AREC: Should A Businessman Marry A Lady Barrister?

Please, I am a businessman. I am not poor and not too rich. I have someone that I wish to marry but the problem (I guess) is that she will soon become a Lawyer. Please, any advice can be helpful. I heard that Lady Barristers can become troubles when married - according to a lawman.

Inked_Nerd: @OP: Normally, I wouldn't say this but this is by far one of the dumbest questions I have seen from a guy on Nairaland. Honestly, a lot of you so called "men" that come on these threads and ask idiotic questions as to whether or not it is ok to marry a woman in a position of power are nothing more than insecure sniveling cowards! Do you sit around and ask women if its ok for them to marry male officers? Do you sit around and ask women if its ok for them to marry male judges? Do you sit around and ask women if its ok for them to marry men in the army? You even asking this question just goes to show how you think of women. OP, please listen and listen well, get out of whatever prehistoric cave you're living in so you can realize and understand that not all women of today can or will be your 'yes man'. If what you wanted was someone who will be compliant to you and your male ego then step aside and let a real man come into the young woman's life--career women of Nigeria and the world don't need men like you bringing them down just because you can't fathom the thought or idea of a woman actually being in a position of power or status.

Theblessed: [size=16pt]First and foremost, if you love this lady, go ahead and marry her.

Another point is, if you're one of those men that have no respect for women - please, leave her
and seek a village girl for wife - that way you'd be much happier because, a learned women (lawyer or not), will not only speak out for herself but stand up for herself through the rough tumbles of marriage if pushed to the limits.

So, if you're looking for a lady who would say, 'yes sir, yes sir' sorry, not a lawyer!

Good Luck with your catch!


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What's this one saying? What's wrong with village girls? So Village girls are dumb or what are you implying? You trying to say female lawyers are not submissive to their husbands? Smh!
Trace the roots of any female lawyer and see if it doesn't emanate from a village!. . .


Park well abeg. . .

Funkymallam:

Best comment so far.

obipeter: the only determining factor here is love. So u should check within u and knw wether u love her. And pls start up as a friend without string attach so u can knw her more

Inked_Nerd: @OP: Normally, I wouldn't say this but this is by far one of the dumbest questions I have seen from a guy on Nairaland. Honestly, a lot of you so called "men" that come on these threads and ask idiotic questions as to whether or not it is ok to marry a woman in a position of power are nothing more than insecure sniveling cowards! Do you sit around and ask women if its ok for them to marry male officers? Do you sit around and ask women if its ok for them to marry male judges? Do you sit around and ask women if its ok for them to marry men in the army? You even asking this question just goes to show how you think of women. OP, please listen and listen well, get out of whatever prehistoric cave you're living in so you can realize and understand that not all women of today can or will be your 'yes man'. If what you wanted was someone who will be compliant to you and your male ego then step aside and let a real man come into the young woman's life--career women of Nigeria and the world don't need men like you bringing them down just because you can't fathom the thought or idea of a woman actually being in a position of power or status.

Henry40: It's funny how everyone here keeps using the word "Love."

"Love"? I'm sure that concept actually exists, but all I see is "love" for oneself, I don't see "love" for others. "Love"? All I can tell you on this is that "love" isn't what keeps people together, tolerance does! Tolerance is what keeps "White" Americans with "Black" Americans. It's what keeps Scots with Brits. It's what keeps "Nigeria" "Nigeria." Tolerance, not love!. Once she can no longer tolerate you, she'll go the length of her capacity to rid herself of you comfortably!

If you don't love her, you won't tolerate her. . .

Olalekan 0: Not all female attorneys are successful,
Just pray she's not successful,that way she'll remain submissive!

AREC: Should A Businessman Marry A Lady Barrister?

Please, I am a businessman. I am not poor and not too rich. I have someone that I wish to marry but the problem (I guess) is that she will soon become a Lawyer. Please, any advice can be helpful. I heard that Lady Barristers can become troubles when married - according to a lawman.

AREC: She once told me that anybody (me & her) can make food in the house, that its not compulsory for the lady to make food in the house. hmmm!!!

AREC: My dear nairalanders, I have heard all you guys said, and I think I will have to make my choice. Anyway, the girl in question has as much as I know wouldnt have loved me if I am not a little successful businessman. She once told me that anybody (me & her) can make food in the house, that its not compulsory for the lady to make food in the house. hmmm!!!