Nairalandwizerd:
na them. Did you consider your kids before sleeping around?

cococandy:

First of all only a few of them can afford to pay fees out of pocket for schooling in America. Very very few. Visa fees and travel fees only amount to few thousand dollars. If they are seeing it as something she owes, she can easily pay that back within a month of working.

For the very few who can afford tuition, if what they invested in the education is the issue, all that stuff can be paid back in a few years of the wife earning a good income. So when does she stop owing him?

If that’s what their marriage is about, then she’s free to do as she pleases once she feels she’s paid back enough. Right? Does that make sense in a healthy marriage?

They don’t even think of it like that because it doesn’t help their argument one bit.

Many of them talk trash that they know nothing about.

SamNaijaboy:
That is the point. Nigerian society expects men to care for their wives. How many here shout "I want a husband like that" when a man buys his wife a car in Nigeria?
Same thing, a husband wants to care for his wife and brings her over and helps her get to her feet abroad. The only difference is that Nigerian society prevents the women from showing their real colors-ungrateful, greedy and transactional.
Abroad, they can show that and get away with it clean

jedisco:


I'd say there are different kinds of ladies everywhere.

My point is there are sensible white and Nigerian ladies. Women everywhere have similar traits just like men... It's just natural. The way these traits are expressed is dependent on the environment

cococandy:
No that’s not my point. my point is not that the money is easy to throw away. Or that it means nothing. Please don’t misunderstand me.

My point is that if we make marriage about that specific aspect (he paid her this and that), isn’t it then easy to say that once she paid it back she’s free to do as she pleases with him? Think about it.

Instead of preaching love and real heartfelt togetherness, we are championing a master servant dynamic that is based on “he paid for this so he owns you”. You realize that doesn’t favor your argument. Because once she’s paid back, what else does he have to say?

LordIsaac:
"We will never know? " We know o... Pray a woman you helped to the top never turn against you.

madridsta007:


Married men cheating in the United States, United Kingdom, where they have pro-women laws is rare, my dear. Dont compare their cheating rate to Nigerian based men. They know the consequences if they cheat- the women will strip them of every single thing they've worked for.
Read the stories well. It is the women that most cheat. The men are working their butts off- that is the only thing they know how to do.

pocohantas:


The logical and superior gender is saying the success of the home rests on vagina people. Let’s not forget vagina people are emotional and fish brains.

Fish brains are somehow tasked with getting the best out of the logical gender.

E weak me.

angelfallz:


Where's your counter argument? I posted links to support my argument.

genq:


You obviously lack understanding on how the Asain community works - Now matter how westernized Indian and Chinese women are, they know their place in the household. They do not challenge and insult their husbands.
You are free to all it "control" or whatever nonsensical word you wanna call it

BRATISLAVA:


Do you live with the aforementioned woman? You have access to her private life? Or you hate anything to do with women so much that you've become adept at fantasy themed fiction like what you just typed out?

Magnoliaa:


Me, I am waiting for when they'll find Their Way to Mars. That's where they came from after all.

CSTRR:

Clown.

I love women. I am a lover of women.

Don't bring that nonsense near me.

cococandy:


White people kill themselves too. At a higher rate than black people.

Nigerians in Nigeria love to analyze the lives of Nigerians abroad (I mean I guess Nigerians abroad are also guilty of same towards Nigerians in Nigeria).

But yea. There’s no black community ‘epidemic’ that is not present in the white community as well.

madridsta007:


Married men cheating in the United States, United Kingdom, where they have pro-women laws is rare, my dear. Dont compare their cheating rate to Nigerian based men. They know the consequences if they cheat- the women will strip them of every single thing they've worked for.
Read the stories well. It is the women that most cheat. The men are working their butts off- that is the only thing they know how to do.

BRATISLAVA:


Your response to what I asked is the true clownish thing here. You can't even face the truth. Empty ranting. Keep your self to yourself.

genq:


Well, men are finally waking up.

Let's see what the dating/marriage situation looks like in the next 5 - 10 years

SamNaijaboy:
You cannot preach heartfelt love and togetherness to someone trying to kill everything you represent.
My brother was a victim. He married his wife in Nigeria, helped her over and she became a total bitch. My brother is the coolest chap you will ever meet. Even before she started working, she started insulting him in ways that NOBODY can take. Eventually they divorced. It was God that helped him that he had plenty money to hire the best lawyers. He got main custody of his son by sheer luck and she is supposed to be paying him child support sef but he doesn't take it.
He just wants to cut any interaction with her out of his life.
He lost so much money-almost 5 years worth.
Now he is dating an Indian girl he works with at his tech company and he is having a happier life.

Nairalandwizerd:
that's why we are men. Continue sleeping around and I assure you Las Las, your husband will still shoot you dead.

hammerDK:
THIS ONLY HAPPENED POSSIBLY BECAUSE OF THE LOCKDOWN OR THE DOCTOR IS NOW RETIRED.



THE DOCTOR IS SPENDING ALOT MORE TIME AT HOME, UNLIKE BEFORE WEN HE WOULD BE AT WORK.



ALOT OF PEOPLE ARE MARRIED TO COMPLETE STRANGERS AND THE DAY THEY GET TO MEET THEIR SPOUSE, MIGHT ALSO BE THEIR LAST DAY OF FREEDOM OR ON EARTH.



MARRIAGE, IS THE ONE THING THAT GOT ME ASKING Y?



WHY CANT WE BE LIKE THE ANIMALS, KNACK AND GO?

rusher14:


If Kobe Bryant so loved his family, he had the option of putting that in his will or even pumping them with cash whilst he was alive.

Stop demonising the women.

CSTRR:

Have you ever heard that an Indian or Chinese or Korean woman called the police on her husband for shouting at her?

Or start messing about with those AA men with gas pipes as penisess just to spite the husband?

pocohantas:


No mind them. All their nonsense ends at MMIA. After there, no one rates them, and their women, the only human they have ever been able to dominate is now an equal.

E reach to craze sha.

igbowoman:


Please be quiet.
At least you admitted he was a drunk,do you know the damage he must have caused them in his drunkenness
Have you heard her own story of the hell he must have put them through or just the story from that of the drunkard uncle is the full story?

sunnybobonwa:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/nigerian-doctor-shoots-self-wife-in-murder-suicide-in-us/amp/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHFAxXSBtfc

adecz:





Some heartless women can
make you do some horrible things
you didn't believe you were capable
of doing......

CSTRR:

Have you ever heard that an Indian or Chinese or Korean woman called the police on her husband for shouting at her?

Or start messing about with those AA men with gas pipes as penisess just to spite the husband?

Midas01:
O please shut up. Kill your wife over infidelity and you will be caught and hanged like the stupid retarded criminal you are.

hustla:



Under which duress

Wey you go sign with your own lawyer beside you and video evidence

You must think I'm here to joke