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Let's get the discussion running please.

Happy Sunday all.

Marriages are not lasting because many don't recognise the devil strategies to destroy the home. The long hours at work, the gadgets , the new satanic mentalities on marraige i.e women refusing to submit and men having extramarital affairs. All these are subtle but the devil key strategy on killing marriages. The couple must take conscious effort to make sure it works by all means Evry single day

HRHQueenPhil:
Marriages are not lasting because many don't recognise the devil strategies to destroy the home. The long hours at work, the gadgets , the new satanic mentalities on marraige i.e women refusing to submit and men having extramarital affairs. All these are subtle but the devil key strategy on killing marriages. The couple must take conscious effort to make sure it works by all means Evry single day

But do you think its just the devil to blame?

HRHQueenPhil:
Marriages are not lasting because many don't recognise the devil strategies to destroy the home. The long hours at work, the gadgets , the new satanic mentalities on marraige i.e women refusing to submit and men having extramarital affairs. All these are subtle but the devil key strategy on killing marriages. The couple must take conscious effort to make sure it works by all means Evry single day

in addition, social media.

debbydams:
in addition, social media.

How do you mean?

For me I think it has to do with understanding the place of balance in life, I think I will be making the write-up this evening bkos of this topic, I think you have inspired me on that.

A mans life is categorized in seven areas, and sustaining a healthy balance in these seven area's is key

Fake love, fake people...

Women marrying for selfish satisfaction like greed for mundane things, then paternity fraud jumps in when they go out with other men


Check out this video and listen to this lady defending women on paternity fraud


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8uHxPBtl_I&t=470s

Men didn't change

Women changed.....most of the ones unmarried at the moment are rotten


They are not intelligent, innovative

They just want to party, hookup, hoe till the find a SIMP that is moved by tears, then hold him down for marriage because he has low self-esteem

According to studies, the simp eyes tends to open in the 7th year of marriage, we can say dna can cause his eyes to open, or he's no longer moved by her body

If marriage no work...na the fault of both parties.

No gender is perfect in any aspect.....marriage is all about compatibility which our forefathers had that the current generation lacks

Because your mothers could take severe beatings in silence.

HRHQueenPhil:
Marriages are not lasting because many don't recognise the devil strategies to destroy the home. The long hours at work, the gadgets , the new satanic mentalities on marraige i.e women refusing to submit and men having extramarital affairs. All these are subtle but the devil key strategy on killing marriages. The couple must take conscious effort to make sure it works by all means Evry single day

Waoh. You nailed it here. Highly enlightening.

Hmm. Very deep.

I appreciate ma.

Laslasticlala help push this to front page please.

Yusufisraelj:
But do you think its just the devil to blame?

What do you think?

Can you share with us your thoughts please. People want to learn.

debbydams:
in addition, social media.

I am with you here. Another germane point you just raise here. Appreciated ma.

Righteousness2:
Whether our Grand parents or our parents or ourselves! Any Marriage that is void of the standard set by Institutor of Marriage ( GOD ALMIGHTY), will Collaspe.

What is the Standard?

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.

Standard indeed.

Just like the manual of a product made available to the users by the manufacturer. So, you opine the root foundation of having God as the bedrock, if missing can lead to short marriages or not knowing what the manual states , right?

Eye opener there. Nice one.
I appreciate.

Yusufisraelj:
For me I think it has to do with understanding the place of balance in life, I think I will be making the write-up this evening bkos of this topic, I think you have inspired me on that.

A mans life is categorized in seven areas, and sustaining a healthy balance in these seven area's is key

Mhen. I am learning madly here. In your point, balance is key. Nice one.

Please, kindly share the link to article here when you are done with the write up sir. It will be an impacting read.

Much thanks sir for the insight. Really deep.

KingZaddy:
Fake love, fake people...

Women marrying for selfish satisfaction like greed for mundane things, then paternity fraud jumps in when they go out with other men


Check out this video and listen to this lady defending women on paternity fraud


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8uHxPBtl_I&t=470s

Yes o. Fake love plenty now


Valid point. Thanks

lilmax:
Men didn't change

Women changed.....most of the ones unmarried at the moment are rotten


They are not intelligent, innovative

They just want to party, hookup, hoe till the find a SIMP that is moved by tears, then hold him down for marriage because he has low self-esteem

According to studies, the simp eyes tends to open in the 7th year of marriage, we can say dna can cause his eyes to open, or he's no longer moved by her body

Hmm

So, na women dey cause am.

Thanks for your insight. Well appreciated bro.

HRHQueenPhil:
Marriages are not lasting because many don't recognise the devil strategies to destroy the home. The long hours at work, the gadgets , the new satanic mentalities on marraige i.e women refusing to submit and men having extramarital affairs. All these are subtle but the devil key strategy on killing marriages. The couple must take conscious effort to make sure it works by all means Evry single day

..
The moment you bring the concepts of devil or any of those religious constructs into a discussion, you simply kill every form of logic neeeded to dissect the issues raised in the discussion..

BlessedNuel:
If marriage no work...na the fault of both parties.

No gender is perfect in any aspect.....marriage is all about compatibility which our forefathers had that the current generation lacks

Compatibility issues. Existent then but non existent now?

In all, both parties should work out the marriage for success, right?

Nice one baba. Appreciated.

Pochettino:
Because your mothers could take severe beatings in silence.

Now nko?

What changed?

SchoolPedia:
Let's have an open discussion here please.



Matured minds only.

I believe we will learn a lot here and help build better homes and families which will bring about better societies too.

Let's get the discussion running please.

Happy Sunday all.

Is the idea to make marriages last or make them healthy?

You need to compare the terrain and/ belief system back then and now.

Then you are compare apples for apples

bukatyne:
Is the idea to make marriages last or make them healthy?

You need to compare the terrain and/ belief system back then and now.

Then you are compare apples for apples

A healthy marriage will surely last.

bukatyne:
Is the idea to make marriages last or make them healthy?

You need to compare the terrain and/ belief system back then and now.

Then you are compare apples for apples

A healthy marriage will surely last just as a lasting marriage indicates a healthy marriage.

Now, we want to know why marriages these days don't last.

RoyalRoy

Can you help push to front page please?

Learning purpose.

SchoolPedia:
Hmm

So, na women dey cause am.

Thanks for your insight. Well appreciated bro.

98%


You're welcome

lilmax:
98%


You're welcome

Really? Can you elaborate your point please.

Thanks again.

SchoolPedia:
A healthy marriage will surely last just as a lasting marriage indicates a healthy marriage.

Now, we want to know why marriages these days don't last.

@bold:

Not necessarily.

Marriages then and now are similar.

Only difference is that in one dispensation, divorce/separation was not rewarded or made attractive.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Not necessarily.

Marriages then and now are similar.

Only difference is that in one dispensation, divorce/separation was not rewarded or made attractive.

Chai. Another eye opener!

So, this is a contributing factor obviously in this dispensation of unhealthy or short-lived marriages.

Right?

Everybody don wise my brother, that's the summary of the whole matter...

It's an understatement to say one is learning here from experienced folks.


Enlightening indeed.

Lalasticlala

RoyalRoy

Can you help to do the needful please.

Thanks

crackhaus:
Everybody don wise my brother, that's the summary of the whole matter...

Na really don wise. Lol.

Wahala for who never wise now my brother.

I appreciate your point.