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Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by elijahkayode(m): 6:25pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
bigjackass: bro u looking at it from d wrong direction, spiritually when a man & woman have sex they are bound forever Genesis 2:24 KJVAAE (Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh) this is a sacred convenant before God, so just imagine if 20 guys have sex with a single lady over a 7yrs period shes bound to 20 different guys how do you cope with that as a woman ur virginity is God Divine mercy on you (as a uoung a gal of 15yrs entering ur teenage years its proper for the demon called lust to come but u need to fight it) |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by goatmeat1(f): 6:25pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: lol |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by iyababs: 6:27pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
The marriages of these days doesn't last because it is being taken for granted by the couple. During the wedding ceremony of those days,you will see the bride crying profusely because she is setting out to the world of the unknown but these days,you will see the bride dancing as if it is a competition all because she thinks she now knows everything since she has been visiting the man's house ,this is what i call "too know causes no respect" syndrome. In summay,the marriages of this days does not last mainly due to "too know causes no respect" syndrome � |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:28pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
lilmax:According to which studies
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Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Samuelkirk(m): 6:28pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Pochettino:you're not smart at all na people like you dem dey talk about 1 Like |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:31pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
crackhaus:Ha
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Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by edoairways: 6:31pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Uyi168:It is the truth. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Cutehector(m): 6:32pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
rawfact:the truth in this carry title for igbo land. Bravo bro. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by edoairways: 6:33pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
iyababs:That is not true, some bride still cry profusely in their weddings. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Shizzyguy: 6:33pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
staga: Some women worked in the 80s and 90s but the kind of work they did were the ones that gave them time for their families e.g teaching. Others had shops just in front of their houses so they could take care of the home easily. I think the right thing to say is that the type of work they do now is different which is not necessarily a bad thing. Even the virtuous woman described in the Prov 31 was a working woman who was still able to balance things. True that women should not be the one bearing the burden of providing for the family but life happens, the man may suffer job loss or downturn in fortunes. What is not right is for the man to sit back and not try to get back on his feet ASAP. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by edoairways: 6:35pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
staga:The stated points are valid reasons |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:35pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
womenareapes:Haha feminists will come for you
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Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by ofiko123(m): 6:37pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
1.Lust of the eye.. 2.Lust of the flesh. 3.Pride of life. 1 Like |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by AgainstIslam(f): 6:37pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
INSTANTCASH345: OK. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by omoharry(f): 6:41pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
staga:of all the comment so far ,I agree with yours 100% |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by omoharry(f): 6:44pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
abbey621:You are right . |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Kormex: 6:46pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
One man one wife!!!!!! Just saying |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by annyz: 6:50pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
SchoolPedia: Internet: Most couples are on social media. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by peacettw: 6:51pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Pochettino: Enough said. The women of those days endured a whole lot of unthinkable things and why wouldn't they when all they were at the time were dispensable objects procured with a singular goal to procreate miniature child workers. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by uvie66: 6:51pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
SchoolPedia:because women where too submissive then. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Originalsly: 6:51pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
1. Marriages in each generation do not last as long as in the previous one. 2. In previous generations travel was not as widespread nor technology as interactive especially since the availability and affordability of digital technology. A man can now interact face to face with females worldwide.... more women more choices more opportunities to cheat and stray from marriage. 3. New avenues for men to become rich and famous wayyyy faster and easier and younger than in previous generations. With money... comes women. Wayyy more women too have become financially independent... and now have the power and are willing to walk out of marriages. 4. Sexual exposure and experience at a wayyy younger age make it very difficult for present day married couples to be committed to each other... they want to continue playing the field and that eventually lead to marriage collapse. 5. Too many are pressured into marriage that they quickly run out of. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by CaptainFM1: 6:54pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Smart phones and social media contributed to 50% of the breakup of our time. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:56pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Kennyfancy: https://www.nairaland.com/6356078/balanced-living-system-making-life |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by GeneralPula: 6:57pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
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Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:00pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Reelmii: https://www.nairaland.com/6356078/balanced-living-system-making-life |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Mypeople2(m): 7:00pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
SchoolPedia:The role of social media has played a lot of negative impart on the life of couples .When you compare yourself with those on social media , your marriage will not last. Your marriage will not last when you keeping singing these songs " if you nor get money, hide your face", "Assurance " etc.People forgot that the things that musicians use to sing are just for fun and not for real. Couples should stop comparing themselves with others .When you work together as a couple, you will accomplish much .But when you compare your wealth,your accomplishments with others, then division will set in. Finally ,men or women should be contended with their spouses. After getting married to your wife, you are still looking for ladies with long legs ,big buttocks and boobs .You are married and you married ,stop looking at other people's future wives ,stay with your woman .Women should assist their husbands to greatness .Stop comparing him with other men.Make your own money as a woman and add it to the marriage .Some women will never buy matches of N50 naira with their money .Everything is man.That is appalling.Even if they buy the matches for N50, they will tell him they bought it for N500 naira .That is a lie |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Blueelf: 7:02pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
HRHQueenPhil: You are very wise Ma In addition, there is the "Ego" problem. Many not willing to apologize and take responsibility for wrongs done. Many not willing to bend the knee for the sake of peace. Maliciousness and unforgiveness. All these stem from an overinflated ego 1 Like |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Mryacks: 7:03pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Liposure: My take too... |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Blueelf: 7:05pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
SchoolPedia: You no suppose reply am. Her argument was devoid of sound reasoning and logic. My Father never laid hand on my mum. Guess what, they are from different tribes - one Igbo and the other Yoruba and they have been married for more than 30yrs now and have been together for more than 35yrs. Beating ko,, Dr Dre on the beat ni |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by LordReed(m): 7:07pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
SchoolPedia: Your fathers and mothers didn't have the same pressures society places on people now. Having a million naira is steadily loosing value such that you can spend that money in a single hour for something essential and it would be like you didn't even do anything. Also social dynamics have changed drastically, how society is structured is no longer the same our forebears were used to and it is still evolving, in some cases faster than we can keep up with. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by backbone503(m): 7:09pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Nowadays, most ladies marry who is ready and available, and not who they love. |
Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Cutehector: You're welcome |
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