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AREC:
Should A Businessman Marry A Lady Barrister?

Please, I am a businessman. I am not poor and not too rich. I have someone that I wish to marry but the problem (I guess) is that she will soon become a Lawyer. Please, any advice can be helpful. I heard that Lady Barristers can become troubles when married - according to a lawman.

Killz3:
Lawyer or not, if you cannot accept her for who she is, her profession, her trouble and everything positive and negative about her, you have no business marrying her. . . Love for her and for her profession is the determining factor here, and not her profession alone. . .

Akwasi:
I was just wondering. . .who will take care of the children? Will you be the house-husband? Someone needs to take
care of the house.

Agybabe:
It is wise and sometimes a no go place. If her character is bliss go ahead. But careful with her so it wont always be court, motion, affidavit and divorce. She knows her right as a woman and those rights may sometimes overcome her wifey rights and obligations. If una no go marry woman lawyer, who will?

Henry40:
If you've proposed to her, this question's already coming too late. In law, a proposal is an "Agreement to Marry" {in other words, A BONA FIDE CONTRACT}, and she can sue for damages in the event of a breach of contract. If she's that type of woman, and you've proposed and decide to pull out, you're already in trouble! The damages could be calculated to the approximate sum of money she could have had access to all her married life had she gotten married to you. SO WATCH WHAT YOU DO WITH HER!{and una neva even marry} It's not much about what they will do as it is about what they can do, and women, generally, will do what they can do if they're pushed to the wall to!


That said, are you really willing to spend your entire married life being that careful? If so, then proceed!

Dangerousboy:
it's been 8 yrs now. where is the op? how is it going? did you end up together?

I am dating a female lawyer now, so i can tell u a few things about them. One, they find it hard to separate their 'legal' life from their love life, u will definitely see that character in their attitude. Secondly, u must need to stand ur ground on some issues without shifting, as they are very domineering, and love to be in control, finally and most importantly u need to work hard my friend in terms of income, make sure u are independent of ur own, by that u remain in charge, that doesnt mean they'll leave u when things are rough, they hate divorce, so u have a joker card in your bag , Besides all these, believe me they can be loving, most especially if she's God-fearing.

papatosibe:
I dont think it is wise to marry a female lawyer, male lawyers are better suited for marriage than female lawyers.

Sammy07:
10yrs now