amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

bukatyne:


While this OP was wasting time to create threads, a party loving twin girls have passed him by:

https://www.nairaland.com/6355529/nigerian-man-marries-twins-because

The OP should not lose hope, they might have cousins or friends.

bukatyne:

Hahahahaha!
You want go from polygamist to single?
That's a leap.

freeman5050:


Remember I said I will let her know when we get older..like from 50yrs and above.
In my village, a man of 68yrs and above just brought home his first son just last 2yrs ago which the second wives children was so excited and glad to meet him. His second wives first Son decided to take him to Europe due to he was not sharp financially.
Life is unpredictable. Do yours and leave the rest to God.

freeman5050:


Haven't you heard about the FCMB saga. The Mrs Thomas Moyo or something they call her....are you not aware the husband married only her still what happened took place?
Nwanne.....It's all about how smart and your destiny regards to your endeavours..

ankaravillageng:


Alright, whatever you decide to do eventually, just do so with necessary caution.

GetMeRight:


Funny, like we don't have plenty of Christians out there with two or more wives. Some are even marrying two or more on the same day

freeman5050:


Where are you from? Sorry.....don't mean to embarrass you.

Trueteller0147:
We are on the same page bro. I am also planning the same thing and the ladies are joyful ready and they are working class ladies. Polygamy might come back soon in a sweet form

freeman5050:


Who said so?? Haven't you seen a man who died out of being alone? May be he/she lost their spouse. Haven't you seen where spouse kill his/her partner due to domestic violence? (Someone who just married only One wife) See eh, in this life...what will be will be. Haven't you see a man that is over 90yrs while he married 2 or more wives ?? Obeni...it depends on your destiny bro.

Raggy:
I don't want to understand sir

ankaravillageng:


Ekiti, why.

Liposure:
one wife is even a bigger headache talkless of two

prciouschika:
lol to help him out.... there's this identical twins ladies I know on Instagram he should go look for them since he's financial stabilized. Infact twins girls full Twitter and Instagram

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

mich2012:
Lol as long as you have money, you can marry 100 but be ready to die young

bamite:


Some of us just want to know the face behind the moniker.

Kingosytex:


Fixed

Ishilove:

That one is very foolish but thinks he is wise.

Slynation:
If having more than one GF is already a disaster to most people, then I wonder the thought of 2 women in ones life, most women are naturally jealous in nature and can go to any length just to prove a point....I just wish you good luck in your upcoming adventure

molbic:
ONE thing I've come to realize is that marrying more than one wife is like a curse once you do it one of your child must take after you.marrying more than one wife is not an achievement unless you are a poor muslim from the north

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

Theboss100:
Lol I know you will be the first to remind him that you warned him not to go there but his didn't listen.
Me I can't try that now with these crops of Nigerian girls. Even if is free

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or sou.
Since u no say u fit control 2 women under ur roof. Tel me, which advice do u still need from us?



Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

ngoziwrites:
You are not facing the root of your problem. You are scared of being vulnerable, of being open. You don't believe in love anymore.

Do you think getting married to two women will change this? It won't. More questions will continue to come up.


If you are scared of being hurt, deceived, being cheated and getting broken then you need to address this and the solution isn't getting married to two women.

You are trying to avoid trouble but you are only getting yourself into more.

You have questions but those women don't have the answers, even if they do, you won't see it because there is a fault you need to address.

You need to redefine yourself and your values. What do u want in a woman? What can a woman give u that can make u contented?

Look for qualities you want in a person, when you find that then fall in love. Do not fall in love first.

Love who you marry not necessarily marry who you love.

Marrying two women will not take away your fears: Face it! Conquer it. That's where your true happiness lies; Defeating your fears.

Only then would you be able to see thru a woman.

Forget all the talk of you are rich now, everyone loves you: It's a dirty world. Even your male friends love you more and give you fake smiles.

To see clearly, you need to rid yourself off those fears.

#MyPenBleeds!