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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by UnBanEbenezer(f): 11:29pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Hathor5:reasons |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: What is wrong with u,there arent in laws yet( no dowry have been paid), they are just boyfriend and girlfriend 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hathor5(f): 11:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
shantti: This thread really got you going. ROFL 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hathor5(f): 11:31pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
UnBanEbenezer: Reason why? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:31pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
DrayZee: Even the mods are angry with her, shes lucky am not a mod, she for chop fifteen years ban for being so immature 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 11:32pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
shantti:Hey don't tag me if u ain't igbo. Why d heck will u go visit a fiancée parent if u ain't ready to marry? Cheap things. Better no get sense |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 11:34pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
philip0906:You adopted the white man religion and way of life of monogamy. So how's that my problem |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 11:36pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Bennysam:When growing, every day my parents buy things for us when coming back from work. Every fvcking day. Like I said it could b fruits. Will it be proper if he visits and no one offers him anything? It's simply courtesy. If you don't buy, you shouldn't bother to eat there... Abi na longthroat? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:36pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Liar, u just added this festive season tag for your own convenience, that man isnt your mum inlaw yet cause your dowry hasnt been paid even if he declared his intention of marrying you to you, so what am trying to understand is that by convention, all the boys you dated always had to bring gifts to ur mum whem they visit, what does this say of her 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Chikasova(m): 11:36pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Kitikpa racha gi anya there... Let your mom keep having a hold on you.. See this baby... God please don't let this kind of girl come my way... Taataa |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by egbej: 11:37pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Shame to you and your mum Are you guys that hungry to be expecting money or gifts He only paid a courtesy visit which should be appreciated That your mum will spoil your marriage. Both of you have bad manners |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 11:39pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
shantti:So he went to their house to eat? He can't buy anything but can shamelessly eat their food huh |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by fineboynl(m): 11:39pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:what drink did she gave the man that she tag only her drink? I bet you it's a bottle of malt or beer. that man might not even needed it but out of courtesy he accepted it. so the drink should na be something great that he offered him? the man would not have complained even if she didn't offer him anything. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 11:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
shantti: she is a P.I.m.P running Play boys mansion..lol |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 11:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: Why visit 20 times and not bring bread even once? Who does that? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 11:40pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
egbej:And ate untop. The guy for no finish their food when he didn't bring even ordinary oranges! How much is orange |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by fineboynl(m): 11:42pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Ingredient88:he is just a boyfriend and not in-law yet Mr.man |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:44pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Mumu, am igbo, is visiting a girlfriends mum a guarantee of marriage, u shouldnt be igbo, there must be a mistake somewhere, ask very well, maybe u were picked from a dustbin or adopted. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 11:44pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
sacajawea: sacajawea: I should've known not to take you seriously...you're too uncultured to worth my attention. I mean, take a look at your choice of words about a married woman.... I don't consider your words of any worth anymore. From henceforth, whatever you think or say about me does not matter. I won't be any bit offended. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by kingsamosy(m): 11:46pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 11:46pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
shantti:You daft. She said fiance. Abi fiance is now bf? Nna bera shift. So he simply went their to eat afternoon food abi |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by sweetmelanin(f): 11:47pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: A very wrong interpretation of the gospel here! This scripture talks about your talents and abilities making way for you... not literally giving people "gifts" .. smh! Nigerians are always quick to quote the Bible out of context.. 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:52pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Biko nne, what is fiance in the absense of dowry payment, if am daft then i wonder what you are, read the story well, he bought gifts the first time he visited, are u sure u r not her mum wit d way u are justifying extreme iberibe, Mama wey dey answer sweet cunt no be olosho mama be that, u dey find free gift, zuzuwe 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by NobleSeed(m): 11:53pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
ceeceeuwa:if you no know how to talk you no go keep quiet!! Read in between the lines next time. Did you read anywhere that it was her mother who hosted him? What Is wrong is wrong . |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 11:54pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
shantti:Na una know sha. Go visit yours empty handed |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sixfeetbelle: 11:54pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
descarado: And which way does it follow? A man that doesn't understand courtesy should be allowed to continue in the same vein so that he wouldn't 'treat our girls as commodity'? In what century have men treated women based on the gifts they presented? Going with gifts doesn't make him a good son-in-law neither does it make him a bad one. So what's your point? There is no expectations to reduce here. People who don't see giving gifts as a big deal will carry on with that behavior into situations that will ultimately require a gift. Children who are ignored when sucking their thumb do it even unto adulthood. Ultimately we wonder: who are the wise ones? They, definitely, do not exist. In retrospect, the same way he doesn't 'have' to bring gifts is the same way the host doesn't 'have' to entertain him but we all know what is right and proper, don't we? Quick question: If the lady had smaller children as siblings, say ages 5 - 9, would it also make sense he came empty-handed? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 11:58pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Did the OP mention that food was given to the young man, isnt that shameful, an african mother that should be an emblem of hospitality. For the upteenth time, he brought gifts on his firsr visitation. The way am seeing u, you and the OP might be best of friends in real life and considering the fact that women are their worst enemy, you might have your eyes on the OP's man, so you are subtly encouraging her to ditch him so u can take over, continue 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 12:03am On Jan 09, 2021 |
shantti:Ohooooo! African woman hospitality finish u there. Of old no be to hunt drag along the kill to intending in laws place? Or take along part of meat and crops. No be una fault, technology done spoil una. Men don't even know their responsibilities anymore |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 12:05am On Jan 09, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Yes, i went to my girlfrinds house on 31st night so we could go for crossover together, i met her mum and she begged to make sure her daughter was back home before 2am, she was not greedy and demanding like you and the op's mother 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 12:08am On Jan 09, 2021 |
shantti: hahaha..mother and pikin collaboration doing local Yahoo. let me go and date her too and carry my own fiance badge,give the mama N100 bread chop her pikin for atleast one month and find my way..lol.. ndi ezuzu 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 12:10am On Jan 09, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: Gini bu this intending in laws u r talking about, are you daft, the young man brought gift on his first visit, 1 Like |
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