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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ikenna042: 7:35pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
The greatest gift the boy gave your mother is to date you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Tombrown3(m): 7:36pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Tufia! I give up on this generation! This is Africa my foot! You people have made everything transactional in this country to the extent, LOVE, Respect, even something as priceless as a time spent with a loved one has zero value as long as no tangeble financial material was involve. I blame the simp of a guy that has no job, its obvious the girl involved is physically beautiful and in her prime,(why won't the hungry mom feel entitled to whatever fucck the guy should bring) imagine if the siad girl was in her 30s and desperate. I give up! 15 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Rushna27(f): 7:36pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sis, like seriously, u no try ooooo.. u are in d best position to make ur mum understand dat ur fiance is not an ATM and u shud turn it to joke.... saying does she wants to become iya oko bournvita...u are suppose to be on ur spouse side.... u make him feel like u and ur mum just wanna examine his pocket. truth is u might loose dat guy sha.. he is not bin wicked if he backs out but rather thinking of d future 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DebbieSylvex(f): 7:36pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
hmmm u can imagine....is it a law?.. y wud u even get angry over D's ?. you do not respect him as a man n ur Moda pretty much seem to b a woman dat lyk materialistic things....u wud soon regret all ds. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Oluwaleinad14(m): 7:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
donbachi: Lmao you really have to add the milo and milk 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mypeople2(m): 7:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Chairman your head get plenty oil.Take 30000 likes join , your teeth complete. They want to leech the young man .Your mum could not commend on his behaviour, whether he is a gentle man or not .What about his background? Nothing. Sister you fall my hand .You don't love this guy at all 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OlawaleBammie: 7:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Anti?? Sorry to say this but u and ur mama no try Seems ur papa no present for that ous again sef 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DonCrack: 7:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Maybe it didn't cross his mind, but still, the mother had no right to React at all 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by 15ssDRIVE(m): 7:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I am proud to be an African. Its our culture !!! culture dey every where you go. who goes to see his/her mother Inlaw empty handed ? Even correct woman no go, come see her mother Inlaw empty handed ....... no be hunger oh... na courtesy 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by extol1(m): 7:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
seunak2016:oga, that was not the first time he is visiting them 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Isholad11(m): 7:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
You and your mum are too short sighted, what about making it up another day and time. You should not have even called him on phone, but discuss it in a respectful and matured manner. I also wanted to give my in laws children 500 naira at a particular time but my wife corrected me politely and I changed it to 1k 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Liposure: 7:38pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
ranksz:she said he had visited before tho this is his first of coming emptyhanded 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by extol1(m): 7:38pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
saintjimos:lol |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by bluefilm: 7:38pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: I bu ewu. Ezigbote ewu awusa. You didn't see anything wrong with it until your momma pointed it out to you!!! Nonsense. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 7:38pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Not yet in-laws... They are just boyfriend and girlfriend. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by jacoik(m): 7:38pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff:end of discussion 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 7:38pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
esthel: If she does this she'll end up being in a slave master relationship the guy is the wrong party ladies o |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Well, this is not an issue to cause rancour in your relationship, but mustn't be dismissed just like dat. Don't mind all these online bully trying to make u submit to your fiance's mistake. It's very wrong for anyone to visit a distant friend even a close friend without getting something for the house, as common as bread is, it's manageable. Let alone visiting your mother-in-law to be. In all sincerity, your mum was right. But making it a big issue is wrong. Talk to your fiance, he needs to do better next time. This is a childhood discipline dat mustn't be wished away just like dat. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by linearity: 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
The guy be a prayer warrior or his mom or relatives must have been praying for him. God has finally answered her prayers to kick that relationship to the curb and move on, he should go to Church and do thanksgiving for this deliverance. It is wrong of your mom to place an expectation and responsibility on the guy, even if you guys are married, talkless of dating. Gifts suppose to be willing and with no coercion. Your mother have a self-entitlement mentality and you were wrong to have call your fiancé on the matter. Only God knows, what would have been coerced out of the poor guy in the marriage list, that your mom and relatives would have demanded of him or the other entitlements that he would have expected to meet to fit the model of a ‘good Inlaw’ to your people. Do put pressure on anyone, you don’t know that perspective, upbringing, financial situations. The guy insist of coming to see your mom despite your absent, it means he cares not only for you but for your mom and family. He will think twice before coming next time. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Oluwaleinad14(m): 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Nah relationship matter, leme just enjoy on the comment with my cold sobo. But your mother sev |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by fayomim: 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Na bread wan spoil this relationship now Wahala for who no buy bread give mother in law to be 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Codes151(m): 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
He should at least visited with sth. No matter how small. He lacks respect 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Our generation needs help. I'm surprised by the responses I see on this thread. Each time I visit a community I bought lands, I take wine, fruits and bread to show respect to everyone today I'm honored as a king in the entire community and despite not being from the part of the country, I'm invited to partake in the elders hip. Meetings with the honorables. Imagine 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Thoughts of what if i may ask??..the OP quarrelled with her bf because the guy didn't come bearing gifts like he is part of the 3 wise men. What thought are you saying or are trying to say what the little girl and her mum did is very right??. Op should better go and shake bottom for Ned so he can give her mum cars and houses which will make her mum proud 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Tersue: 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
What is left of your mother now is to eat and die while you is to marry,born children,trian them to school,eat and die.So now who has a long way to go?If you like stay there till you become and evening newspaper,how i wish you know the meaning of evening newspaper.That your same good mother when you reach 35years approaching 40 she we be the telling you to atleast get a man and marry for all fingers are not equal.Or you expect him to Use his transport and carry for hand so that he we not be empty handEd? 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DonCrack: 7:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Babe, you and your mum were dem wrong. Like I told someone here, maybe it didn't cross his mind. The least u would have done, was to calm your mum and cover for him. Then you politely tell him what had happened, to hear wat he has to say. Not just call and quarry him. Cal him and Apologize 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Miracle1991: 7:42pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:which African law said that you must bring something to the mother of your girlfriend whenever you visit. What is wrong is wrong. Stop saying African rubbish. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 7:42pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
ceeceeuwa: I'm telling you. Just fruit mixtures orange, Apple, mangoes, pineapple and a bottle of non alcoholics wine 800 Naira is enough. The woman was on her own o. It was him that said he wanted to go pay homage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:42pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
....Very shameful act from you and your mom. All these ladies shouting culture. How many times have she knelt to serve her boyfriend food? Abeg your mom should stop that entitlement mentality 14 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Acidosis(m): 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Your mom's concern is very valid. She shouldn't have offered him anything. How can you visit an elderly woman empty-handed and still STEAL her drink in the name of visit? Mother-in-law or not, you don't visit people, especially an elderly woman, eat their food without offering something in return. It's very disrespectful. That's how some of you will travel 8 hours to live with your relatives without offering ordinary #200 bread. Did you save money in their hands to feed you? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: He should have stayed home. Was his presence needed at the place he went? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MightySparrow: 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:The fiance is irrespnsible, your mummy was right to talk. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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