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Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by donchibe: 2:42pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Hmmmm well I live in Qatar with good Job. Many Nigerian women in Qatar does nothing, they just stay at home. School fees in Qatar are very expensive from kindergarten to secondary school. They pay monthly, like kindergarten they pay 2500rial=312500naira monthly. Another one, Qatar does not give citizenship. My wife stayed for 1year without a job, she always stay indoors because there is no place to go. One can not visit someone without informing the person, because Qatar is a Muslim country. One day my wife told me she is not staying in Qatar again, if she stays she will get mad staying indoors, That she will go back to Nigeria with our son to start something doing. She will prefer visiting Qatar than living in Qatar. The reason why am saying this is that everyone abroad want to return to Nigeria because the suffering is everywhere, but Nigeria suffering is 200%. 8 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Penboy: 2:44pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Klass99: How many kids dyou have now? |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by privaldo: 2:46pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Litmus: Did you really go through the thread before typing? 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by tot(f): 2:48pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Litmus: Unfortunately, most people won't understand your comment, which is understandable because they are in survival mode right now. 16 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by wellmax(m): 2:48pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
privaldo: Read it again, now slowly. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by privaldo: 2:50pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Litmus: This is a shallow mindset. There are responsible kids outside the shores of Africa, who are not "lilly livered" and there are also kids raised in Nigeria who are psychos, so your argument is baseless. 6 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Reelmii: 2:50pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Heartlessbanker:how does he pay his rents, or is he related to the landlord |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by bigcasava1(m): 2:52pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
tensazangetsu20:my brother na God oo! I have four kids but God has been faithful to us, but my fear is my children future! As for me I am working and the salary takes care of our basic needs at the moment, my worries is how will they survive if am not there. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Cool83(m): 2:52pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
to be sincere, have been ruminating about this issue, I can't allow my children to go through this problem we are facing in this country, am seeking for opportunity for them to leave this country 1 Like |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Sheriman(m): 2:53pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
ADUKKY:God shall provide abundantly for you to take care of them and continuing to bless them |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by DaddyGngeess(m): 2:53pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
I always have this believe and hope that everything will be fine someday, everyone must not run out of the country now, if everyone start running away who will stay to make things right, no matter how tough and hard the country some people are still doing well here, so just know what u want in life and chose very well.. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Mjpem23(m): 2:54pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
I Dey even fear my own future not to talk of my unborn children 11 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by privaldo: 2:55pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
wellmax: If they only read more positive news about the country and forget the negative part don't you think, what they are doing is equivalent to living in "wonderland". They are only shielding themselves from the reality on ground, and it will them whether they like it, or not. |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
nope 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Kokaine(m): 2:56pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
ecomalchemist:I'm telling you. And no be small money oh |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Gerrard59(m): 2:58pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Klass99: Wahala for who dey highly fertile 1 Like |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by smallsmall: 2:58pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
tensazangetsu20: TWO GOOD HEADS, ARE BETTER THAN ONE. (Emphasis on "Good Heads", even one Bad head is more than enough trouble). Your Spouse can be your best asset or your worst nightmare, he/she can make or mar your life. When one is down, the other can assist, they can plan together, they can encourage and lift each other up....... those are the good sides ofcourse, and we know those are less than 10% of the true-life cases. Choose wisely. I bless God for my Spouse. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Katlyst(m): 3:01pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
"This country is beyond Redemption" The above popular phrase is completely False, If you believe you can make 'Heaven' as a Nigerian. |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Kokaine(m): 3:01pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
armyofone:my brother. The laws are getter more and more strict by the day. Ielts is just a format for poor people. They are really making money from us. The real relocation lies in having money. If you have one million dollar today to invest in Canada's economy, you don't need any stewpeed score in ielts. Its all about different levels of migration. 9 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by wellmax(m): 3:02pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
privaldo: Let hopes, not fears, define your future. Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness. Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely. If you do not have an actual plan or resources to relocate..., choose to live well in Nigeria. For that to happen, you have to think well about Nigeria. As a man thinketh 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Kokaine(m): 3:02pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
CanadianNaija:The people that would have changed the country are worst They have seen too much. They are hard beaten already. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by abimcdssi: 3:03pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
MedicH:You should not plan to send your kids to government schools in Nigeria with the way things are going |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by MisterRuk(m): 3:03pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Many will people think their father has the smallest farm in the village until they visit other people's farm. Nigeria may be in a deep situation right now but even at that we're better than other nations especially in here Africa. I'm not a buhari supporter but our democracy and freedom better pass some other country. There is money in Nigeria, but we don't know how to manage the resources to make wealth. All the billions that politicians are looting does not come from thin air, it's from the country, let us get it back!. The are planning to leave this country and so are the commoners, if everyone leaves who will develop Nigeria? The Chinese? National development is down-upward movement. If all we citizens do is to sulk and curse the nation and the black race, Nigeria will remain the same or worse in 30years. How many people pray for the nation and it's leaders or at least say "God bless Nigeria?" If the little factors of our society are messed up then the big things like education, healthcare, economy, security, roads, housing etc will be messed up. We say "corrupt politicians, corrupt politicians" but I tell you, some ordinary Nigerian are worse, they just haven't gotten the chance. How many of us have stood up and voiced against the series of injustice and misconduct like child abuse happening in our local communities? How many people are interested in local community development? Every great nation was built by it's people not the government. Let us fight for what is ours and invest in our nation positively or else those sneaky Chinese imperialists would get richer and powerful by feeding on our resources, but by then it won't be problem of the buhari and the politicians we're insulting. Nigeria would be great if we desire it to be. Not just by mere words. God bless Nigeria. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Kokaine(m): 3:04pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
tensazangetsu20:how is the process of relocation |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by tundeport(m): 3:05pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Uhhm,I have 2 kids, and I decided to stop there,age of 9f and 6m,my wife still begging me to have one more,l too begging her to let us stop there,God have bless us with both gender,am a Uber driver,,in this Lagos maddness tracffic city,now I have no car with me,am just managing my family, nobody will force me to born again,let me cook them with quality education and look up to how to get them out of this country.Nigeria have serious journey to go....... 7 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 3:06pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
donchibe:hahahaha Boss! Thanks for your comment The same thing in some places in Northern Nigeria. |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Kokaine(m): 3:06pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
IamGreen1:Me too. It depresses me. My girlfriend doesn't know why I'm emotionally unavailable. We are not living human standard here in Nigeria. I can't talk of marriage and shes approaching 30. I'm really sad 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by smallsmall: 3:06pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Mjpem23: I have No fear for myself or my Children, God has taken care of that and l give Him all the glory. But l have serious fear for Nigeria and other Nigerians. I love Nigeria but l worry that with the way the country is being managed, especially since 2015 (The Nepotism, the Kidnappings, the Fulani Herdsmen Slaughters all over the place, the Boko Haram technical defeat, the mindless Looting and Corruption, the Endless Borrowing by this President, etc), l think something catastrophic is going to happen VERY SOON. I hope it does not. #EndSARS Protest was meant to avert such disaster and plan a new course but those in Power saw it as a challenge to their Authority and aborted it, instead of using it to galvanise the Youths and others into Action and Patriotism, themselves leading by example. In a Country where a Minister uses $1.6 to buy Spoons. Some are looting the country into collapse, how them can such country have a future? 7 Likes |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Originalsly: 3:07pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Litmus: Many may believe the above was written by someone who missed his medications ... or is high on something. I recommend you chew the above slowly and thoroughly..... get all the flavours out of it... then swallow and allow to digest... it is good for you. Two things 1. Bend the tree when it is young Abroad you cannot bend the tree as you like.... laws will restrict you from raising your child the way you desire... and if you insist... your children can be taken away from you. Find out why people return on vacation with their kids then go back without them. 2. Africa period... is about family.... sharing.... our immediate family... extended family... tribe... not nationality... tribe.... it is our culture. Our children are raised abroad they are raised in the culture of self... individualism..... every man for himself. Guy knows what he is saying. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Carbonated: 3:09pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
tensazangetsu20: The way my expenses is increasing these days is second to none. I pray things continue to flourish for me by God's grace. |
Re: Do You Fear For Your Kids Future In Nigeria? by Gerrard59(m): 3:09pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
MisterRuk: Many Nigerians in their twenties and early thirties did that when they were young, today, wetin dem gain? What has changed? BTW, are you saying that prayers develop a country? |
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