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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Happy2020: 7:48pm On Jan 06, 2021
I’ve heard too many stories. Both Nigerian men and women are HOES. it’ll never ever ever stop, it’ll only get worse.
Strap up is all I can suggest.
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by ednut1(m): 7:51pm On Jan 06, 2021
Lame
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Parashooter: 7:57pm On Jan 06, 2021
Happy2020:
I’ve heard too many stories. Both Nigerian men and women are HOES. it’ll never ever ever stop, it’ll only get worse.
Strap up is all I can suggest.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by naturefellow(m): 8:02pm On Jan 06, 2021
thebosstrevor1:
Paternity fraud is low in Nigeria. It almost 0.99%

Most of the people shouting dna test cant even afford one loaf of bread talkless of a dna test.

Truth, the dna discussion has started, some will fall for the trap and add their dna samples to dna bank database while some dna test companies will make cash even when they know that majority test will come out negative

At the end of the day, the noise will not solve anything and the trend will reduce.

People will continue cheating as they like.

and they will eventually reap what they sow like Adamu Nuru and Moyo Thomas

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by naturefellow(m): 8:06pm On Jan 06, 2021
post=97785037:
Still on this DNA matter..........
Lol cheesy
No be small matter o patriot.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by pharmagba: 8:12pm On Jan 06, 2021
obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

Men/ husband/ fathers have got to do it codedly

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by openmine(m): 8:13pm On Jan 06, 2021
@OP
Not entirely true..
Any marriage that gets jittery over the social media stories of paternity fraud is questionable and can likely crumble any time!

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jan 06, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


Apparently, you are dumb.

Someone cooked up data without links or references and then you believed it.

So canada, france and the uk has lesser paternity fraud than Nigeria and jamaican.

So how come 23andme is very popular there.
How come more men kill their wives and sue their wives over paternity fraud in the developed world.

Continue fooling yourself

Whatever you believe bro.
Bring out the data you did yourself or shut up, emotional pig

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jan 06, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


Apparently, you are dumb.

Someone cooked up data without links or references and then you believed it.

So canada, france and the uk has lesser paternity fraud than Nigeria and jamaican.

So how come 23andme is very popular there.
How come more men kill their wives and sue their wives over paternity fraud in the developed world.

Continue fooling yourself

Show me the one you have with links and references or you shut up, PIG.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by MrCEO69(m): 8:20pm On Jan 06, 2021
You say?
thebosstrevor1:
Paternity fraud is low in Nigeria. It almost 0.99%

Most of the people shouting dna test cant even afford one loaf of bread talkless of a dna test.

Truth, the dna discussion has started, some will fall for the trap and add their dna samples to dna bank database while some dna test companies will make cash even when they know that majority test will come out negative

At the end of the day, the noise will not solve anything and the trend will reduce.

People will continue cheating as they like

Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by ITbomb(m): 8:22pm On Jan 06, 2021
obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

Omalicha, try to be calming down, the DNA Test will enhance trust, ok?

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by pseudonomer: 8:32pm On Jan 06, 2021
CoolUsername:


0.99% is still about 1 in 100. Think of the number of kids you had as friends when growing up. How many of them were actually the driver's kids?

How would I know? None of my friend’s parent went for DNA test on them. Where there’s no data, there’s no analysis...
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by thatNigerian: 8:33pm On Jan 06, 2021
Trash talk
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by GboyegaD(m): 8:39pm On Jan 06, 2021
Bornsinner7:
If this is destroying homes then those homes ought to be destroyed..

I don't see how this would destroy the home of loyal couples...

I have just come to the realisation that over 70% of men are raising kids that are not theirs.. you can imagine the kind of fuckery and adultery going on in this world...

The trend now is most women are scum.. they are the dogs they call men

How did you come up with such a figure? Don't say things because you want to tend which is what the OP meant by his long post.
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by openmine(m): 8:53pm On Jan 06, 2021
providencia:

Good. Move from Mr A to Mr B when Mr A request it. Move from B to C when B request and keep moving baby girl. Life is too short to remain one place. Las las the pu*** will be pass to every niggas
cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by TemmyT002(m): 8:53pm On Jan 06, 2021
The campaign to stop people from doing DNA tests will not work.
Mind your business. Marriage that will break will break.
Stop preventing people from finding out the truth.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by omoharry(f): 8:59pm On Jan 06, 2021
I just dey laugh at all these men on nairaland and thier dismay over paternity fraud that is the talk of the town in recent times . Everbody is talking about conducting DNA on your children and the right to know if their children are actually theirs or not .. It's a welcome development in the right direction, if they can conduct a DNA on all thier children, at least it will give them peace of mind

However, how do these guys in question know if they are their fathers children ? These Nonsence of infidelity and men having to raise children that are not thiers, have been on for a very long time ..shameless but it it's the truth .I dare all the guys here on nairaland to do a DNA test on themselves with your dad and see how many are really thier fathers children . Infact 60%of you guys will be shocked in disbelief of what your moms did and the deep secret they have all been keeping .
Majority of maternal ancestors , great grandmothers , grandmothers and mothers are all guilty of this shameful act..
So many families bearing thier family names actually do not share thesame bloodline with the people they call family and kinsmen ..I dare all the men here on nairaland , twitter & instagram to just try & carry out a DNA test to see if this practice is only with this present generation of women .
Women have been doing stuff like this since ancient times and many took them to thier graves . So many ancient bloodline and dynasty were all on false pretense . It's a very sad practice by women that must stop .Now if you do a DNA and find out that you are not your fathers child ,what will you do to you mom?

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by zubimete(f): 9:14pm On Jan 06, 2021
[quote author=maynia post=97788760]

Okay hoe tongue[/quote i'm too dignified to be called a hoe, because sanity nd good morals runs in my family DNA. We're so exceptional & my dad who is a health practioner trust my mom to enternity.
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Augla1: 9:20pm On Jan 06, 2021
emonis88:

doing d DNA il either kill or increase his trust. women who r sure of themselves no dey fear DNA rather when it comes out dat his is d father of d child or children he il trust n love d woman more. so when u dey fear u take end marriage dey threaten d guy . Them no born any woman well try to threaten me make I no look my child to see if or if not he or she is mine or another mans own.
Your just expressed your notion of the word, TRUST, as a man. To women it means something more deeper.
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by IhateInjustice(f): 9:25pm On Jan 06, 2021
maynia:


With these jittery.
It's obvious.

If you guys are clean why the sudden unrest?

It's just a test to identify who the father of the child is, so what is in that's bad? angry

Unrest ke, I'm just countering your over 70% claim of men raising kids that are not theirs .

I don't mind if my husband decides to get a DNA of our kids, a clear conscience fears no accusation.
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by eddynaira125: 9:25pm On Jan 06, 2021
U changed your gender from female to male, all to spill this rubbish


Don't worry, u will have the same DNA saga in your home, then enjoy keeping it secret


mymoney001:
As much as we love to trend on social media, let's also trend with caution and not forget the effects of the things we trend whether true, false or fiction.

Recently in the close of the year 2020 and now 2021, there has been several stories on broken homes which resulted from the DNA test results saga.

Some of us are writing and sharing stories from the comfort of our homes without taking prior concerns of the effect of the things we share on social media about relationships and lifestyle. To us, we think we are just trending but we don't care about the truthfulness in what we share and we do them ignorantly. In another sense, the stories might be true but do you know what it has done to several marital relationships?

I am writing this as a matter of deep concern to the emotional trauma it has raised in several homes, broken relationships and loss of trust among spouses. I evidently witnessed a man who had sent his wife packing because he suspects her of cheating, confronted her and because she kept denying, he angrily sent her packing.

In another story, a guy angrily beat up his girlfriend because he saw her taking a snapchat with a random guy in an event. In another story a girl dumped her boyfriend cause he refused to send her money for Christmas not minding the availability of the money. In the stories I got from a witness in a location in Benin, a man tricked his wife that he's travelling for a Business and he returned home that same day suspecting his wife was cheating but came home to meet her doing her house chores. He already started losing trust in his wife because of the stories we share on Social media. All these are just few of the numerous stories that have led to broken marriages, relationships.

As a matter of concern, we all have errors, issues and reasons we do what we do but the consequences are sometimes inevitable. A girl will naturally dump her boyfriend because he couldn't meet up with her needs like other girls enjoy luxury from their boyfriends, she begins to treat him like he means nothing and starts framing up issues to end the relationship. She does so much to frustrate him and the guy being a weaker vessel ends up commiting suicide upon discovering that the girl he invested so much on, has dumped him. The girl ends up with the other Rich boyfriend, when he gets broke again she dumps him. In other cases marries him and not enjoy her marriage. This is because she's suffering the consequences of dumping the one who had nothing but cared so much for her even with his last blood.

Social media stories like the recent video from Bobrisky has poisoned the minds of some of our ladies especially those who love and are addicted to luxuries. Our ladies in our generation no longer have concern for love but wealth. They are all looking for already made men and not ready to work hard in creating wealth with their trying partner. They have failed to understand that love itself can create wealth and when you build wealth with the one who truly love and care for you, you will always find comfort in the relationship even when it eventually leads to marriage. Ladies stop chasing the one in wealth and build wealth with the one currently with you.

These are what led to the DNA text results saga. Beware!

Away from the Ladies, the men are also not perfect, they are even worse and they take the much of the blame. There are several men who chase after ladies in wealth too, they dry them up, cheat on them and run away. The men also, but not all, are heartless, they beat up their wives, fail to take up responsibilities as husbands and sleep out with their concubines and leave their wives and kids starving. Some of these happen as a result of the advices they take from their pairs, lack of trust or because they feel their wives are getting old and fading away in their sight. Men sometimes are really so heartless. Our young Boys lose respect, care and affection for their Girlfriends because of youthful exuberance. They feel that they are doing justice to life by sleeping around, cheating on their girls and doing all sorts of things without putting their feelings in consideration and when they are confronted they become brutal and beat up the girls. Men don't see anything wrong in sleeping out after marriage but they see everything wrong in their wives keeping home late or going out for fun with their fellow women. This circle is really complicated.

I call for a stop to social media stories that has broken countless number of homes just in the beginning of this year. Let's learn to teach some good morals, offer good advices, respect our relationships, mind our businesses, build relationships in love, trust and take responsibilities in them. Let's treat everyone with respect, let's live happily and let's grow a better society, abiding by the principles of social values.

*Samuel Iyobosa writes✍️
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 06, 2021
IhateInjustice:


Unrest ke, I'm just countering your over 70% claim of men raising kids that are not theirs .

I don't mind if my husband decides to get a DNA of our kids, a clear conscience fears no accusation.

Where did you see over 70%?
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jan 06, 2021
[quote author=zubimete post=97792443][/quote]

Whatever Hoe

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by futurerex: 10:06pm On Jan 06, 2021
Adeboyeobj:

If you suspect your wife and capable of doing DNA, fine, go for it
Must you quote everything
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by IhateInjustice(f): 10:10pm On Jan 06, 2021
maynia:


Where did you see over 70%?

The person that I quoted
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by BitmapStudios: 10:13pm On Jan 06, 2021
happney65:

Bitmapstudios come and see..they don turn sowore to meme..Lol
We play too much in this country.
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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by happney65: 10:51pm On Jan 06, 2021
BitmapStudios:
We play too much in this country.
cool
When we no get job we no go come play. Lol

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Seniormanfeyyie(m): 11:52pm On Jan 06, 2021
Poster,u didnt make any sense
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by ukpahu(m): 6:07am On Jan 07, 2021
obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.
ewooooo this one the fear.

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