sunnybobonwa:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/nigerian-doctor-shoots-self-wife-in-murder-suicide-in-us/amp/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHFAxXSBtfc

Beremx:
[s]Good!! Then stop writing nonsense which still points finger at your upbringing.

Thanks[/s]

hustla:



Best thing is Prenup tbh

It's to avoid plenty shalaye in the future

genq:


I already knew she had to be a Nurse.

Indian women are high earners - many are Doctors, Engineers, Business owners etc. - same with Chinese Women.

But you see Nigerian women, our money-miss-road Nigerian women, they will become Nurses, earning chicken feed compared to their Asain counterparts, but yet, we can't hear word again because she's now a demi-god!

jedisco:


You don't need to go that low..
Man or woman, we as nigerians all share a common genetic and environmental pool so one sex cannot be bright and the other sex dull.
That said, Nigerians in the West are generally in the bottom earning group.
You put down a Nigerian woman, you are also putting yourself down

jedisco:


Hehe... It's not just a Nigerian woman thing
Blacks in the West are underrepresented in the higher paying fields. A good majority of those nurses earn higher than their husbands and finance the home.

Nigerian ladies can push it but same also the men. If a man's reason for marrying a Nigerian lady and bringing her to the West was so she would be at his beck and call and do as he pleases then he's better of marrying a White and seeing how much of those she'd tolerate.

There are alot of happily married Nigerians abroad (seemingly). My point is that it goes both ways.

CSTRR:

But they do.
They send them to school so that they can fit in.
But at the same time give their husbands a feel of where they are coming from.
That's why they spend all that money to import from Nigeria.

If a Nigerian wife can not offer Culture with a touch of liberalism, then there is no point wasting all that money and time.

It is better to look for a sensible white Woman there and go full scale liberal.

You can't marry a Nigerian woman and then she can't act differently from a white woman.

Just like you said, What is the point?

kowalsky:


Prenup won't save you when your spouse is determined to wreck you. Best thing is don't get married at all.

If you must have kids adopt a baby or get a surrogate mother/father.

lefulefu:
indians kill themselves in the US too.Havent u heard of honour killings where parents murder their dauthers if she dares marries from a different religion or group.They say its a dishonour to their heritage.There was a story i watched on investigative discovery where an angry iraqi man ..an immigrant in the US ran his own dauther over with his SUV cos she dared to date a kurdish man.

pocohantas:


Feminism destroyed family system, that is why black men are doing drugs, violence, gang wars...etc.

What else would the black man blame on feminism? His erectile dysfunction I suppose.

lefulefu:
e no pass infidelity or issues over disrespect

pocohantas:


They have demonized themselves. Very soon, many foreign countries would stop us from coming there- courtesy, actions of the “the catch”.

Majority separate. Few live happily ever after.

The reason Nigerian men are crying over the increasing divorce rate in Nigeria and blaming it on feminism is because this is where they can hook a woman for life. If they could easily get a foreign woman that will submit to them for life, they wouldn’t be crying more than the supposed bereaved. Naija men should be humble, they need this peace more than us sef.

pipz:



Lol! I’m a Nigerian married to a Nurse and living in Texas. Reading this thread together with my wife. I looked at her after this comment and we both burSt out laughing. We are blessed and covered by the blood of Jesus, no evil shall prevail over our lives nor any more persons. We won’t hear these kinds of news again in Jesus name. May the Lord console this family and keep the kids under his grace. Amen

kowalsky:


Prenup won't save you when your spouse is determined to wreck you. Best thing is don't get married at all.

If you must have kids adopt a baby or get a surrogate mother/father.

jajeri3216:


Seriously go do some serious research.

I'm not here to bash women.

Check divorce rates before black American females adopted feminism and how everything went down hill from there.

They cut the check, kicked the father's out and the result is what we have today, something that they could have avoided if they had any brains .

I'll keep saying it, feminism doesn't fit with the African cultural framework.

Plut01:
You're right you know.

I put it that way using other the guy I quoted as a case. If I was to be the one, I mean worked till that age and then one lady that I brought to the state starts harassing me.

Bro, I will sure find a way to make her visit Naija even if for a day. That would be the last time she would walk.

My take.

Saao:
maybe the boys gather to fight him in solidarity with their mum. What most men goes through in the hands of women, is only God that knows.

BRATISLAVA:


When you're dating white skinned women, you go out of your way to please them and act nice. Once you see black skin, you remember you're a man. Seen it a billion times. White men are always going to be better than black men because they treat you like a person and not a conquest or thing to lord over. The black mindset has been damaged toward black women.

Every Nigerian man on this forum claims to have been respected by white girls, but he never respects black girls in the first place, and we all know respect is reciprocal. Treat any white women with the exact cultural expectations and exact attitude you would use on a girl you brought from Nigeria, then tell us the same thing.

Tired of the claim that they are respectful. Treat them same way first. We all know you adore foreign women so you will treat them well. Same cannot be said for Nigerian women.

Martinez39s:
It's not by making mouth. Don't just get married over there bro. Your life is not worth the unavoidable chaos and toxicity that a wife over there will give you. If you kill her, you either go to jail or kill yourself; there will be no hiding spot for you. Save yourself the stress and stay single for life.

oz4real83:
what will u say about Americans or other Caucasians who have also done the same thing? Will u say America was not for them? Humans are the same everywhere, we have the good and the bad in every ethnic group and we all react either positively or negatively to issues. Let's learn to avoid being tribalistic in issues.

Martinez39s:
Women are smarter than that. Once they established their feet on that foreign soil and start misbehaving, they will never come back to Nigeria because they know it's a trick their husbands will come up with to offload them. While men operate from a position of love and sacrifice, women operate from a position of power play and brutal opportunism. Women study the system and make their calculation carefully. They know their leverage and power, and they are careful not to lose them.

Don't risk it or think you can play the system bro, you will fail bitterly. Many men thought they could outsmart the system, and they failed woefully. Dr Dre, despite all his smart moves, has just surrendered in his divorce battle and is willing to pay his wife what she wants... that's after paying over a million in he and his wife's attorney fees.

It's not a must to marry and have children. Your peace of mind and happiness are of utmost importance. Stay safe and don't roll the dice. Their is no nawalt anywhere bro.

Yamiriflathead, take over.

emmaodet:

I don't know why the average man is conditioned to marry even when it is glaring that marriage on average favours women than men and you will have to slave all your life to keep your wife amd kids happy else they will spit you out and leave you cold in the desert.
Most of the things we think we want to get from marriage can be gotten oit side marriage too.
Funny enough, if not for poverty, the average women is not interested in the so called marriage and will eagerly pull oit. It is evident - go to divorce court, 80% of people filling for divorce are women.
We have a large number of single ladies living alone over the world, single landladies in virtually every city without plan of remarrying, even a lot of financially stable widows don't remarry but the average widower, young man who just got a job etc are all eager to keep a woman at home.
I think something is wrong somewhere

rusher14:


And we've quickly concluded she's the reason?

emmaodet:

I don't know why the average man is conditioned to marry even when it is glaring that marriage on average favours women than men and you will have to slave all your life to keep your wife amd kids happy else they will spit you out and leave you cold in the desert.
Most of the things we think we want to get from marriage can be gotten oit side marriage too.
Funny enough, if not for poverty, the average women is not interested in the so called marriage and will eagerly pull oit. It is evident - go to divorce court, 80% of people filling for divorce are women.
We have a large number of single ladies living alone over the world, single landladies in virtually every city without plan of remarrying, even a lot of financially stable widows don't remarry but the average widower, young man who just got a job etc are all eager to keep a woman at home.
I think something is wrong somewhere

SamNaijaboy:
I adore and date beautiful women period.
I remember the last two black women I tried to date before this latina doctor. One a Nigerian, one from East Africa, both smashingly cute.
One left me outside (claimed to have slept off with zero apologies) when I picked her up 40 mins late for dinner date (even though I was sharing my ETA with her on Apple Maps and I had let her know I would be late in the afternoon prior) and the other acted like she is the most busy doctor in the world.
They want you to prove something (who has time)
Sharperly, I found a woman who doesn't play games and is as beautiful or more.
Now the Nigerian doctor is calling me and was surprised to know I now have a girlfriend.

Not generalizing, but if you are a guy man, you treat all the same. Otherwise that is racism. I originally would have preferred a Nigerian, but now I think NOT.

Magnoliaa:


What if it's not?

I'm looking forward to the outcome of the investigation, sha.

Frustrated007:
oga she started it and I only gave her a piece of me.
The other guy couldn't structure really painful words to put her in her place.reason why I chipped in.

Now regarding that assumption about Nigerian men underperforming in various western countries.. you are actually wrong!
Nigerian guys are really giving other migrants a run for their money in most western countries.
From law to entertainment, to politics etc.
Did you know that the owner of the popular YouTube channel coldfusion is a Nigerian!?
Get your stats right bro.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OaG92TG2skI
https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/

Dalil8:


Buahahahaahahahahahaha

I almost choked with laughter, black women rate better indeed.

Timetravel88:

This has become a western societal issue because of the lopsided advantages women get from state law. Even rich white men are also on the list of the "wife killing spree" infested in most homes. Theirs is just under reported on Nairaland because they aren't Nigerians.