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Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by anochuko01(m): 1:42pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Absolutely not. Things are different when you've got money |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Starboytwo(m): 1:42pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
I have decided to have only 2 kids... I want 1, so I can effectively manage my starboy3, but babe knelt down and beg me say 1 pikin no good, say he go good make starboy3 get a little cute stargirl to play with... So help us God. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by ptoall1000: 1:42pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
You are talking about the kids, what about the endangered youths currently at home for 8 months on ASUU strike and the graduates without job. 8 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by wellmax(m): 1:43pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Regex: Shame on you |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Nyanabo(m): 1:43pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
I'm scared for my unborn children reason why i aim un work hard and leave this sh*thole ASAP ! |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by lekki1444: 1:43pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Not if you have money. rich people keep their children in nigeeria. dj cuppy love nija die 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
englois:gino na 120 for my side. 9 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by MedicH: 1:45pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
The thoughts that my kids will one day stay at home or out of the streets protesting because of ASUU strike gives me depression. I don't have and kids now and not yet married. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Amhappy(f): 1:51pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
I think about this often,help me God to give my children a better life 8 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by ElValiente(m): 1:52pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
My father gave me 2 things. He gave birth to me and the wisdom of life he impacted on me. But all my kids none of them hold nigeria birth certificate. Laye. Future? In Naija 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by RedPanthar: 1:58pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Klass99: Abeg o. If you can afford it, leave. Nigeria isn't sane |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by uunwanaobong3: 2:02pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Where una wan leave this hell hole country run go........ When all of una were voting in buhari, and then mocking some of us who saw the future and opposed this disaster by trying to vote in Jonathan....... Na, you all are crying, trying to leave behind the mess you all created.......... We all die here for this country, whether good or bad..... Una never see something. Nigeria will continue to be degraded, blood will continue to be shade, the country will continue to lose all values both human an natural resources until nigeria finally die a natural death. Amen 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Nchenches: 2:06pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Most of the Igbo who have landed properties and businesses in Nigeria outside Igbo land don’t. They think only about enjoyment of their riches in Nigeria while they are alive. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Nchenches: 2:10pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
tensazangetsu20: In bold: Hope for a messiah of a leader to emerge from the present political structure of Nigeria is forlorn. Only the foolish ones entertain that hope. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Litmus: 2:11pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
As someone born abroad and whose formative years were in Nigeria, I would advice Nigerians to let their children grow up in Nigeria. Characters formed in Nigeria are unbeatable. Beyond the ages of 12 it is safe to send them abroad to school if you wish. If I could influence the black world, I would have them send their children to their nations of “genetic” origin during the formative years. I would have African Americans send their children to grow up in Nigeria or other African nations or the Caribbean, between the ages of I to 13 year old. After this, return them to America, Europe or wherever in the world you choose. It is absolutely vital that you let your black child form their character in Africa before moving them abroad if you wish. In Africa, Nigeria is the best place. 24 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Naughtysex: 2:11pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
tensazangetsu20:That's why many of these married people (including myself) have indirectly giving up on our dreams just to being able to give the future of our kids a little shape I cry everyday because my dream is slipping away from me due to financial insufficiency the bad economy has forced me to either choose my dream over my innocent kids or the kids over my life As a good father, i choose them over my life My advice to every single person out there is to shut the door of having children for now if you are not "extra" financial buoyant Although it was not as bad as it is now when i had them 15 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Damian457: 2:13pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
You’re a mumu man.. where is cuppy based? lekki1444: 8 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by themaestro08(m): 2:17pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
A305: Same strategy, but not baby mama things |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by overseasnbeyond: 2:21pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
100% YES tensazangetsu20: |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Naughtysex: 2:22pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
A305:can you please enlighten me on the "i'm taking them through the digital world" I might apply the same for my kids thanks |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by stephenponti(m): 2:23pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Honestly I fear, but I wholly trust God's providence. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by themaestro08(m): 2:25pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Naughtysex: This is the case with most people who give birth to one or multiple kids - things were not as hard as it is when they had them. What does this tells you? That our economy is isn't really growing and that corruption and mismanagement has widen the income gap, plus insane inflation. Things are not easy in this country. Not a pessimist but all I see for Nigerian is a bleak future. 7 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Originalsly: 2:30pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Smile4mee01: Frame the above! ... that's most important... if not... regardless of which country you migrate to... your kids will be a problem. Before this COVID-19 and ehmmm... New World Order... I would ve encouraged people to send their kids abroad mainly to gain the education that will be required in the future. But right now... things have been changing fast. Education is moving online... jobs are moving online... but more importantly the freedoms previously enjoyed in developed countries are being stripped away.... under the excuse of COVID-19 and saving lives. The most fundamental right... freedom of religion.. is being controlled. What will happen when movement is controlled?... in Nigeria... whatever the case... most can return to their respective villages...but abroad? Life is not easy anywhere in these times. What support can you get when your back is against the wall? Yes I live abroad.... for now.... in a job that does wayyy better because of the pandemic.....but the sufferings and desperation and hopelessness I see in so many of those that are affected by the crisis is saddening. Back home... people make out somehow on the very little they make and sooo many mouths to feed. The magic they perform back home cannot be performed here ... ingredients not available. This is really deep.... stuck between a rock and a hard place. Magicians... over to you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Litmus: 2:32pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
If you bring up your children in the West, between the ages of 1 to 13, they will be fundamentally Lilly livered and foolish. They will be deeply shallow. This is whether they end up in high paying jobs or in criminality. Let your children grow up in Nigeria during their formative years at least. If you want, and are able, then send them abroad in their teens. 13 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by privaldo: 2:33pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
CanadianNaija: He is actually realistic and not negative. You are being too optimistic, Nigeria won't get better it's a fact we should all come to live with. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by waleadeagb(m): 2:34pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
What a very interesting discussion for the married ones and not for the kids here on Nairaland. It's ain't easy raising kids or simply family in Nigeria. It's more hectic if you are the guy that love a quality and comfortable life for your family. Some men or parents don't really care about how their kids turn out as long as they are going to school and also been given food in the house without regards to the quality of the education and the food. My advise to young men is that strive and have a little comfort before bringing in family. Married a working class woman and not a liability so that two of you can reason progressively together. Also have a kid you can cater for very well than so many kids that would make you to be dependent on family and friends for school fees, feeding and etc.... Love get sour when money is absent all the time. Don't get carried away by love and entangle yourself in a poverty web. You might not live to explain it to your children. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Asianjollof007: 2:35pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
tensazangetsu20: Last year during new year's eve, some guys were arrested by sarz and drove to an unknown place. They asked them to pay some particular amount before they were released, they were arrested for doing nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by ThatFairGuy1: 2:35pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Why would I be scared of what I have no power over? The only fear is the menace that may come from ill brought up kids who turns to danger. Because they won't only affect themselves but even the innocent |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by lorhema(f): 2:40pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
englois: I pity the children because they didn't ask to be born. I have a relation who is a teacher in a private school in Lagos and has six children. He isn't even 45 years old so I've always wondered what he was thinking while having so many offspring. Relating with him is difficult because of his 'give me' attitude. Other people have a little to spare only because they make their plans and ask God to help them. Nigeria is tough. Lagos more so but some people have dug the holes they are in . Unfortunately, with their innocent children. 6 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by waleadeagb(m): 2:40pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Are you really serious with this post? Litmus: |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by privaldo: 2:41pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
wellmax: How is this connected to the thread? 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Mayeldah(m): 2:41pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
We will be fine once Buhari leaves the stage. We hang on! Everybody can't run away. 3 Likes |
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