Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

You're wasting your time, I swear to God.
Leave that girl ALONE!
She's just using you to catch cruise!
You'll definitely regret it if you give her any money to learn any work. IT IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY! That's the responsibility of her parents.
Focus your energy on your business to make more money, serious girls will definitely come your way...
Just sit and make use of your brain. Ask yourself this simple questions:
What values is this girl adding to your life?
Apart from sex probably, WHAT ELSE IS SHE BRINGING TO THE TABLE?

I HATE SEEING SIMPS COMPLAIN LIKE THIS... IT'S NOT SO DIFFICULT TO USE THE BRAIN NAU!

IT WILL ONLY END IN TEARS...

Bro did you say no insults?? No na,abeg make i insult you small,you don too Simp for that parasite na.Ghost her and read my signature

Wake up!

Make I go sleep

God Just Save U Man. She Is A Gold Digger. Yes U Are Hurt, But Try Nd Move On.

Men run for ur life she nothing but a wast of time

many of us who have gone through this process can easily recognize these type of girls after one or two conversation.

youll be fine, na part of the learning process.

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

It's sad you allowed yourself slip into the no escape pain trap. You are likely to experience great pains either way the relationship goes.
If she leaves you, you will be heart broken. If she stays, you will not have peace of mind.

It's obvious the girl doesn't value you, therefore not scared to lose you. I can only tell you it's all your fault.

Just kick her out, and in your next adventure don't serve a girl but make her do the serving. Don't shoulder her responsibilities to keep her with you, it makes you seem weak and without options.

What advise do you still need.you that,God has save you from that worm eating you up.pls, channel your resources to better endeavors that will generate interest in the nearest future biko.she has nothing to offer you and she ain't in love wit you.you are just her maga.this is new year use your number 6.

BigBrother9ja:

You're wasting your time, I swear to God.
Leave that girl ALONE!
She's just using you to catch cruise!
You'll definitely regret it if you give her any money to learn any work. IT IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY! That's the responsibility of her parents.
Focus your energy on your business to make more money, serious girls will definitely come your way...
Just sit and make use of your brain. Ask yourself this simple questions:
What values is this girl adding to your life?
Apart from sex probably, WHAT ELSE IS SHE BRINGING TO THE TABLE?

I HATE SEEING SIMPS COMPLAIN LIKE THIS... IT'S NOT SO DIFFICULT TO USE THE BRAIN NAU!

IT WILL END IN TEARS...

You're Wise

VAGINA PEOPLE are evil . I stop anything dating with them long ago

Impressing and taking care of a lady's needs isn't the magic, learn to be yourself and stop forcing your love on her, let her go and have your peace

I love ur response especially the last 2 sentence.

BigBrother9ja:

You're wasting your time, I swear to God.
Leave that girl ALONE!
She's just using you to catch cruise!
You'll definitely regret it if you give her any money to learn any work. IT IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY! That's the responsibility of her parents.
Focus your energy on your business to make more money, serious girls will definitely come your way...
Just sit and make use of your brain. Ask yourself this simple questions:
What values is this girl adding to your life?
Apart from sex probably, WHAT ELSE IS SHE BRINGING TO THE TABLE?

I HATE SEEING SIMPS COMPLAIN LIKE THIS... IT'S NOT SO DIFFICULT TO USE THE BRAIN NAU!

IT WILL END IN TEARS...

I really don't think the girl used him, rather, he used himself. He is to blame himself for not being sensible. The girl did not put a gun at his face to demand money from him, he gave by choice.

He doesn't know that even if he says no to a girl, she will still be with him.

There are somethings I don't want to talk about ladies cos I have sisters. Guy move on

There is know how you will write all this and people will not bash you. You self think am nah

That is why I always advise my friend to invest most on their family especially parents they are the only two people I know that can never leave you when things go south.

You are a greatest simp..the lady was just playing with ur emotions and sucking you dry

You are supposed to go to church or mosque do a thanks giving that bad luck and gold digger just left yourife and you are here creating uneccessary thread.

The truth is that 80% of women don't like weak and soft guy like you honestly. That is there nature. They blv in sum1 with self worth and esteem that will not even send them at all

You don't owe any lady a dime and she does not owe you too. Nobody is doing any favour for anyone among you for dating each other you both like yourself and agreed to on a love journey so stop acting as if she is doing you a favor by dating you.

The rules of the game is to leave immediately when it is obvious to you that you are the only dating yourself or it is becoming more toxic or affecting your happiness and peace of mind.
Remember in anything, your happiness comes first above everything

The solution is for you to work on your personality especially ur self worth and swallow the red pill lesson a little bit not the extreme one dough on how to be a real man and stop giving a Bleep where Bleep shouldn't be giving and those period of not giving a Bleep are the moments that actually define our life.

Peace.

Olakunleyakub:
There is know how you will write all this and people will not bash you. You self think am nah

That is why I always advise my friend to invest most on their family especially parents they are the only two people I know that can never leave you when things go south.

You are a greatest simp..the lady was just playing with ur emotions and sucking you dry

You are supposed to go to church or mosque do a thanks giving that bad luck and gold digger just left yourife and you are here creating uneccessary thread.

The truth is that 80% of women don't like weak and soft guy like you honestly. That is there nature. They blv in sum1 with self worth and esteem that will not even send them at all

You don't owe any lady a dime and she does not owe you too. Nobody is doing any favour for anyone among you for dating each other you both like yourself and agreed to on a love journey so stop acting as if she is doing you a favor by dating you.

The rules of the game is to leave immediately when it is obvious to you that you are the only dating yourself or it is becoming more toxic or affecting your happiness and peace of mind.
Remember in anything, your happiness comes first above everything

The solution is for you to work on your personality especially ur self worth and swallow the red pill lesson a little bit not the extreme one dough on how to be a real man and stop giving a Bleep where Bleep shouldn't be giving and those period of not giving a Bleep are the moments that actually define our life.

Peace.

Thanks very much bro...you really nailed it.

Suffer no dey tire you? Some men are just deluded.
If you not trying to fix her then why are you here asking for advice to do what exactly
Better borrow yourself sense and quit the relationship

In future you will still come online and say you depressed cos ur wife's boss impregnated ur wife.

The way people close eyes to red flags and signs of infidelity is worrisome


Women cannot hide as you guys believed, if you are observant.

Isaac86:
Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.

They have been sounding it over and over again all over the years, never invest in a lady that is not your wife.

Investing in a lady is the worse mistake any young guy will make, instead invest in yourself. Guys that invest in ladies, the relationship always turn sour at the end cuz the girl always leave for another better man (hypergamy) who can shoulder her materialistic needs.

If a relationship crash, the person that invest the most is the one that get heartbroken the most. She lose nothing because you focused all your energy squandering money you supposed use for yourself on an ungrateful liability you called a girlfriend.

Let this be a lesson to you

Oga... use your tongue to count your teeth.

You are old enough to know the difference between love and ruvv.

Una go come online dey bash ladies meanwhile offline dem dey use Una as tissue paper.

I read where you said you take good care of the girl smh in dismay....oga,make sure your parents and siblings no dey lack anything...if not eeh

You dey invest in girl wey no be ur wife as mortgage bank wey she be ?

Keep it up.... very soon she go invite you to her wedding and you go chop rice without meat as your interest.

You are always welcome my nigga.

Honestly I know how you feel cos nearly all of us have gone through one bad relationship or the other but don't wait to heal just move on and grow with disappointment cos people don't actually heal of a bad relationship of their loved ones.

Work more on yourself and responsible ladies will be flocking around you.

Just move on pls and I bid you success in your life journey.

Pls take care of your parents very well ooooooo..they are the idol you must not forget to worship everyday...they are the only ones i know that can't leave you during difficult time but you see those our generation ladies hen? Runoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Isaac86:
Thanks very much bro...you really nailed it.

If you don't like it, change it. No time to waste on anyone and anything. Move on when thing are not that bad. Earlier the better. Peace

Shit...well..
I decided to pipe low for a while
I don't need to read your lengthy story..
But I know one thing..
If she's not chasing you...don't give her your attention... Infact she shouldn't exist to you if she's not reciprocating the same efforts you are making to stay connected to her..
Dis is 2021
Use your head
And stop raising your blood pressure

Olakunleyakub:
There is know how you will write all this and people will not bash you. You self think am nah

That is why I always advise my friend to invest most on their family especially parents they are the only two people I know that can never leave you when things go south.

You are a greatest simp..the lady was just playing with ur emotions and sucking you dry

You are supposed to go to church or mosque do a thanks giving that bad luck and gold digger just left yourife and you are here creating uneccessary thread.

The truth is that 80% of women don't like weak and soft guy like you honestly. That is there nature. They blv in sum1 with self worth and esteem that will not even send them at all

You don't owe any lady a dime and she does not owe you too. Nobody is doing any favour for anyone among you for dating each other you both like yourself and agreed to on a love journey so stop acting as if she is doing you a favor by dating you.

The rules of the game is to leave immediately when it is obvious to you that you are the only dating yourself or it is becoming more toxic or affecting your happiness and peace of mind.
Remember in anything, your happiness comes first above everything

The solution is for you to work on your personality especially ur self worth and swallow the red pill lesson a little bit not the extreme one dough on how to be a real man and stop giving a Bleep where Bleep shouldn't be giving and those period of not giving a Bleep are the moments that actually define our life.

Peace.

Bros I appreciate you taking your time to lecture that weakling of a brother, my prayers is that he heeds to ur advice.

What advice do you want exactly my dear brother ?cause the handwriting on the wall is so clear and legible. You better thank your stars cause having one of your heavy burdens lifted off your shoulders this early new year deserves thanks giving. So many out there are looking for similar opportunity, s'ope ti e jare

2021 ozo still dey trend, u get money to give d loser n u dey disturb us for advice





MEANWHILE, ARE YOU A MUSIC ARTIST? CHECK MY SIGNATURE

Olakunleyakub:
You are always welcome my nigga.

Honestly I know how you feel cos nearly all of us have gone through one bad relationship or the other but don't wait to heal just move on and grow with disappointment cos people don't actually heal of a bad relationship of their loved ones.

Work more on yourself and responsible ladies will be flocking around you.

Just move on pls and I bid you success in your life journey.

Pls take care of your parents very well ooooooo..they are the idol you must not forget to worship everyday...they are the only ones i know that can't leave you during difficult time but you see those our generation ladies hen? Runoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

once again thanks very much...you will never know sorrow in your life...you'd never know what you've done to cool my heart down with your words... Thanks very much brother.