanted it to be... from the beginning.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Binhamid(m): 1:38pm On Dec 14, 2020
TemmyT002:
Some women actually add value to some men's lives. They help them with business, advice, protection, welfare, and so on.
The problem is that they are not many.
You are ranting because you haven't met ladies like that.
Pele my dear.

I agree with you on this, But such women are few. Very few I swear. If you meet a girl that can even hold a convo for one hour these days, you should thank God.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Nobody: 1:38pm On Dec 14, 2020
angelfallz:


Lol. You shouldn't have used the garden of Eden as an example. God did not intend for man to die. So nothing like till death do them part.
Eden was God's blueprint FOR MARRIAGE.
Read well oga.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Ishilove: 1:42pm On Dec 14, 2020
EXLOVER:
Some people are just capping for capping sake, even people that call themselves alpha male online, girls are this girl's are that. I can't be in a relationship, baby mama all the way crew, this are just write up. Many live in one room, like me i don't do relationship for now, even when the girls want it, I prefer fwb, that is what i can afford for now, I don't want to waste any girls time, when the time comes, and i'm financially okay, I know i will need a woman that i will want to spend the rest of my life with.

Who wouldn't like being welcomed with a kiss, or going to vacations, buying gift, or having someone by your side? We just have to work for the good life we want, for now, we don't need anyone to suffer with us.
You kuku have sense. These ones are just yapping because they have been in bad relationships or they can't afford to maintain viable relationships, so they come online to transfer the aggression.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 1:46pm On Dec 14, 2020
Chii59:

Eden was God's blueprint FOR MARRIAGE.
Read well oga.

Madam Eden wasn't.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by techstack: 1:50pm On Dec 14, 2020
op that's your opinion
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Silentgroper(m): 1:50pm On Dec 14, 2020
dalass:


I wonder who's forcing you to be in a relationship

If you feel you don't need a woman in your life, dey like that now. No be by force oh. Enjoy your life, money assets all by yourself...

No qualms bro.. grin cheesy cheesy

P.S. Get yourself a sex doll and you're good to go.. For sex. No hassles

Mtchewwwe
why are u pained?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by toren(f): 1:51pm On Dec 14, 2020
I see that a greater percentage of nairaland boys grew up in dysfunctional homes. Pitiful. So pitiful is their life that if they've not blamed their misfortune on the opposite sex in a day, they've not lived.

If you are by yourself complete, you wouldn't need anyone to add value to your life. This goes for both sexes. "Added value" is just a plus, not a must!

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by benji93: 1:52pm On Dec 14, 2020
Madam, i know where you are going, and for your information, it's not something i would want to do, and i hope i can keep that energy. cheesy. Now you call it hardness of heart. It is either it's a sin or it isn't. If you think it is label it as such and back it up. I am willing to learn. Besides what you are mentioning here is in reference to divorce. That verse doesn't do justice to the assertion that we cannot marry more than one wife. You can do better. The first question we should ask ourselves regarding anything of this kind is can it singularly come in the way of my salvation, and it's a personal matter. If it wasn't it would be stated categorically that you cannot. If it wasn't it would have been addressed directly. Do not do so so and so. And don't worry my heart is not hard, ok? cheesy
Chii59:

Matthew 19vs 8 showed that every other addition to God's plan for marriage was due to their HARDNESS OF HEART.
Mat 19:4 "God made them male and female"
Note the singular description. Male and female.
And in vs 5, "This explains why a MAN, leaves his father and mother and is joined to his WIFE, and the two are united into one"
Don't harden your heart. This is exactly how God wanted it to be... from the beginning.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by samsard(m): 1:56pm On Dec 14, 2020
GOTVee:



If you keep insulting men of God like me you will end up in hell. I have been born again before you can speak a word
LMAO. You're a ridiculous man. I'm irreligious and have zero regards for frauds on pulpit. If there is hell, it walks with me

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by perrydolla(f): 1:57pm On Dec 14, 2020
khingTony:
As seen on a certain thread
overrated
Re: Relationships are Overrated by samsard(m): 1:58pm On Dec 14, 2020
benji93:
I am sorry but marrying more than one wife is not sinful, perhaps that applies to your definition of a tenet. For something that was only predated by creation itself, i would think it would be stated clearly that you cannot have more than 1 wife.
Do you think every law was spelt out in the Bible? Or that even the ones that were spelt out were rational? Slavery is expressly allowed and humans no longer think slavery is cool. No need for this argument sef as I'm irreligious and think religion is bullshit.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by nuel101(m): 2:03pm On Dec 14, 2020
Ishilove:

You kuku have sense. These ones are just yapping because they have been in bad relationships or they can't afford to maintain viable relationships, so they come online to transfer the aggression.


MAINTAIN *** undecided undecided... una with this leech mentality ehn

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by benji93: 2:03pm On Dec 14, 2020
Oh ok, sorry, so why would you reply to that man in such a manner then? You are irreligious so it's a matter you shouldn't wade into. It doesn't concern you. cheesy. The guy was clearly addressing the issue from a religious angle. And besides religion and government are not entirely mutually exclusive. I won't bother debating the slavery issue with you. We probably do not share a common ground so, it would be futile.
samsard:
Do you think every law was spelt out in the Bible? Or that even the ones that were spelt out were rational? Slavery is expressly allowed and humans no longer think slavery is cool. No need for this argument sef as I'm irreligious and think religion is bullshit.
Re: Relationships are Overrated by nuel101(m): 2:04pm On Dec 14, 2020
The question was what value can a lady add to a mans life .... since no reasonable comment from them .. even they can’t mention just ONE ... this generation ehn shocked

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by nuel101(m): 2:05pm On Dec 14, 2020
All of them have been dodging the question like kilode .... grin

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Deejay1000(m): 2:08pm On Dec 14, 2020
angelfallz:


women are the back bone of men in what sense?
in terms of family support. the normal way by which the man goes out to work the women take care of the kids. these days though with most women working there is also financial and emotional support
Re: Relationships are Overrated by Silentgroper(m): 2:08pm On Dec 14, 2020
Chii59:

Matthew 19vs 8 showed that every other addition to God's plan for marriage was due to their HARDNESS OF HEART.
Mat 19:4 "God made them male and female"
Note the singular description. Male and female.
And in vs 5, "This explains why a MAN, leaves his father and mother and is joined to his WIFE, and the two are united into one"
Don't harden your heart. This is exactly how God wanted it to be... from the beginning.
Hw come abraham, solomon, jacob, joseph, david nd their likes had a free pass?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by Arinze96(m): 2:09pm On Dec 14, 2020
pretteemee:




It really has to do with the kind of ladies/women you have been meeting.
Change your circle of women Sir.
Trust me, nothing can be compared to finding a good woman as a lifetime companion.
Who is/should be considered a good woman?

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by cooooooks(m): 2:13pm On Dec 14, 2020
Stop being with people you do not respect.

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Re: Relationships are Overrated by angelfallz(m): 2:14pm On Dec 14, 2020
Deejay1000:

in terms of family support. the normal way by which the man goes out to work the women take care of the kids. these days though with most women working there is also financial and emotional support

Lol. using your first sentence i would kind of agree about women being the backbone.

But your second sentence, women can't be the backbone, because he is also supporting her financially. Moreover, A man that is comfortable financially, why would he need financial support?

A woman who is also working, with the stress accrued to career work, can't really offer emotional support.

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