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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by offset67(m): 3:40pm On Jan 05, 2021
dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

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send her to the streets ma nigga, that's where she belongs

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Legendarytonyy: 3:42pm On Jan 05, 2021
Bhadmus77 it worked, but referred my sister but she didn't get any bonus
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Stephenmoka4(m): 3:52pm On Jan 05, 2021
If I use PIN on my phone, if you get it in 100 trials then you deserve the greatest award in life.
Note: I will unlock the phone 3 times in your presence)
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by talk2hb1(m): 4:05pm On Jan 05, 2021
dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

Lalasticlala Moderators: Rocktation, farano help for wider view. Thanks
But Honestly Speaking She Ain't cheating on you, you can only cheat in a marriage.
Both of you are cheating on her future husband.
You don't need our advise, you already know what you want to do, you are only scared of going ahead doing what you want to do.
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by anochuko01(m): 4:12pm On Jan 05, 2021
When a lady starts acting uninterested, I ghost her with immediately. And my ghosting is done without conscience.

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by dauddy97(m): 4:26pm On Jan 05, 2021
anochuko01:
When a lady starts acting uninterested, I ghost her with immediately. And my ghosting is done without conscience.
Sincerely, i am thinking of this too but, i will do it whenever i finally leave for school.
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Bhadmus77(m): 4:32pm On Jan 05, 2021
Legendarytonyy:
Bhadmus77 it worked, but referred my sister but she didn't get any bonus
Maybe she have registered on Palm pay before.
Did u try it with my own link
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by oluwatobi43301: 4:42pm On Jan 05, 2021
University relationships never work.Join a church fellowship in school and use the time to face studies, work for God and play PC games during your free time
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by blazepascal(m): 4:56pm On Jan 05, 2021
Fiscus105:
Go and check her social media messages, they will hastening ur sucide.
lol. wicked
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by drmikeadams(m): 5:08pm On Jan 05, 2021
Fahdiga:
You are asking us what to do. my advice is that you hug, kiss and pamper her with love. sell all your landed properties and use the money to buy her designer stuffs and also take her to Dubai and give her a nice treat. are you happy now?
cheesy grin

No mind that simp
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Legendarytonyy: 5:17pm On Jan 05, 2021
Bhadmus77:

Maybe she have registered on Palm pay before.
Did u try it with my own link
Yeah she have registered before. It later worked for someone else

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jan 05, 2021
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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jan 05, 2021
One girl playing with the hearts of many simps. Some people say fear who no fear woman but I disagree. Women are like dogs. If you fear them, they attack you but if you don't, they respect you. I keep telling people that love is scam. Just fucck woman and take your mind off her until the next day you have her in your bed and you will live long.

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by valentineuwakwe(m): 7:30pm On Jan 05, 2021
my first question be say....bro, na only her be your girlfriend wey you get?
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Collegelove: 7:37pm On Jan 05, 2021
Fvk the bitch and move on. Some women are kept for sex only.

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Collegelove: 7:38pm On Jan 05, 2021
Nonexistent:
One girl playing with the hearts of many simps. Some people say fear who no fear woman but I disagree. Women are like dogs. If you fear them, they attack you but if you don't, they respect you. I keep telling people that love is scam. Just fucck woman and take your mind off her until the next day you have her in your bed and you will live long.
Yes, you are absolutely right.
OP, give me her digits, I will get her laid for you in less than one week.

Bitches aren't royal!
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Kobicove(m): 8:41pm On Jan 05, 2021
sweetmelanin:


Nonsense.

People just like to open mouth anyhow to prove what I don't know.

What country in this world has laws were partners in a relationship cannot check each others phones? Please state the country and the said legislation.. mtcheww!

Piss off!

It's not my fault that you've never been out of Nigeria and have no idea how things are done in a sane country.

Hold tightly to your ignorance!
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Manoftheyear: 8:56pm On Jan 05, 2021
dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

Lalasticlala Moderators: Rocktation, farano help for wider view. Thanks


love-vendor her for other guys
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Slynation(m): 9:33pm On Jan 05, 2021
Na small pikin love dey worry the two of Una....A time would come when you will laugh over your stupidity!!

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by sweetmelanin(f): 9:48pm On Jan 05, 2021
Kobicove:


Piss off!

It's not my fault that you've never been out of Nigeria and have no idea how things are done in a sane country.

Hold tightly to your ignorance!

LOL. you are clearly the ignorant one here. So you think I'm based in Nigeria? Ok smiley

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Burgerlomo: 9:53pm On Jan 05, 2021
Fahdiga:
You are asking us what to do. my advice is that you hug, kiss and pamper her with love. sell all your landed properties and use the money to buy her designer stuffs and also take her to Dubai and give her a nice treat. are you happy now?

U are very wicked cool

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Ehmmah588(m): 10:06pm On Jan 05, 2021
Op is your babe Glory Obidimbu on Facebook
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Collins4u1(m): 10:30pm On Jan 05, 2021
Ur babe na escort.

Goan look for her @ codedruns she might be there with that her private number
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by LieDetector(m): 10:33pm On Jan 05, 2021
dauddy97 come and update us. What later happened?
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Freelane33(m): 10:35pm On Jan 05, 2021
Lol this girl don change her broke screen
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jan 05, 2021
Me I did not go through phone. I just saw her near my house sitting on the lap of a guy on my own plastic chair. I passed and they didn't even bulge. I came back from where I went to buy something and still in the same position. I just ordered them to stand up! and live my vicinity. Na so e take end
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by dastroud(m): 10:40pm On Jan 05, 2021
dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

Lalasticlala Moderators: Rocktation, farano help for wider view. Thanks



Sorry for asking where she base at?
Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jan 05, 2021
It's like maybe u not hearing about the Nuhu Fcmd bank issue.no go kill urself with stroke if she come give u another man children as ur own.dis one is an eye opener for u to break up with her

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Realtord43: 11:02pm On Jan 05, 2021
Kobicove:


Piss off!

It's not my fault that you've never been out of Nigeria and have no idea how things are done in a sane country.

Hold tightly to your ignorance!
You are truely the ignorance one here, cus u cant back ur claim with prove.
she ask for prove, why cant u give her as u claim?

pls, always be more factual with your words

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by Realtord43: 11:05pm On Jan 05, 2021
sweetmelanin:


LOL. you are clearly the ignorant one here. So you think I'm based in Nigeria? Ok smiley
Dont mind him, he does'nt know what he saying more why is cant give u prove

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Re: What Should I Do? I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating by FLESHnBLOOD(m): 11:15pm On Jan 05, 2021
Something similar happend to me in 2018.the bitter truth is ur relationship can never ever be the same again. Guess what I know u grin u will still accept her back because she is going to beg u and ask for forgiveness.. But in the long run u guys are still going to brk up. The best advice is to brk up now and move one with ur life. Once u brk trust it very difficult to fix. A broken bottle has no mequatility. grin speaking from experience bro.

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