DrFunmisticGlow:
We are in different states, in different geopolitical zones.

So when i say that Sirjamesjnr has taught me a lot about how to put in the effort to make a relationship work. Please take it from me.

I'm very sure that if we were in the same state many of these issues wouldn't exist.

Also, assuming your girlfriend is busier than me and trying to compare us is real stretch and i don't appreciate it.
How many 32hour calls does she take in a month?
How many babies has she helped deliver?

We all have a role to play the health team.

Everyone of them does something that other's can't do, and that is put others first.

So please refrain.

And you don't close from work ?

You are the only one employed in such a busy hospital..?

You don't go home nd sleep because of 32hours is obviously longer than 24hrs.

You think you can ever be busier than a business owner ..? Especially one whose business is promising with lots of patients..?

I repeat adjust your ways..well everyone and their kind of guy cuz real men won't take those lame excuses

iLegendd:
Nice post to an extent, but not for my kind.

For iLegend, me and my woman will be billionaires without working day and night and with all the time in the world to catch cruise.

No work obstruction. I don't compromise quality time for money/work. I compromise money for quality time.

This is why men should work smarter to avoid being in OP's shoe. At last, he will raise another man's child.

The woman is in control and she subtly dictates all in the name of work.

You know there's a pandemic, right?

bmdnamixer:
what is this one even writing self i got bored half way, all this Shakespeare wanna be

the guy is a joke. What's a "high value woman" so the one I'm dating is a hoodlum abi? What's my business with your woman's business?

Insecure OP

cerebralniggie1:

You got these words right outta my mouth. Does being a doctor automatically make one "high value"? The level of asslicking I see in his write up is nauseating, to say the least.
Mind you, I'm married to a doctor. All through our dating months, she was very available. Whoever values you will make himself/herself available

So is she low value? I'm not understanding.

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

Be nice with words, don't call him foolish. What you don't know is bigger than you, he needs some red pills. That woman no value am that much, I am suspecting the guy never see pant self. I can't hang around for 3 days just to see a woman who claims busy. The guy looks like he wanna dig gold from the she doc.

DrFunmisticGlow:
You know there's a pandemic, right?

You're feeling fly all because you're dating an insecure man who 'worships' you.....it will end in tears las las.

DrFunmisticGlow:
We are in different states, in different geopolitical zones.

So when i say that Sirjamesjnr has taught me a lot about how to put in the effort to make a relationship work. Please take it from me.

I'm very sure that if we were in the same state many of these issues wouldn't exist.

Also, assuming your girlfriend is busier than me and trying to compare us is real stretch and i don't appreciate it.
How many 32hour calls does she take in a month?
How many babies has she helped deliver?

We all have a role to play the health team.

Everyone of them does something that other's can't do, and that is put others first.

So please refrain.

LMAOOO! are you the Doctor OP is dating? Na wa oh

bigpicture001:


And you don't close from work ?

You are the only one employed in such a busy hospital..?

You don't go home nd sleep because of 32hours is obviously longer than 24hrs.

You think you can ever be busier than a business owner ..? Especially one whose business is promising with lots of patients..?

I repeat adjust your ways..well everyone and their kind of guy cuz real men won't take those lame excuses

I am also a business owner. I own a skincare line in the process of rebranding.

You change your ways Mr!!

Learn to appreciate the differences in women instead of comparing.

The5DME:
You're feeling fly all because you're dating an insecure man who 'worships' you.....it will end in tears las las.

The only insecure person i see here is you.

I can only help by recommending you to the nearest psychotherapist or clinical psychologist in your area.

Doctor, has that guy fvcked you before? I'm sure you will let him beg before you give him sex.

Smh

jawalis:

Bless up bro. I feel you. Leave him and allow him perish in self acclaimed feeling. He’ll wake up

I couldn't finish the rubbish. I almost choke on boredom and naivety. Oh! Wait that ugly, caustic biicth, funmisticqueen is the "high value woman" thunder fire you op

@DrFunmi, pack well and reason..

I have consultant neurosurgeon, consultant cardiologist, consultant Gynecologist as buddies, we roll right from Uni days in their undergrad days and still roll hard till now..

Look into the mirror and get your priority right so you don’t regret in your old age ..

Hear word from AgbaAkin ..

DrFunmisticGlow:
The only insecure person i see here is you.

I can only help by recommending you to the nearest psychotherapist or clinical psychologist in your area.

Have you guy had sex before? I'm sure the anwser is no. You probably have no time for that right? Smh

This thread depicts three things; Advertisement, Upliftment and/or Awareness

The5DME:
Have you guy had sex before? I'm sure the anwser is no. You probably have no time for that right? Smh

That's very private. Please learn to be courteous at all times.

Otuchi:
This thread depicts three things; Advertisement, Upliftment and/or Awareness

Please could you explain.

If I was op right now I will delete this thread. I have seen and heard enough . Just follow ur instinct cos they are always right.

yemmie:
@DrFunmi, pack well and reason..

I have consultant neurosurgeon, consultant cardiologist, consultant Gynecologist as buddies, we roll right from Uni days in their undergrad days and still roll hard till now..

Look into the mirror and get your priority right so you don’t regret in your old age ..

Hear word from AgbaAkin ..

how old are you? Your forties? Fifties?

Those people have thier lives figured out. We are trying to figure out ours.

A consultant neurologist with Time? Now that's something you don't see everyday.

humilitypays:
Just dating a Dokita abi Doctor make u de write a


My brother see eh, if you are making like 3m to 5million monthly every month as a guy based in Nigeria (not all those abroad $$ based income our people ignorantly convert to Naira and start to scream), believe me, u will be dating Kiki Osinbajo and not give a fvck about who her father is.

Your problem is you seem to be far below her
#talkingfromexperience

Let's say the 3-5M is for a corporate employed person. Now, for someone who owns his business/company, how much do you think he should earn from the business monthly as salary to compare?

FLESHnBLOOD:
If I was op right now I will delete this thread. I have seen and heard enough . Just follow ur instinct cos they are always right.

Honestly, nairalnders should have left this attitude in 2020.

@DrfunmisticGlow, seeing how you are gallivanting about on this thread like you have all the time in the world makes me wonder why your man would complain that you lack time for him.

OP, a piece of advice from one who's seen it all. Done it all. No one is ever too busy for the one they are truly attracted to. High-value or low-value, it doesn't matter.

*whistles and walks out of thread*

Another bag of lies just to have a topic to ones name. Spit

My op is just looking for people to justify his low self esteem and weakneses jawe..

How long do you want to compromise?


Pls my honest advice for you is that you should never start what you can finished!

Relationship these days be looking like a battle of wits, grammars and richer vocabularies...


I just dey laugh from the first page to the end...

Get married to her & come back here to share your marital experience after 4years.
My elder sister is Anesthetist Nurse, vastly experienced and knows her onions. She has worked with so many consultants, due to her years of service & hands on the job experience she has been elevated to the role of a Matron.
Trust me, despite her very hectic schedule, she makes time for her family.
Ever since this Covid-19 hit Naija, she's been calling us to keep safe. WhatsApp video call & all.
My point is, if this lady loves & really care about you and not using you to bide her time, she will make out time for you.
What nonsense is sleeping in 3different hotels just to see her? Is she a merchant Navy or war Soldier? Did you two not talk about her work routine before embarking on the 1hr flight from Abuja?

Sorry to say but this doesn't seem like a relationship to me. It looks like enslavement. You're enslaved with her in her job.

Wait until you start having kids, that's when you'll know the slavery you put yourself.

Your relationship, your cross.

If the story is true, this guy is dating himself.

MrBachelor:
@DrfunmisticGlow, seeing how you are gallivanting about on this thread like you have all the time in the world makes me wonder why your man would complain that you lack time for him.

OP, a piece of advice from one who's seen it all. Done it all. No one is ever too busy for the one they are truly attracted to. High-value or low-value, it doesn't matter.

*whistles and walks out of thread*

Pesin no fii hide di truth nau..

No bi as we dey hear we dey watch as dramas dey unfold..

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humilitypays:
You don't need all those epistle and tutorials brother, all u need to do is keep working hard and smart and then pray for God to bless the works of your hand, believe me, once your hustle start paying eh, you will never give a damn about the status of any lady honestly.


Can't you see how Anichebe, Anthony Joshua and co no even send Billionaire Otedola daughter despite that she is the daughter of a billionaire The reason is because those guys are ballers, they must have dated girls with higher profile than DJ Cuppy so them no go even notice her for serious stuff, that's how life works.



Learning one million ways to keep a rich Lady or high income earning lady is a waste of time, all you need to do is be successful and focused on your own money making business or career, Na she go De crack her head on how to make you happy and keep you amidst plenty other better ladies than her around you.


Women were created for a man to appreciate and have not the other way round.

This is the 3rd comment I'm reading on this entire thread — I just skimmed through and landed on yours. Damn, your brain is hot — we think alike.

Keep it up. #OneLove.

Oga OP has been LOVE- STARVED for long so he found himself in cloud nine dating a MEDIC.. Mr Lover is astonished because he's not used to them.. Na wetin Okonjo Iweala husband go come write if he's to give account....to be factual, I'll go for that American Girl.. Dont quote me and be saying I'm an opportunist.. Ask yourself, Will the Overhyped Doctor accept you if you were an AGBERO...