Exodora:

Apology my foot !
If I may ask why did he go there exactly , even when she told him that she wouldn't be around .
He still went and the woman gladly gave him her drink he drank and felt comfortable with it if she had brought food he would have still eat .
Sometimes i feel so ashamed for people since they have no face let me be ashamed for them.

I understand you my friend but may be the guy just wanted to go say hiiii. Are you saying you must wait untill you have something to offer before visiting someone... The lady for still use play play take tell the guy but not to turn it into a fight.
The way we see things differs and it behoves on the lady to school the guy incase of next time in a manner that wouldn't jeopardize her relationship with her guy and that of the guy with her mother.
Let's just hope that the whole stuff gets sorted out amicably and her relationship restored....

BOSMANARIS:


What if he's not having extra ₦250 for that purpose.

Something she's gonna eat and end up in toilet.

Where do we put human and physical bond and that we cherish monetary and gifts above them.

Money and gift will finish, na human go remain.

It is what it is. Give Mama her due

Chimaokigwe:


Wait, hol up, hol up and hol up.

Trayceey has a bastard child?
She is a 33 years after 1 evening newspaper?

No wonder. Right from the MBA Forex thread, I knew the idiot was a blockhead. I never thought she had grown so old and so deep in foolishness.

your harlot of a mother and your entire family have grown so deeply in foolishness. BASTARD. Your stupid and useless father should be blamed for bringing a scallywag like you into the world.

Chimaokigwe:


Wait, hol up, hol up and hol up.

Trayceey has a bastard child?
She is a 33 years after 1 evening newspaper?

No wonder. Right from the MBA Forex thread, I knew the idiot was a blockhead. I never thought she had grown so old and so deep in foolishness.

people far better than your entire generation are still licking my feet.

Activist001:

You're just disgracing yourself throughout this thread. E be like say your own Igbo different from the one practiced why the whole of Igboland because I no understand again.

Permit me to laugh. Lol

Exodora:

I love you so so much .
You see all them yarning sh#t here are all from poor homes .
How on earth can somebody in his right sense see a gift as wrong.
Once visited my uncle , he is very rich so I was wondering what to buy for him and besides he doesn't accept visit or eat in people's house but I was very glad that he asked his wife to wash the apples I bought him and started eating them while I was there .
I study German language and I love their way of life .
Do you know that remaining your food after being served is very wrong but we see it here as nothing .
When you are served and you finished everything it gives it cook a different joy to want to do more but here is different.

I understand. Thanks

Activist001:

You're just disgracing yourself throughout this thread. E be like say your own Igbo different from the one practiced why the whole of Igboland because I no understand again.

Nothing like disgrace, but I wouldn't blame these men/women...it's not their fault for not knowing what should be done, I blame the hardship and poverty that has eaten deep into the system and made them automatically stingy, so much so that young men/women no longer know what is expected of them when paying an important visit.

...and YES, in the place where I come from, we're are cultured to GIVE and I think it is a thing to be proud of.
I saw my grandfather do it, I saw my grandmother do it, I see my mum and dad do it and all...
It is who I am, who we are.

This Christmas, going to see my maternal uncle, me and my sisters baked him special cakes, my brother bought him wine, my mother brought fishes and ugba, before you know it, everywhere was filled with gifts...the way my uncle's face lit up plus the excitement from my cousins when they saw everything was EVERYTHING!
That is what they do too when they come over.

That is the kind of IGBO people I was talking about. The kind that we are! Givers!
When we come together, we make it a celebration

Trayceey:
your harlot of a mother and your entire family have grown so deeply in foolishness. BASTARD. Your stupid and useless father should be blamed for bringing a scallywag like you into the world.

Come and collect bread for your mother. Let me wipe away her tears.

Trayceey:
people far better than your entire generation are still licking my feet.

Licking your feet indeed. The wey your mother licks moinmoin leaves like a baby goat.

Ulunne777:


Permit me to laugh. Lol

You can laugh all you want dear, but never forget to be a giver. The advice is not only for the men.
Only stingy people with poverty mentality get upset when they're told it is honourable to give.

Chimaokigwe:


Come and collect bread for your mother. Let me wipe away her tears.

you this frustrated broke ass that is pissed at the thought of getting someone a gift. Bastard son of a bitch. Have u even had bread in a while? No. Cos u can't afford it. Scallywag!

Trayceey:
you this frustrated broke ass that is pissed at the thought of getting someone a gift. Bastard son of a bitch. Have u even had bread in a while? No. Cos u can't afford it. Scallywag!

You are a family of hungry beggars. Your mother can afford bread but she's crying for giveaway for a loaf of bread.
The funny thing is that you must have joined her in crying too.

Oya, take a loaf of bread and wipe your family's tears.

Chimaokigwe:


Licking your feet indeed. The wey your mother licks moinmoin leaves like a baby goat.

your disgusting mother is no where near my mother by all standards. Low life family of yours. I sponsor people your age in school

Trayceey:
your disgusting mother is no where near my mother by all standards. Low life family of yours. I sponsor people your age in school

My mother can't be near your pauper of a mother, begging for bread. You are sponsoring people to school but your beggar of a mother is begging at home. You see why I said you're a curse to your mother?

Chimaokigwe:


Your mother can afford bread but she's crying for giveaway for a loaf of bread.
The funny thing is that you must have joined her in crying too.

Oya, take a loaf of bread and wipe your family's tears.

the funny thing is that my guy already apologized to me and we even hung out today. Only to come online to see this comment from you piece of crap.

Trayceey:
the funny thing is that my guy already apologized to me and we even hung out today. Only to come online to see this comment from you piece of crap.

He's going to eventually dump your foolish self and your family will starve.

I won't be surprised if your mother adds loaves of bread to your dowry list.

Chimaokigwe:


My mother can't be near your pauper of a mother, begging for bread. You are sponsoring people to school but your beggar of a mother is begging at home. You see why I said you're a curse to your mother?

you and your siblings are a curse to your lowlife mother and ur family members

Chimaokigwe:


He's going to eventually dump your foolish self and your family will starve.

I won't be surprised if your mother adds loaves of bread to your dowry list.

he loves and values me so badly that u re just gonna hit your rotten brains on the wall. As a matter of fact. We love each other

Trayceey:
you and your siblings are a curse to your lowlife mother and ur family members

You that you're not a curse, you are leading your mother to do bambiala. Your mother should have exchanged you for a loaf of bread.
She must have tried that but no one was willing to accept you worthless thing.

Chimaokigwe:


You that you're not a curse, you are leading your mother to do bambiala. Your mother should have exchanged you for a loaf of bread.
She must have tried that but no one was willing to accept you worthless thing.

I'll stop mentiong u here cos you're already dead.

Trayceey:
he loves and values me so badly that u re just gonna hit your rotten brains on the wall. As a matter of fact. We love each other

You and your entire family are not as valuable as a single loaf of bread. If you were, your boyfriend will have given your mother bread for her to stop crying.

Trayceey:
I'll stop mentiong u here cos you're already dead.

That's your father, not me. If you are not careful, your mother will sell her last clothes and go into penury to bury you.

exegesis:
I don't go and visit family friends without buying even if it's hundred naira oranges, let alone my in laws. But that's me naturally. I don't like visiting people empty handed. I'd rather stay at home if I have nothing to give. But my husband is different. He believes it will give people entitlement mentality. So he alternates when he goes visiting with gifts and tells me I worry too much about pleasing people. I have had to learn the hard way because there's a family friend who expects me to bring gifts anytime I'm coming. When I don't, she beefs about it and has even extended the entitlement mentality to everyone because of me. Before hubby and I got married, I once apologised to my mother in law for not sending her money and she asked me if I was trying to bribe her.

Different strokes for different folks. My parents would be more concerned about making my husband comfortable whenever he visits than looking at his hands to see what he brought or didn't bring for them. I guess it's different upbringing. The op should have put it jokingly to the guy to get why he didn't come with anything. Good to know they settled their differences though.

do you now see the wisdom in your husband's decision ?. I like how you both understood each other..
May God bless your marriage

Hassanmaye:

Lol so intelligent and straight to the point, the problem is most people don't use their God given brain to think, just imagine if she said this it will have been over, but no she went up to hanging up his phone, Any girl that hang up my phone I will never marry her, my ex try that nonsense with me, I just japa me that I be alpha.

I have come to an understanding, never expect anything rational from a woman, there was a time i consider japa as a solution buh with time i come to realize how many women person wan run from, japa is a short term tinz best solution i s choose a gurl that shows tendencies of reasoning like a man, she go quick blend

Mariangeles:


You can laugh all you want dear, but never forget to be a giver. The advice is not only for the men.
Only stingy people with poverty mentality get upset when they're told it is honourable to give.

Onyea osi n'ogini?

Trayceey, why did you deactivate? Useless child of a hungry beggar. I thought you could withstand my dealing with you. Stupid girl.

Chimaokigwe:


You that you're not a curse, you are leading your mother to do bambiala. Your mother should have exchanged you for a loaf of bread.
She must have tried that but no one was willing to accept you worthless thing.

Jesu! ��

Easy oh

mich2012:


Jesu! ��

Easy oh

Small curse, the hungry fool has deactivated. And I haven't even started with her yet.

Chimaokigwe:


Small curse, the hungry fool has deactivated. And I haven't even started with her yet.

Lol I wish the guy knew the bullet he dodged

mich2012:
Lol I wish the guy knew the bullet he dodged

The guy is actually wise. He has already seen that they are hungry leeches so he go shatter the pussy tire for some years then later dump her and marry a young lady with good manners.

Ulunne777:


Onyea osi n'ogini?

Onye a si na gi chiri gawa nnoo, na ihe ga dicha mma

mich2012:


Lol I wish the guy knew the bullet he dodged

She said the guy has reconciled with her. I told her he is looking for her replacement and will dump her. Imagine, the stupid girl is a 33 year old single mother. Expired product.