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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 8:41am On Jan 10, 2021
GetMeRight:


See this one yabbing rubbish like he has never seen any male Christian with two wives in his life.

Whoever paid for your education wasted his money

Filthy mongrel
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by SILENTandSMART2: 8:42am On Jan 10, 2021
SirDelight:

Looks like you're filled with confusion & bitterness angry
Na you dey shout "eleriibu" on threads.
I just hope you change your ways in 2021.
No offense

koburu smiley
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by SILENTandSMART2: 8:44am On Jan 10, 2021
wonder233:
He has a valid point. There is no love. Nigerian ladies are just after a man's financial stability. Men should stop rewarding then with marriage. They don't deserve it.


you can marry chair, tree , dog or monkey nah or even your fellow male wink


all is well sir smiley
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by SILENTandSMART2: 8:46am On Jan 10, 2021
praiseneo:
so what’s the difference between what he said and dating multiple ladies undecided
I sure say you go de cheat grin


their is different ooo wink


moreover i don't cheat sir , i am a holy nigga wink tongue


all is well sir smiley
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 8:47am On Jan 10, 2021
grin You are a very funny man!
You can see the future baa!


[quote author=freeman5050 post=97900115]

I have learnt my lessons from the first one.
It will definitely help me to evaluate the second one.
Why I am not much.comfortable with the side chick/baby mama, she can comfortably elope with your kid (like what happened to me before I got married my current wife). But whereby you paid her pride price and she will have the knowledge of your first wife, while first will not have an idea for now till 55-60yrs, then we can live all together if she wishes.
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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by hybridblood07(m): 8:51am On Jan 10, 2021
Its better you remain single forever rather than marrying two women. It's not advisable and it will ruin a lot of thing no matter how much you try to satisfy both of them. Whoever asked you to go ahead and marry two women is pushing you to your early grave. You need to disguise as a broke guy if you searching for a true partner. Most women out there are looking for a readymade guy and they will do anything to trap you down.like I said, disguise as a broke guy and start searching.
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Rayendowed007(m): 8:51am On Jan 10, 2021
NiRfreak:
If I could have my way... I would have loved to marry like 5 wives...
One tall with model physique...
One short with big yansh
One fat... that of bbw
One fair with moderate yajsht and straight leg
One dark with big boobs and big yansh and older
.
I bet I will never shit again
oga u too like yanxh .. cuz na so so yanxh I dey see as ur requirements... lol
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Jessepaid(m): 8:52am On Jan 10, 2021
Shit.... Well...

I have just 3 questions for you....

Are you financially capable?

Do you cope well with stress?

Do you value your mental health, peace of mind and natural longevity?

Educated or not the women will always be envious of each other...

It's takes a strong man to maintain command and maintain order in a polygamous home...

I don't blame you at all....

I don't judge you too...

Failed relationships can make people stop believing in a lot of things....

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by West2019(m): 8:53am On Jan 10, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.
fool.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Candycrushy(f): 8:59am On Jan 10, 2021
One problem no do you, you wan carry multiple problems join body... God's strength on you
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by cjeriia: 9:03am On Jan 10, 2021
@ Op, marriage to one wife is not a walk in the park. There is a flip side to what you are seeking advice for. In one instance, marrying 2 women might just hasten your mental breakdown, financial meltdown, commitment to an institutional home & eventual untimely demise. In anoda instance, it may lead to enlightenment, spiritual freedom, wealth and contentment.
It's ur choice, walk the path but and accept the consequence. #choosewisely
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by GetMeRight: 9:07am On Jan 10, 2021
Mocata:


Whoever paid for your education wasted his money

Filthy mongrel

Your mentality sucks
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by AngelicBeing: 9:10am On Jan 10, 2021
SILENTandSMART2:
abeg what's the meaning of the nonsense you wrote everything jusss disgusting as forkkk, mumu


wetin concern us mtchweeew undecided
Hahaha, your post cracked me up grin
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Pascal181: 9:10am On Jan 10, 2021
Start with one first
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by SILENTandSMART2: 9:11am On Jan 10, 2021
AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, your post cracked me up grin


grin grin grin

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by GoldStick(m): 9:12am On Jan 10, 2021
Just how I like it bruv my life already na problem and na problem dey make persin strong bro carry on fire down

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by NiRfreak(m): 9:13am On Jan 10, 2021
Rayendowed007:
oga u too like yanxh .. cuz na so so yanxh I dey see as ur requirements... lol
grin cheesy
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by AngelicBeing: 9:13am On Jan 10, 2021
SILENTandSMART2:



grin grin grin
l just taya for the useless post some people post on Nairaland angry
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by SILENTandSMART2: 9:15am On Jan 10, 2021
AngelicBeing:
l just taya for the useless post some people post on Nairaland angry


the guy is not serious jare, wink


he's jusss confused ,

.all is well smiley

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Dminister(m): 9:17am On Jan 10, 2021
Get a baby mama and just live in freedom, peace and enjoy yourself.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Trueteller0147: 9:19am On Jan 10, 2021
We are on the same page bro. I am also planning the same thing and the ladies are joyful ready and they are working class ladies. Polygamy might come back soon in a sweet form
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Hassanmaye(m): 9:28am On Jan 10, 2021
Oluromantic:
Me weh come from polygamous background, I no go advice make you marry 2 wives o no matter how much you get money. Forget education, I no wan call you mumu. Who tell you say education dey avoid charm in women...see mumu o. You just wan use your life play game.

Now that you've grown mature and decisive. Get a woman that you're compatible with and groom her to your taste. Let her know your firm standards and stick to her. A good woman will not only respect you, she won't be able to look you in the eye when she offends you.

Two wives no be solution. Once you marry two, the desire to marry the third and fourth will grow in you and your poverty will advance

And who told you all men that marry many wives are poor?
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Youngzedd(m): 9:33am On Jan 10, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.


If you must marry more than one, NEVER marry two, marry 3 and above.


Don't say I didn't warn you.



Whisper: Two can gang up against you but three won't, meaning there will be a saboteur among them.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Glawrie: 9:45am On Jan 10, 2021
Before you take your decision, ask questions from those that tried it. And ask children from polygamous family. if their answers favour you, then you can go ahead
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by chiefojiji(m): 9:45am On Jan 10, 2021
Which advise again?
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Ishilove: 9:48am On Jan 10, 2021
bamite:


Why are you afraid of uploading your real picture? Are you ashamed?
I'm not 'afraid'. I'd rather remain anonymous
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Osagiewangbon: 9:54am On Jan 10, 2021
Which ever course of life you choose, be prepared to face the earthly consequence.
Jesus chose to be unmarried and childless John2:23-25, John6:15, Matthew19:12, John10:18.
David chose sex, sex, sex; he gained Solomon but lost Amnon, Absalom, Adonijah and the first boy by Bathsheba.
You must give something if you really want to have something. Mary gave attention and audience so as to gain admiration of Jesus Luke10:38-42, Luke7:37-50, Psalm45:10.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by olaridwan(m): 9:55am On Jan 10, 2021
Hmmm i come from polygamous home.... Pls don't try it, all pussy are same... Just be contended with one don't let money push u.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 10:06am On Jan 10, 2021
You mean u r considering cutting 10years out of your lifetime?
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 10:13am On Jan 10, 2021
Mekudi:
will you let your parent / siblings know about it, if yes, don't you think one of them can tell you wife

Before I start considering the second wife, I have really confirmed the are for me and not against. Thus; I don't have any threat on that side.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Raggy(m): 10:15am On Jan 10, 2021
dangwarmai:

One funny thing with women is that the more their number the more they live in peace and adventurous, and the more you are willing to give the more you get.
Unfortunately, you can't understand until you try it yourself.
I don't want to understand sir

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 10:17am On Jan 10, 2021
Ihatebuhariwith:
You mean u r considering cutting 10years out of your lifetime?

Who said so?? Haven't you seen a man who died out of being alone? May be he/she lost their spouse. Haven't you seen where spouse kill his/her partner due to domestic violence? (Someone who just married only One wife) See eh, in this life...what will be will be. Haven't you see a man that is over 90yrs while he married 2 or more wives ?? Obeni...it depends on your destiny bro.

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