Alexaonfleek:
Just watch how Alfa males will shed tears over this thread.

cerebralniggie1:

I've learnt a new one today.
My submission is this, being a doc doesn't make one automatically high value going by your definition of high value. OP is just thrilled, fascinated and at the same time intimidated by her qualification/job title. Nothing special about being a doc. People do random skits on IG and earn 1000 times what some docs earn. It's just the OP's asslicking for me.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Him coming to lagos was impromptu. I only knew the a day or 2 before and couldn't make plans in advance.
The day he came to lagos and came to my place of work when i was on call. He saw me rescucitating a man on the verge of death, who was being irrational and i was the only person on ground.

There were also many other people waiting to be seen. But after like 20-30mins, i was able to see him.
We also spent the next day together.

But thank you for your input

truthsayer009:


Oga being a Doctor is high value anywhere in the world, just because you don't like the situation of the OP doesn't make is false.

Except in Nigeria. Find out what our doctors earn on the average. What do you think is responsible for the mass immigration of our doctors to the UK and Canada?

Doctor is suppose to be a high paying job whether a random skit maker on IG is making more money or not.

A Pilot is also high value, if OP was dating a female Pilot, the same would happen. You are just angry because OP is ass licking.

Your anger doesn't change facts.

livinbygrace:


Oga you dey speak grammar,you mean you forfeited greencard because of a woman?
The girl Is not really into you,like you did ,forget all those tight work schedule,if a woman really likes yo,that won’t be an excuse .So far you are more or less like a sacrificial lamb and i pray you don’t regret your action .What gives you the assurance that the girl will marry you at last ?I Sorry for you .

livinbygrace:


Oga you dey speak grammar,you mean you forfeited greencard because of a woman?
The girl Is not really into you,like you did ,forget all those tight work schedule,if a woman really likes yo,that won’t be an excuse .So far you are more or less like a sacrificial lamb and i pray you don’t regret your action .What gives you the assurance that the girl will marry you at last ?I Sorry for you .

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, I let go of an opportunity to be an American citizen to be with my girl. You can call it pure love but it is more than that. 1: I met her untouched(I am the first guy she is in love with) 2: I saw brain and level of reasoning so I saw a woman I can evolve with to any height we ever want.
My girl has done more than enough you could possibly imagine. All through the pandemic, we were in an average 8 hours video calls every day. I can't count the resources she put in though I spend more. She reciprocates gifts every now and then. You have no ideal sacrifices we have made for this relationship to stay untainted.

Karleb:
One thing about feminists is, they cry when they don't have a man but turn the same to thrash when they get him.

The wahala this funmi girl have caused on NL ehn?

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

Tejuri:


If she has indeed seen this thread, her respect for you has dropped a little. Smh.

Keep your frame bro, very important, else she’ll start feeling she is too good for you.

Tejuri:


If she has indeed seen this thread, her respect for you has dropped a little. Smh.

Keep your frame bro, very important, else she’ll start feeling she is too good for you.

Tejuri:


Listen to this man OP.

While it may not be low self-esteem, I think OP has just never dated a woman who has her life together so he is over the man on this one.

HajiaNotu:
Who is a high value woman

Is she a consultant
Una neva marry but your private matter has been a public discussion on Nairaland....

Hmnnnnn

I comment my reserve..

Poetry gone wrong...

E be things.

Heathrow44:
Mad oo! How can u call funtamistic queen high value babe? Are u OK? Funtamistic queen is an infamous misandrist and men hater, she hates men to the extent she's emotionally and psychologically torturing u and because u are a victim as u can't see, u av learnt to enjoy ur chains and pain, CIA intelligence reports after 9/11 leaked classified information showed that when u withdraw attention from a tortureree and invite them again on phases, the person tend to crave ur attention whenever he/she gets it, and can go to any extent to get that high and can grow to enjoy the pain, she's a feminist-extremist and has found someone she can control and have wrapped around her fingers, she's the man and u are d woman in d relationship, u would be washing her pants, brassiere's and fishy smelling lingerie while she lies on the bed with her macbook air using the internet! I've not seen a bigger low self esteemed sad person as this op that doesn't have any value for his sanity to want t date such a disgusting man hater!

Profkenny1:


100% Fact! High value for a woman has nothing to do with how much she makes or her profession. A high-value woman is a woman who is feminine, fit, cooperative, submissive, and attractive!

OP: Your woman is too masculine and uncooperative

sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

jawalis:

Your brain is obviously paining you. A lady who missed his name with her colleagues at work doesn’t have regard for him. He should man up

Raalsalghul:


Is there any reason that you are pained I'm pointing out the truth to Funmi?

kazyhm:


Bitter soul ?

You don't really understand....how can you slept in three different hotels just to see or talk to your girlfriend....ordinary girlfriend....this op is not normal.

Even if you're pursuing a billion dollars contract.....you would apply sense and portray yourself as a person of value.

truthsayer009:


Oga being a Doctor is high value anywhere in the world, just because you don't like the situation of the OP doesn't make is false.

Doctor is suppose to be a high paying job whether a random skit maker on IG is making more money or not.

A Pilot is also high value, if OP was dating a female Pilot, the same would happen. You are just angry because OP is ass licking.

Your anger doesn't change facts.

sirjamesjnr:
You are wrong about me. You can't say someone that grows up in GRA, PH, from a royal home a novice in woman department. I have dated ladies who have it all but I refuse to bend because I have my life figure out. Drfunmi is an enigma, titan and personality. When a man wants to build his empire, he looks for a girl like Funmi. Let me shock you, she is the poorest among them all. I spend more on her than any girl I ever dated. Yet I adore her base on who she is. Grow up, last time I check, Nigerian doctors are not rich or poor, So her profession only add colour to who she is nothing more.

Chii59:

Ever heard of "relationship dynamics"?
Every relationship is different. Many of you that form "I can't take this" on nairaland, make far worse compromises for love offline. Abegggggi

joe4christ:


This guy sef. U just dey break guys code of conduct up and down , left, right, center.
You say the bolded about my sister, ama break ya neck aswear down. Get your act together, you're messing up big time. You've insulted ur woman countless times while trynna buttress ur point and while being defensive.
You should first proceed to wife her. Then after 10yrs u can come back here and tell us how high valued she really is.
Na love dey shack u so o. And Nairaland will only compound to your problem.
This relationship I pray will survive after this bashing from Nairalanders.
Next time keep ur relationship private bros!