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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by rusher14: 5:12pm On Dec 20, 2020
portplus:


Did you listen to the man's comments on the clip?

Yes I did and there was no suggestion of her committing any infraction.
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by alphaNomega: 5:13pm On Dec 20, 2020
Ishilove:
Disgusting comments on this thread made by some Nigerian males suffering severe inferiority complex. They have mostly assumed that the woman is to be blamed for this horrible tragedy despite not having any fact or information as to probable cause. They come online to display to vent their frustrations on the womenfolk instead of dealing with the powers of their father's house who have eaten virtues and destinies.

Pathetic, miserable creatures. I spit on your coconut heads!
The truth hurts. Definitely the woman is the cause of all this. There was a thread about a similar issue which I commented and the female mod suspended my account. Well, this will not be the last .

More Nigerian women will continue to be murdered by their spouses in America if they think they can play the system to take away all the man has laboured for

Good riddance

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by SIRTee15: 5:13pm On Dec 20, 2020
jedisco:


We're in this together. Male or female. It's a known fact that blacks are underrepresented in the top echelons of the Western society.
We don't need statistics to tell us. Look around the West, Asians generally are in a higher earning group. I am not talking about one or two high outsiders.

Nigerians are in the successful group. They are the most educated group in the USA.
I don't know of other blacks but Nigerians are pulling their weight.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by SamNaijaboy: 5:13pm On Dec 20, 2020
Easy to travel a lot once you are out of Nigeria.
If you work for a Google in a global role, you can easily do 10 countries a year.
Don't worry, our lives are different and so you cant understand where I am coming from.
But myself and my friends treat all women the same. I think it is the women that are different.



BRATISLAVA:




Every man on this forum has lived in 50 countries(not being sarcastic, actually seen it a lot, no foreign based Nigerian women at all at all, or maybe they aren't on hate speech sprees) and dated all the women in the world(seen this too many times), but none of them will admit that they treated Nigerian ladies worse off than they treated any other nationality.

And all will claim they are highly desirable. It's like nothing goes wrong with them once they're Nigerian men. Women swooning left and right.

Not saying you're not saying the truth, but heard it so much and yet the facts remain glaring: Nigerian men change for foreign women.
You cannot keep your old Nigerian mindset with any foreign women, except she's a prostitute or scum wherever she's from. Therefore, you must be treating them better because they aren't Nigerian and you know they will reject those caveman Nigerian men things.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Magnoliaa(f): 5:14pm On Dec 20, 2020
Amah70:


Mentally handicapped Dr Okigbo whose mental health problems were not discovered in time.

The poor lady has paid a prize she might not have bargained for.

Does he really have mental issues? Where did you get this from?

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by emmaodet: 5:14pm On Dec 20, 2020
JaneYave:
When emotions are bottled up without expressions, they make people snap in odd ways. Everyone needs to learn how to start being real, talk issues out rather than pretending everything is fine. The children will have to deal with these memories for life.

And when they speak out, the same women will say he is weak and need to man up like a real man and face the issue right?

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by jedisco(m): 5:14pm On Dec 20, 2020
lefulefu:
indians kill themselves in the US too.Havent u heard of honour killings where parents murder their dauthers if she dares marries from a different religion or group.They say its a dishonour to their heritage.There was a story i watched on investigative discovery where an angry iraqi man ..an immigrant in the US ran his own dauther over with his SUV cos she dared to date a kurdish man.

I've had very close contact with Indians and what alot here dont know is that the country is a very conservative, struggling and discriminatory one just like Nigeria. They have a good going caste system
They and Nigerians are like two extremes of a spectrum- haven't even come across a marriage between the two in person

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by magicminister: 5:14pm On Dec 20, 2020
LordIsaac:
"We will never know? " We know o... Pray a woman you helped to the top never turn against you. undecided

He murdered the wife also committed suicide!
That’s just too bad and no matter what she did, she didn’t deserve to die!!

There’s really nothing to know here! The level of trauma he’s caused the children is unforgivable, the pain he’s caused his wife’s family and his family is unforgivabl.

May the soul of his wife Rest In Peace and May God heal his family. He can rot in hell for all I care!

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by seangy4konji: 5:14pm On Dec 20, 2020
Zooposki:


But he also tried killing both his 21year old sons. What was their crime?
probably bastard sons...DNA proved negative probably when they needed it to join an assosxiation,army or some sorta cause that's why you would want to kill the mother and kids join..

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by JayReeMai(m): 5:16pm On Dec 20, 2020
tunapawizzy:

i wonder why Nigerian men(successful ones) in the west are not insisting on prenup...no ways u should marry in the west without some sort of protection incase of any gbasgbos........ no one is ENTIRELY loyal...not men not women
prenup doesn’t save you from anything. The woman just need to say she signed the prenup under duress and it will be flung out the window in the court. I don’t know the weak ass men creating these laws.

Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by BRATISLAVA: 5:16pm On Dec 20, 2020
Frustrated007:
oga she started it and I only gave her a piece of me.
The other guy couldn't structure really painful words to put her in her place.reason why I chipped in.

Now regarding that assumption about Nigerian men underperforming in various western countries.. you are actually wrong!
Nigerian guys are really giving other migrants a run for their money in most western countries.
From law to entertainment, to politics etc.
Did you know that the owner of the popular YouTube channel coldfusion is a Nigerian!?
Get your stats right bro.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OaG92TG2skI
https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/

Stop sounding as if you won something, claiming you gave a piece of yourself.

What painful words? Your lame insults? Insults are all nairaland men know, so it's nothing to brag about. Is it negress I should cry over? Face it: niggers like yourself are Cannon fodder for all white people. Black women will always be rated higher. All white women want black men for is the BBC myth. But they would never want to sit next to you in a bus, let alone be with you. Except if old and rejected by white men.

Your post was mostly balderdash and angry misogynist spewing. Nothing women haven't seen before. Nothing "painful".

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Nobody: 5:17pm On Dec 20, 2020
jedisco:


I've had very close contact with Indians and what alot here dont know is that the country is a very conservative, struggling and discriminatory one just like Nigeria. They have a good going caste system
They and Nigerians are like two extremes of a spectrum- haven't even come across a marriage between the two in person
yea i know about their caste system..hmm well as for marriage i have seen quite a few marriage b/w nigerian men and indian women..its rare sha

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Brunosamel(m): 5:18pm On Dec 20, 2020
angelfallz:


grin cococandy you must think I'm one of the clowns on NL or Twitter that don't know what they're talking about. Please read the links below, and see for yourself.

https://qr.ae/pN2a34

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/12/emmanuel-eboue-loses-life-savings-properties-wife-following-bitter-divorce/

https://www.opencourt-basketball.com/the-crazy-story-of-stephen-jackson-literally-leaving-his-fiance-at-the-altar-because-she-didnt-sign-prenup/
damn bro this is shocking women are cruel creatures... The thing dey fear me �

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by spadar4u(m): 5:18pm On Dec 20, 2020
rampant around south east women.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by BRATISLAVA: 5:18pm On Dec 20, 2020
SamNaijaboy:
Easy to travel a lot once you are out of Nigeria.
If you work for a Google in a global role, you can easily do 10 countries a year.
Don't worry, our lives are different and so you cant understand where I am coming from.
But myself and my friends treat all women the same. I think it is the women that are different.




Yeah, because you're the first and only person to travel to multiple countries because you work for Google. Your life is too different from mine if you think that will impress me.

Don't believe you're the only one eating pounded yam because you pound yours noisily.

Black men are always in awe of white women.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hustla(m): 5:19pm On Dec 20, 2020
Dalil8:


Leave am for naija na, abi u still dey find extra baggage?

No be hussle carry u go there?



Yes na grin

But e go later wan join person Las las

I jus dey wonder if the naija marriage no go render the prenup invalid

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hustla(m): 5:19pm On Dec 20, 2020
kowalsky:


Prenup won't save you when your spouse is determined to wreck you. Best thing is don't get married at all.

If you must have kids adopt a baby or get a surrogate mother/father.


Omo nawa o

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Frustrated007: 5:19pm On Dec 20, 2020
oh great.
The disgusting thing that causes desolation had to reply me.lmao
You will die without a man.
Since you obviously don't value one.
Go mark my words.
BRATISLAVA:


Stop sounding as if you won something, claiming you gave a piece of yourself.

What painful words? Your lame insults? Insults are all nairaland men know, so it's nothing to brag about. Is it negress I should cry over? Face it: niggers like yourself are Cannon fodder for all white people. Black women will always be rated higher. All white women want black men for is the BBC myth. But they would never want to sit next to you in a bus, let alone be with you. Except if old and rejected by white men.

Your post was mostly balderdash and angry misogynist spewing. Nothing women haven't seen before. Nothing "painful".

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Hathor5(f): 5:19pm On Dec 20, 2020
pocohantas:


I have enough people in the diaspora around me. I asked someone straight up once, why did you come back? He said, “it is sweet at first, they know how to do love. You people will look cute- interracial couple. Then that begins to wear off. The reality of the differences in your mindsets, beliefs and ideologies would begin to set in.

I am not saying there are no Nigerian women that would get there and turn to something else, but our men are not entirely blameless. They should stop acting perfect. After all, their marriages with foreign women do not last either. Neither do they behave the Nigerian way around her.




Na empty coconut heads. They sha know the reality, they are stuck with us. As them like this marriage reach, they should behave well, make all of us enjoy am. cheesy

As a matter of fact, they last much shorter. grin
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by BRATISLAVA: 5:20pm On Dec 20, 2020
Frustrated007:
oh great.
The disgusting thing that causes desolation had to reply me.lmao
You will die without a man.
Since you obviously don't value one.
Go mark my words.

And it is you that will die without fulfillment in utter frustration.

Go and Mark my words.

You think you are God of curses? You will taste what you wish others.

FYI, not everyone you speak with is unmarried if you think that is the worst thing that can happen to a woman. In fact, you will die without a woman since you don't value one. The things women give you will never hold. Your name is frustrated and you will bear frustration till it tears you apart
.

On the other hand I will get whatever I want.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by jedisco(m): 5:21pm On Dec 20, 2020
SamNaijaboy:
I adore and date beautiful women period.
I remember the last two black women I tried to date before this latina doctor. One a Nigerian, one from East Africa, both smashingly cute.
One left me outside (claimed to have slept off with zero apologies) when I picked her up 40 mins late for dinner date (even though I was sharing my ETA with her on Apple Maps and I had let her know I would be late in the afternoon prior) and the other acted like she is the most busy doctor in the world.
They want you to prove something (who has time)
Sharperly, I found a woman who doesn't play games and is as beautiful or more.
Now the Nigerian doctor is calling me and was surprised to know I now have a girlfriend.

Not generalizing, but if you are a guy man, you treat all the same. Otherwise that is racism. I originally would have preferred a Nigerian, but now I think NOT.


Hehehe... Seems na only doctor you wan marry... Are you sure you're not digging gold?

Her attitude is something that cuts across Nigerian immigrants in general. Once most are on their feet, they start looking at new entrants one way. It's even worse when it's the parents.

I hope you'd treat a hustling Nigerian dude with respect if he comes to marry your U.S trained doctor daughter

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by SamNaijaboy: 5:21pm On Dec 20, 2020
I think you are proving my point right now.
Why I don't date y'all.

I don't work for Google btw.

I'm out grin


BRATISLAVA:


Yeah, because you're the first and only person to travel to multiple countries because you work for Google. Your life is too different from mine if you think that will impress me.

Don't believe you're the only one eating pounded yam because you pound yours noisily.

Black men are always in awe of white women.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Tango123: 5:22pm On Dec 20, 2020
Iamicekid:
Never knew, Na lie, make dem take some of his blood and run DNA on this kids their is 70% chances they are not his

I thought as much. The man may have discovered that, and lost his mind

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by SamNaijaboy: 5:24pm On Dec 20, 2020
Chairman, as a doctor, easier to see them around me. I just pick from work grin


jedisco:


Hehehe... Seems na only doctor you wan marry... Are you sure you're not digging gold?

Her attitude is something that cuts across Nigerian immigrants in general. Once most are on their feet, they start looking at new entrants one way. It's even worse when it's the parents.
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Frustrated007: 5:25pm On Dec 20, 2020
lmao..I definitely struck a nerve for you to reply me that fast grin
Have fun with your dried ovaries and three wretched cats. grin
Miserable bachelorette grin
The pain of not having a man alone should make you kill yourself.
BRATISLAVA:


And you will die without fulfillment in utter frustration.

Go and Mark my words.

You think you are God of curses? You will taste what you wish others.

FYI, not everyone you speak with is unmarried if you think that is the worst thing that can happen to a woman.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by BRATISLAVA: 5:26pm On Dec 20, 2020
SamNaijaboy:
I think you are proving my point right now.
Why I don't date y'all.

I don't work for Google btw.

I'm out grin



Lol, always knew it was the typical story.

Only on nairalabd do all the men travel to 50 countries and date all the women in the world and out of all those women white women licked the floor they walk on because they are so desirable. Yet you're crying racism every thread.

Carry frustrated 007 who will die without woman in his life in utter frustration since he's seen cursed to his roots and his penis rendered permanently limp, with you. We are tired of his marriage obsession and your 50 countries tale.

If men don't lie, who will?

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by vickydevoka(m): 5:26pm On Dec 20, 2020
LordIsaac:
"We will never know? " We know o... Pray a woman you helped to the top never turn against you. undecided
If na USA . It must happen.
My aunt (mothers step sister's daughter) did same to her husband. They mum n family members deceived her after knowing her salary.

People way de build dere future with dere wife de try o. Na Igbo man own sure pass , hustle get money first she go come become supervisor for shop. She loyal till she die
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Blackdisciple(m): 5:27pm On Dec 20, 2020
Hmm killed his wife and killed himself too that too bad, I wonder what was the issue.

And look at the neighborhood talking even with their names given but in my country Nigeria you will hear so so neighbor name withhold for security reasons still no security in Nigeria.

rip so horrifying

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by jedisco(m): 5:27pm On Dec 20, 2020
SamNaijaboy:
Chairman, as a doctor, easier to see them around me. I just pick from work grin


Toh... You're a micocosm of the immigrant Nigerian population that's why you have that leverage.

Hope you'd also treat a hustling Nigerian dude (no papers yet) with respect if he comes to marry your U.K trained daughter who may be a doctor?

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by BRATISLAVA: 5:28pm On Dec 20, 2020
Frustrated007:
lmao..I definitely struck a nerve for you to reply me that fast grin
Have fun with your dried ovaries and three wretched cats. grin


You wish.

The men that told you to curse women, because they think women should be cursed, they didn't tell you that mens fertility can be stricken too? That men can be lifelong bachelors too? That men can face loneliness? I'm telling you now. Mark my words.


But you're about to get truly frustrated. Your frustration encompasses everything you will ever do, and it will trickle to every pedicel, because you think you can throw the first punch even when you're losing.

Mark my words.

Cursed be a curser like yourself.

Your semen is rendered infertile, your loneliness magnified in extreme frustration. No woman will stay with you no seed from your semen since you don't value women.

It's struck you, that's why you've responded too fast. Don't you want to banter fake bravado with the other guy anymore?
grin

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by emmaodet: 5:28pm On Dec 20, 2020
pocohantas:


Says a “happily married man” who probably gave his wife money to shop this weekend.

You have to love Nairaland. grin

grin grin grin

Poco, you got me there.

You know sometimes, a social media like NL is a place you can say what is in your mind without fearing.
Tbh, i love marriage but sometimes the financial draining gets on my skin.
If i have a wish, i really wish to rewind the hand of time and go back to last 10 years to become single again but this time with the plan of enjoying my bachelorhood to the fullest for about 13-15 years before marrying in my early 40's but in my case, i got a job and after 3 years ... Booomm!!!! I don go marry my so called heartthrob.
Another thing is the constant nagging of you women Poco, money no dey reach una..haba
Gave madam close to 300k this month for upkeep and xmas cloth for she and the kids yet already complaining she is broke, managing mode and needs more support.... Damn!!!!! Damn
Abeg make i no talk again.
How is your side? Family and work?

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Hassanmaye(m): 5:30pm On Dec 20, 2020
You see what we are telling this women ba? You will help a Nigerian girl and move her abroad for a better life, but the moment they arrived they become monsters.

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