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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ghettochild4u(m): 7:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Hungry mother... That's what ur mum is 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by UnBanEbenezer(f): 7:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Gaypontiff kindly read the bolded 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by omereneze: 7:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
My dear both you and your mum are totally wrong. kill the entitlement mindset before it kills you. Please call him as soon as possible and apologize to him and build your relationship in the right direction. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I really hope the guy is wise enough to end it with her. Her family is very toxic. He doesn't need their toxicity in his existence. GIANTPLUSHUB: 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by iyababs: 7:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Klass99:Are you trying to say she wasn't trained or brought up properly or her grandma didn't bring up her mum properly? Which one you dey? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Skmoda360(m): 7:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Miarose: Twale baba....you earn my respect with this.... 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
MoneyTrees:so many nairaland boys are broke and this is why they're so pained on this issue. You won't blame them though. This country is messed up |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 7:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:its yours ..u are suppose to treat visitors well...so if your mum is expecting a visitor or her sec sch friends she cant offer common drink..how much drink did she buy..send me her acc numb..thank God ur fiance dogded a bullet. Kia see responsibility..i keep telling girls..build a carrer...ur boyfriend is not a job 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Commotfornigeri: 7:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: I agree he should have gone with something, or at least dropped something. But since he didn't, they should not have over reacted. The guy went even while she wasnt home. That means he sees more value in his relationship with his MIL and was trying to build the relationship. That is the kind of husband that takes care of his MIL even if his wife passes away. 12 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by deltateam: 7:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: No, babe. You are right on this one as long as you never insulted him. His behavior shows he doesn't care about your opinion. He should have listened to you. He's clearly insensitive. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by fredoooooo: 7:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Iya iyawo Bournvita 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by reubenobi(m): 7:16pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
colestephan86:Who told you is the first time? Go read comments. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Shokoloko(f): 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff: This is not true. This exact same thing happened to me. The guy's mum right there told me that it was wrong to come and see her without a gift (no matter how small). I had to go out, ask the guy for a little cash and go give his mum. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Alennsar(f): 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:I think his good character and being responsible is of utmost importance for now not the gift. You could have given your mother an excuse on his behalf, you shouldn't have cut the call either. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by UnBanEbenezer(f): 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois:I hope this accounts isn't hacked cos I'm surprise this comment is coming from you |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by deltateam: 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Miarose: Too hungry? Go and see your in-laws empty handed. How will you like a girl you are dating to go and see your mother in your absence? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xcelinteriors(f): 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Is it obligatory? 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by harmony75: 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:so the guy is human you should not have let him know what your mommy said you made a mistake there so this is he's 2nd visit? you're at fault telling him what your mom said..call him to apologize he's already taking you guys as his family so every of his visit should be natural as if he's visiting his mom. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:You’re desperate and hungry, visiting for the first time as a potential husband you don’t need to go with anything just present yourself for the family to know you then when you’re familiar with then you go with gift 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by lawalmovichhhh: 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:BASTARD |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by emmyrate1(m): 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:see reasoning, so I can't visit my mother just to check on her, which African version tell u that it is a must u must buy something when visiting Ur inlaw. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by KosiGee(m): 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Does your mum work with the Nigeria Police Force presently or a retired constable??....because when they (Trayceey) come your house, you’ll have to give them something and when someone ( Trayceey’s fiancé) go to them, he is supposed to deliver some goodies. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 7:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: But he didn't bring #250 bread nah. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Yeyenairaland(m): 7:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Africa and entitlement mentality 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Babaken(m): 7:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Did you, your mum or any of your family members give him something to give to your mum that he forgot that's making your mum to be angry sometime people use their hands to cuz trouble for themselves. If I be that guy I no go even near you or that una house una get plan. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kalu61(m): 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
NoToPile:You are wise My issue is not with the mum as sometimes our parents forget we are in New age but the lady for notifying the man of the issues and rudely hanging up on him. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
MakyavelitheDon:and you are a mad man. so many nairaland boys are broke and this is why they're so pained on this issue. You won't blame them though. This country is messed up 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by UnBanEbenezer(f): 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:you're an Osu and not igbo 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BobbyZrealist(m): 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
To Fiancé's house,emty-handed? The Mum has a reason for saying that. Mothers get Wisdom. Gifts are not compulsory, but very important. They say a lot about your personality. And it is suppose to be from both sides. 1 Like |
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