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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Jacksparrow7(m): 8:07pm On Dec 19, 2020
Protect yourself
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by fuckaholic25(f): 8:11pm On Dec 19, 2020
Hassanmaye:

Lol Change and become a bad boy like me, have some weed, this ladies ain't loyal enough for the wise
lmao... I no be good guy o, I just dey surprise for that nonsense wey some girls dey yarn

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by fuckaholic25(f): 8:14pm On Dec 19, 2020
Regex:

That's the rule of the game.
sorry to say, some girls ni get sense sha

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Collegelove: 8:22pm On Dec 19, 2020
Hassanmaye:

Hahahhaa this one weak me, thats how one idiot I mate in camp was doing nice to me, when I know how she is following rugged guys na now she saw me Abi, I japa left the Mumu
grin grin angry

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 19, 2020
double wahala for guy wey dey act nice to get woman attention

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Collegelove: 8:28pm On Dec 19, 2020
Hathor5:


What does "too nice" even mean? Because I have never heard any of my friends say they rejected a guy because he was 'too nice'. Maybe he was boring, too clingy, too clumsy, too rude or too short but 'too nice'? Nah!

Let me not even start with the 'past her prime' nonsense.
Women don't like nice guys and that's why they finish last. I could recall this girl I was nice to but unfortunately for her, she thought I was a wussy. After couple of months, I changed my tactics and later banged her. In fact, I banged her so many times that I got tired of her. cheesy grin

Banging, banging almost everyday. cheesy

I later passed her to one of my niggas. grin cheesy
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 8:52pm On Dec 19, 2020
Collegelove:
Women don't like nice guys and that's why they finish last. I could recall this girl I was nice to but unfortunately for her, she thought I was a wussy. After couple of months, I changed my tactics and later banged her. In fact, I banged her so many times that I got tired of her. cheesy grin

Banging, banging almost everyday. cheesy

I later passed her to one of my niggas. grin cheesy

Grow up!
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Draught: 8:53pm On Dec 19, 2020
...

In other words ni**a. Take a Fc!!king risk.. Bitches love risk takers..

You have nothing to lose and she has more to lose if she loses a bad ni**a...
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by phr0nesis(m): 9:01pm On Dec 19, 2020
Sunmoluvic:

Na ladies wey get chicken brain dey think like that
Unfortunately those chicken brains come full everywhere
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by kingsarch2000: 9:01pm On Dec 19, 2020
SweetCunt97:
True. No woman wants a man wey no sabi left from right. We love men who can take charge. Taking charge is different from toxic masculinity sha.
so your definition of bad man is a man that can take charge while your definition of good man is a man that is weak? I hope you see where the problem lies.
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by LoveThemChubby(m): 9:02pm On Dec 19, 2020
Nonsense!!! After the bad boys have finished all the orishi orishi they will now start looking for God fearing men who will love them for who they are and take them the way they are mchewwwwe

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by SweetCunt97(f): 9:03pm On Dec 19, 2020
kingsarch2000:
so your definition of bad man is a man that can take charge while your definition of good man is a man that is weak? I hope you see where the problem lies.
My comment has nothing to do with good or Bad. Just pointing at traits ladies like
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by phr0nesis(m): 9:03pm On Dec 19, 2020
Hassanmaye:

Haha that's my gender for you man confused human beings
Lol and your people always want us to join in the confusion

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Chory: 9:10pm On Dec 19, 2020
A Nigerian lady, Temitope Bukola has stated why many ladies prefer to date 'Bad Boys' rather than the 'Good Boys', IgbereTV reports.

Says a slay queen..
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by fujirice: 9:11pm On Dec 19, 2020
Just to clarify something for this confused lady.
Being bad is not synonymous to being strong and being good is not synonymous to being weak.

The opposite of bad is not weak and the opposite of good is not strong.

When she digests these things maybe she’ll retrace her steps.

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by kingsarch2000: 9:15pm On Dec 19, 2020
Hathor5:


She has got a bleeped up mentality. A psychiatrist may not be able to help her. Imagine calling good people weak. Was Jesus weak? Was Nelson Mandela weak? Was Gandhi weak? Was Mother Theresa weak? May she find the Hitler she is looking for. grin
I thank God for you. It is good to see a woman that think differently. Most of this kind of thinking is as a result of violent domestic home upbringing. From your comment, one can see that you have got a good upbringing. Kudos to your parents.
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Splitmind: 9:16pm On Dec 19, 2020
Hathor5:


What does "too nice" even mean? Because I have never heard any of my friends say they rejected a guy because he was 'too nice'. Maybe he was boring, too clingy, too clumsy, too rude or too short but 'too nice'? Nah!

Let me not even start with the 'past her prime' nonsense.

Too nice as in not a loud, rough, sexually forward and self centred person which is what women think is sooo sexy. When a man isn’t displaying the characteristics we term as toxic masculinity and is acting like a "good church boy" they begin to wonder if there is something wrong with him they reject men like that left and right as boring until they are in their 30s looking for a husband.

Some have even gone a step further to demonise nice men as entitled and manipulative scum because they complained that the horrible advice they are given doesn't work.

That's the major contradiction, men are told by women to stop being manly because it is threatening but women are complaining that men aren't acting like men because they followed the same advice.


Let me not even start with the 'past her prime' nonsense

Nonsense? grin

Women in denial as usual. That's how they will come and tell us later about they are done chasing badboys and what she really needed was a good, kind, considerate man who loves her for who she is. grin

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by PapaNwaeje: 9:30pm On Dec 19, 2020
Kriss216:

This boy, you still never borrow sense

Please don't end this year like this, abeg.


Chai grin grin cheesy
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by PapaNwaeje: 9:32pm On Dec 19, 2020
Nanaborga:
Sincere words , it’s either you are bad and rough on them , or they switch and be bad to you , opposite poles attract , and like poles repel . Be that bold dude that’s not shy of pda , grab and spank her butt in public , flirt with her friends and relatives, take her money even when you don’t really need it , go hard but don’t abuse her , let her know you’re in charge .

Even after all this vaginal puppy go still cheat on you , no one can satisfy them , they can fear and love the bad boys but that won’t stop them from fucking the said simps and some other redpiller they find attractive, my advice is to continue being yourself, don’t change to please a vaginal puppy


Young men, listen to this man. He's in the spirit.
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by PapaNwaeje: 9:35pm On Dec 19, 2020
Danielfx:
My woman is more concerned on me leaving her than her leaving me...


I have her ATM pin. I transfer card and money at will. I restrict her calls to certain people and she even gives persistent guys my number rather than her own...

I have disciplined her in the past about two times that she even became unconcious at one time, though i vow not to do such again for personal reasons...


She respects me and always make me know her every move...Cheating Kwa ?

The day she makes that mistake, the hypo she tried to drink in the past, na me go force am for her mouth...

Though i spend Sha, reasonable spending but she doesn't hoard penny from me. That's not even the case, i may not marry her due to my own personal reasons. I just love the fact that i am in control...


Strong man grin don't think of how to make Africa great na to dey beat one v person grin cheesy
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by DeRay98(m): 9:36pm On Dec 19, 2020
They complain about being controlled by husband or bf yet, they prefer those guys that control them like animals...
What a contradiction

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by bluefilm: 9:38pm On Dec 19, 2020
Danielfx:
My woman is more concerned on me leaving her than her leaving me...


I have her ATM pin. I transfer card and money at will. I restrict her calls to certain people and she even gives persistent guys my number rather than her own...

I have disciplined her in the past about two times that she even became unconcious at one time, though i vow not to do such again for personal reasons...


She respects me and always make me know her every move...Cheating Kwa ?

The day she makes that mistake, the hypo she tried to drink in the past, na me go force am for her mouth...

Though i spend Sha, reasonable spending but she doesn't hoard penny from me. That's not even the case, i may not marry her due to my own personal reasons. I just love the fact that i am in control...

Everybody is a tiger online.

Nonsense. undecided
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Decryptor(m): 9:43pm On Dec 19, 2020
milann:
i de samankwe one for my area; the girl fine die

Beauty can be in the eye of the beholder samankwer...she may be "beautiful" by your own standards but wurgly in reality
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Guycode9: 9:59pm On Dec 19, 2020
Since I got to know about the RED PILL, I've never regretted it one bit. If you're still a Mr. Nice guy, I think you need to fortify yourself with the RED PILL. RED PILL IS LIFE TO MY SOUL. cool

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 10:54pm On Dec 19, 2020
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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Coinbased: 11:16pm On Dec 19, 2020
They are thinking about love I’m thinking about car buying, crazy ladies everywhere
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by EMMY76: 11:20pm On Dec 19, 2020
You mean only nigerian ladies cos I really doubt if other ladies in other countries have this same kind of mentality?
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by EMMY76: 11:29pm On Dec 19, 2020
Danielfx:
My woman is more concerned on me leaving her than her leaving me...


I have her ATM pin. I transfer card and money at will. I restrict her calls to certain people and she even gives persistent guys my number rather than her own...

I have disciplined her in the past about two times that she even became unconcious at one time, though i vow not to do such again for personal reasons...


She respects me and always make me know her every move...Cheating Kwa ?

The day she makes that mistake, the hypo she tried to drink in the past, na me go force am for her mouth...

Though i spend Sha, reasonable spending but she doesn't hoard penny from me. That's not even the case, i may not marry her due to my own personal reasons. I just love the fact that i am in control...


Mr tough guy that ur babe can still cheat on u and clean mouth and u will never ever ever find out after God fear women.
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by tiswell(m): 11:39pm On Dec 19, 2020
fuckaholic25:
so me being a good boy means i cant stand up for whats mine, that i can't protect what is mine?.... how do ladies think nowadays?
You are a good boy ba?

Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Charx122: 11:46pm On Dec 19, 2020
envoymedia:
A Nigerian lady, Temitope Bukola has stated why many ladies prefer to date 'Bad Boys' rather than the 'Good Boys', IgbereTV reports.

Taking to her Twitter handle, she wrote:


https://twitter.com/_Temitopebukola/status/1340192639270998016?s=19

Men are bad...Olodo Olosho get a life *itch
Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Mcslize: 3:13am On Dec 20, 2020
DeOTR:

Who's talking about me fighting physically here?
It's like expecting Buhari to engage you in a fist fight because you slapped Aisha.

But it's not worth it whether physical fight or not. The other person can use other means to follow you as well.

If you know much about women, you supposed understand that they will only tell you what you want to know. Your girlfriend might tell you that DeOTR, Okoro has been disturbing me o. He said he likes me and boom you rushed to warn Okoro and arguement ensued along the line.

Both of you start to exchange words with you screaming; do you know who I am? Do you know who I am? And Okoro screamed back; do you know who I am too? And if asked why both of you are exchanging words and people get to find out it's because of one pussy girl. Haba! It is not worth it my brother. Not for a girlfriend that will still end up fucking behind you. Not even a wife at that just a bleep partner known as girlfriend.

One can fight for one's mother but fighting for a pussy is not worth it.

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Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Mcslize: 3:31am On Dec 20, 2020
KNGMufasa:
Guys,

Ever heard the story of the man who finally figured out what women wanted?

He died laughing before he could tell anyone else.

What an asshole!

It is known that In our society today, many women don’t have the courage to be this honest about relationships and their sex life but lately i have seen many push those boundaries, and i commend them

FACT:
Women love drama. Bad boys come with lots of drama. Nice guys always want to please her, they’re predictable with no drama, that’s boring to them.
That’s why no matter how much money a guy showers on a woman she could still go out and Bleep someone else.

Unless you’re a guy who lives life on his own terms. But that’s a story for another day

Girls are confused being no doubt. I experienced a scenario where I was chatting with one like that. She finally visited within 2 days of we knowing each other and she spilled the secret to me that she came because I sounded quite rude with my chat with her. Really? That I was too blunt with her but still she wanted to meet me. And that's exactly what got her attracted.

I simply told her that's not being rude. I just don't give a damn about doing all those nice guy type of chat with a lady I want something with. So because I want something with you I must now start ass licking you? So because I refused to ass lick you , that indirectly translated to a guy being rude?

She was like she is used to guys petting her and complimenting her. But she got non of that from me and that alone got her interested to meet me.

However, she came though and the rest they said was history.

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